No Drive Postpartum, Facetime Sex, and Intimacy Despite Chronic Illness (Answering Listener Questions)
Release Date: 04/29/2025
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with the last of her kegels series about connecting with your body after trauma. You can find the first two quickies of the series here: Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! You can support this podcast by joining us on .
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Sex can feel weird for many wives. We talk about why and how to get past the awkward to better sexual intimacy. Sponsor We’d love your support … and to give you perks! Check out our new page at and partner with our ministry. From the Bible Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our...
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This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about the sexual benefits of exercise. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! You can support this podcast by joining us on .
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We welcome Francie Winslow of to talk about why and how to integrate body and soul for better sexual pleasure and intimacy. Sponsor Calm your mind, reduce stress, and elevate your mood while nourishing your skin with . Experience true body-soul integration as this luxurious lotion soothes your skin and harmonizes your emotional well-being. Aroma skincare at its best! AND buy any size lotion and get a your-choice, FREE lip balm through May 31 using code FCWMAY. Put both items in your shopping bag, and the lip balm will show FREE. From the Bible Adam and his wife were both...
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This week's quickie is from J Parker about how to find support and wisdom to help your sex life. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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We tackle some tough listener questions today, with a biblical perspective and authenticity. Learn what we have to say about a lack of desire postpartum, a husband who wants to engage sexually through Facetime, and maintaining intimacy when chronic illness makes it difficult. Sponsor Healing from betrayal and sexual wounding is possible. , helps you know you’re not alone in wanting to have better understanding of healthy, godly sexuality and sexual experience! By the end of this course, you’ll stand tall and take the wheel of who you are sexually as a Christian woman empowered and...
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This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about whether it's okay to use vibrators—and why it might be worth looking into. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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Jenn Schmidt from Intimate Covenant joins us to talk about overcoming sexual abuse and building a healthy, intimate sex life with your husband. NOTE: J totally got the episode number wrong! Not the first time she's been wrong. ~wink~ Sponsor Visit to get matched with a therapist who shares your values and can address your issues. Use code 4CW to get 10% off your first month. From the Bible Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits— who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems...
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This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about using kegel exercises to enhance your climax. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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It's the OG gang today talking about taking care of your sexual self—particularly the physical aspect of our female sexuality. Take a listen! Sponsor We still 🩷💜🩷 and know you will too! They're currently offering 25% off geranium hydrosol spray, plus get a FREE aloe & goat milk lotion premium sample when using code FCWA all thru the month of April. From the Bible Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body. 1 Corinthians 6:19–20...
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From the Bible
And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed. Genesis 2:25 (ESV)
Resources
- Motherhood and Libido • Bonny's Oysterbed7
- Q&A with J: Baby's Here, But Sex? Not So Much. - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- After Baby Comes Along | The Forgiven Wife
- How Having Kids Depleted My Sexual Desire - Knowing Her Sexually (written for husbands)
- Helping Your Wife Balance Motherhood and Sexual Intimacy - Knowing Her Sexually (written for husbands)
- Episode 177: Addressing Sexual Pain, with Debby Wade - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
- Sliquid Soul Coconut Oil Personal Lube - Married Dance
- Amazon Fresh, Organic Virgin Coconut Oil (for personal lubricant, use virgin/unrefined coconut oil)
- When My Sex Life Sucked - Part 1 - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- When My Sex Life Sucked - Part 2 - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Better Help (use code 4CW to get 10% off your first month)
- Why I Took My Breast Implants Out - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Sex Advice for Wives with Chronic Illness - Honeycomb & Spice
- Dealing with Erection Problems | The Forgiven Wife
- Bullet Vibrator Pilot Program - Married Dance
- Penis Sleeves and Strokers - Married Dance
- Maintaining Sexual Intimacy When Sex isn’t Possible by Chris Taylor – WORTHY Bible Studies
- Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 1 - Honeycomb & Spice
- Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 2 - Honeycomb & Spice
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker