E335. REP: Stop Judging Younger You: Lessons from Energy & Shadow Work
Release Date: 10/30/2025
E347. What’s Your Unfair Advantage? (And Why Ignoring It Is Costing You)
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You can list your weaknesses on demand. But when someone asks, “What’s your unfair advantage?” — you freeze. That hesitation? That’s the real problem. Welcome, Pivoter. In this episode of PivotMe, April challenges one of the most common and costly habits high performers have: obsessing over gaps instead of leveraging strengths. Most people can tell you exactly where they fall short — where the market is crowded, where they’re behind, why it’s harder for them than everyone else. But ask them to name their unfair advantage, and everything stops. This episode reframes what an...
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E346. 12 Weeks: Why Your Goals Are Taking So Long (And How to Fix That)
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A year sounds ambitious… but it’s also the adult version of saying, “I’ll start on Monday.” And Monday never comes. Welcome back, Pivoter. Last week, April introduced your 4 Rocks — the four non-negotiable outcomes that actually matter this year. In this episode, she takes it one step further by challenging a deeply ingrained habit that quietly kills momentum: thinking in twelve-month timelines. Drawing inspiration from The 12 Week Year by Brian Moran, April reframes how high performers should approach execution — not by lowering goals, but by shortening the runway. This...
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E345. Your 4 Rocks for 2026: The Only Goals That Actually Matter
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Hope is not a strategy. And “like” belongs on Facebook, not in your goal plan. Welcome, Pivoter. The calendar has flipped and the year is officially underway. While most people are already drifting away from resolutions they made in a rush, this episode is about doing something different. In this episode of PivotMe, April walks you through how to define your 4 Rocks for 2026 — the four non-negotiable outcomes that will determine whether next December feels like a victory lap or another year that “flew by.” These are not wish-list goals. Not “someday” ideas. They are the pillars...
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E344. REP: Word of Intention for New Year
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If your year feels scattered, it’s not because you lack discipline — it’s because you’re missing direction. One word can change that. In this episode of PivotMe, April dives into the transformative power of choosing a Word of Intention for a specific season of life and aligning it with your 4 Rocks. Instead of chasing yearly resolutions that fade by February, April makes the case for planning life in 12-week blocks — a system that creates clarity, focus, and momentum. Through personal stories and real-world examples, she shows how a single word can act as a filter for decisions,...
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E343. The Holiday Pivot: 3 Moves to End the Year Strong
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Everyone else is “winding down.” You’re deciding whether next year is accidental… or intentional. In this timely end-of-year episode of PivotMe, April breaks down three powerful holiday pivots that separate small-business owners who strategically recharge from those who collapse into January already behind. This isn’t about hustling through the holidays. It’s about protecting margin, deepening connection, and quietly positioning your next big year while everyone else naps. If you want to close the year like a leader and step into the next one with clarity instead of chaos,...
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E342. Ask These 10 Questions Before 2026
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If you’re staring at the end of the year thinking, How is it December already? and Why does it feel unfinished?—this episode is for you. Before you sprint into next year, we’re hitting pause. Because clarity doesn’t happen by accident. It’s designed. In this reflective yet action-driven episode of PivotMe, April walks you through 10 powerful questions designed to help you close the year with intention and step into the next one with clarity and momentum. These aren’t fluffy prompts. They’re clarity grenades. Too many people drag old patterns into a new year and wonder why...
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E341. What Movie Are You Directing This Year?
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If next year were a movie, what kind of film would it be? Action? Adventure? Redemption? A rom-com with questionable decisions and a killer soundtrack? Whatever it is — here’s the truth: no magical hand is writing it for you. You get to take the damn pen. You’re the writer, the director, and the lead. In this follow-up to The Hero’s Journey, April hands you the director’s chair for your own life. Too many leaders and entrepreneurs drift into another year by default — replaying the same story, following the same plot, repeating the same dialogue. But what if 2025 wasn’t a sequel?...
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E340. Your Hero's Journey: Which Of The Stages Are You In?
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Every great movie has that moment — the hero face-down in the dirt, bleeding, doubting, wondering if they’ve got anything left. That’s not the end of the story. That’s the middle. So if you’re there right now — business messy, life loud, wondering if you’ve blown it — you’re not failing. You’re in your Hero’s Journey. In this powerful episode of PivotMe, April unpacks The Hero’s Journey — that timeless storytelling arc that shows up in every great movie, book, and… your own life. From Luke Skywalker to Moana to Rocky, this universal path of struggle, transformation,...
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E339. Thanksgiving Gratitude, Growth, and the People Who Helped You
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Many of us are in seasons of change — different tables, new dynamics, empty chairs, or brand-new beginnings. But no matter what this year looks like, gratitude still belongs here. In this deeply personal Thanksgiving episode, April invites you to slow down, reflect, and find gratitude — even when life looks different. She opens up about vulnerability, growth, asking for help, and the power of gratitude — both for the people who carried you and for the resilient, evolving version of you. Through heartfelt storytelling, humor, and honesty, this episode reminds us that Thanksgiving isn’t...
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E338. Overwhelmed? Do these 5 things
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Ever look at your to-do list and think, ‘Cool, I’ll just clone myself and maybe then I’ll get it all done’? Yeah. Same. But here’s the truth — overwhelm isn’t a sign you’re doing too little. It’s a sign you’re doing too much of the wrong stuff. Let’s fix that. Feeling buried under your to-do list? You’re not alone — but you don’t have to live there. In this high-impact episode, April breaks down five simple, tactical moves that shift you from chaos to clarity. Whether you’re running a business, leading a team, or juggling it all, this episode will help you reclaim...
info_outlineYou’re not mad at your past self because she failed — you’re mad because she didn’t know what you know now. But guess what? She’s the reason you know it.
In this episode of PivotMe, April takes listeners on a transformative journey through her recent experience with energy and shadow work—a deep dive into the hidden layers of self-judgment, compassion, and growth.
Through personal reflection and powerful mindset shifts, April reveals how she uncovered her own inner critic — “The Judge” — and how it was quietly sabotaging her progress.
If you’ve ever replayed your old mistakes, held grudges against your past self, or thought “I should’ve known better,” this episode will speak straight to your soul.
Key Takeaways
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The Trap of Judging Younger You
The person you are today is judging the version of you who didn’t yet know what you know now. That judgment keeps you stuck and undermines your growth. -
Recognizing the Inner Judge
April shares how her internal “Judge” wasn’t focused on others—it was focused inward, constantly critiquing her own past performance and stealing her self-compassion. -
Optimizing Without Criticizing
April’s natural ability to optimize systems and performance became counterproductive when used against herself. The reframe: use that optimization for planning the future, not attacking the past. -
Changing the Narrative
Swap out “I could have handled that better” with “Next time, I’ll handle it this way.” A small linguistic pivot with massive psychological power.
Action Steps
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Notice It: Recognize when your internal Judge shows up. Awareness is the first step to defusing it.
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Change the Language: Replace past-focused self-criticism with future-focused self-leadership.
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Thank Your Past Self: She’s the one who got you here — flawed, learning, and still standing.
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Use Energy Work as a Mirror: Instead of asking “Why did I do that?” ask “What was that part of me trying to protect?”
Quotes
“The person you are now has learned from the experience, but you’re judging the person who hadn’t had that opportunity yet.”
“Instead of saying, ‘I could have,’ switch it to, ‘Next time I will.’”
“Your past self isn’t your problem — she’s your proof that you can grow.”
April’s journey through energy and shadow work revealed one powerful truth:
Self-compassion isn’t just about forgiving who you are today — it’s about honoring who you were.
When you stop judging your past self, you open the door to real healing, growth, and forward motion.
“You’re not supposed to have known it all then. That version of you was doing her best — and her best is the reason you can do better now.”
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