S5:28 - Fostering Belonging and Creating Community with Emma McIntyre
Release Date: 11/24/2025
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info_outlineLoneliness is a big deal, and it’s become an actual epidemic. And, while it may seem simple to combat (the opposite of loneliness is belonging and community, right?), creating belonging and community can actually be much harder.
This is what Emma McIntyre is all about. She builds events that create belonging — from farmers markets to winter festivals to senior socials — and this episode is all about how small towns can replicate these ideas at any scale by focusing on comfort, connection, and purpose. It’s a roadmap for how to build community in ways that actually stick.
About Emma:
Emma McIntyre, originally from North Dakota, is the Manager of Development and Partnerships at Folkways, an organization dedicated to building community through experiences, placemaking, and creative programming. After graduating college, she intentionally chose to return to North Dakota to help strengthen her home state through meaningful community-building projects.
In this episode, we cover:
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How Emma and Folkways use placemaking to combat loneliness with intentional design, not just “fun events”
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The real metrics that matter: dwell time, collisions, intergenerational experiences
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Why belonging is a public health issue — and what communities can do about it
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How small towns can adapt big-city ideas like farmers markets and themed gatherings
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The power of personal traditions to build connection at the micro level
Links + Resources Mentioned:
https://www.folkways.org/
https://creativemornings.com/cities/FAR
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