How To Stop Pain from Turning Into Suffering
WITH LOVE, DANIELLE
A question we all want the answer to: If we can’t rush the healing, how do we handle the pain? Learning to not push away my pain—the physical and emotional, has been one of my greatest-hardest-most luminous learnings. It’s walking toward Acceptance––capital “A” Acceptance, the Soul Quality, And it really has upleveled my LIFE. Here’s a highlight from our HOW TO HEAL FOR REAL WORKSHOP. V.S., our metaphysical practitioner and I built out a teaching about resistance and dis-ease. This was my most highly attended and embraced class to date. I’ll walk you through a powerful...
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Are You Getting “More Spiritual”? 8 Beautiful Indications.
WITH LOVE, DANIELLE
Hi Friends,
I talk about this is consciousness circles AND business masterminds:
Are there metrics for enlightenment?
Yes, yes there are! It’s like being spiritually cool…which comes with a heap less ego. You might not be saintly or levitating, but…like…
- You don't need to defend yourself after every argument. (Or do you? ☺️)
- You don't have to go to everything you’re invited to. (Right?)
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10 Ways That Being Softer Makes You More Powerful
WITH LOVE, DANIELLE
My Friends,
Inner battlefields (which are so painful.). Global battlefields (too many to count.) Bravado that’s cruisin’ for a Dark Night of The Soul. Adrenal fatigue and fried nervous systems.
Look where hardlines and forcing ourselves to endure have gotten us.
Keep in mind: Antidotes are the OPPOSITE of the poison. So…
I’m building a strong case for softening.
These 10 Ways That Being Softer Makes You More Powerful a
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Why you should NOT trust your gut
WITH LOVE, DANIELLE
I’m never contrarian for the sake of it. I’m good to go with the conventional flow. But not today, friends, not today! We have higher realms of consciousness to traverse. And those higher states are not in our guts. or lower chakras, or low vibe stories from our past.
Old adage: "Trust your gut.”
New way: Nah.
Pay attention to your gut, but don’t let it make your plans.
There’s both spiritual and scientific sense to this.
In
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Do Overs + What’s in My Bag? It’s Q+Awesome!
WITH LOVE, DANIELLE
Friends…
After 4 weeks of the Healing With Anxiety series, maybe we need a palate cleanser, yes?
Like so:
If you could do a “do over” what would it be?
Talk about starting over after divorce.
What’s in your bag?
What’s in your fridge?
Why do you think our peers aren't’ talking about… certain world issues? And how to shift?
Lite, deep, lite, lite, and way deep.
I’m so glad
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Signs That You’re High Functioning... But Anxious
WITH LOVE, DANIELLE
Oh hi, high achiever!
I know you can do ALL OF IT. You ALWAYS pull it OFF.
But… at what cost? Crappy sleep, anxiety meds, cortisol levels whacked, extra pounds, skimmed savings, minimal alone time… too much alone time?
Let’s heart to heart this out. Because this is a collective story and we need to rewrite the script.
WITH LOVE, DANIELLE Eps 105 is for the polished, solid, achieving, doing, driven, types who are also actually the worrying, perp
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How These Spiritual Teachers Deal With Anxiety
WITH LOVE, DANIELLE
Hello Friends on the path…
I’ve known about the struggles of some of my favorite philosophers…Krishnamurti suffered from terrible migraines. Ram Dass had a massive stroke. Yogananda had crippling pain from apparently taking on the karma of his devotees.
Anyone in a physical body suffers. Facts.
But the accounts I found most helpful were those of teachers who struggled with anxiety and panic. Teachers of mind mastery who had to face these
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6 Ways to Show Your Anxiety Love
WITH LOVE, DANIELLE
Charlie Brown's famous words "My anxieties have anxieties!" is a reality for people with anxiety “disorders.” Anticipating, forecasting and predicting …worry, unease and nervousness. All of which create symptoms that create a fear that the symptoms will last forever.
This is part 2 in my 4 part series on Healing With Anxiety and I embed an anxiety quiz for you in this episode (#103). We’ll see which lifestyle areas have some anxiety chatter for you.
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7 Types of Anxiety and Ways to Heal
WITH LOVE, DANIELLE
Our 4 part series on How To Heal with Anxiety starts here, with Love.
With some help from conventional sources, the metaphysical practitioner on our team, V.S., and my own experiences with anxiety and healing, I’m setting the stage for us to look at basic anxiety “disorders” and to move toward healing measures.
You will see yourself, and/or your loved ones and the world at large in this list of anxieties types.
NAMING struggles is an important part of healing,
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4 things to know BEFORE you say affirmations
WITH LOVE, DANIELLE
What part of you is saying your affirmations? Your fearful part, or your faithful self?
Who's doing the affirming?
I’ve been going off about the down-side of self help affirmations for yuh-earrs. But complaining is a kind of affirmation, inn’t? So… I’m shifting into solutions. But in order to get to that higher consciousness, we’ve got to unpack the unconscious stuff.
There’s a sequencing for creating healthier affirmations. I unpack each of these tenets/directives:<
info_outlineToday is a good one. I’ve been waiting to deliver this for a while and because I think there’s a missing piece in the current cultural conversation around the nervous system which is… the connection between our dysregulation and the quality of our relationships.
A nervous system that’s nourished, regulated and healthy can roll with ALL KINDS OF EXPERIENCES. We can be flexible, spacious, and tolerant. Way less… triggerable and much more… Loving.
When we’re overly stressed, under-resourced, and dysregulated (anyone?) relational symptoms ––in addition to physical symptoms, will start to show up for us.
If you’re agitated and unpleasable… if you want to hard bail on commitments… if you’re emotionally shut down… if you can’t even name what you’re feeling… then… it’s all kinds of messy and unfulfilling.
In Episode 95 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE, I’m walking us through the 8 signs of dysregulation in relationships, PLUS! 8 signs we’re relating from inner balance:
- How to know when you’re off base. In wild times like these, we’re normalizing abnormal conditions.
- How getting regulated helps us stop taking everything personally.
- How imbalance actually brings us more into balance. All reactivity is an opportunity to see what’s playing out under our hood.
- The indicators that we are relating from inner balance, from the heart center… and why Love is the most powerful, immediate regulator of the nervous system.
We heal through relationships. Repeat: all relationships are vehicles for healing.
When we see how our nervous system influences our interactions––family, partners, friends, cultures—then we will take a more urgent and spiritual approach to taking care of ourselves. And THEN we can move from friction to freedom.
Especially with the holidays at hand… please listen in.
We show up, we hold space. We hold hands. And we keep going.
Mentioned in this episode:
- The teachings in this session are from THE NOURISH SYSTEM program. Nourish system regulation is so doable. I’ve created a simple, flexible methodology and structure to move you towards small acts of healing every day.
- HEART CENTERED MEMBERSHIP. Community, 2 Live Calls/month + access to our ever expanding library of ALL classes, spiritual practices, and meditations! Come in, be honoured, and exhale.
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