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140. How Dysfunctional Patterns Interrupt Intimacy And Impede The Archetypes Of Love

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Release Date: 08/23/2023

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The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the dynamics of genuine connection within marriages and how they can be influenced by two specific false archetypes of love.

Delving beyond traditional roles, she navigates two common archetypes that hinder intimacy: the parent-child dynamic and the project manager approach. By embracing the essence of "being" over constant "doing," listeners learn to infuse presence into every interaction, fostering deeper relationships. The episode inspires self-awareness, promoting emotional growth and fulfillment. Discover how to transform roles, prioritize connection, and ignite a profound, soulful bond with your partner.

Also in this episode:

  • How historical roles in marriage have shifted toward modern expectations of personal growth and companionship.
  • Overcoming tendencies to seek emotional rescue or dependence on a partner, hindering true connection.
  • Successful individuals may inadvertently impede intimacy by approaching relationships with a managerial mindset.
  • Shift focus from constant doing to cultivating presence and connection in daily interactions.
  • Nurturing intimacy: develop a deeper understanding of genuine connection, essential for passion and fulfillment in relationships.
  • Evolving archetypes, fostering growth, and fostering soulful, emotionally rich bonds with your partner.

 

 

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD