Lynette Eyde: Embracing the Unseen Self

Introduction

This week on The Spirit of the Deal, we're diving deep into the transformative power of identity shifts and embracing the unknown with the incredible Lynette Ida. If you've ever felt the pull to reinvent yourself, questioned your path, or struggled with the idea of "enough," this episode is your blueprint.

We'll explore:

• How Lynette, a former international public health expert, pivoted from saving the world to saving herself after a life-altering health crisis.
• The profound shift in defining prosperity – moving beyond monetary gain to embracing health, presence, and a slow, intentional life.
• The challenging, yet ultimately liberating, journey of embracing her calling as a traditional healer, even when it wasn't the path she initially chose.
• The neuroscience behind accepting what is, and why fighting your calling is a losing battle.
• How communities like the Awakened Leadership community provide the anchor and acceptance needed to navigate massive personal evolution.

Get ready to be inspired by Lynette’s raw honesty and powerful insights. She's proof that the most profound deals are the ones we strike with ourselves.

Honest Overview

This conversation with Lynette Ida dives deep into the radical pivot happening in her life, moving from a high-powered career in global health to a profound focus on self, spirituality, and ancestral calling. The stakes are high – it's about redefining prosperity, embracing a new identity, and navigating the often-uncomfortable process of shedding old skins. The emotional core lies in the courage required to let go of external validation and the pursuit of worldly success to embrace a more authentic, albeit challenging, path.

• The Evolution of Prosperity: Lynette’s definition of prosperity has dramatically shifted. What once meant career achievements and monetary gain has transformed into the richness of health (mental, physical, and physiological), living in a desired environment, and embracing a slower, more intentional pace of life.
• Identity as a Fluid Construct: The conversation highlights a pivotal identity shift. Lynette’s drive to be "international" and "worldly" in her 30s, focused on saving others, has given way to an intense inward focus on self-preservation and healing, particularly after facing a life-threatening health crisis. This marks a powerful transition from external contribution to internal alignment.
• The "Spirit of the Deal" Redefined: For Lynette, the "Spirit of the Deal" is about the internal negotiation between "wanting" and "being enough." It’s about placing her spiritual attention and authenticity on this internal alignment, looking inward rather than externally for fulfillment. This deal, she admits, is "not an easy deal to strike."
• The Unforeseen Calling: A significant part of Lynette's current journey involves embracing her role as a traditional healer, a path she inherited and initially resisted. This isn't a chosen career but a calling that, when ignored, led to personal upheaval. The emotional weight here is palpable; it’s about surrendering to a lineage and a destiny that demands authenticity and presence.
• Suffering as a Catalyst for Growth: Lynette challenges the notion of avoiding suffering. She posits that a certain type of "frivolous" suffering—like fighting against societal expectations or the ego’s need for external validation—is essential for growth. This is the suffering she's currently navigating as she sheds her old persona and embraces a more spiritual existence.
• The PhD and the Traditional Path: Interestingly, Lynette is pursuing a PhD in intellectual property law concerning biotechnological advancements in South Africa. This intellectual pursuit runs parallel to her deeply spiritual work as a traditional healer and her new role as a death doula, showcasing a multifaceted approach to life and contribution.
• The Power of Community: The conversation underscores the vital role of community, particularly through the Awakened Leadership community. This space offers solace, acceptance, and the chance to be truly oneself without qualification. It's a reminder that while old connections may fade, new ones can provide the support needed to navigate profound transitions.
• Embracing the "Death Midwife" Role: Lynette’s training as a death doula is a significant revelation. This role extends beyond physical death to encompass the death of old identities, careers, and life stages. It's about holding space for profound transitions and supporting others through their own "liminal spaces," infused with her traditional healing wisdom.

The central insight is that true alignment and a redefined sense of prosperity often emerge from radical acceptance of one's authentic path, even when that path is challenging and deviates significantly from societal norms. The emotional stakes are deeply personal: facing down the ego, honoring ancestral calls, and finding peace in the surrender to what is.