#250 Why Does My Son Shut Down When I Try To Talk To Him? | Sebastian Bates
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If you feel like your son ignores you unless you shout, this video is for you. So many parents tell me the same thing. “It’s like talking to a wall.” “He only reacts when I lose my temper.” “He’s shutting me out.” Here’s the truth most parents never hear. Your son is not ignoring you. He’s disconnecting. And that disconnection doesn’t happen overnight. It happens quietly. Brick by brick. Moment by moment. In this deep dive, I break down why boys stop listening to their parents, especially between the ages of 8 and 14, and what actually works to rebuild connection...
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#249 How Do I Build My Child’s Confidence Without Pushing Too Hard? | Sebastian Bates
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Most parents think confidence is luck. Or personality. Or something some kids are born with. It isn’t. If your child struggles with confidence, anxiety, bullying, or speaking up, this video will change how you see confidence forever. In this deep dive, I break down the six hidden skills that actually create real confidence in children. Not fake bravado. Not loud behaviour. The kind of calm, unshakable confidence that holds up under pressure. I’ve used these exact six skills with over 20,000 kids worldwide. I use them with parents every single day. And I see the same shift happen over...
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#248 Is My Child Weak? Why Bullies Target Certain Kids | Sebastian Bates
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Every parent knows that moment. Your child walks through the door quiet, shoulders slumped, holding back tears. And your heart sinks because you know something has happened. If your child is being bullied, excluded, or constantly picked on, this video is for you. Most parents are told to fix the environment. Change schools. Call teachers. Remove the problem. But confidence is not built by comfort. It is built by preparation. In this deep dive, I break down exactly why bullies target certain children and why it is not weakness. It is uncertainty. I show you a simple, practical framework you...
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#247 Bullies Can Sense Weakness in Seconds Here’s How to Make Your Child Unshakeable | Sebastian Bates
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Parents feel helpless because they cannot always be there to protect their child from bullying, and they are scared their child will freeze when it matters most. Every parent wants to protect their child from bullies. Here’s the hard truth. You cannot always be there. Most bullying does not start with a punch. It starts with a look. A tone. A comment. And in that moment, one child freezes while another calmly holds their ground. This video shows parents how to build real confidence that bullies back off from. Not aggression. Not lectures. Not telling your child to just ignore it. I break...
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#246 Your Child Looks Confident in Dubai. Here’s the Hidden Confidence Crisis Parents Miss
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Dubai is an incredible place to raise children. Safe. Sunny. Full of opportunity. But there’s a silent problem most parents never see until it’s too late. Many kids growing up in Dubai look happy, polite, and successful. Yet underneath, they feel disconnected, unsure of themselves, and hesitant to truly belong. This video breaks down the real confidence issue affecting expat children and why comfort, money, and great schools are not enough. I explain what I call the expat confidence gap. Why children stop forming deep connections. Why they avoid challenge even when they are capable....
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#245 The Dark Side of Gentle Parenting Nobody Talks About | Sebastian Bates
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Parents think they’re teaching kindness, but they’re accidentally raising kids who stay silent, freeze under pressure, and can’t assert themselves. We all want calm homes, gentle voices, and kids who grow up kind. But here is the part nobody warns you about. When gentle turns into soft, confidence dies. If your child freezes when someone takes their toy, gets pushed in line, or feels scared to speak up, this video will hit home. So many parents are accidentally teaching silence instead of strength, and it’s stopping their kids from building the confidence they desperately need in the...
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#244 My Son Won’t Talk to Me: Why Boys Shut Down | Sebastian Bates
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If your son has started going quiet short answers, “I’m fine,” less eye contact, more time alone this is often the first sign his confidence is being shaped in silence. In this deep dive, Sebastian Bates explains why boys stop talking, what parents do (without meaning to) that makes it worse, and the simple connection habits that help boys open up again. In this video you’ll discover: The hidden confidence-killers boys experience every day Why correction without connection destroys a boy’s self-belief The simple nightly question that rebuilds confidence from the inside out Why...
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#243 Empowering young minds: How entrepreneurship cultivates confidence in children
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In this episode, Warrior Academy founder Sebastian Bates is joined by Angela Soudi, a seasoned entrepreneur and parent, to discuss empowering children through entrepreneurship and financial literacy. Angela shares insights from her journey working with children, including how entrepreneurship can build confidence, resilience, and crucial life skills in young minds. Together, they explore practical strategies to nurture children’s entrepreneurial spirit and help them grow into confident, capable young adults. Topics Discussed: • The importance of financial literacy and confidence for...
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# 242 Chapter 6 The Not a Victim Process Part One.4
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In this episode, Sebastian Bates, founder of the Warrior Academy, shares an insightful chapter from his book Not a Victim. The book is designed to help parents guide their children through the challenging transition of dealing with bullying. Sebastian highlights the importance of empowering children with tools and techniques to face and overcome bullying, emphasizing the role of body language in building confidence. Topics Discussed: • Introduction to Not a Victim and its purpose • The importance of proactive parenting in preparing children for bullying • How body language can...
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# 241 Mat Chat! A Story About Persistence and Resilience
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In this episode of the Warrior Academy podcast, Instructor Charlie shares an inspiring MatChat about persistence and resilience. Through the story of Kai, a determined young martial artist, listeners will learn valuable lessons on overcoming challenges, embracing mistakes, and developing strong character traits that extend beyond the dojo. Topics Discussed: • The story of Kai and his journey of persistence and resilience. • Embracing mistakes as learning opportunities and viewing them as stepping stones to improvement. • Setting small, achievable goals to make progress in martial arts...
info_outlineIn this enlightening episode, we are joined by a seasoned psychologist and psychotherapist Luz Maria, who delves into the intricacies of parenting and relationship dynamics. Together, we uncover the seven pervasive myths of parenting, offering fresh perspectives and practical advice for parents and couples striving to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.
• Introduction of our guest: a psychologist and psychotherapist specializing in coaching parents and couples.
• Personal journey of the guest: learning about psychology through parenting three children.
• The psychology behind relationships and the impact on parenting.
• Falling in love with a fantasy versus the reality of relationships.
• The importance of authenticity and attachment in human development.
• Balancing protection and empowerment in parenting.
• The role of parents as role models and the impact of their behavior on children.
• Addressing seven core myths about parenting.
• Myth 1: Parenting is about the child.
• Myth 2: A successful child is ahead of the curve.
• Myth 3: Working with kids for years doesn't necessarily prepare you for your own.
• Myth 4: Good parents are natural.
• Myth 5: Overprotective parenting creates resilient children.
• Myth 6: Successful children thrive in academics and sports.
• Myth 7: Children learn by instruction rather than by example.
• Understanding ADHD as an epigenetic condition and tips for parents.
• The concept of overprotection and its detrimental effects on children’s resilience.
• Emphasizing compassion and self-care for effective parenting.
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