438 - 5 ways you undervalue yourself in relationships as a single mum and how to overcome them
Release Date: 01/21/2025
460 - How to support your kids while healing yourself
Single Mother Survival Guide
Parenting is always challenging, but when you're healing from trauma, it can feel especially overwhelming. Trauma doesn’t just stay within you; its effects ripple out, often impacting your children in ways that are subtle but significant. As mums, we want to protect our kids from the weight of our struggles, but children are incredibly perceptive—they often sense more than we realise. In this episode, we unpack the ripple effect of trauma on families and explore practical strategies to support your children while prioritising your healing journey. With tools, self-compassion, and...
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459 - Understanding stress - What it is and how it affects your mind and body
Single Mother Survival Guide
Stress can feel like an ever-present companion, especially during major life transitions such as divorce, single parenting, or navigating career changes. For single mums, the demands of parenting, financial management, and maintaining personal well-being can sometimes become overwhelming, leaving little room to breathe. But stress isn’t just a feeling; it has real effects on both your body and mind, influencing how you show up for your kids, your work, and yourself. In this episode, we uncover the science behind stress, how it impacts your mental and physical health, and share practical...
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458 - 12 practical self-care tips for divorcing mums
Single Mother Survival Guide
Divorce is one of life’s most challenging experiences, especially for mums navigating the complexities of parenting solo. In this episode, we explore why self-care isn’t a luxury - it’s an essential tool for managing stress, staying emotionally resilient, and being the best version of yourself for your children. From practical tips to mindset shifts, we’ll uncover ways to help you prioritise your well-being while thriving in this new chapter of your life. Links mentioned in the episode: Download our free resource guide packed with 12 practical self-care tips tailored for single...
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457 - Navigating and channeling anger after divorce
Single Mother Survival Guide
Anger is a natural part of the healing process, especially during significant life transitions like divorce. In this episode, we discuss how to identify, process, and channel your anger into constructive transformation. By understanding and managing this powerful emotion, you can take steps toward emotional freedom and a healthier mindset. Links mentioned in the episode: Download our free resource guide that complements this episode. This guide is packed with tips and strategies to help you process and manage your anger constructively after divorce. Click to start your journey to...
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456 - What your divorce coach won’t tell you: Five hard truths you need to know
Single Mother Survival Guide
Divorce is a challenging experience, and navigating it often requires guidance and support. But not all advice is created equal. While many divorce coaches provide helpful insights, there are some hard truths they might avoid sharing. These truths, though difficult to hear, can empower you to take control of your life and move forward with clarity and strength. In this episode, I share five things most divorce coaches are too afraid to tell you - truths that will help you approach this journey with empowerment and resilience. Links mentioned in the episode: Download the free resource...
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455 - How our self-talk affects us as single mums and our children
Single Mother Survival Guide
As single mums, the way we speak to ourselves—shaped by trauma, pain, and fear—can deeply influence not only our lives but also the lives of our children. In this episode, I explore the profound effects of negative self-talk and share practical strategies to help you heal, break the cycle, and prevent these patterns from affecting your children. Let’s create a future rooted in positivity, growth, and resilience. You've got this, my friend! Links mentioned in the episode: Download the free guide for this episode to learn actionable strategies to stop passing trauma to your children...
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454 - 8 ways to manage the mental load as a single mum
Single Mother Survival Guide
Balancing parenting, finances, household duties, co-parenting, and emotional support as a single mum can feel overwhelming. This week, we’re diving into practical strategies to lighten the mental load and reclaim your energy. From routines to mindfulness, discover how to navigate the chaos with greater ease and peace of mind. Links mentioned in the episode: Click to download the free guide accompanying this episode and get practical tips to lighten your daily responsibilities and create a calmer, more manageable routine. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - ...
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453 - Redefining Mother’s Day - Celebrating yourself as a single mum
Single Mother Survival Guide
Mother’s Day can bring up mixed feelings for single mums. Many feel the desire for recognition while managing isolation or the responsibility of making the day special for their children alone. This episode looks at redefining Mother’s Day for single mums, celebrating resilience, love, and the journey you’re on. Join me as we explore ways to create a meaningful, empowering Mother’s Day all about you. Links mentioned in the episode: Embrace a Mother’s Day that’s all about celebrating YOU. Click to download our free guide to learn ways to make this Mother’s Day meaningful,...
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452 - Five factors you need to consider in your parenting plan
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, we cover five essential factors to include in your parenting plan. Whether you’re just starting or revising your plan, these elements can help ensure stability for your children and peace of mind for you. A well-structured parenting plan isn’t just about logistics; it’s about building a healthy co-parenting relationship that keeps the focus on your children’s well-being. This is especially useful if you’re navigating a high-conflict situation. A good parenting plan reduces confusion, minimises conflict, and provides clarity on your shared parenting responsibilities....
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451 - Finding joy in single mum life chaos
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, we explore how, as a single mum, you can find joy amidst the whirlwind of daily life. From morning rituals to setting boundaries and celebrating small wins, we’ll discuss actionable ways to bring more happiness, laughter, and calm to your days. These tips are designed to help you embrace the everyday chaos with a bit more ease and joy. Links mentioned in the episode: Click to download your free guide, packed with easy tips and insights to create moments of calm and happiness even on your busiest days. Let’s make finding joy possible, no matter how chaotic things...
info_outlineIn this episode, we tackle an issue that many single mums face: undervaluing ourselves in relationships. Being a single mum comes with a lot of responsibility, strength, and love, but it can also leave us feeling weighed down by the challenges and ripple effects of previous relationships. One of the most toxic habits many single mums unknowingly fall into is undervaluing themselves, particularly in romantic relationships. We’ll explore how to recognise this pattern and offer strategies for rebuilding self-worth so you can find the healthy, loving relationship you deserve.
Links mentioned in the episode:
Click HERE to download the free resource guide that accompanies this episode. This guide will provide actionable steps to help you recognise when you’re undervaluing yourself and empower you to overcome it in relationships.
Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Episode 416 - Who would want to date me?
- Episode 418 - Ten dating red flags you need to know about
- Blog: How To Set Dating Boundaries For A Happy Dating Experience
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