Child Custody In Divorce: The 10 Most Common Questions
Release Date: 04/15/2025
Family Law Myths: Don’t Fall for These 5 During Separation
The Divorce Course Podcast
Listen to this episode if… You're in the middle of a separation and unsure what advice to follow Friends, family, or Facebook have told you "what to do" You’ve heard you can’t leave the house without losing everything You feel pressured not to bring up domestic violence You’re confused about disclosure, super splitting, or property rights 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek your own legal support for your specific circumstances. This discussion is based in Australia. ALSO TRIGGER WARNING...
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Child Inclusive Mediation: Risks, Realities, and Red Flags
The Divorce Course Podcast
Listen to this episode if... You’ve been offered child inclusive mediation and don’t know what to expect You’re worried about how separation is affecting your child You’re in a high-conflict co-parenting situation or dealing with coercive control You’ve been told that involving your child in mediation will “help” You want to make informed, child-centered decisions in your family law journey 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek your own legal support for your specific circumstances. This...
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Co-Parenting Without Court Orders: The Real Rules and Red Flags You Need to Know
The Divorce Course Podcast
Listen to this episode if... You’re newly separated and trying to figure out parenting arrangements. You don’t have court orders yet and things are already getting tense. Your ex is unreliable, manipulative, or emotionally unpredictable. You're feeling pressured to agree to arrangements that feel unsafe or unfair. You want to avoid court but don’t want to be taken advantage of. Trying to co-parent after separation without court orders? This episode offers a general discussion that may help you better understand the common challenges many face during this stage. Mum and I...
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Business Tricks in Divorce: 10 Sneaky Tactics to Watch Out For and Outsmart!
The Divorce Course Podcast
Listen to this episode if... You're divorcing or separating from someone who owns or runs a business. You're in a family business with your ex and things are getting murky. You suspect your ex is hiding assets or undervaluing the business. You’re overwhelmed by the complexity of business valuations in divorce. You're preparing for mediation or court and want to understand your options. 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek your own legal support for your specific circumstances. Divorcing a business...
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Is My Co-Parent a Narcissist? Warning Signs, Boundaries & How to Protect Your Kids
The Divorce Course Podcast
🎧 Listen to this episode if… You constantly walk away from conversations with your ex feeling drained, confused, or second-guessing yourself. Co-parenting feels more like a battleground than teamwork. You suspect your ex might be narcissistic or manipulative, but you’re not sure what to do about it. You want to learn how to protect your children emotionally while staying calm and in control. You’re tired of being baited into fights and want tools to respond, not react. ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses family violence, coercive control, and trauma...
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The Post-Divorce Glow-Up: Steps to Emotional Recovery after Abuse
The Divorce Course Podcast
🎧 Listen to this episode if… 💔 You’ve left an abusive relationship but still feel stuck, numb, or confused. 🧠 You’re trying to understand why you still feel controlled, scared, or exhausted. 💬 You want to know what healing actually looks like and how long it takes. 💪 You’re ready to start finding yourself again after years of walking on eggshells. 🌸 You want to rebuild your confidence, identity, and hope for the future. 💫 You just need to hear that full recovery is possible ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses family violence, coercive control, and trauma...
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The Divorce Course Podcast
🎧 Listen to this episode if… 💬 You’ve got mediation coming up and don’t know where to start. 😰 You’re feeling stressed or unprepared to face your ex about custody or property. 📑 You want to know what to bring and how to prepare your documents. ⚖️ You need tips for negotiating calmly and confidently. 🚩 You’re dealing with a high-conflict or manipulative ex. 💸 You want to avoid costly mistakes and stay out of family court. 🧠 You just want to feel ready and in control on the day. ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses family violence, coercive control,...
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The Divorce Course Podcast
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The Hidden Connection: Custody Battles & Property Splits in Divorce
The Divorce Course Podcast
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Stuck Under One Roof After Break Up or Divorce: What Are The Options?
The Divorce Course Podcast
🎧 Listen to This Episode If You… You’re separated but can’t afford to move out of the family home. You’re afraid leaving means you’ll lose your rights to the house. Your ex refuses to cooperate, acknowledge the separation, or leave. You’re experiencing coercive control or financial abuse after separation. Episode Summary Separation is hard enough — but what happens when you and your ex are still living under the same roof? For many, moving out simply isn’t an option: finances are tight, safety is uncertain, and myths about “losing the house” keep people trapped in...
info_outlineIn this eye-opening and practical episode,a seasoned family lawyer helps to unpack the 10 most frequently asked questions about child custody in Australia.
Whether you're fresh out of a breakup, preparing for court, or trying to figure out what your rights are, this episode is packed with general education and emotional clarity every separated parent needs. From understanding how courts decide who gets custody, to navigating situations involving domestic violence, high-conflict co-parents, and parenting plans this episode helps you gain a better understanding of what's what in child custody issues.
🎧 Listen to This Episode If You...
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Are recently separated and unsure where to start
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Want to learn how to understand your parental rights in court
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Are co-parenting with someone difficult, absent, or controlling
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Are trying to protect your child from a harmful environment
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Need clarity around parenting plans vs court orders
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Are preparing to go to family court
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Feel overwhelmed by legal jargon and want straight answers
⚠️ Trigger Warning:
This episode includes discussions about family and domestic violence.
📌 Legal Disclaimer:
This podcast provides general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family law case is different, and you should always seek professional legal support specific to your circumstances.
📌 Episodes Mentioned in This Episode:
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Official Parenting Orders: Do I really need them?
🎧 https://open.spotify.com/episode/7xeIIHEDcFPKwtVZ54fM67?si=vwYKXPZHRRCISokEuc2D-Q
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Case Mentioned:
Isles & Nelissen [2022] FedcFAMC1A 97 – an “unacceptable risk” family court case
📚 Links & Resources
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🧾 Word Salad Checklist (Download) - https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/wordsaladchecklist
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📞 1800 RESPECT – Support for family and domestic violence
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📞 Lifeline (13 11 14) – Mental health and emotional support
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📞 000 – In case of immediate danger
⏱️ Timeline Summary
00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warnings
01:02 Understanding Child Custody
02:08 Immediate Steps After Separation
03:19 Consent Orders vs Parenting Plans
04:33 High Conflict Situations
05:56 What is the Best Interests of the Child
15:07 What is the difference between Legal vs Physical Custody
18:39 Domestic Violence and Custody
23:33 Surgical Risk and Legal Analogies
24:21 Can My Child Decide Who They Want to Live With?
24:26 Webinar Invitation: Empower Yourself Through Divorce
25:40 Can I Relocate with my child and Custody: Legal Insights
27:14 What can I do if my ex is Threatening of International Relocation
27:54 Joint Custody: Pros, Cons, and Realities
30:18 Proving an Ex is Unfit for Custody
31:26 How do you Modify and Enforce Custody Arrangements
33:30 How to Deal with Manipulative and Controlling Exes
34:08 High Conflict Custody Situations
36:20 Avoidant Exes and Custody Challenges
38:08 Final Thoughts and Support Resources
🔖 Hashtags (for Social Media)
#ChildCustody #FamilyLawAustralia #ParentingAfterSeparation #HighConflictDivorce
#CoParenting #FamilyCourt #LegalParenting #DomesticViolenceAwareness
#SharedParenting #CustodyBattle #DivorceSupport #ConsentOrders #ParentingPlan
#FamilyLawHelp #ProtectiveParenting
📌 Final Disclaimer:
Nothing discussed in this episode should be taken as legal advice. Please speak with a qualified legal professional who understands your personal situation and jurisdiction.
🎙️ Episode Title: Top 10 Child Custody Questions Answered (What Parents Need to Know)