loader from loading.io

102 | Healing your Multiracial Inner Child with Farzana Nayani

Small Steps

Release Date: 05/12/2021

103 | How to Re-Enter in a Supportive and Aligned Way show art 103 | How to Re-Enter in a Supportive and Aligned Way

Small Steps

After over a year of living a very different way, things around us are changing again, mostly for the better. And, as more folks get vaccinated and things open back up, returning to whatever our new lives are could feel scary or anxiety-inducing. This episode invites you to check in with how you want to re-enter the post-vaccine life in a way that’s supportive and aligned for you and what you want and need.

info_outline
102 | Healing your Multiracial Inner Child with Farzana Nayani show art 102 | Healing your Multiracial Inner Child with Farzana Nayani

Small Steps

Being a mixed race can bring with it a wide range of experiences, cultures and microaggressions, all that can start at a young age. As mixed race people grow up, looking back and processing and working through the experiences when we were children can be incredibly healing and formative to our identities. Farzana Nayani talks about why it’s important to look at this and how mixed race people can start to give some love and attention to our inner mixed kid.

info_outline
101 | Finding and Going at your Own Pace show art 101 | Finding and Going at your Own Pace

Small Steps

Moving towards living your own definition of health and wellness can be a lot easier to do when you’re going at your own pace. So often, our societies push us to move faster and faster to keep up with the never ending newness in this interconnected world, and that may not actually work for everyone. This episode talks about how you can find, go at, and honor the pace that works best for you.

info_outline
100 | Disordered Eating Recovery as a Person of Color with Kimmie Singh show art 100 | Disordered Eating Recovery as a Person of Color with Kimmie Singh

Small Steps

Working through disordered eating and eating disorders can be a lot to navigate and potentially adding navigating racial microaggressions can be even more overwhelming. There are many layers and nuances to working through your relationship with food as a person of color that may be missing from the majority of the conversation. In this episode, I talk with Kimmie Singh about those layers and nuances of this and how folks of color can find connection with their food and bodies.

info_outline
99 | How Diet Culture Effs with Our Relationship with Food show art 99 | How Diet Culture Effs with Our Relationship with Food

Small Steps

Diet culture can cast a wide and sticky net in someone’s life and push them to live a word hyperfocused on getting thin at whatever cost. This episode dives deep into how “good” and “bad” foods and the food lists diet culture thrives on are harmful, especially for people of color who have rich food cultures.

info_outline
98 | Moving Towards Sex Positivity with Jayda Shuavarnnasri show art 98 | Moving Towards Sex Positivity with Jayda Shuavarnnasri

Small Steps

Sex positivity has become something that’s gotten a lot more attention in the past few years, but what does it mean, especially for folks of color? I invited sex positive Asian auntie Jayda Shuavarnnasri on the show to talk about this with me and unpack the things we all didn’t learn about sexuality, our bodies and how our sensuality is our birthright.

info_outline
97 | Seeing and Letting Go of What You’re Carrying show art 97 | Seeing and Letting Go of What You’re Carrying

Small Steps

Whether we realize it or not, we’re all carrying ideas, beliefs, and ways we live our lives based on our identities, experiences, how we were raised, and more. While some of these things can be helpful or fine, others can be out of alignment with who we truly are and take up too much mental and emotional energy. As the past year has led to a lot of folks reflecting on what hasn’t been working in society, let’s get curious on what we’re carrying and what we can let go of in order to live a more align

info_outline
96 | What’s Next for the Podcast and More show art 96 | What’s Next for the Podcast and More

Small Steps

The Small Steps Podcast is back! Listen in to see what’s changing in the podcast, my nutrition business and where you can hear the most up to date information about the changes ahead.

info_outline
95 | Redefining your Health, Wellness and Life with Shohreh Davoodi show art 95 | Redefining your Health, Wellness and Life with Shohreh Davoodi

Small Steps

We all have moments where we feel it’s time for a change. Whether you can fully see things are out of alignment for you based on your values or you just know that something’s not working anymore. It can be scary (and totally normal!) to figure out where to go next, especially when it’s moving away from things you’ve done or believed for years. In this episode, I talk with Shohreh Davoodi about her evolution in her life, career and views on health and how she redefined her life as she evolved and shi

info_outline
94 | Ways to “Do the Work”: Sharing and Taking Action show art 94 | Ways to “Do the Work”: Sharing and Taking Action

Small Steps

Learning about social justice and understanding the systems of oppression that affect us is extremely important. And it’s just as important to take action on what you’ve learned or in light of what you’ve learned to bring about changing the systems to create something new. This episode covers how to figure out where to share what you’re learning and how to take action on what you’re learning. This is part five of five in a social-justice focused series.

info_outline
 
More Episodes

Being a mixed race can bring with it a wide range of experiences, cultures and microaggressions, all that can start at a young age. As mixed race people grow up, looking back and processing and working through the experiences when we were children can be incredibly healing and formative to our identities. Farzana Nayani talks about why it’s important to look at this and how mixed race people can start to give some love and attention to our inner mixed kid.

 

About Farzana Nayani

Farzana Nayani (she/her) is a recognized Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion specialist, coach, and speaker for over 20 years. She has contributed curriculum and program design for the Smithsonian and the East-West Center and has been featured in Forbes, The Wall Street Journal, Marie Claire, Parents, NPR, the Washington Post, and the LA Times. Farzana is Filipina and Pakistani and is the parent of two multiracial sons and has written the book, Raising Multiracial Children: Tools for Nurturing Identity in a Racialized World. She founded the multiracial community on Instagram called @multiracialmatters.

 

Small Steps in the Show: 

  • Take moments to pause and reflect on who you really want to be, how you want to show up and what is comfortable for you.
  • Notice how your identity changes, when it changes and why it changes.
  • Allow for your identity to shift and change without guilt or shame.
  • Remember that other people in your life are on their own journey and understandings around identity.
  • Have patience and grace in yourself or with other folks in your life.
  • Find opportunities for young people in your life to embrace many parts of their identities.
  • Find multiracial communities locally and online to get support.
  • Check out Farzana’s book for other resources to find other mixed communities and people.

 

Mentioned in the Show:

Take the Small Steps Podcast Listener Survey

Raising Multiracial Children: Tools for Nurturing Identity in a Racialized World, Farzana Nayani

Maria P.P. Root’s Bill of Rights for People of Mixed Heritage

Being All of Me, Farzana Nayani

Multiracial Americans of Southern California

Farzana’s Website

Work with Farzana

Follow Farzana on Instagram | LinkedIn | Twitter

Multiracial Matters Website

Follow Multiracial Matters on Instagram



Get the full show notes here!

Follow Aimee on Instagram

Sign up for my Newsletter

Interested in working with Aimee? Find out information here.

Edited by Bex Carlos