The True Warrior: Be Selfish Now, So You Can Be Selfless Later with Josiah Kauffman
Release Date: 11/11/2025
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What happens when an artist chooses conviction over the "system"? In this episode of FULLSEND, we sit down with award-winning director Christopher Martini. With over 30 years in the industry and 70+ awards, Chris has navigated the grueling climb from NYU film student to directing some of the most talked-about documentaries of the decade, including The Relentless Patriot and the Donald Trump documentary The Man You Didn't Know. Chris pulls back the curtain on the "gatekeeping" of major film festivals, the spiritual crisis facing modern art, and the specific grit required to film a feature in...
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"When you make a movie, it’s like having a child... and the moment their livelihood is affected, you see another side of the parent." In the powerful conclusion of our 4-part series, director Christopher Martini reveals the fierce protectiveness required to lead a film set and the "30-year staircase" he climbed to reach the big screen. Christopher discusses the reality of the "disciplinarian leader"—why a director must occasionally be the "prick" to keep the ship on course and protect the story from those who lack the cojones to create their own. We dive into the necessity of failure, the...
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Christopher Martini (Part 3): The Spiritual Crisis, Heroic Journeys, and Hollywood’s Great Lie
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"God is missing from the fabric of modern storytelling, and that’s why so many movies leave you with an empty, rotten feeling." In Part 3 of our deep-dive series, director Christopher Martini shifts the focus from the technical to the transcendental. He explores the spiritual crisis in America and how the absence of faith has left a void in the arts. Christopher shares a powerful moment of witnessing a Lieutenant Colonel praying before a meal—a simple act that sparked a return to his own roots. We discuss the physiological and chemistry changes that occur during prayer and meditation, and...
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Christopher Martini (Part 2): Soup for the Soul – 75 Million Views, the Trump Family, and Hollywood’s Last Stand
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"Everything is an ingredient in the soup to make it the most amazing soup that changes people’s lives when they eat it." In Part 2 of our series, NYU-trained director Christopher Martini shares the "behind-the-lens" reality of filming global icons and the structural shifts dismantling the traditional film industry. Christopher discusses the incredible viral success of his documentary, The Man You Didn't Know, which amassed over 75 million views on X after being shared by figures like Elon Musk and Benny Johnson. We go behind the scenes of his unique choice to focus on the inner circle—Hulk...
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Christopher Martini (Part 1): The Director’s Cut – Adrenaline, Art, and Advocacy for Veterans
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Zenon Duda (Part 4): Choosing Life – IFS Therapy, The "Be Do Have" Framework, and Escaping the Mental Prison
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Zenon Duda (Part 3): The Matrix, Mentors, and the Architecture of the Soul
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Zenon Duda (Part 2): Burning Man, The Gear God, and the Mantra of Dune
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"The purpose of an artist is to make art, and the purpose of art is to make artists." In Part 2 of our 4-part series, sculptor and visionary Zenon Duda takes us deep into the dust of Black Rock City. Zen recounts his transformative journey to Burning Man, from riding 2,200 miles on a packed BMW motorcycle to volunteering as a "Gear God" in Center Camp. We explore the "visual crack" of the playa—from the Joffrey Ballet performing in the desert to 30-mph "kangaroo" stilt-runners—and how Zen eventually found his home within the Department of Public Works (DPW), the crew responsible for...
info_outlineWhat does it mean to be a Committed, Disciplined warrior in a world defined by chaos? In this powerful conclusion of our 3-part series, Special Operator Josiah Kauffman delivers a masterclass on balancing internal Growth with external Service.
Josiah dives deep into the mindset shifts required for the next generation of warriors and leaders, revealing how the new standards of Achievement demand more than just physical strength—they demand self-awareness, emotional Resilience, and a relentless pursuit of Purposeful action. He offers one unforgettable, Reinvention-focused piece of advice: Be selfish now, so you can be selfless later.
This episode is a roadmap to personal excellence, showing how controlling your inner world through Grit and Repetition can transform the impact you make on your family, community, and mission.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
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The Power of Pause: How temperance and discipline help prevent emotional spirals and improve leadership.
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The New Caliber of Excellence: What it takes to meet the higher standards of modern elite training programs.
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The Information vs. Action Paradox: Why action matters more than knowledge in achieving growth.
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The “Be Selfish Now” Doctrine: How protecting your time and energy prepares you to serve better later.
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The True Warrior’s Balance: How to merge grit, resilience, and family leadership without burning out.
Memorable Quotes:
“A lot going on in the world, but focus on you. What can you do for you to make yourself the best person you could possibly be in this world?” - Josiah Kauffman
“Have some temperance. We may not change the world, but we can start with our communities.” - Josiah Kauffman
“Stay vigilant. Don’t get caught up in everything—lock onto your mission.” - Josiah Kauffman
“Be selfish now, so you can be selfless later. Protect your time. Build those boundaries.” - Josiah Kauffman
“You have to be the leader and the warrior, and come home and hold the baby. That’s the true warrior.” - Josiah Kauffman
👤 Guest Information
Josiah Kauffman
Former Navy SEAL (BUD/S Class 265) | Founder of Warrior Calling | Mentor & Speaker
🔗 Website/Link: https://thewarriorcalling.com
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/josiahk265
⏳ Timestamps
00:00 Intro
01:05 Navigating Chaos
02:00 The Power of Temperance
03:07 The Spiral
04:05 The Warfighter’s Mission
05:27 Beyond Selection
07:26 The New Generation’s Advantage
08:25 The Information/Action Divide
09:30 New Test Gates
12:15 Reality Check
14:24 Be Selfish Now, Be Selfless Later
16:35 Don’t Burn Your Bridges
17:30 The Hardest Thing
18:25 The Calling
19:01 Closing Message & Gratitude
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