84. Healing Family Trauma, with Abbey Williams
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How to break the cycle of relational trauma Today I'm talking to Abbey Williams, LSW about estrangements and healing to break the cycle of generational trauma. Abbey spoke at our recent (the Summit is over but you can still access the presentations for a few more days with an ) About Abbey: Abbey is a Trauma Therapist + Estrangement Expert, Founder of You, The Mother, Coach, Co-Founder of The Estrangement Project, Co-Founder of The Parenting with Trauma Project, and mother of 4. For over 10 years, Abbey has provided direct clinical and coaching services to individuals seeking healing...
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83. Family Feuds: Overcoming High Conflict and Parental Alienation with Maarit Miller
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What happens when you realize you're in a high-conflict situation? All too often, stepmoms get into their stepfamily only to realize their spouse's ex is way more high-conflict than they realized or that there is some pretty nasty parental alienation happening. That's exactly what happened to Maarit Miller and we're talking all about her experience and how it led her to start coaching others through similar situations. Maarit spoke at our recent (the Summit is over but you can still access the presentations for a few more days with an ) About Maarit: Maarit has been a mom for 20+...
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82. Does High Conflict Coparenting Ever Get Better? With Megan Hunter
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Does High Conflict Coparenting Ever Get Better? That's what we're talking about in today's episode with CEO and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute, Megan Hunter, another "three-peat" guest ( and ) and speaker at this year's (which is coming up April 25-28th - you can get on the waitlist for doors to open ). Megan will give us a bit of a preview of what she and Bill Eddy will discuss when they appear together at the Summit in a few weeks - and, as always, some great tips for handling any high conflict personalities you may have in your life. About Megan: Megan Hunter, MBA,...
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81. How To Stepmom Without Losing Yourself
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Is it possible to stepmom without losing yourself? That's what we're talking about in today's episode with relationship crisis coach Jessica Frew - a "three-peat" guest ( and ) and speaker at this year's (which is coming up April 25-28th - you can get on the waitlist for doors to open ). And spoiler alert, Jessica has some great advice. About Jessica: Jessica Frew is a wife, ex-wife, mom, stepmom, and BOLD action taker. She has a successful podcast called “Husband in Law” that she records with her husband, Matt, and her ex-husband, Steve. Together they are sharing their stories of love,...
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80. Hey Stepmom, Stop Comparing Yourself!
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Let's Get Comfortable . . . In Your Own Skin. Today's episode is about getting more comfortable in your own skin. Specifically as it relates to your partner’s ex and comparing yourself to her. This is something that I hear ALL THE TIME from stepmoms. And it can take various forms. It can be overt, like wondering if your spouse thinks she’s prettier or smarter than you. But it can also be sneaky and lead to even more insecurities, like when you wonder why your partner married her to begin with. Whatever way it comes, you can find yourself down an unhealthy rabbit hole real...
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79. The People Pleaser's Guide To Coparenting
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Are you a people pleaser? If so, this episode is for YOU. Our guest today has been here before, back on episode 61. And she recently published her first book, The People Pleaser’s Guide to Coparenting Well. About Mikki: Mikki Gardner is a Certified Life and Conscious Parenting Coach, a mom, a speaker, host of the Co-Parenting with Confidence Podcast, and author of the People Pleaser’s Guide to Co-Parenting Well. Mikki’s personal struggles with divorce motivated her to become a “better mom” so that she could better help her son overcome the challenges of their new family...
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78. Is It Normal To Feel Like This?
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In today's episode, I'm answering your questions! I put out a call before the holidays for questions and boy, did you respond! I'm so excited to tackle these and hope today is just the first of many Q&A episodes. Today's question is from Lauren, who wants to know if feeling like an outsider ever really gets better and how she can cope with it. If you've got a question you'd like me to answer, head and ask away! Links Mentioned In Today's Episode Submit a question to be answered on a future episode Join the Stepfamily Circle Are you enjoying The Stepmom Diaries? If so, please...
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77. When Your Expectations Fall Flat
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Today I'm talking to another veteran stepfamily coach, Amelia Lane, all about how to get "okay" with it when you realize your expectations do not line up with your stepfamily reality. Amelia has been a guest expert inside the membership, which you can learn more about . And she's got some great insights for you - no matter what stage of stepmom life you're in! About Amelia Amelia Lane is a Certified Stepparent Coach and the co-founder of The Art of Blended Chaos, based out of a small town in Ontario, Canada. As a {second} wife, mother of two, and stepmom of one, Amelia draws on 13 years...
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76. Staying Afloat After You've Jumped Into The Deep End Of Stepmom Life
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Today I'm talking to a veteran stepfamily coach and one of last year's speakers, Mindy Kyle. We are talking about how it feels when you realize you've gone from dating to the deep end of stepfamily life and feel like you are barely staying afloat. Mindy has a wealth of experience in that very subject and some great insights for stepmoms who might be struggling right now. About Mindy Mindy Kyle is no stranger to the struggles that often come with the title of stepmom. She became a stepmom to 4 kids at the early age of 24. Because of her struggles through her own stepmom journey,...
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75. Can Stepmom And Mom Really Be Besties?
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In this episode, I’m talking to a rockstar in the influencer marketing world, but one who also happens to be a stepmom and has one of the best relationships with her stepchildren’s mom that I’ve ever seen. Sarah Boyd and I actually met sitting next to each other at a dinner hosted by a mutual friend, Susie Moore, in Miami. And the more I talked to her about her family life and what a rockstar she is, the more I thought, I’ve got to have her on the podcast! The mom of Sarah's stepkids is journalist and influencer Catt Sadler, and it’s amazing how they have navigated their situation. I...
info_outlineIt's a brand new year and we're back with all new episodes! Today, we’re talking about the new beginnings that come with a new year. To include word of the year. And resolutions.
We’re talking about the differences between stepfamily life and first-family life and why they matter.
AND I’m going to fill you in on some big and exciting changes I’ve got going on for you.
The first one - and the biggest - is that This Custom Life has officially merged with Stepfamily Magazine! We have formed Stepfamily Solutions.
Stepfamily Solutions is the new home of The Stepmom Diaries podcast, all of the This Custom Life courses, Stepfamily Magazine, The Stepmom Summit, The Stepmom Retreat, and the Stepfamily Circle membership. With our curated content, research-backed tools, and expert advisory board, we are truly your one-stop shop for all of your stepmom and stepfamily needs.
The other big news we've got is that our Stepfamily Circle membership is getting a huge overhaul. Later this month, we're launching a brand new custom site for our members. We're putting the finishing touches on the site, which will house our exclusive community off social media for stepmoms and stepfamilies to access experts, tools and resources, and coaching. Every single month.
In addition to a brand new site and portal, we are launching a brand new custom app for the membership so that you'll have all of our resources on the go. It's honestly amazing and we're so excited to unveil it this month.
AND to celebrate the new site and app, we're adding hundreds of dollars of additional exclusive courses and resources into the membership.
Check out the site HERE and follow me on social ⬇️ to stay up to date on all the things!
Links Mentioned:
Stepfamily Solutions: www.stepfamilysolutions.com
Stepfamily Circle membership: www.stepfamilycircle.com
Instagram: @stepfamilysolutions
Facebook: @stepfamilysolutions
TikTok: @stepfamilysolutions
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