Complicated Kids
Complicated Kids is a podcast about why raising kids can feel like an extreme sport sometimes. Join me to unpack all of it, figure out who needs what, and help your family thrive.
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Preparing for College with Matt Douglas
05/07/2025
Preparing for College with Matt Douglas
Teen and young adult mentor, Matt Douglas, joined me on this episode of the Complicated Kids Podcast for a deep dive into the “other” end of the parenting spectrum—college applications, executive function, and the tricky transition from high school to young adulthood. We talk about how neurodivergent teens—those with ADHD, autism, anxiety, or learning differences—face added layers of complexity in the college process, and how parents can support without overstepping. To find out more about Matt, visit or check out his book at . About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Everything Makes Sense with The Occuplaytional Therapist with Kelsie Olds
04/29/2025
Everything Makes Sense with The Occuplaytional Therapist with Kelsie Olds
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I’m joined by the incredible occupational therapist Kelsie Olds for a deep and lively conversation about what it really means when we say "everything everybody does makes sense." Kelsie brings her global OT experience—from the U.S. to the U.K. to her new adventure in Australia—and a refreshingly human-centered approach to child development. We dig into what “behavior” really tells us, why labels like “aggressive” or “bad” aren’t helpful, and how curiosity, specificity, and compassion can transform the way we understand and support kids—especially our more complicated ones. To find out more about Kelsie, visit her website at . About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Autistic Masking with Jenn Glacel
04/22/2025
Autistic Masking with Jenn Glacel
In this episode of the Complicated Kids Podcast, I’m joined once again by the brilliant Jenn Glacel to talk about the often misunderstood concept of masking, particularly in autistic folks. We dig into the unconscious ways masking shows up as a survival response, how it begins in infancy, and how it can shape a child’s (and adult’s!) sense of self. Jenn shares her personal experience of exhaustion and discovery, and we explore what it means to unmask and reconnect with the body’s sensory experience. To find out more about Jenn, visit her website at . About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Talk About Sex with ND Kids with Amy Lang
04/15/2025
Talk About Sex with ND Kids with Amy Lang
In this episode, I sat down with Amy Lang, a longtime sex ed and parent educator, to talk about one of the most awkward—and most essential—topics parents face: talking to our kids about sex. Amy shared her own moment of panic when her five-year-old asked a completely innocent question, and how that moment shaped her entire approach to sex education for neurodivergent kids. We covered everything from using correct anatomical terms with toddlers to setting the stage for healthy, safe, and open conversations about consent, boundaries, relationships, and identity. If you’ve ever wondered when (and how!) to start talking to your child about sex, this episode is for you. To find out more about Amy, visit her website at . About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Attunement
04/08/2025
Attunement
Welcome to the 100th episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast where I’ll talk about one of the most foundational aspects of parenting—attunement. What is attunement? Why does it matter? And how does it shape our relationships with our kids from the very beginning? We’ll explore the neurobiological, emotional, and practical sides of this essential process, and I’ll walk you through what attunement looks like in everyday parenting. Whether you’re raising an orchid child, a quirky kid, or just trying to navigate the daily ups and downs, this episode will help you understand why connection always comes before correction. About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Autism Integration with Suzy Miller
04/01/2025
Autism Integration with Suzy Miller
In this episode, I’m joined by Suzy Miller, a former pediatric speech-language pathologist whose life took an unexpected turn when a 4-year-old child with autism opened her eyes to an entirely new way of understanding communication. Suzy shares her incredible journey from traditional therapy to becoming a telepathic communicator and multidimensional seer. We get into some fascinating territory as we talk about light bodies, the integration of spirit and physical form, and how neurodivergent kids often experience the world on a whole different frequency. To find out more about Suzy, visit her website at . About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Why You Need a Parent Coach with Lisa Chan
03/25/2025
Why You Need a Parent Coach with Lisa Chan
Parents are essential to children’s developmental process, especially when those children are dealing with challenges like ADHD, autism, and sensory processing issues. During this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast I dive into the essential role of parents alongside occupational therapist-turned-parent coach, Lisa Chan. We discuss why therapy alone isn’t enough, and why parents need to be empowered with the right tools to support their kids at home. We explore how children's nervous systems respond to stress, why logic doesn’t work during meltdowns, and how to rebuild connection after cycles of conflict. To find out more about Lisa, visit her website at . About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Parenting a Child with Anxiety with Nicole Weston
03/18/2025
Parenting a Child with Anxiety with Nicole Weston
Nicole Weston is a parent coach who specializes in supporting families of children with anxiety and OCD. Nicole shares her personal journey of navigating her daughter’s mental health crisis, which led her to deeply reconsider traditional parenting approaches. In this episode of the Complicated Kids Podcast, we explore the impact of sensitive nervous systems, the importance of adapting environments to suit those needs, and Nicole’s personal healing process through creativity and mindfulness. We also chat about recognizing early signs of anxiety, building emotional resilience, and supporting children through challenges with compassion and understanding. To find out more about Nicole, visit her website at . Information about the next Forces of Nature Retreat below: Forces of Nature Retreat A Weekend of Strength, Creativity & Renewal Date: April 26th - April 27th, 2025 Location: Culpeper, VA (Near Shenandoah National Park) For parents raising neurodivergent children, life can feel like a constant storm—beautiful, powerful, and at times overwhelming. The Forces of Nature Retreat is a space to pause, breathe, and reconnect with your own inner resilience. Set against the stunning backdrop of Shenandoah National Park, this retreat offers a blend of adventure, creativity, and community to help you rediscover balance. About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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What Is Autism with Diane Hennacy Powell
03/11/2025
What Is Autism with Diane Hennacy Powell
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I speak with Dr. Diane Hennacy Powell, a neuropsychiatrist with extensive experience in autism research. We chat about the complexities of communication for non-speaking autistic individuals, discussing methods like spelling to communicate and the misconceptions around these techniques. Dr. Powell highlights how neurological differences can impact motor control and communication, while I share about my own transformative experience witnessing a non-speaking child express themselves. Together, we explore the importance of better diagnostic tools, including neuroimaging, to better understand and support these individuals. To find out more about Diane, visit her website at . About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Backwards Diagnosis with Lisa Kays
03/04/2025
Backwards Diagnosis with Lisa Kays
Clinical social worker, Lisa Kays, joined me on the Complicated Kids Podcast to discuss her (super interesting) concept of “diagnosing backwards.” Lisa shares how therapists often see anxious or overwhelmed parents in therapy but may overlook underlying neurodivergence or developmental differences in the child that might be driving a parent’s distress. We talk about how diagnosing parents without considering what’s happening with their children can lead to ineffective support and even harm. Lisa and I explore the importance of curiosity over judgment when it comes to children’s behaviors, the systemic challenges parents face in getting accurate diagnoses, and how professionals can better support families. To find out more about Lisa, visit her website at www.lisakays.com. About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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ADHD and Girls with Gilly Kahn
02/18/2025
ADHD and Girls with Gilly Kahn
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Gilly Kahn, a clinical psychologist specializing in neurodiversity and emotional dysregulation, particularly in teens. We dive into the intersection of ADHD, emotional regulation, and gender bias in diagnosis—especially how the medical system often overlooks girls and women. Gilly shares insights from her upcoming book, Allow Me to Interrupt, which explores how ADHD manifests differently in women and why so many go undiagnosed. We also discuss the impact of hormonal fluctuations on ADHD symptoms, the systemic gender bias in medical research, and how parents can better support their neurodiverse teens. To learn more about Dr. Khan, visit her website at www.drgillykahn.com. About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Parenting Kids with Invisible Neurological Differences with Kari Baker
02/12/2025
Parenting Kids with Invisible Neurological Differences with Kari Baker
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I sit down with author Kari Baker to talk about her book, Finding Kind: Discovering Hope and Purpose While Loving Kids with Invisible Neurological Differences. Kari shares her personal journey—from a career in finance to becoming an advocate for neurodivergent kids—and how raising her son changed her entire perspective on parenting. We dive into a powerful story from her book about her son's long-distance swim challenge, unpacking what it means to support our kids without letting our own fears hold them back. We also explore the role of shame in parenting, the unexpected paths our kids take us on, and how shifting our mindset can help us celebrate their unique strengths. To find out more about Kari and her journey, visit her website at kariabaker.com or justkindfamilies.com.
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Siblings with Zara Waldman DeLuca
02/04/2025
Siblings with Zara Waldman DeLuca
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I sit down with Zara Waldman DeLuca, a professor, speech therapist, and advocate for siblings of individuals with disabilities. Together, we explore the unique dynamics of sibling relationships in families navigating disability. Zara shares insights from her personal and professional experience, emphasizing how siblings can be both advocates and companions, often shaping a more inclusive and resilient family life. Through heartfelt stories—like a sibling finding a creative way to connect with their nonverbal sister—Zara highlights the profound joy, challenges, and learning opportunities these relationships bring. To find out more about Zara, check out her Instagram, @HeySibSister. You can also find out more about the Sibling Support Project at . About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Positive Discipline with Julianne Reilly
01/28/2025
Positive Discipline with Julianne Reilly
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I welcome Julianne Reilly, a clinical social worker with deep expertise in working with parents, educators, and children. Together, we chat about the concept of Positive Discipline, a framework rooted in Adlerian psychology. Julianne shares how it emphasizes belonging, significance, and mutual respect while equipping parents to navigate challenges with kindness and firmness. Our conversation touches on real-life parenting moments—tantrums, meltdowns, and setting boundaries—and explores the internal work parents must do to model respect and connection. We unpack why managing unpleasant emotions is key for both children and adults, and how parents can shift their perspectives to foster growth and resilience in their families. To find out more about Julianne, visit her website at www.juliannereilly.com. About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Masking with Sara Bybee Fisk
01/21/2025
Masking with Sara Bybee Fisk
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I sit down with coach and educator Sara Bybee Fisk to explore masking—where it comes from, how it affects our children, and how it shows up in parenting. We unpack how kids are taught from a young age to suppress their true selves to meet adult expectations, often at the cost of their own dignity and nervous system regulation. Sara shares powerful insights about the masking behaviors we see in both neurotypical and neurodivergent kids, and we talk about ways parents can create more compassionate, dignified interactions with their children. To find out more about Sara, visit her website, . About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel feels valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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The Seriousness of Play and Early Childhood Education with Dan Wuori
01/14/2025
The Seriousness of Play and Early Childhood Education with Dan Wuori
This episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast discusses the intricacies of early childhood education with guest Dan Wouri, author of The Daycare Myth. We have a dynamic conversation about the disconnection between what science tells us about early development and how public policy often fails to reflect those insights. Together, we explore the importance of nurturing interactions, the dangers of pushing academic expectations onto young children, and how current childcare systems can either support or hinder brain development. Packed with thought-provoking insights and actionable ideas, this episode offers parents, educators, and policymakers a fresh perspective on what it truly means to support children in their most formative years. To find out more about Dan, visit . About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at . Complicated Kids Resources and Links: 🌎 📅Schedule a free intro call at . 📺Subscribe to Gabriele's YouTube Channel 👾Grab Tell the Story - my powerful anti-anxiety tool for kids ➡️ ➡️ ➡️ 🌺Grab our free checklist to find out if you're raising an Orchid Kid
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Dyslexia and the Science of Reading with Daniela Feldhausen
01/07/2025
Dyslexia and the Science of Reading with Daniela Feldhausen
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I explore the world of reading challenges and dyslexia with guest Daniela Feldhausen, founder of Kids Up Reading Coaches. We chat about why some kids struggle with reading and spelling, the warning signs for parents to watch for, and effective strategies to help kids build strong foundational reading skills. Daniela shares insights on the importance of phonics and phonological awareness, demystifies common misconceptions about reading instruction, and demonstrates practical tools like the Orton-Gillingham blending board. To find out more about Daniela, visit her website at
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Talking Executive Function Skills with Carrie Bonnet
12/10/2024
Talking Executive Function Skills with Carrie Bonnet
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I sit down with executive function coach Carrie Bonnett to explore the essential brain skills that help us get things done—like planning, time management, and emotional regulation. Carrie explains how executive function challenges impact kids, teens, and even adults, emphasizing the need to explicitly teach these skills through practice and repetition. We discuss the role of parents and educators in supporting skill-building, how to shift from blame to understanding, and why tools like planners require guidance to be effective. To find out more about Carrie, visit her website at .
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Circumstances Are Neutral with Penny Williams
12/03/2024
Circumstances Are Neutral with Penny Williams
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I dive into the concept of the neutrality of circumstances with guest Penny Williams. We explore how circumstances themselves—things happening in the world—are neutral and only gain meaning through the thoughts and emotions we assign to them. Drawing on personal experiences and insights, Penny discusses how reframing our perspectives can transform our reactions, especially as parents of neurodivergent kids. She challenges us to examine our beliefs, embrace the full spectrum of human emotions, and cultivate a mindset of agency and joy—without resorting to toxic positivity. To find out more about Penny, purchase the books she has written and get insights on what is coming next for Penny, visit her website at .
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Jaclyn Pederson on Pediatric Feeding Disorder
11/26/2024
Jaclyn Pederson on Pediatric Feeding Disorder
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I sit down with Jaclyn Pederson, CEO of Feeding Matters, to unpack the complexities of pediatric feeding disorders (PFD). Jaclyn shares how Feeding Matters supports families and educates professionals on issues that go far beyond picky eating—touching on medical, developmental, and psychosocial aspects of feeding challenges. We dive into the importance of codifying feeding issues under the PFD framework, the hurdles families face in accessing care, and why understanding feeding development holistically is crucial. Find out more about Jaclyn by visiting her website at .
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Staying Calm When It's the Holiday Season
11/19/2024
Staying Calm When It's the Holiday Season
I'm here solo today to talk about holiday survival tips. First, start with YOURSELF. Be kind and compassionate with yourself: you're allowed. Prioritize your nervous system so that you can co-regulate with your kiddos. Next, what accommodations might your kids need in order to make it through changes in food, routine and personnel? Can you set those up in advance? Sending you so much love for this holiday season.
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Staying Calm When the World is Falling Apart Around You with Penny Williams
11/12/2024
Staying Calm When the World is Falling Apart Around You with Penny Williams
In this episode of the Complicated Kids Podcast, I’m joined by Penny Williams to explore how external stressors—like natural disasters—can heighten family stress and impact our kids' behavior. We dive into how staying mindful of our own responses and developing emotional resilience can make a big difference, especially when supporting children who need extra patience and understanding. This episode sheds light on practical strategies for self-regulation and helping kids feel more secure, even when life gets overwhelming. To find out more about Penny and how she may be able to help you, visit her website at .
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Why Kids Are Inflexible with Claire Lerner
11/05/2024
Why Kids Are Inflexible with Claire Lerner
Claire Lerner came back to the Complicated Kids Podcast to talk about inflexibility in kids. We talked about so much more! Parents and educators alike will want to listen for scripts to use when kids are having a hard time and when they're testing limits. Turns out: limits are loving and boundaries are scaffolds for learning resilience and flexibility! Did you know?! Have a listen. To find out more about Claire, visit www.lernerchilddevelopment.com.
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Redefining Success for Complicated Kids with Dr. Emily King
10/29/2024
Redefining Success for Complicated Kids with Dr. Emily King
In this week’s Complicated Kids Podcast I am joined by Dr. Emily King with some deep insights for parents, teachers, and therapists on supporting neurodivergent kids. Dr. King is a child psychologist specializing in neurodivergent kids and teens. We tackle key challenges, like modifying the definition of success, accommodating different learning styles, and supporting asynchronous development. We provide practical strategies for adults to better understand and assist children in thriving on their own terms, breaking away from rigid cultural expectations of success. To find out more about Dr. King, visit her website at .
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Nervous System Matters with Veronica Alkon
10/22/2024
Nervous System Matters with Veronica Alkon
Veronica Alkon knew that early intervention was working for her son. But she also knew that if she could get "underneath" his neurological differences, that therapy would go more smoothly. Join me and Veronica to talk about her experience with Musgatova Neurosensorimotor Reflex Integration Method and how she now thinks about human nervous systems. We had some issues with connectivity, so bear with the sound issues for this important conversation. To find out more about Veronica, visit her website at .
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The Importance of Friendship with Caroline Turner
10/15/2024
The Importance of Friendship with Caroline Turner
In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I sit down with Caroline Turner, a social worker passionate about supporting children with autism, to talk about Quirky Buds. Turner's project, Quirky Buds, is a platform that she created to help neurodiverse individuals find friends based on shared interests. Turner explains the inspiration behind Quirky Buds and the need for creating community connections tailored for individuals who often have unique and specific interests (think: elevators or Minecraft). Find out more about Caroline by visiting www.quirkybuds.com.
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Bringing Your Concerns to the Pediatrician with Christi Hay
10/08/2024
Bringing Your Concerns to the Pediatrician with Christi Hay
Christi Hay, a pediatrician in private practice, joins me on the podcast today to share tips for how parents can partner with their pediatrician -- even when they don't have a lot of time. We also talk about brains, talking to kids about their brains, how to celebrate brain-based differences and see the person in front of us. To find out more about Christi, visit her website at .
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How To Get Kids to Eat Healthier Food with Sarice Holley
10/01/2024
How To Get Kids to Eat Healthier Food with Sarice Holley
Sarice Holley stopped by to chat about how to get kids to make healthier food choices. Hint: it involves adults providing fruits and veggies instead of snack bags and treats. And, it also involves allowing children to be the boss of their own meals through simple strategies. To learn more about Sarice, visit her website at .
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Anxiety and the School Year
09/24/2024
Anxiety and the School Year
Are you confused about why your kiddo was doing fine at the beginning of the year, but now seems to be melting down more often? In this solo episode, I'll break down why that might be happening and give you some practical strategies for what to do to help your complicated kid through this challenge.
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Breath Taking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams and Broken Genes with Jessica Fein
09/17/2024
Breath Taking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams and Broken Genes with Jessica Fein
Breath Taking: a Memoir of Family, Dreams and Broken Genes by Jessica Fein is the moving story about a mother navigating her daughter's rare, life-threatening illness. Jessica came to share perspectives and lessons learned on the Complicated Kids Podcast. Her story highlights the strength required to face adversity as well as how she advocated and navigated all the twists and turns along the way. Join us for his powerful conversation. Find out more about Jessica and her journey by visiting her website, .
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