No Drive Postpartum, Facetime Sex, and Intimacy Despite Chronic Illness (Answering Listener Questions)
Release Date: 04/29/2025
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From the Bible
And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed. Genesis 2:25 (ESV)
Resources
- Motherhood and Libido • Bonny's Oysterbed7
- Q&A with J: Baby's Here, But Sex? Not So Much. - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- After Baby Comes Along | The Forgiven Wife
- How Having Kids Depleted My Sexual Desire - Knowing Her Sexually (written for husbands)
- Helping Your Wife Balance Motherhood and Sexual Intimacy - Knowing Her Sexually (written for husbands)
- Episode 177: Addressing Sexual Pain, with Debby Wade - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
- Sliquid Soul Coconut Oil Personal Lube - Married Dance
- Amazon Fresh, Organic Virgin Coconut Oil (for personal lubricant, use virgin/unrefined coconut oil)
- When My Sex Life Sucked - Part 1 - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- When My Sex Life Sucked - Part 2 - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Better Help (use code 4CW to get 10% off your first month)
- Why I Took My Breast Implants Out - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Sex Advice for Wives with Chronic Illness - Honeycomb & Spice
- Dealing with Erection Problems | The Forgiven Wife
- Bullet Vibrator Pilot Program - Married Dance
- Penis Sleeves and Strokers - Married Dance
- Maintaining Sexual Intimacy When Sex isn’t Possible by Chris Taylor – WORTHY Bible Studies
- Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 1 - Honeycomb & Spice
- Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 2 - Honeycomb & Spice
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Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
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Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker