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105. Begin With WE: Kyle McDowell on Crushing Workplace Dysfunction and Leading with Principle

What's The Point? - Discover Your Purpose

Release Date: 07/24/2025

120. Building Something That Holds: Loryn and Edo Nalic on Partnership, Perseverance, and Belonging from Balkan Treat Box

What's The Point? - Discover Your Purpose

In this episode of What’s The Point?, I sit down with Loryn Nalic and Edo Nalic, partners in life and work and the force behind Balkan Treat Box, Telva, and the Ridge Room in St. Louis. Their story isn’t just about building award-winning restaurants. It’s about displacement, resilience, trust, and what happens when two people commit to solving problems together instead of letting adversity define them. Edo shares what it was like growing up in Bosnia during war, fleeing to Germany, living with uncertainty, and eventually coming to the United States alone. Loryn reflects on a very...

119. From Survival to Self-Respect: Jason Van Ruler on Healing Old Patterns

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In this episode of What’s the Point?, I sit down with Jason Van Ruler for an honest conversation about healing, responsibility, and the quiet work of becoming someone you can respect. Jason shares parts of his story that began in instability—growing up in a chaotic environment, learning early how to survive, and internalizing beliefs about worth that followed him into adulthood. Like many of us, he found himself repeating familiar patterns, even when they no longer served him. We talk about the turning point that came when Jason realized that awareness alone wasn’t enough. Wanting change...

118. The Secure Leader: How Attachment Shapes Trust, Leadership, and Purpose with Dr. Jaime Goff

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In this episode of What’s the Point?, host Bill Ellis sits down with Dr. Jaime Goff, founder of The Empathic Leader, LLC and author of The Secure Leader, for a powerful conversation on how our earliest emotional experiences quietly shape the way we lead. Drawing from her background in psychology, higher education leadership, and executive coaching, Dr. Goff explains how attachment patterns formed in childhood influence trust, control, communication, and emotional regulation in adulthood—especially in leadership roles. She shares personal stories from her own journey, including growing up...

117. From Experiments to Empowering Creatives: Kacper Staniul on Purpose, Curiosity, and Building What Matters

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In this episode of What’s the Point?, I talk with Kacper Staniul, founder and CEO of MyArchitectAI, about how purpose often reveals itself not through a single calling—but through curiosity, experimentation, and the discipline to keep building. Kacper’s journey began far from startups and artificial intelligence. As a university student in Poland studying materials science, he admits he had little sense of direction. What changed everything was exposure to the internet and the realization that learning wasn’t limited to formal education. That discovery sparked curiosity, and curiosity...

116. The Fight Within Us: Gavin Lance Topp on Purpose, Sobriety, and Becoming a Man

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115. From Struggle to Sustainability: How Purpose Takes Shape with Vanessa Thompson

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In this episode of What’s the Point?, I’m joined by Vanessa Thompson, whose story is a clear reminder that purpose doesn’t usually arrive fully formed. More often, it takes shape slowly—through struggle, uncertainty, and hard-earned clarity. Vanessa shares her journey through seasons of instability and questioning, moments where the path forward wasn’t obvious, and how those experiences ultimately reshaped how she thinks about work, success, and sustainability. We talk about how easy it is to chase outcomes without pausing to ask whether the life we’re building is actually...

114. Painting the World Our Children Will Inherit: Purpose, Art, and Community with Cbabi Bayoc

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In this episode of What’s the Point, I sit down with artist Cbabi Bayoc, a painter, muralist, illustrator, and author whose work is rooted in one powerful idea: painting the world he wants his children—and all of our children—to thrive in. Cbabi shares how his art has always been about people. Faces. Emotion. Community. From his early days studying at Grambling State University to drawing caricatures at Six Flags, he learned to observe humanity closely, to listen, and to let people teach him through their reactions. What could have been discouraging moments became lessons in humility,...

113. Grit, Grace, and Becoming: How Tracy Spears Found Strength Through Truth, Belonging & Leadership

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112. Healing Our Relationship With Nature: Purpose, Restoration, and Hope with Tim Christophersen

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111. Finding Meaning Through Resilience and Kindness with Noemi Beres

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In this episode of What’s the Point, I sit down with Noemi Beres, a woman whose life story is a powerful reflection of resilience, kindness, and purpose. From growing up in Hungary in a modest but deeply loving family, to becoming an entrepreneur, connector, and creative force, Noemi shares what keeps her going and how she discovered what truly matters. Noemi opens up about her childhood, shaped by hardworking parents and the strong values of Eastern Europe. She shares how her family’s history — stories of survival, perseverance, and hope — gave her the foundation to keep going, even...

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What if the real problem in corporate culture isn’t the strategy—but the absence of shared principles? In this powerful episode of What’s the Point?, Bill Ellis welcomes bestselling author, speaker, and former Fortune 10 executive Kyle McDowell. Kyle pulls back the curtain on what’s broken in today’s organizations—and how The 10 WEs framework can shift the culture from dysfunction to excellence. With nearly 30 years of experience leading massive teams, Kyle’s message is as bold as it is simple: begin with WE. Whether you’re leading thousands or just trying to be a better teammate, this conversation will challenge how you think about leadership, courage, and culture.

Kyle McDowell is a leadership coach, keynote speaker, and the author of the Wall Street Journal and USA Today bestseller Begin With WE: 10 Principles for Building and Sustaining a Culture of Excellence. After nearly three decades in corporate leadership roles—including at some of America’s biggest firms—Kyle now helps organizations dismantle dysfunction by putting people over ego and mission over metrics. His trademarked philosophy, The 10 WEs, is redefining how leaders create buy-in, accountability, and authenticity across every level of business.

Episode Highlights & Key Takeaways:

Begin With WE: Kyle introduces his leadership framework and why starting with a unified vision creates cultures of excellence.
From Fortune 10 to Full-Time Purpose: Kyle opens up about his decision to leave corporate life and step into his calling as a thought leader.
The First WE Principle: "We do the right thing. Always." Kyle shares why this one idea is the cornerstone for trust, safety, and transformation.
Courageous Candor: Kyle talks about moving past polite silence in the workplace and building teams that speak truth with respect.
The Power of Modeling: Leaders can’t just talk the talk—they must model behavior and create an environment of accountability.
It’s Not Soft, It’s Strong: Kyle breaks down why vulnerability and empathy in leadership are not weaknesses but the ultimate strengths.
One-on-One Moments Matter: Leadership isn’t about stage presence—it’s about the impact you have in your next conversation.

Kyle McDowell’s message is a wake-up call for leaders everywhere: Culture isn’t someone else’s job—it’s yours. His “10 WEs” offer more than a framework; they’re a mirror. One that reflects the kind of leader you are—and the one you’re capable of becoming. If you’re tired of watching dysfunction win, this episode will inspire you to lead with courage, clarity, and a whole lot more WE.

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Quick Episode Summary:

0:00 – Bill introduces Kyle and his mission to rewire corporate leadership
1:08 – Kyle shares his background, from leading tens of thousands to walking away from it all
3:44 – The origin of Begin With WE and how the “10 WEs” came to life
6:10 – The core dysfunctions Kyle saw over and over—and why no one was solving them
9:29 – “We do the right thing. Always.” Why principle-driven leadership builds unstoppable trust
13:00 – How Kyle’s team of 15,000 began to adopt a shared belief system
15:50 – What vulnerability in leadership really looks like—and how it unlocks deeper performance
18:45 – Kyle breaks down his journey from fear to courage in leaving a secure corporate life
22:00 – “We own our mistakes.” Why authenticity, not perfection, makes great leaders
24:55 – Leaders who hide behind silence—and how to bring truth back into the room
29:10 – Why great leadership is personal, not positional
31:30 – The message behind his book and how The 10 WEs can transform any team
33:45 – Kyle shares the moment he knew he was living out his calling
36:00 – The ripple effect of cultural change—from the break room to the boardroom
39:00 – Why Kyle believes impact, not income, is the true measure of success
41:00 – Final thoughts from Kyle on what it really means to lead with purpose

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