THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST

Welcome to The Autism ADHD Podcast, your go-to podcast for neurodiversity-affirming, insightful, and practical support. We discuss mental health, emotional regulation, social interaction, academics, independence, and more! Whether you're a parent, therapist, or educator, you'll find knowledge, evidence-based tips, and real-life stories to empower Autistic and ADHD children and teens to live a life they love. Sincerely, Holly Blanc Moses - The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist

FREE RESOURCE to Increase Understanding & Support for Autistic & ADHD Students 09/18/2025

Telling My Parents, "I'm Autistic": Masking, Sensory Needs & Validation 09/10/2025

Telling My Parents, "I'm Autistic": Masking, Sensory Needs & Validation Hey friends—today I’m getting personal. I share what it was like to tell my dad and mom about my autism diagnosis at 50, how internalized ableism whispered “you’re not autistic enough,” and why believing kids is one of the most powerful ways to lower anxiety. We talk masking that looked like “success,” sensory differences that shaped my days, the “my regular” story (Hi, Dairy Queen), and the moment validation turned fear into relief. If you’re a parent, therapist, educator—or navigating your own neurodivergent identity—this one’s for you. What you’ll learn How internalized ableism shows up as “you seem so normal” and why it harms kids and adults The difference between looking fine and being okay: masking vs. mental health Sensory realities (sound, clothing, routines) that get mislabeled Why believing kids is a clinical + parenting superpower for reducing anxiety Simple ways families and professionals can respond with support ⭐️ Get your FREE GET TO KNOW MY CHILD SNAPSHOT Set your child up for success by providing essential information at a glance! This one-page snapshot takes less than 5 minutes to complete and helps anyone supporting your child, including camp counselors, coaches, teachers, therapists, sitters, and more. ⭐️ ⭐️ Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. ⭐️ Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. ❤️ You're invited to my FACEBOOK GROUPS. Can't wait to see you there:) Subscribe, Support & Share 📱 Follow: @theautismadhdpodcast on and 📺 Come on over to YouTube and check out Please leave a review! Your 5-star reviews help other families and professionals find The Autism ADHD Podcast. About Holly Blanc Moses Holly Blanc Moses is a neurodivergent psychologist, speaker, consultant, continuing education provider and host of The Autism ADHD Podcast, Autism ADHD TV and parent masterclasses. /episode/index/show/wireddifferently/id/38153300

Stop Meltdowns: Help Autistic & ADHD Kids Turn Avoidance into Confidence 08/27/2025

Stop Meltdowns: Help Autistic & ADHD Kids Turn Avoidance into Confidence Ever asked an autistic and/or adhd child to do something “simple” and they had a meltdown or shutdown? Does it seem like they'll do anything to avoid? In this episode, I'm breaking down the reasons behind the avoidance and I'll introduce you to The Doable Approach. It's my practical, neurodiversity-affirming approach that helps kids feel safe, understood, and capable. In this episode, you’ll learn: ✅ Why avoidance isn’t refusal ✅ The “invisible stacked blocks” that lead to meltdowns and shutdowns ✅ Practical ways to make tasks and time feel doable ✅ How to support mental health and increase confidence 🌟 This shift decreases anxiety, increases self-awareness and emotional regulation, and makes the impossible possible. Please take a listen and share:) ⭐️ Get your FREE GET TO KNOW MY CHILD SNAPSHOT Set your child up for success by providing essential information at a glance! This one-page snapshot takes less than 5 minutes to complete and helps anyone supporting your child, including camp counselors, coaches, teachers, therapists, sitters, and more. ⭐️ ⭐️ Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. ⭐️ Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. ❤️ You're invited to my FACEBOOK GROUPS. Can't wait to see you there:) Subscribe, Support & Share 📱 Follow: @theautismadhdpodcast on and 📺 Come on over to YouTube and check out Please leave a review! Your 5-star reviews help other families and professionals find The Autism ADHD Podcast. About Holly Blanc Moses Holly Blanc Moses is a neurodivergent psychologist, speaker, consultant, continuing education provider and host of The Autism ADHD Podcast, Autism ADHD TV and parent masterclasses. /episode/index/show/wireddifferently/id/37974090

From Academic Struggles to Social Challenges: Understanding & Supporting Processing Speed Differences 08/21/2025

From Academic Struggles to Social Challenges: Understanding & Supporting Processing Speed Differences Ever wonder why it takes three hours to do 20 minutes of homework? Or why they freeze up when you ask them to get dressed? Join me, Holly Blanc Moses, and special guest, Leila Beikmohomadi, as we take a deep dive into processing speed differences in ADHD and autistic children and teens. We also share our lived experience with processing speed differences! What Parents, Therapists & Educators Will Learn: What processing speed actually is (hint: it's not about intelligence) How slower processing speed shows up at home and school Why anxiety makes processing speed even slower The mental health impact on kids who feel constantly behind Practical accommodations and strategies that actually work Why "hurry up" never helps and what to do instead ⭐️ Get your FREE GET TO KNOW MY CHILD SNAPSHOT Set your child up for success by providing essential information at a glance! This one-page snapshot takes less than 5 minutes to complete and helps anyone supporting your child, including camp counselors, coaches, teachers, therapists, sitters, and more. ⭐️ ⭐️ Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. ⭐️ Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. ❤️ You're invited to my FACEBOOK GROUPS. Can't wait to see you there:) Subscribe & Support 📱 Follow: @theautismadhdpodcast on and Please leave a review! Your 5-star reviews help other families and professionals find The Autism ADHD Podcast. About Holly Blanc Moses Holly Blanc Moses is a neurodivergent psychologist, speaker, consultant, continuing education provider and host of The Autism ADHD Podcast, Autism ADHD TV and parent masterclasses. About Leila Beikmohomadi Leila Beikmohomadi is a neurodivergent psychologist who provides mental health therapy and evaluations at /episode/index/show/wireddifferently/id/37900260

The Hidden Executive Function That Affects Everything from Math to Meltdowns in Autistic and ADHD Kids 08/07/2025

The Hidden Executive Function That Affects Everything from Math to Meltdowns in Autistic and ADHD Kids Does your child, student or client constantly forgetting what you just said? Struggling to follow directions, stay organized, or complete schoolwork? You’re not alone — and it’s not a behavior problem. It may be lower working memory. In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I breaks down what working memory really is, why it’s often misunderstood, and how it impacts everything from transitions to conversations to homework. Most importantly — you'll walk away with compassionate, neurodiversity-affirming strategies that actually help at home, in the classroom, and beyond. You’ll Learn: What working memory is and why it’s so important How working memory fits into executive functioning Everyday examples of low working memory (and why they’re so frustrating) Why stress makes working memory even harder Components of the Working Memory How to support kids with low working memory at home and school Practical strategies that reduce overwhelm ⭐️ Get your FREE GET TO KNOW MY CHILD SNAPSHOT Set your child up for success by providing essential information at a glance! This one-page snapshot takes less than 5 minutes to complete and helps anyone supporting your child, including camp counselors, coaches, teachers, therapists, sitters, and more. ⭐️ ⭐️ Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. ⭐️ Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. ❤️ You're invited to my FACEBOOK GROUPS. Can't wait to see you there:) Subscribe & Support 📺 Watch on: 📱 Follow: @theautismadhdpodcast on and Please leave a review! Your 5-star reviews help other families and professionals find The Autism ADHD Podcast. About Holly Blanc Moses Holly Blanc Moses is a neurodivergent psychologist, speaker, consultant, continuing education provider and host of The Autism ADHD Podcast, Autism ADHD TV and parent masterclasses. /episode/index/show/wireddifferently/id/37715185

The Social Skill That Protects the Mental Health of Autistic & ADHD Kids 07/30/2025

The Social Skill That Protects the Mental Health of Autistic & ADHD Kids When your neurodivergent child, client or student faces social rejection, how do you protect their self-worth while still helping them grow? Join Dr. Daniel Wendler and me, Holly Blanc Moses, for game-changing mindset shifts that support mental health. This isn't about lowering expectations or avoiding social situations. It's about teaching kids to measure success by how authentically they show up, not by other people's responses. We discuss why this approach actually leads to better social connections AND stronger mental health. Whether your child, client, or student is struggling with friendship challenges, social anxiety, or that crushing feeling of "nobody likes me," this episode offers practical strategies you can use immediately! ⭐️ Get your FREE GET TO KNOW MY CHILD SNAPSHOT Set your child up for success by providing essential information at a glance! This one-page snapshot takes less than 5 minutes to complete and helps anyone supporting your child, including camp counselors, coaches, teachers, therapists, sitters, and more. ⭐️ ⭐️ Get your FREE BEHAVIOR DETECTIVE GUIDE To support neurodivergent children and teens, we need to understand their unique needs and honor their experiences. The Behavior Detective Guide breaks down information to help identify barriers and patterns, leading to neurodiversity affirming approaches. ⭐️ Get your FREE SOCIAL SUCCESS GUIDE Social interaction can be confusing and anxiety-provoking for neurodivergent children and teens. The Social Success Guide provides practical strategies to support social confidence and authenticity. ⭐️ Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. ⭐️ Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. ❤️ You're invited to my FACEBOOK GROUPS. Can't wait to see you there:) Subscribe & Support 📺 Watch on: 📱 Follow: @theautismadhdpodcast on and Please leave a review! Your 5-star reviews help other families and professionals find The Autism ADHD Podcast. About Holly Blanc Moses Holly Blanc Moses is a neurodivergent psychologist, speaker, consultant, continuing education provider and host of The Autism ADHD Podcast, Autism ADHD TV and parent masterclasses. About Dr. Daniel Wendler Dr. Daniel Wendler is an autistic clinical psychologist, two-time TEDx speaker, and bestselling author. He's the co-author of "Neurodiversity and the Myth of Normal" and has spoken on neurodiversity to leading organizations including Google, Accenture, and Harvard. His expertise has been featured by the American Psychological Association, Bloomberg Magazine, and the New York Sun. Website: /episode/index/show/wireddifferently/id/37597130

Stop Saying This to Neurodivergent Kids (It Contributes to Depression) 07/16/2025

Stop Saying This to Neurodivergent Kids (It Contributes to Depression) At 50 years old, I still feel physically sick when I hear these two words. My throat closes up, my chest tightens, and I'm instantly transported back to being that confused, overwhelmed neurodivergent kid who could never seem to get things right. Those words? "Should be." In this vulnerable and eye-opening episode, I share how "should be" thinking is accidentally creating mental health crises in our ADHD and autistic children - and what to do instead. Whether you are a parent, therapist or educator, you're going to gain valuable insights on how to better support neurodivergent kids:) Sincerely, Holly Blanc Moses - The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist ⭐️ Get your FREE GET TO KNOW MY CHILD SNAPSHOT Set your child up for success by providing essential information at a glance! This one-page snapshot takes less than 5 minutes to complete and helps anyone supporting your child, including camp counselors, coaches, teachers, therapists, sitters, and more. • ⭐️ ⭐️ Get your FREE BEHAVIOR DETECTIVE GUIDE To support neurodivergent children and teens, we need to understand their unique needs and honor their experiences. The Behavior Detective Guide breaks down information to help identify barriers and patterns, leading to neurodiversity affirming approaches. • • • ⭐️ Get your FREE SOCIAL SUCCESS GUIDE Social interaction can be confusing and anxiety-provoking for neurodivergent children and teens. The Social Success Guide provides practical strategies to support social confidence and authenticity. • • • ⭐️ Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. ⭐️ Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. ❤️ You're invited to my FACEBOOK GROUPS. Can't wait to see you there:) ➡️ ➡️ ❤️ Thanks for sharing this episode and supporting The Autism ADHD Podcast! /episode/index/show/wireddifferently/id/37423335

Why Neurodivergent Kids Stay in Their Comfort Zone & How to Help Them Step Out 07/09/2025

Why Neurodivergent Kids Stay in Their Comfort Zone & How to Help Them Step Out Welcome to The Autism ADHD Podcast. I'm glad you joined me today because my guest, Reid Miles, host of "Inside the Asperger's Studio," and I are talking about why it's so hard to move outside our comfort zone. We are also discussing how to move outside the zone with more comfort and confidence. Some of the topics we are covering are: Why forcing neurodivergent kids out of their comfort zone backfires The real reason behind the "I don't want to" responses How to use "starter sentences" to understand your child's fears The anchor person strategy for building confidence Small, doable steps that actually work Planning strategies for overwhelming environments Why shared interests make all the difference After you take a listen, please share this episode! We appreciate you helping to spread the word about neurodiversity-affirming approaches:) Sincerely, Holly Blanc Moses - The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist ⭐️ Get your FREE GET TO KNOW MY CHILD SNAPSHOT Set your child up for success by providing essential information at a glance! This one-page snapshot takes less than 5 minutes to complete and helps anyone supporting your child, including camp counselors, coaches, teachers, therapists, sitters, and more. • ⭐️ ⭐️ Get your FREE BEHAVIOR DETECTIVE GUIDE To support neurodivergent children and teens, we need to understand their unique needs and honor their experiences. The Behavior Detective Guide breaks down information to help identify barriers and patterns, leading to neurodiversity affirming approaches. • • • ⭐️ Get your FREE SOCIAL SUCCESS GUIDE Social interaction can be confusing and anxiety-provoking for neurodivergent children and teens. The Social Success Guide provides practical strategies to support social confidence and authenticity. • • • ⭐️ Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. ⭐️ Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. ❤️ You're invited to my FACEBOOK GROUPS. Can't wait to see you there:) ➡️ ➡️ ❤️ Thanks for sharing this episode and supporting The Autism ADHD Podcast! ➡️ Mentions - Dr. Temple Grandin, Dr. Edward Hallowell and Adrienne Wilkinson /episode/index/show/wireddifferently/id/37323945

Hold On Tight: 5 Must Know Tips For Parenting Neurodivergent Children 07/02/2025

Hold On Tight: 5 Must Know Tips For Parenting Neurodivergent Children I'm honored to interview Jan Stewart, author of "Hold on Tight." In today's episode, she shares her powerful journey raising two neurodivergent children and provides five essential tips that every parent of ADHD and autistic kids needs to hear. Jan's wisdom comes from decades of advocacy, partnership-building, and learning to trust her instincts while navigating systems that often misunderstand our children. After you take a listen, please share:) Sincerely, Holly Blanc Moses - The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist ⭐️ ⭐️ Get your FREE BEHAVIOR DETECTIVE GUIDE To support neurodivergent children and teens, we need to understand their unique needs and honor their experiences. The Behavior Detective Guide breaks down information to help identify barriers and patterns, leading to neurodiversity affirming approaches. • • • ⭐️ Get your FREE SOCIAL SUCCESS GUIDE Social interaction can be confusing and anxiety-provoking for neurodivergent children and teens. The Social Success Guide provides practical strategies to support social confidence and authenticity. • • • ⭐️ Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. ⭐️ Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. ❤️ You're invited to my FACEBOOK GROUPS. Can't wait to see you there:) ➡️ ➡️ ❤️ Thanks for sharing this episode and supporting The Autism ADHD Podcast! 🙋🏻‍♀️ /episode/index/show/wireddifferently/id/37251985

Reactive to Regulated: How Neurodivergent Moms Can Stay Calm In The Chaos & Avoid Burnout 06/18/2025

Reactive to Regulated: How Neurodivergent Moms Can Stay Calm In The Chaos & Avoid Burnout In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Kate Moryoussef, host of the award-winning ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast, to discuss the unique challenges faced by neurodivergent mothers. Both diagnosed in their 40s, Kate and I share authentic insights about self-acceptance, burnout prevention, and how to be the calm anchor for our families. Key Topics Discussed The grief and relief that comes with a late ADHD diagnosis Why self-compassion must come before self-acceptance Recognizing the subtle signs of approaching burnout How ADHD presents differently across life stages and hormonal changes The importance of being the calm anchor in dysregulated family moments Practical burnout prevention strategies for ADHD women Breaking free from societal expectations and "shoulds" The ripple effect of self-care on family dynamics Sincerely, ❤️ Holly Blanc Moses, The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist ⭐️ - ⭐️ Get your FREE BEHAVIOR DETECTIVE GUIDE To support neurodivergent children and teens, we need to understand their unique needs and honor their experiences. The Behavior Detective Guide breaks down information to help identify barriers and patterns, leading to neurodiversity affirming approaches. • • • ⭐️ Get your FREE SOCIAL SUCCESS GUIDE Social interaction can be confusing and anxiety-provoking for neurodivergent children and teens. The Social Success Guide provides practical strategies to support social confidence and authenticity. • - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/pl/276666 • - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/pl/271718 • - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/pl/271424 ⭐️ Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. ⭐️ Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. ❤️ You're invited to my FACEBOOK GROUPS. Can't wait to see you there:) ➡️ Parents, come on over and join the Autism ADHD Facebook Group for Parents https://www.facebook.com/groups/WiredDifferentlyGroup ➡️ Therapists & educators, join the Facebook Group for professionals https://www.facebook.com/groups/professionalsforwdchildren ❤️ Thanks for sharing this episode and supporting The Autism ADHD Podcast! 🙋🏻‍♀️ /episode/index/show/wireddifferently/id/37041215