Stop Saying This to Neurodivergent Kids (It Contributes to Depression)
Release Date: 07/16/2025
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info_outlineAt 50 years old, I still feel physically sick when I hear these two words. My throat closes up, my chest tightens, and I'm instantly transported back to being that confused, overwhelmed neurodivergent kid who could never seem to get things right.
Those words? "Should be."
In this vulnerable and eye-opening episode, I share how "should be" thinking is accidentally creating mental health crises in our ADHD and autistic children - and what to do instead.
Whether you are a parent, therapist or educator, you're going to gain valuable insights on how to better support neurodivergent kids:)
Sincerely,
Holly Blanc Moses - The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist
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