Child Custody In Divorce: The 10 Most Common Questions
Release Date: 04/15/2025
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info_outlineIn this eye-opening and practical episode,a seasoned family lawyer helps to unpack the 10 most frequently asked questions about child custody in Australia.
Whether you're fresh out of a breakup, preparing for court, or trying to figure out what your rights are, this episode is packed with general education and emotional clarity every separated parent needs. From understanding how courts decide who gets custody, to navigating situations involving domestic violence, high-conflict co-parents, and parenting plans this episode helps you gain a better understanding of what's what in child custody issues.
🎧 Listen to This Episode If You...
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Are recently separated and unsure where to start
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Want to learn how to understand your parental rights in court
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Are co-parenting with someone difficult, absent, or controlling
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Are trying to protect your child from a harmful environment
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Need clarity around parenting plans vs court orders
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Are preparing to go to family court
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Feel overwhelmed by legal jargon and want straight answers
⚠️ Trigger Warning:
This episode includes discussions about family and domestic violence.
đź“Ś Legal Disclaimer:
This podcast provides general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family law case is different, and you should always seek professional legal support specific to your circumstances.
đź“Ś Episodes Mentioned in This Episode:
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Official Parenting Orders: Do I really need them?
🎧 https://open.spotify.com/episode/7xeIIHEDcFPKwtVZ54fM67?si=vwYKXPZHRRCISokEuc2D-Q
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Case Mentioned:
Isles & Nelissen [2022] FedcFAMC1A 97 – an “unacceptable risk” family court case
đź“š Links & Resources
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🧾 Word Salad Checklist (Download) - https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/wordsaladchecklist
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📞 1800 RESPECT – Support for family and domestic violence
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📞 Lifeline (13 11 14) – Mental health and emotional support
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📞 000 – In case of immediate danger
⏱️ Timeline Summary
00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warnings
01:02 Understanding Child Custody
02:08 Immediate Steps After Separation
03:19 Consent Orders vs Parenting Plans
04:33 High Conflict Situations
05:56 What is the Best Interests of the Child
15:07 What is the difference between Legal vs Physical Custody
18:39 Domestic Violence and Custody
23:33 Surgical Risk and Legal Analogies
24:21 Can My Child Decide Who They Want to Live With?
24:26 Webinar Invitation: Empower Yourself Through Divorce
25:40 Can I Relocate with my child and Custody: Legal Insights
27:14 What can I do if my ex is Threatening of International Relocation
27:54 Joint Custody: Pros, Cons, and Realities
30:18 Proving an Ex is Unfit for Custody
31:26 How do you Modify and Enforce Custody Arrangements
33:30 How to Deal with Manipulative and Controlling Exes
34:08 High Conflict Custody Situations
36:20 Avoidant Exes and Custody Challenges
38:08 Final Thoughts and Support Resources
đź”– Hashtags (for Social Media)
#ChildCustody #FamilyLawAustralia #ParentingAfterSeparation #HighConflictDivorce
#CoParenting #FamilyCourt #LegalParenting #DomesticViolenceAwareness
#SharedParenting #CustodyBattle #DivorceSupport #ConsentOrders #ParentingPlan
#FamilyLawHelp #ProtectiveParenting
đź“Ś Final Disclaimer:
Nothing discussed in this episode should be taken as legal advice. Please speak with a qualified legal professional who understands your personal situation and jurisdiction.
🎙️ Episode Title: Top 10 Child Custody Questions Answered (What Parents Need to Know)