519 - The life you're creating is bigger than your divorce
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, we explore the powerful shift that happens when you move beyond simply surviving separation and begin asking, "What do I want to create now?" While divorce or separation may always be part of your story, it doesn't have to define the rest of your life. We talk about how to start building a future that's richer, more meaningful, and centred on who you're becoming (not what you've been through). If you're ready to move from getting through each day to creating a life you love, this episode will encourage you to take that next step with hope and purpose. Links mentioned in the...
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518 - How to know you're healing (even if it doesn't feel like it)
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, I’m talking about one of the questions I’m asked most often: How do I know if I’m actually healing? After separation or divorce, it’s easy to feel like you’re making progress one day, only to be triggered the next and wonder if you’re back where you started. I explore why healing is rarely a straight line and how setbacks don’t erase the progress you’ve already made. If you’ve been questioning whether you’re moving forward, this episode offers reassurance, perspective, and reminders to help you recognise the quiet signs of healing that are often easy to...
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517 - Dating with intention
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, I’m talking about what it means to date with intention after separation or divorce. Whether you’ve found yourself jumping into relationships too quickly, avoiding dating altogether, or feeling unsure about what you’re actually looking for, this conversation is for you. We explore the importance of understanding your values, being clear about your goals, and making conscious decisions rather than reacting out of fear, loneliness, or old patterns. Dating with intention isn’t about finding someone as quickly as possible; it’s about approaching relationships in a way...
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516 - Eight things I wish every single mum knew
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, I’m sharing eight things I wish every single mum knew. These are the lessons, truths, and reminders that have come up again and again throughout my own journey, my coaching work, and nearly a decade of conversations with single mums through this podcast. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, questioned yourself, or wondered whether you’re doing enough, this episode is for you. Consider it a friend-to-friend conversation over a cup of tea filled with encouragement, perspective, and the reminders I believe every single mum deserves to hear. Links mentioned in the episode: ...
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515 - The five decisions that changed my life
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, I’m sharing five decisions that profoundly changed the course of my life. Inspired by a conversation with my daughter about “sliding door moments,” I reflect on the choices that shaped who I am today and the life I’ve built. It’s easy to think our lives are changed by luck, timing, or circumstances, but when I look back, it’s the decisions made at pivotal crossroads that stand out the most. Many of those choices felt uncertain, uncomfortable, and even scary at the time, yet they ultimately led me in the direction I needed to go. This episode is an invitation to...
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514 - What actually creates happiness after divorce
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, I’m exploring what actually creates happiness after divorce, and why it’s often not what we think. Many of us believe we’ll finally be happy when the divorce is finalised, the finances are sorted, the co-parenting settles down, or a new relationship comes along. While those things can certainly help, lasting happiness doesn’t have to wait until everything in life is fixed. I share what I’ve observed from working with single mums over the years and why the women who find happiness sooner are often the ones who learn how to create it alongside life’s challenges,...
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513 - The single biggest mistake women make after separation
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, I’m talking about what I believe is one of the biggest mistakes women can make after separation - staying emotionally stuck in the story of what happened. While it’s easy to focus on the practical challenges of separation, the emotional patterns we hold onto can have an even greater impact on our healing, confidence, and future. I explore what emotional stuckness can look like, why so many of us fall into it, and how it can quietly keep us from moving forward. Most importantly, I share practical steps you can take today to begin reclaiming your power, shifting your focus,...
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512 - Parenting toddlers as a single mum
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, I shift the focus to parenting toddlers as a single mum, a stage that can feel incredibly demanding and overwhelming. Alongside the tantrums, big emotions, and constant needs, you’re also carrying the full load of daily life, often while feeling exhausted and stretched thin. I introduce the Circle of Security approach, which centres on one powerful idea: your child needs you as both a secure base to explore the world and a safe haven to return to when things feel too much. We explore how this simple framework can help you better understand your toddler’s needs, create...
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511 - An introduction to emotion coaching your kids
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, I introduce the concept of emotion coaching and how it can completely shift the way you parent your teen. For many of us, we were never really taught how to handle emotions growing up... often learning to suppress, ignore, or fix them instead. So when our children express big emotions, it can feel uncomfortable and hard to know what to do, or even trigger us. I share how emotion coaching helps your teen understand, regulate, and move through their feelings in a safe and supported way, without dismissing or trying to fix them. This conversation offers a more connected and...
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510 - Parenting teens as a single mum
Single Mother Survival Guide
In this episode, I’m talking about what it’s really like to parent teens as a single mum, and why it can feel so intense and overwhelming. Beyond navigating teenage emotions and behaviour, you’re also carrying the full mental load of running a household, managing finances, and handling co-parenting or solo parenting dynamics. While I’m still learning in this stage myself, today I share a few practical insights and approaches that have helped me, in the hope that they support you too as you navigate this challenging and important phase of motherhood. Links mentioned in the...
info_outlineIn this episode, I’m sharing five decisions that profoundly changed the course of my life. Inspired by a conversation with my daughter about “sliding door moments,” I reflect on the choices that shaped who I am today and the life I’ve built.
It’s easy to think our lives are changed by luck, timing, or circumstances, but when I look back, it’s the decisions made at pivotal crossroads that stand out the most. Many of those choices felt uncertain, uncomfortable, and even scary at the time, yet they ultimately led me in the direction I needed to go. This episode is an invitation to reflect on the power of your own decisions and the role they play in shaping your future.
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