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S18 E14 - Prophetic Motherhood 05/04/2026

S18 E14 - Prophetic Motherhood In this episode, we reflect on the beautiful call of women to prophetic motherhood. We talk about how Our Lady models for us a motherhood that speaks life and calls forth goodness to all those she encounters. We also ponder what it means to be a spiritual mother, how Mary can help heal our wounded experiences of motherhood, and the difference between affirmations and prophetic words. As Pentecost draws near, we invite you to ask for Our Lady’s intercession to prepare your heart for a fresh outpouring of grace and to help you become a woman who brings life wherever she goes. Heather’s One Thing - A at Franciscan University Heather’s Other One Thing - St. Anne’s Women’s Conference in Dallas, TX and the WWP Flourish Conference in St. Louis Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Everyone Getting Married this Summer Sister Miriam’s Other One Thing - Michelle’s One Thing - NFL Draft Michelle’s Other One Thing - Franklin, TN and St. Philip’s Parish Michelle’s Other Other One Thing - College Kids at NC State and Fr. Josh Other Resources Mentioned: Series Podcast by Adam Young Journal Questions: What does it mean for me to live into prophetic motherhood? What holds me back from speaking life into the people around me? When have I felt threatened or hurt by other women? What ache in your heart is God inviting you to bring before Mary? How can I offer prophetic motherhood to those in my life? How can I receive prophetic motherhood from those in my life? Discussion Questions: When have you been prophetically mothered by another woman? How were you impacted by that experience? How do we cultivate a culture of women speaking life within our own community? How do you desire a different story of motherhood and femininity from what you have experienced in the past? How is God inviting you to embody hope right now? Who is in the periphery of my life that God is inviting me to offer my maternity to? Quote to Ponder: “She is the poetess and prophetess of redemption, and we hear from her pure lips the strongest and most original hymn ever uttered - the "Magnificat"! She reveals the transforming design of the Christian economy, the historical and social result that still draws its origin and strength from Christianity…At this point a second way is opened for us by Our Lady, so that we may reach our salvation in the Lord Christ: it is her protection. She is our ally, our advocate. She is the confidence of the poor, of the lowly, of the suffering. She is even the "refuge of sinners." She has a mission of pity, goodness, and intercession for all. She consoles every grief of ours. She teaches us to be good, to be strong, and to be compassionate toward all. She is the queen of peace. She is the Mother of the Church.” (Pope St. Paul VI, Homily, April 24, 1970) Scripture for Lectio: “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” (Proverbs 18:21) Sponsor - Life Teen: is offering something really special this summer, especially if you are a parent of a teenager. Years ago, Michelle and her husband Chris, began their ministry career working with Life Teen, and it has had a lasting impact on their lives as well as so many other families. Life Teen helps teens encounter Christ in a real and personal way, and it continues to bear fruit long after those experiences end. This summer, they are launching their very first Parent / Teen Camp, called . A frontier is the edge of what is known, where things are still being discovered and formed. If you are a parent of a teen, you know that is exactly what the teenage years feel like. A season that is constantly changing, where relationships are shifting, independence is growing, and both parents and teens are learning how to navigate something new together. Life Teen Parent / Teen Camp is a six-day experience where you and your teen step away from the noise of everyday life and experience camp together. It is a shared week of adventure and connection. You will experience things like ropes courses, hiking through the mountains, and white water rafting on the Chattooga River. But just as important as the adventure is what happens in the space between it all. Time to talk. Time to slow down. Time to be present with each other. And time to invite Christ into your relationship in a real and personal way. Everything is rooted in the Catholic faith, with daily Mass, the Sacraments, and intentional moments built in to pause, reflect, and listen. This experience is offered as a Mother and Daughter or Father and Son camp in Clayton, Georgia. It is designed specifically for families in the middle of the teenage years who want to strengthen their relationship, deepen trust, and create meaningful memories during a season that often moves quickly. This is not just a camp week. It is an intentional opportunity to invest in one of the most important relationships in your life. If this sounds like something you have been needing, I would encourage you to take a closer look. Full details are available online, and an informational webinar is offered for those who want a closer look. The Life Teen team is also glad to walk with you as you discern whether this experience is right for your family. This may be one of the most meaningful weeks you share with your teen during these years. Timestamps: 00:00 Life Teen 01:32 Intro 02:19 Welcome 04:12 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 05:45 The Prophetic Nature of Motherhood 08:05 Affirmations vs Prophetic Words 12:08 Calling Out the Goodness of Others 14:23 Wounds From A Mother 17:40 Embodying Hope 20:04 Mary Understands What You are Going Through 22:04 Having A Relationship with Our Mother Mary 25:09 Preparing to Receive the Holy Spirit 27:03 Motherhood is Not A Competition 30:20 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/41118635

S18 E13 - Marriage and Meaning with Special Guests Arthur and Ester Brooks 04/27/2026

S18 E13 - Marriage and Meaning with Special Guests Arthur and Ester Brooks In this episode, we welcome Arthur and Ester Brooks to talk about marriage, suffering, and the path to lasting love. Arthur and Ester share what it’s like to minister together, revealing both the grace needed and the hard work it takes to love each other faithfully over decades. We also reflect on suffering as an invitation for growth, why pain is fruitful, and how the hardest places in life are where love is purified. Whether you are married, single, or in religious life, intimacy with God is our source of strength for every situation we encounter in life. Heather’s One Thing - Franciscan’s Resurrection Party! Heather’s Other One Thing - Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Michelle’s One Thing - Everyone who just came into the Catholic Church! Ester’s One Thing - Her husband Arthur! Ester’s Other One Thing - Professional Cycling Arthur’s One Thing - Opportunities to witness to the Catholic faith during book launch Other Resources Mentioned: by Arthur Brooks Other by Arthur Brooks Journal Questions: What does it look like to fight well? How have I witnessed or experienced a marriage that is an antenna to God? What suffering in my life am I resisting? What are the discomforts and sufferings I have experienced today that I can thank God for? Discussion Questions: When are you tempted to be led by your feelings? When have you had to let go of resisting suffering in the past? Where in your life, marriage, or relationships do you feel stalled? How is God inviting you to prioritize Him over your marriage, relationships, and responsibilities? Quotes to Ponder: "It is Jesus that you seek when you dream of happiness; he is waiting for you when nothing else you find satisfies you; he is the beauty to which you are so attracted; it is he who provokes you with that thirst for fullness that will not let you settle for compromise; it is he who urges you to shed the masks of a false life; it is he who reads in your hearts your most genuine choices, the choices that others try to stifle. It is Jesus who stirs in you the desire to do something great with your lives, the will to follow an ideal, the refusal to allow yourselves to be grounded down by mediocrity, the courage to commit yourselves humbly and patiently to improving yourselves and society, making the world more human and more fraternal." (Pope John Paul II, World Youth Day, Rome, 2000) Scripture for Lectio: “Let love be genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good; love one another with mutual affection; outdo one another in showing honor. Do not lag in zeal, be ardent in spirit, serve the Lord. Rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer.” (Romans 12:9-12) Sponsor - The Inspired Living: is your one-stop shop for Mother’s Day and Sacrament season! Whether you’re shopping for the mother who inspired your faith, the child whose love for the Eucharist is flourishing, or the bride who is curating her Catholic home, we’ve sourced the best Catholic home decor, books, toys, and gifts to lift souls to God and inspire our hearts to ponder Heaven. Our unique array of handcrafted goods are made by artisans not only in the United States, but around the world who are committed to bringing eternal beauty into the home. Abiding Together Listeners get an exclusive 20% off discount using the code ABIDE2026. The Inspired living - bringing eternal beauty to the home Timestamps: 00:00 The Inspired Living 00:44 Intro 01:54 Scripture Verse 06:06 Ministering as A Married Couple 10:03 How to Fight and Bring About Deeper Union 15:23 Suffering Helps Us Grow 26:12 Committing to A Prayer Life 32:22 Making Space to Become 36:06 Putting God First and Your Spouse Second 38:10 The Science of Being Happy 41:44 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/41009420

S18 E12 - The Way of Trust and Love: Enduring Trials 04/06/2026

S18 E12 - The Way of Trust and Love: Enduring Trials Happy Easter! In this episode, we conclude our Lenten book study on “” and focus on Chapter 6: Enduring Trials. We talk about how even in the light of Easter, we may still experience suffering and how we can choose to rejoice in God’s goodness when His ways remain hidden. We also reflect on why trials are not signs of God’s absence, how we learn to recognize God at work in the present moment, and how to embrace suffering as a necessary path to share in the fullness of Easter. Friends, in this Easter octave, we invite you to reflect on how God has transformed your heart this past Lent. Let us enter into this Easter season with renewed hope, gratitude, and a deeper surrender to God’s unfailing love. We will see you in two weeks! Heather’s One Thing - Challenge with Many Parts Ministries. It’s a free 50-day spiritual journey designed to deepen your relationship with the Holy Spirit! Sister Miriam’s One Thing - and Divine Mercy Sunday Michelle’s One Thing - Join us in praying Resurrection Power By: Michelle Benzinger A crucible is the place where the refiner’s fire is not your enemy, but your tender witness of integration. It is where certainty melts, where control dissolves, where the identities you once clung to lose their shape in the flame. The crucible is where faith stops being an idea and melts into surrender, where you no longer hold God at a distance, but find Him somehow in the very fire you once feared. It is a holy undoing that makes space for a deeper yes. It is an invitation into the Paschal Mystery. It is the Holy Spirit’s invitation into the Resurrection power. Journal Questions: Where do I turn in my trials and disappointments? Where in my life have I been avoiding the fullness of the Paschal Mystery (suffering, waiting, and resurrection)? What renunciations and declarations do I need to make today? What are the questions on my heart? Do I absolutely need the answer to do God’s Will today? Discussion Questions: What has God revealed to you in your current trials? How are you choosing to intentionally feast during these 50 days? How has God called you to a mature and adult faith in this season of life? What does Resurrection power and glory look like in your life? Quotes to Ponder: “They” (her friends the saints) “want to see how far I am going to push my trust.” (St. Thérèse of Lisieux) “When we realize that’s happening—that we’re going round and round and getting nowhere, that our questions aren’t producing light but only bitterness and blame—we must have the courage to put those questions aside and ask ourselves another. It’s the only essential one, after all, and it will always be answered: What attitude does God want me to have toward this situation? The point is to move from “Why?” to “How?” The real question isn’t “Why is this happening to me?” but “How should I live through these things?” How am I called to face this situation? What call to growth is being made to me through this? That question will always get an answer.” (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 129) Scripture for Lectio: “Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed, says the Lord, who has compassion on you.” (Isaiah 54:10) Sponsor - Glory: Women’s Gathering: If you’re ready to intentionally embrace a spirit of Resurrection in your life this year, we invite you to register for the Glory: Women’s Gathering hosted by Steubenville Conferences in partnership with Heather Khym. Join Heather, Michelle, and our dear friends Debbie Herbeck, Sarah Kaczmarek, Monica Richards, and Fr. Dave Pivonka TOR this coming June 5-7 in Steubenville, Ohio, as we gather with women across generations and seek God’s restoration and healing. This gathering will include talks, worship, prayer experiences, and the opportunity to interact with fellow Abiding Together listeners and new friends from all over who will be flying in. Heather and Michelle would absolutely love to meet you. Whether you come with your Abiding Together small group, with a close friend, or on your own, we can’t wait to gather in fellowship with you. Registration is still open for the Glory: Women’s Gathering. Ticket prices go up after April 16 - grab your ticket today! Visit for more information or to register! Timestamps: 00:00 Glory: Women’s Gathering 01:23 Intro 02:09 Welcome 02:41 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 03:18 Trusting Through Suffering 05:57 Trials of Faith, Hope, and Love 07:49 Will We Run to God? 08:46 Living the Resurrection as Women 11:34 Feeling Panic in the Trial 14:05 Declaring Our Belief 15:36 Setting Aside Our need for an Answer to “Why” 17:28 Resurrection Power 20:07 Trials Have the Power to Make Us More of Our True Selves 24:40 Help Me in My Unbelief 27:00 What Has God Done this Lent? 28:41 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/40710825

S18 E11 - The Way of Trust and Love: God’s Infinite Mercy 03/30/2026

S18 E11 - The Way of Trust and Love: God’s Infinite Mercy In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on “” and focus on Chapter 5: God’s Infinite Mercy. We reflect on the paradox of true strength—how becoming little, dependent, and surrendered before the Lord is the very place where His strength takes root in us. We also talk about what it means to live with a pure heart, not by striving harder, but by bringing every part of ourselves into honest communion with Christ and allowing His kindness to call us higher. This week, as we wrestle with fear, worry, and the temptation to rely on ourselves, we encourage you to be reminded that it is God’s love that heals, restores, and leads us to freedom. Heather’s One Thing - by The Belonging Co. Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Sacrament of Reconciliation Michelle’s One Thing - by Laura Kelly Fanucci Michelle’s Other One Thing - March Madness! Journal Questions: What has the Lord convicted me of this Lent? What is the Lord inviting me to abandon to His Divine Providence? How can I be more present to the present moment? What graces have I received this Lent? Discussion Questions: How is the Lord inspiring you to change? Where in your life are you just surviving? When was a recent time you experienced discouragement? How were you placing trust in yourself? How have your eyes been opened this Lent? Quotes to Ponder: “Thérèse says to Jesus in one of her poems: “I want to love you like a little child, I want to battle like a warrior bold.”” (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 90) “Let’s return to the subject of trust. We have seen how we should nurture our trust. It is fragile, but it can be increased and strengthened by listening to the Word, by prayer, by the acts of faith we make in difficult moments, and by the experience of God’s faithfulness. Now I wish to make a point that is simple but has wide implications. I can put it in the form of a question: What is the basis for our trust? What does it actually rest on?” (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 92-93) Scripture for Lectio: “I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.” (Matthew 10:16) Sponsor - Into the Deep: This episode is sponsored by Into the Deep, a Catholic company creating beautiful faith formation resources for families. One of the most powerful ways to help children grow in faith is through beauty. Sacred art has always been part of how the Church teaches the Faith by helping believers contemplate the life of Christ, the mysteries of the Rosary, and the stories of Scripture. Into the Deep creates thoughtfully designed resources that help families rediscover this tradition at home. Their pair classic sacred paintings with traditional Catholic prayers, inviting children to slow down, look closely, and enter into prayer through the beauty of art. It’s a simple but powerful way to enrich your family’s daily prayer rhythm. They also offer several Catholic picture study resources perfect for families and homeschoolers: - Children encounter Christ’s teachings through sacred masterpieces depicting the Gospel parables. - A unique way to help children meditate on the rosary by contemplating sacred art presentations of each Mystery. - Discover the life and work of the Dominican friar whose paintings captivate the moral imagination. These resources are designed especially for families who want to cultivate wonder, contemplation, and a deeper love for the Catholic Faith. If you want to bring sacred art into your home and help your children encounter Christ through beauty, visit . Timestamps: 00:00 Into the Deep 01:20 Intro 02:07 Welcome 06:01 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 06:36 Being Little Yet Strong 09:25 Bringing Everything into Communion 13:06 Excavating Our Hearts 15:39 Transforming Fear into Love 19:57 Being Content with Today 22:04 God’s Kindness Leads Us to Repentance 24:34 The Power of Gratitude 27:39 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/40637015

S18 E10 - The Way of Trust and Love: Trusting More and More 03/23/2026

S18 E10 - The Way of Trust and Love: Trusting More and More In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on “” and focus on Chapter 4: Trusting More and More. We reflect on the tender places where our trust in the Father has been wounded—especially in the disappointments we carry with ourselves, our children, and the circumstances in our lives—and how God gently invites us to bring those disappointments to Him. We also talk about the lies that quietly erode our trust in God, the temptation to carry life’s burdens alone, and the way simple rhythms of prayer allow God to personally reveal to us His goodness. This week, we invite you to honestly bring your disappointments before God and ask Him to reveal to you His goodness. Heather’s One Thing - The Springtime! Sister Miriam’s One Thing - March Madness Michelle’s One Thing - Her floor to ceiling library! Journal Questions: Where do I lack trust in the Father? When do I see God as my enemy? What narratives of your life are you seeking to control? What is bothering me most acutely right now? What am I carrying that I need to let go? Discussion Questions: Where do you take your disappointment? Where are you experiencing agitation? How are you tempted to manage the Lord’s revelations in your life? What might be an appropriate prayer prescription for your current agitations? How is God inviting you into the safety of the Holy Family this Lent? Quotes to Ponder: “This work of restoring trust in our hearts is an essential aspect of the spiritual life. Wounded by original sin, our hearts are riddled with fears and doubts. It takes time to be cured of them. Maybe that will never happen completely in this life, but we can nevertheless make great strides in trusting more.” (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 69) “Trust works miracles.” (St. Thérèse of Lisieux) Scripture for Lectio: “But you, Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness.” (Psalm 86:15) Sponsor - Rooted for Good: was born from a simple desire: to care for the skin God gave us—without compromising our values or our budget. As parents of six boys living on a ministry income, Brooke (a licensed cosmetologist) & Joseph struggled to find truly natural skincare that was both effective & affordable. So they began creating their own. Each product is crafted with simple, honest ingredients—made to nourish the skin God gave you—simply & honestly. And from the very beginning, our mission has been clear: Good for You, Good for Others. That’s why 10% of every sale goes directly to serve the poor in developing countries. When you choose Rooted, you’re choosing skincare that aligns with your faith—free from inflated “clean beauty” prices or passing trends—& makes an impact beyond yourself. We’re grateful to partner with the Abiding Together community & the many women seeking beauty that reflects truth, simplicity & goodness. Explore the collection at & enjoy 10% off with code ABIDE10. Timestamps: 00:00 Rooted for Good 01:22 Intro 02:08 Welcome 03:03 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 03:42 What to do with Our Disappointments 08:16 Honesty is Not Something to Fear 10:36 Nourishing Trust 12:56 Developing a Rhythm of Prayer 16:40 The Tender Touch of a Mother 19:32 Heaven is a Family 23:14 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/40559320

S18 E9 - The Way of Trust and Love: Being Reconciled to Our Weakness 03/16/2026

S18 E9 - The Way of Trust and Love: Being Reconciled to Our Weakness In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on “” and focus on Chapter 3: Being Reconciled to Our Weakness. We talk about how our struggles with ourselves often spill over into our relationships with others and how learning to accept our own weakness can soften our hearts towards the weakness we see in those around us. We also reflect on the tension between accepting our littleness and desiring real conversion, how we become more aware of our imperfections as we draw closer to the Lord, and the gift of community in helping us clearly see our lives. This week, we invite you to receive God’s love, extend that love to yourself, and then offer it freely to others. Heather’s One Thing - Attending the funeral of Francis Bergsma Sister Miriam’s One Thing - from Little Way Books Michelle’s One Thing - The funness of our listeners! Journal Questions: Where am I experiencing a lack of harmony in myself and in my relationships with others? Do I truly desire conversion? What parts of me are resistant to conversion? Where am I looking at the weaknesses of others instead of examining myself? When do I speak to myself with words of self-condemnation? Discussion Questions: What weaknesses or defects are you wrestling with right now? How is God inviting you into deeper communion with Him in this weakness? How is the Lord inviting you to embrace littleness this Lent? Where is the Lord calling you to forgo constant management of your life and to embrace the mystery & trust of a life with Christ? How have you slowed down this Lent? How has this slower pace impacted your spiritual life? Quotes to Ponder: “If we accept ourselves as we are, we also accept God’s love for us. But if we reject ourselves, if we despise ourselves, we shut ourselves off from the love God has for us, we deny that love. If we accept ourselves in our weakness, our limitations, it will also be easier for us to accept other people. Often, quite simply, we can’t get along with other people because we can’t get along with ourselves.” (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 48-49) “I am no longer surprised by anything, I am not sorry to see that I am weakness itself. On the contrary, I glory in it, and I expect to discover new imperfections in myself every day. (St. Thérèse of Lisieux) Scripture for Lectio: “God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” (James 4:6) Timestamps: 00:00 Morning Star Studio 00:56 Intro 01:42 Welcome 03:58 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 04:45 Embracing Our Weaknesses First 9:00 Having a Real Desire for Conversion 13:55 Fearing Our Weakness 15:54 Desiring to be a Saint 18:55 Familial Living vs Transactional Living 22:21 One Things Sponsor - Morning Star Studio: Morning Star Studio creates works that inspire prayer, deepen faith, and reflect the divine beauty that calls all hearts to the Sacred Heart of Jesus — through paintings, prints, and even billboard art on your local freeway. Whether it’s an image of St. Carlo Acutis for a teenager preparing for Confirmation, St. Joseph for the father figure in your life, or the timeless beauty of the Sacred Heart of Jesus and the Immaculate Heart of Mary — Morning Star Studio provides opportunities to bring powerful sacred art into homes, schools, parishes, and hearts. Transform an ordinary space into a place of encounter, reflection, and grace. Engage with sacred art that truly penetrates the mind and heart. Visit and use code ABIDE to receive 15% off your purchase. Instagram: @morningstar_studioart /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/40397450

S18 E8 - The Way of Trust and Love: An Elevator for Small Children 03/09/2026

S18 E8 - The Way of Trust and Love: An Elevator for Small Children In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on “” and focus on Chapter 2: An Elevator for Small Children. We talk about the quiet places of discouragement, and self-reliance that keep us striving instead of surrendering. We also reflect about how radical dependence on God is not laziness, the subtle ways we resist being little before a loving Father, and how our poverty is a doorway into deeper trust. This week, we invite you to fall into the Father’s arms, allow Him to pick you up, and rest in the One who delights in you. Heather’s One Thing - The Prince of Egypt Movie Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Bishop Erik Varden’s Lenten Reflections to Pope Leo (I especially recommend the reflections entitled: , , , and ) Michelle’s One Thing - Instagram Account Journal Questions: Where are you feeling discouraged? Where do I experience self-reliance, codependency, or hypervigilance in my life? When in the past have I made agreements that I have to rely on myself and fix everything? Where am I living out a pattern of childhood wounds and identities? Discussion Questions: How have you experienced failure this Lent? When do I grasp, kick, and flail like a child in my spiritual life? When did God last remind you that you are not God? How did your heart respond to it? Where is God inviting you to embrace your littleness rather than run from it? Quote to Ponder: “Being little means not attributing to ourselves the virtues we practice, or believing ourselves capable of anything, but recognizing that God places this treasure in the hands of His little child so that she can use it when she needs it; but the treasure is still God’s.” (St. Thérèse of Lisieux) Scripture for Lectio: “All you who labor, who are bent under the weight of your burden, who find the demands of the Law too heavy, come to me, for I am gentle and humble of heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” (Matthew 11:28) Sponsor - The JPII Healing Center: Jesus longs to heal every hidden hurt in your heart—Do you want to be healed? For the past 20 years, the John Paul II Healing Center, founded by Dr. Bob Schuchts, has offered healing retreats, trainings, and workshops to help people experience deeper intimacy and communion with the Blessed Trinity. And now, you can experience our transformational teaching, Healing the Whole Person, right at home. This 8-part video series expands on the teaching offered by Dr. Bob Schuchts and Sr. Miriam James Heidland at our Healing the Whole Person weekend retreats. For the past two years, this series has blessed thousands of groups and individuals across the world by drawing the brokenhearted close to the abiding love of the Blessed Trinity. Through in-depth teachings, prayerful meditations, reflective journaling, and pre-recorded Q&A sessions, you are gently guided through your sorrowful mysteries into joyful restoration. The Abiding Together Community can use code Abiding25 to receive 25% off individual and group leader subscriptions. This offer ends April 13th. To learn more and begin your journey, visit Healing The Whole Person Series Link: Timestamps: 00:00 The JPII Healing Center 01:31 Intro 02:18 Guiding Quote 04:39 Discouragement is the Downfall of Souls 08:27 Subtle Agreements We Make Throughout Our Days 10:50 Surrender is Not Laziness 13:26 Illumination is Spiritual Progress 15:55 Being Curious About Our Own Heart 18:34 Becoming Little is Maturation 20:47 Suffering in Communion with the Father 23:53 The Father Cannot Resist His Children’s Trust 27:14 Am I Still Lovable if I am Little and have Needs? 29:44 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/40329440

S18 E7 - The Way of Trust and Love: A Completely New Way 03/02/2026

S18 E7 - The Way of Trust and Love: A Completely New Way In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on “” and focus on Chapter 1: A Completely New Way. We reflect on the “little way” of St. Thérèse, the invitation to become spiritual children before the Father, and how weakness becomes the very place where Christ comes to meet us. We also talk about the difference between being childish and childlike, why true maturity in faith begins with admitting our own poverty, and how small acts of courage open the door to deep healing. This week, we invite you to name the desires stirring in your heart and let the Holy Spirit awaken a new song within you. Heather’s One Thing - Franciscan’s Campus-wide “Behold” Retreat Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Bishop Erik Varden Michelle’s One Thing - The O’ Grady’s Beach House Michelle’s Other One Thing - Journal Questions: How often do I accept the letter of God’s adoption of me, and not the spirit of God’s adoption? Where in my life do I need Mother Mary to smile upon me? How have I turned to self-reliance this Lent? Where is God inviting me to become more adult and free? What is the new song the Lord wants to put in my heart? Discussion Questions: When do you notice orphanhood in your heart? What are you learning from St. Therese this Lent? When have you experienced the healing delight of a mother? Is it difficult for you to name your desires? What is one desire God has placed on your heart this Lent? What is the “yes” God is asking you to make today? Quotes to Ponder: “You know, Mother, that I have always desired to be a saint, but alas, I have always realized, when I compared myself to the saints, that there is between them and me the same difference as exists between a mountain whose summit is lost in the skies, and the obscure grain of sand trodden underfoot by passers-by. Instead of getting discouraged, I said to myself: “God could not” “inspire us with desires that were unrealizable, so despite my littleness I can aspire to holiness. It is impossible for me to grow up, I must put up with myself as I am, with all my imperfections; but I want to find how to get to Heaven by a little way that is quite straight, quite short: a completely new little way.” (St. Thérèse of Lisieux) “Each of us has an absolute need for an inner transformation that makes us “as little as a child.” What that means and how to put it into practice are exactly what Thérèse teaches in a simple, luminous way. That is why she was proclaimed a Doctor—that is, a teacher—of the Church.” (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 6) “The heart of Christian life is to receive and welcome God’s tenderness and goodness, the revelation of his merciful love, and to let oneself be transformed interiorly by that love.” (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 7) Scripture for Lectio: “But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.” So, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.” (2 Corinthians 12:9) Sponsor - Healed and Restored: is a non-profit organization located in the Charlotte, NC area that was created in 2020 to fill a void and respond to a need that has been long overlooked in our society. A program that is 100% dedicated to helping women heal in the aftermath of abuse, assault, and other traumatic experiences. According to the United Nations, one in three girls and women around the world has been subjected to sexual and/or physical abuse at least once in their lives. Studies show that women who have been through abuse (of all types) have higher levels of fear, are more isolated, and face greater mental health problems. In the aftermath of any of these traumatic events, women will sometimes resort to hurting themselves through cutting, eating disorders, and addictions. Without proper care and healing, these dark cycles can persist for years. We help women and girls realize that God desires to heal every single one of His beloved children. We teach them that the enemy is a master manipulator. As soon as a person gets hurt, the devil begins to plant all kinds of lies in our hurting souls. Some of these lies are: God doesn’t love you, everything that happened is your fault, you should be forever ashamed, and you will never find healing and peace. The Mission The Healed and Restored mission is to help women and girls who are survivors of abuse, assault, domestic violence, trafficking, and all other forms of trauma find healing and restoration. Grounded in Catholic teachings and through a combination of counseling, life coaching, intimate workshops, practical tools, spiritual mentoring, and community support we help women and girls transform pain into purpose— empowering them to not only survive, but thrive. Since 2020, Healed and Restored has helped over 500 women and girls on their journey to process their unhealed wounds. Never could we have predicted how much God would bless our mission in such a short period of time. All of this has us convinced that there are times when God uses our deepest pain to propel us on the path to our greatest calling! If you or someone you know could use the assistance of our trained and compassionate Catholic Therapists/Counselors and money is an issue, please do not hesitate to reach out to us by emailing info@healedandrestored.org for more information and guidance. Or if you feel called to be part of this mission by volunteering your time, we would love to hear from you. Together and guided by the Holy Spirit, we can make a difference in the life of those around us who are suffering. Timestamps: 00:00 Healed and Restored 01:31 Intro 02:17 Welcome 04:26 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 05:35 Trusting in Our Creator 09:49 The Path of Spiritual Childhood 12:53 Healed by Delight 16:27 What is the “Little Way”? 19:36 Childlike vs Childish 24:05 The Role of Holy Scripture 30:10 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/40256355

S18 E6 - The Way of Trust and Love: Introduction 02/23/2026

S18 E6 - The Way of Trust and Love: Introduction In this episode, we begin our Lenten book study on “” and focus on the Introduction. We talk about how St. Thérèse’s “little way” offers hope to weary hearts who feel small, fragile, or poor. We discuss how the Lord can transform our lives in a moment, how to boast in our poverty instead of bemoaning it, and the power of a listening heart. This Lent, we invite you into a gentler, deeper journey—one rooted not in striving, but in trust and love. Heather’s One Thing - and everyone who put together this experience Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Michelle’s One Thing - The Body of Christ Other Resources Mentioned: or Journal Questions: Where is the Holy Spirit inviting me this Lent? Where do I feel like the burdens of life are mine to carry? How does my heart respond to St. Therese’s Little Way? What does it mean to be childlike and not childish? How will I create time to listen to God this Lent? When listening to God in prayer, what is the posture of my heart? Discussion Questions: How is God calling you into deeper love this Lent? Where do you notice weariness or poverty in your life? How can you serve the poor this Lent? What holds you back from listening to the Lord in prayer? How do you want to be transformed this Lent? Quote to Ponder: “I feel that I am going to my rest … but above all, I feel that my mission is about to begin, my mission of making God loved as I love him, of giving my little way to other souls. If God grants my request, my Heaven will be spent on earth, until the end of the world. Yes, I wish to spend my Heaven in doing good on earth.” (St. Thérèse of Lisieux) Scripture for Lectio: “Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3-4) Sponsor - SacredSpark: Looking for a Catholic dating experience that actually feels human? Meet SacredSpark, a Catholic dating and matchmaking app designed to help singles approach dating with intention, clarity, and faith at the center. SacredSpark was built on a simple belief: dating shouldn’t feel like endless guessing games, emotional burnout, or mixed signals that leave you questioning your worth. It should help you encounter real people, have thoughtful conversations, and discern relationships with purpose. Unlike traditional dating apps, SacredSpark is intentionally designed to foster online connections for offline relationships, blending technology and tradition to facilitate meaningful connections that can grow into real relationships rooted in faith. Whether you’re discerning marriage, healing from past dating experiences, or simply tired of platforms that don’t reflect what you value, SacredSpark offers a refreshing alternative. It’s a space where Catholic singles are reminded of their dignity, supported in dating well, and encouraged to pursue relationships with peace and purpose. SacredSpark also offers free formational resources like Dating 101 that helps men and women approach dating with emotional maturity, confidence, and Christ at the center, because how you date matters just as much as who you date. Start something good! Download SacredSpark today: (Available on iOS and Android) Timestamps: 00:00 SacredSpark 01:37 Intro 02:23 Welcome 03:08 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 03:53 Seeing Lent as an Invitation of Love 06:26 Breaking Strongholds 09:18 The Little Way 12:44 Feeling Weary and Poor 14:54 Pope Leo’s Lenten Letter 19:33 Listening to Grow Deeper in Intimacy 23:04 A Call to Holiness 26:52 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/40176990

S18 E5 - Entering the Desert 02/16/2026

S18 E5 - Entering the Desert In this episode, we reflect on Lent as a Holy Spirit led journey through the desert to bring us into a deeper union with God. We talk about the resistance many of us feel to fasting, why Lent is not a self-improvement project, and the importance of discerning our Lenten practices. We also discuss how, through Lent, our true identity as beloved daughters is revealed, tested, and healed. Before Lent begins on Wednesday, we invite you to notice where your heart may feel numb, distracted, or defensive, and ask the Holy Spirit what He desires to restore. Our Lenten book study “” will begin next week! We look forward to journeying with you. Heather’s One Thing - Her Lenten Playlist “” Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Jen Johnson and Bethel Music Michelle’s One Thing - Announcement: Our 2026 Lenten book study will be “” by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks! Journal Questions: Where is the Holy Spirit inviting me this Lent? In the past, how have I turned to self-reliance throughout Lent? Where is my heart not rooted in my true identity? Is there something in the way of me drawing close to the Lord? Where am I performing instead of depending? Where am I controlling instead of trusting? Where am I grasping for love instead of securely attached? Where am I prideful instead of obedient? Discussion Questions: Where do you need springtime in your personal life? How will you respond to your own shortcomings and self-reliance this Lent? How does the Lord want to bring you deeper into your identity? How is the Lord inviting you to live into your Word of the Year deeper this Lent? Quote to Ponder: “Lent is a time of going very deeply into ourselves… What is it that stands between us and God? Between us and our brothers and sisters? Between us and life, the life of the Spirit? Whatever it is, let us relentlessly tear it out, without a moment’s hesitation.” (Catherine Doherty) Scripture for Lectio: “Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan and was led by the Spirit in the wilderness, where for forty days he was tested by the devil.” (Luke 4:1-2) Sponsor - COR Expeditions: Are you experiencing the Lord’s invitation to draw closer to Him? We encourage you to consider a life-changing course with COR Expeditions this summer. COR Expeditions exists to transform the hearts of Catholics of all ages. COR - short for Catholic Outdoor Renewal and meaning “heart” in Latin - offers an invitation not often heard in our modern world: step away from technology, noise, and constant distraction, and step forward with the Lord into the wilderness, just as so many prophets and saints have done before us. By choosing a course with COR, you are saying yes to being physically, emotionally, and spiritually challenged - in the best possible ways. Our culture often tells women to seek comfort, avoid risk, and doubt their own strength. At the same time, the voice of the enemy quietly whispers that we are not enough. COR offers something radically different: a place of freedom, encouragement, and truth. In the wilderness, you are reminded of your identity as a beloved daughter of God, created with courage, resilience, and deep capacity for joy. COR courses take place in some of the most breathtaking locations of the Rocky Mountain West. Participants carry backpacks, hike miles into the backcountry, and live simply for the duration of the course. While this may sound intimidating at first, you are never on the journey alone. Our experienced instructors provide guidance, training, and support every step of the way. You do not need to be an elite athlete or an experienced backpacker—only willing to show up, try, and trust the Lord to meet you where you are. In the silence of the mountains, away from screens and schedules, many women encounter God in a new and personal way. The physical challenge opens space for prayer. The simplicity brings clarity. The shared experience fosters deep community. What remains is peace, confidence, and a renewed ability to hear the Lord’s voice. If you’re longing for deeper faith, meaningful challenge, and an experience that will stay with you long after summer ends, COR Expeditions may be the invitation your heart has been waiting for. Learn more and take the next step at . Listeners of Abiding Together, use code ABIDE10 to get 10% off any one US-based open enrollment course this summer! Timestamps: 00:00 COR Expeditions 01:31 Intro 02:17 Welcome 04:42 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse 05:24 Where is the Holy Spirit Inviting Us Into Deeper Union 10:49 Testing Our Identity 15:41 God Speaks Tenderly to Us in the Desert 18:48 How to Discern What We Should do for Lent 25:16 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/40091680

S18 E4 - Communion with God with John Eldredge 02/09/2026

S18 E4 - Communion with God with John Eldredge In this episode, we welcome author, counselor, and speaker John Eldredge to the show, who is best known for his book Wild at Heart. We have a powerful conversation about intimacy with God in a world full of chaos, suffering, and spiritual hunger. We reflect on what it means to reclaim a “re-enchanted” Christian worldview, how to pray against chaos, the profound gift women have to offer the world right now. We also talk practically about how to pray as a couple, ask John to lead us in a guided “Pause” prayer, and invite you into a moment of stillness, surrender, and loving awareness of Jesus dwelling within you. Heather’s One Thing - from the Belonging Co. Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Naomi Raine Michelle’s One Thing - by Father Jacques Philippe Michelle’s Other One Thing - by Wendell Berry John’s One Thing - The Abiding Together Podcast! John’s Other One Thing - Instrumental Background Music Other Resources Mentioned: John Eldredge’s Website “” by John Eldredge by John Eldredge by John Eldredge Announcement: Our 2026 Lenten book study will be “” by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks! Journal Questions: How am I living like a “practical atheist”? Where are you experiencing chaos in your domain? When in your day can you turn toward the Lord with a simple prayer? How have I experienced the friendship and communion of the Kingdom of Heaven in my life? Where in my life am I believing I am too much and not enough? Discussion Questions: How would you define your domain? What has God entrusted to you? When have you experienced God’s beauty and order in the midst of chaos and hatred? How have simple prayers led to transformation in your life? How is God inviting you to be a healing remedy to the world right now? Quote to Ponder: “The story of your life is the story of the long and brutal assault on your heart by the one who knows what you could be and fears it.” (John Eldredge, Waking the Dead) Scripture for Lectio: “The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing.” (Zephaniah 3:17) Sponsor - Fully Alive Coaching Program: Fully Alive Coaching Program is a trauma-informed Catholic coaching program for women and men who desire deep healing without compromising their faith. Created by licensed marriage and family therapist Brya Hanan, Fully Alive integrates Catholic Inner Child Work and somatic awareness in a gentle, Spirit-led journey—honoring the body, protecting the soul, and restoring wholeness. For women and men who pray sincerely but still feel guarded, overwhelmed, or fragmented, Fully Alive offers a safe and structured path toward integration and life abundant. Learn more at and follow @catholicinnerchildwork for more trauma-informed and integrative resources to support your healing. Use the code "abiding" or reference it during a consultation to get 10% off! Timestamps: 00:00 - Fully Alive Coaching Program 01:16 - Intro 02:02 - Welcome 04:18 - Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 06:11 - Where is the Holy Spirit Moving the Church Now? 10:54 - Balancing the Love Story within a World at War 14:08 - Learning to Pray Against the Chaos 19:10 - How to Pray Together as A Couple 21:39 - Being in Union with God 26:13 - How Does God Use Fatherhood to Repair His Children? 29:30 - The Pause App 33:45 - We Are Created for Intimacy with Christ 37:48 - Women are Part of God’s Healing Remedy to the World 40:22 - One Last Message from John 44:20 - A “Pause” Meditation 48:30 - One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/40030840

S18 E3 - Scripture: The Living Word of God 02/02/2026

S18 E3 - Scripture: The Living Word of God In this episode, we explore why spending time Scripture is essential for staying rooted in Christ and how it aids us in the midst of spiritual battle. We reflect on the reality that Scripture is the living Word of God, far more powerful than we often realize. It has the ability to encourage, correct, heal, and transform our hearts. We share personal stories of how the Holy Spirit has brought Scripture to life for us and how God’s Word has been an anchor during seasons of difficulty. Friends, God desires to speak to you personally through His Word and is inviting you not into just another task, but into a deeper, life-giving relationship with Him. Heather’s One Thing - The Sisters of Life on Franciscan’s Campus Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Bob Schuchts Michelle’s One Thing - Other Resources Mentioned: () Announcement: Our 2026 Lenten book study will be “” by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks! Journal Questions: How has the Lord encountered me through Holy Scripture? How has the Lord surprised me in prayer and study of the Scriptures? What obstacles prevent me from engaging with the Bible intentionally? What book of the Bible is the Lord inviting me to pray with this year? Discussion Questions: What does your relationship with Scripture look like today? How have you been healed, convicted, or converted by Holy Scripture? Have you ever felt the Lord intimately and personally encounter you while reading Scripture? What would it look like for you to encounter the Lord in Holy Scripture daily? How do you want your relationship with the Word of God to be transformed? Quote to Ponder: “In order to reveal himself to men, in the condescension of his goodness God speaks to them in human words: "Indeed the words of God, expressed in the words of men, are in every way like human language, just as the Word of the eternal Father, when he took on himself the flesh of human weakness, became like men.” Through all the words of Sacred Scripture, God speaks only one single Word, his one Utterance in whom he expresses himself completely…” (CCC Paragraphs 101-102) Scripture for Lectio: “All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness.” (2 Timothy 3:16) Sponsor - Nazareth Organics: Nazareth Organics is a Catholic family-owned natural skincare company. Unlike many skincare companies that use lab-made chemical ingredients in their products, Nazareth Organics uses high quality, wild-crafted, and organic ingredients from nature and strives to support local farms and businesses whenever possible. From nourishing facial serums and cleansers to diaper creams and sun screens, Nazareth Organics carries natural products for a wide array of skin conditions. They use grass-fed tallow as a base for many of their balms, because it is rich in fat-soluble vitamins and fatty acids that can increase collagen production, strengthen the skin, and calm inflammation. With all these nutrients working in tandem to heal and nourish the skin, tallow is a powerhouse topical ointment for every skin type. The best thing about this business, though, is that it’s dedicated to the Holy Family of Nazareth. From website to packaging, every sustainably sourced product points back to the faith and the ultimate source of creation. They also donate a portion of all proceeds to Catholic charitable organizations. If you want to honor and care for your body using pure and natural ingredients straight from God’s hands, then check out Nazareth Organics. You can find them at and use code ABIDE10 at checkout for a 10% discount. Follow them on social media at: . Timestamps: 00:00 Nazareth Organics 01:26 Intro 02:12 Welcome 03:45 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 04:44 The Power of Scripture 08:28 Scripture Never Gets Old 14:56 How Scripture Can Heal Wounds 19:04 It’s Personal to You 24:32 Going Deeper into the Word of God 27:02 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/39945015

S18 E2 - Forgiveness 01/26/2026

S18 E2 - Forgiveness In this episode, we reflect on the tender and often misunderstood topic of forgiveness, what it is, what it isn’t, and why it's central to finding freedom in Christ. We talk honestly about how resentment and unforgiveness can quietly build in the heart, often as an attempt to protect ourselves from further pain. We also acknowledge how difficult forgiveness can be, what to do with the cry of our hearts when we have been wounded, and how to entrust it to God when we don’t yet feel capable of forgiving. Friends, forgiveness does not strip us of our identity, it affirms who we are in Christ. Even in the deepest places of hurt, we find hope because of the loving presence of a God who never abandons us in our pain. Heather’s One Thing - by Brooke Ligertwood Heather’s Other One Thing - The Franciscan University Community Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Heather’s Michelle’s One Thing - Congratulations to Indiana University for winning the championship! Michelle’s Other One Thing - by Virginia Evans Other Resources Mentioned: by Dr. Robert Enright Announcement: Our 2026 Lenten book study will be “” by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks! Journal Questions: What are the unhealed places of your heart? Are you angry, sad, or frustrated at the wrong you’ve endured? How have I experienced shame about the wrongs I’ve endured or my own unforgiveness? How has this affected my health, wellbeing, or energy? How do I replay or obsess over the conflict I experienced? How have I given into constant comparison in my unforgiveness? What major changes have occurred in my life because of the injustice I’ve experienced and how have they affected me? Has this experience led to a more negative worldview? How has my sense of self changed? Am I seeing myself as worthless? Discussion Questions: How have you been sweeping things under the rug and calling it forgiveness? What deeper feelings lie beneath your resentment? Where in your life do you need to repent and take personal responsibility? Who has modeled repentance and forgiveness well in your life? How does your heart react to conflict and wrongdoing in relationships? Quotes to Ponder: “Ultimately, we can really forgive people only because Christ rose from the dead; his Resurrection is the guarantee that God can cure every wrong and every hurt.” (Fr. Jacques Philippe, ) Resentment attacks our vital forces and does us much harm. When someone has made us suffer, our tendency is to keep the memory of the wrong alive in our minds, like a “bill” we will produce in due time to demand settlement. Those accumulated bills end up poisoning our lives. It is wiser to cancel every debt, as the Gospel invites us to. In return, we will be forgiven everything, and our hearts will be set free, whereas nurturing resentment toward others closes us to the positive things they could contribute to us.” (Fr. Jacques Philippe, ) Scripture for Lectio: “Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!”” (Matthew 18:21-22) Sponsor - Blessed is She: “Who do you say that I am?” Jesus didn’t ask this because He was uncertain of His identity. He asked because we often are. The disciples had walked with Him. They had seen the miracles. They had heard the teaching. And still, when the question was asked, many hesitated. Because proximity to Jesus does not automatically mean intimacy. So often, our understanding of God is shaped by what we’ve absorbed over time—what we were taught, what we experienced, what others modeled for us. And without noticing, we begin to believe stories that aren’t true.That God is distant. That He is easily disappointed. That love must be earned. That holiness requires perfection. But Jesus does not leave us guessing. He tells us who He is: I am the Light of the World. I am the Bread of Life. I am the Good Shepherd. I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life... Join this Lent to journey with Jesus to Jerusalem in by Debra Herbeck. This Lenten devotional walks through the “I AM” statements of Jesus in the Gospel of John and is written to lead you out of assumptions and into encounter. This Lent, let Jesus speak for Himself. And let that truth reshape the way you live. Whether you’ve been walking with Jesus for years or you just met Him, drink even more deeply of the truths of who Jesus says He is in Get your women's and kid's devotionals at . is a Catholic women’s community for any woman who wants to radically follow Jesus through a vibrantly Catholic life every single day. We create beautiful and accessible resources (), products, and experiences to deepen prayer and foster community, both online and in person. We invite you into this community, no matter where you are on your walk with Christ. You belong here. Subscribe to our *free* daily emails to pray with the daily Mass readings and women all over the world at and order the brand new Blessed is She Catholic journaling Bible at Timestamps: 00:00 Blessed is She 01:30 Intro 02:16 Welcome 03:25 Scripture Verse and Quotes to Ponder 06:13 Repentance Leads to Freedom 07:53 Forgiveness is Hard 09:41 How Do I Forgive When I Don’t Have the Capacity? 13:27 Modeling Repentance in Our Lives 17:35 Being Honest with Ourselves Can Be Painful 24:28 Sitting in the Pain and Setting Boundaries 29:34 Reflection Questions on Forgiveness 38:03 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/39850810

S18 E1 - Word of the Year 01/19/2026

S18 E1 - Word of the Year Welcome to season 18 kickoff with our annual tradition of the Word of the Year episode! Each year, we ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share what our words for 2026 mean to us and chat about the Saints journeying with us this year. We are excited to be back and look forward to what this year will bring! Heather’s One Thing - by Dr. Sean Tobin ( too!) Heather’s Other One Thing - by Amanda Cook Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Fr. Paul Hinnebusch, OP () Michelle’s One Thing - by Allen Levi Other Resources Mentioned: Announcement: Our 2026 Lenten book study will be “” by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks! Journal Questions: What was my word for 2025? How did the Lord work in and through me with that word? What is my word for 2026? How does my heart sit with the word revealed to me? How is the Lord inviting me into deeper love & intimacy in this new year? What is the Lord asking me to delight in? Has the Lord entrusted a particular saint to journey with you this year? Discussion Questions: Reflect on and share about your word for 2025 and the graces you encountered through that word. What images, phrases, artwork, or Scripture verses have been on your mind when praying about your word of the year? What is your word for 2026? How did the Lord reveal it to you? Do you feel surprised, apprehensive, or delighted by your word for 2026? How can you hold onto hope this year? What is the Lord asking you to grow in? Quotes to Ponder: “For last year’s words belong to last year’s language, and next year’s words await another voice.” (T.S. Eliot, "Little Gidding") “Let yourself be silently drawn by the stronger pull of what you really love.” (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity) Scripture for Lectio: “Yet those who wait for the Lord will gain new strength; They will mount up with wings like eagles, They will run and not get tired, They will walk and not become weary.” (Isaiah 40:31) Sponsor - CORDA: CORDA translates the stories of the saints into scents, and helps you create a place of prayer and peace in your home with their handcrafted Catholic candles. Backed by 3,500+ 5-star reviews, CORDA candles have a beautiful modern design, are made with great ingredients like clean coconut wax and phthalate-free fragrances, and have an awesome burn time of 45 hours! Plus, there’s CORDA Rewards: earn points with every purchase that you can redeem for free products, gift cards, and free shipping. You should also check out their special wedding favors, bulk order discounts for nonprofits and businesses, and their super easy Catholic fundraisers! Learn more and explore all of CORDA’s handcrafted Catholic candles at Timestamps: 00:00 CORDA 01:38 Intro 02:25 Lent Announcement 03:10 Welcome 06:43 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 08:24 Sister Miriam’s Word of the Year 12:28 Heather’s Word of the Year 17:16 Michelle’s Word of the Year 25:13 Being Honest with Ourselves and with God 29:20 Our Saints of the Year 33:18 What if I don’t have a Word of the Year? 34:26 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/39773275

S17 E15 - The Four Places of Advent: The Stable (Part 4) 12/22/2025

S17 E15 - The Four Places of Advent: The Stable (Part 4) In this episode, we end our journey at the Stable, the humble place where God chose for us to meet His Son. We reflect on the stable of our own hearts, how Jesus chooses to meet us in our own poverty now, and why His very presence brings healing. We also talk about how when we sit in our emptiness, release control, and surrender each part of our lives to God, He is able to work more powerfully in our lives. Finally, we ponder Mary’s quiet and loving gaze upon the Christ Child and how we are invited to slow down and notice Jesus smiling back at us. Friends, we’ve deeply enjoyed journeying with you this year. As we take a break, please know you are in our prayers. We will see you on January 19th, 2026 when Season 18 begins! Have a blessed and merry Christmas! Heather’s One Thing - Our Abiding Together staff: Camille, Kate, and Kristina! Heather’s Other One Thing - The new St. Francis convent in Steubenville Heather’s Third One Thing - Every Sacred Sunday’s Edition of the Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Our listeners and Patreon supporters. Thank you! Sister Miriam’s Other One Thing - from the Restore the Glory Podcast Michelle’s One Thing - The beauty of the different religious orders! Finally, we arrive at the Stable — the poorest of places, and yet, the holiest of all. Here, in straw and silence, the Infinite takes on skin. The cry of a newborn splits the night open, and suddenly, everything is sacred again The invitation into the mess Into our own poverty… The cry of our humanity … Worship is not what we think it will look like. Other Resources Mentioned: The by Caravaggio by Dr. James Friesen Journal Questions: Where do I find myself in “unsatisfactory condition”? What are the scandalous places within me that I want to keep away from the Lord? How am I managing my own creativity rather than welcoming the Holy Spirit into my creativity? What beliefs am I carrying deeply about God? How does God want to heal these beliefs? Where am I afraid? How can I make space for Jesus and spend time with Him in this Christmas season? Discussion Questions: How are you tempted to sanitize the Mystery of the Incarnation in your own life? Where in my life do I need a new perspective? When have you experienced God coming to you in a way you weren’t expecting Him to? How am I seeking control in this season? How can I surrender that control? What are the stables of my life that God is inviting me into deeper surrender? Quote to Ponder: “I am so glad Jesus was born in a stable, because my soul is so much like a stable. It’s poor and in unsatisfactory condition - Yet, I believe that if Jesus can be born in a stable, maybe he can be born in me.” (Dorothy Day) Scripture for Lectio: “In those days a decree went out from Emperor Augustus that all the world should be registered. This was the first registration and was taken while Quirinius was governor of Syria. All went to their own towns to be registered. Joseph also went from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to the city of David called Bethlehem, because he was descended from the house and family of David. He went to be registered with Mary, to whom he was engaged and who was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for her to deliver her child. And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in bands of cloth, and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn.” (Luke 2:1-7) Sponsor - Fully Mediterranean: Our sponsor today is Fully Mediterranean, a company dedicated to helping people discover the Mediterranean diet and lifestyle, a way of eating and living that is both deeply nourishing and beautifully simple. At Fully Mediterranean, they believe that good health and good food go hand in hand—and that both of these begin in the same place: around the table, where we slow down, gather, connect, and are reminded of God’s goodness in the everyday moments of life. It’s where we feed not only our bodies, but also our relationships. And it’s often where we rediscover joy, connection, and presence. Fully Mediterranean was built on a mission to help people discover a simple, nourishing way of eating and living—a way that brings peace, beauty, and balance into everyday. Their approach is not about pressure or perfection. It’s about gently integrating habits that help you live fully, with a sense of gratitude and mindfulness that aligns beautifully with our Catholic faith. What makes the Mediterranean lifestyle so special is that it’s not just a way of eating; it’s a way of living. It’s a lifestyle shaped by mindfulness, by community, and by gratitude. It’s about slowing down, savoring what God provides, and sharing meals with the people He places in our lives. It’s about choosing foods that nourish the body He entrusted to us—vibrant vegetables, wholesome grains, fresh herbs, lean proteins, and healthy fats—while also embracing the joy and connection that come from preparing and enjoying meals with others. Fully Mediterranean provides practical, realistic tools, guidance, and inspiration to help you bring these values into your kitchen and everyday life. Through recipes, programs, workshops, and practical nutrition guidance, we help women simplify healthy eating, feel confident in the kitchen, and rediscover the joy that comes from preparing meals that are both good for the body and soul-satisfying. In a world filled with noise, pressure, and quick fixes, the Mediterranean lifestyle offers something gentler and more grounded—an invitation to live intentionally, joyfully, and wholeheartedly. It encourages us to choose foods that honor the bodies God created, to gather more often with the people we love, and to find celebration in simple, nourishing routines. Whether you're looking to support your long-term health, gain energy for your daily responsibilities, or create more meaningful rhythms in your home, Fully Mediterranean is here to guide you every step of the way. We want to help you build a lifestyle that supports your well-being and draws you closer to living the full, abundant life God desires for you. Because at Fully Mediterranean, we believe that when you nourish your body well, you nourish every part of your life. And when you gather at the table with gratitude, intention, and love, you reflect God’s goodness in the most natural, beautiful way. If you’re ready to bring more peace, health, and joy into your kitchen—and your life—we invite you to explore all that Fully Mediterranean offers. Discover delicious recipes, practical tips, and inspiring resources designed to help you integrate the Mediterranean way of living into your daily routine with ease and grace. Join us and use the code Abidingtogether20 to receive 20% off any of our products, including our course, ebooks and Substack membership. Join the 30-day Mediterranean challenge starting January 1st for just $8. Visit us at , Substack: and @fullymediterranean Chapters: 00:00 Fully Mediterranean 01:37 Intro 02:30 Welcome to the Stable 05:56 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse 07:12 The Poverty of Our Hearts 11:26 Surrendering the Messy Parts of Our Lives 15:30 Healing Our Image of God 19:31 What it Means to Ponder 21:37 Making Space in the Midst of a Busy Season 28:27 Season 18 Announcement! 28:58 One Things Music used under license i94Cr0 /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/39443515

S17 E14 - The Four Places of Advent: Elizabeth’s House (Part 3) 12/15/2025

S17 E14 - The Four Places of Advent: Elizabeth’s House (Part 3) In this episode, we journey to Elizabeth’s house, the place of the Visitation. We reflect on Mary’s haste as she makes the journey to visit Elizabeth and how Elizabeth creates space for Mary as the mystery of the incarnation unfolds. We also ponder Elizabeth’s years of longing for a child, how God fulfills our desires in ways different than we expect, and why we should hold onto hope instead of disappointment. Finally, we talk about cultivating a deeper sensitivity to God’s presence, trusting that even when His work is hidden, beauty is unfolding within our lives. Heather’s One Thing - by Bethel Music Sister Miriam’s Half Thing - As part of the , any Religious Order/ Clergy will have a free storefront with no charges to list or commission fees. (The only cost will be bank fees of about 3% of any sale). Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Dr. Robert Enright Michelle’s One Thing - Notre Dame Football (especially Marcus Freeman) And then, we travel to Elizabeth’s house, high in the hills. Two women meet, and the air is thick with recognition. Promises leap, joy erupts, and prophecy dances between them. This is the place of friendship, of shared waiting, of laughter through tears. Because God often comes to us in the embrace of another who believes. Journal Questions: In what places of my life can I allow mystery to breathe and unfold? Who can I share the deep places of disappointment with and not feel judged? Where do I feel disappointed? How can I be a nest for others? What promise is leaping within you right now wanting to be recognized? Where do I run when God is doing something new in me? Who is my Elizabeth? Discussion Questions: When has the Holy Spirit asked you to do something that didn’t make sense in the natural world? How can we cultivate a home for others within our own hearts? Where is the Holy Spirit moving in your life and in other’s lives? When was the last time you experienced someone speaking prophetically over your life? Quote to Ponder: "If there ever comes a time when the women of the world come together purely and simply for the benefit of mankind, it will be a force such as the world has never known.” (Matthew Arnold) Scripture for Lectio: “Blessed is she who believed that the Lord would fulfill His promises to her.” (Luke 1:45) Sponsor - Chews Life: Rosaries for Every Age and Season of Life. Sister Lucia of Fatima once said, “There is no problem, no matter how difficult, that we cannot solve by the prayer of the Holy Rosary.” At Chews Life , that isn’t just a beautiful quote, it’s the heartbeat of everything they do. Chews Life is a Catholic-owned small business whose mission is simple but bold: to equip every Catholic, in every age and season of life, with Rosaries for life. Whether you’re a new mom juggling family life, a student on the go, or someone rediscovering the beauty of prayer, Chews Life creates practical and beautiful ways to make the Rosary part of your everyday rhythm. For the Littlest Catholics one of the most beloved parts of the Chews Life mission is their dedication to helping children grow up surrounded by prayer. Their silicone Rosaries are soft, durable, and made for little hands to safely explore and grow in their love for the Rosary. Parents often say that watching their child hold one feels like watching them reach out to hold Our Lady’s hand. Each design is thoughtfully created to be both faith-filled and family-safe, something little ones can hold, and carry as they begin learning the gentle rhythm of prayer. It’s never too early to begin planting those seeds of devotion. For women, Chews Life offers their signature excuse-proof Rosary bracelet, a gemstone Rosary that is both beautiful and wearable. Designed to help you pray throughout the day, this bracelet is a quiet but powerful companion for busy women who long to stay connected to God in the middle of everyday life. Whether you’re at work, running errands, or caring for your family, these bracelets make it easy to keep prayer close. Each one includes Chews Life’s signature “bookmark” crucifix charm, allowing you to pause your Rosary and pick it up right where you left off. Because real life and real prayer go hand-in-hand. Made with genuine gemstones and durable materials, every bracelet is a tangible reminder that holiness grows in the middle of ordinary moments, and that beauty and faith were always meant to belong together. For the Men in Your Life: Crux Invicta That same level of craftsmanship and devotion extends to the men’s line, Crux Invicta, Chews Life’s brother brand. The name means “The Cross Invincible,” and it captures the heart of what this collection stands for: bold, rugged faith rooted in strength and sacrifice. Crux Invicta features paracord and gemstone Rosary bracelets designed for durability and purpose. Each piece carries the reminder that victory comes through the Cross, offering men a tangible way to live out their faith in the everyday battles of life. And for those looking to go deeper and learn more about the mysteries of the Rosary, Chews Life founder Shannon Wendt invites you on a journey of prayer through her new book, The Way of the Rosary: A Journey with Mary through Scripture, Liturgy, and Life . This book is a heartfelt invitation to walk with Mary and discover the mysteries of the Rosary as they unfold through Scripture, the rhythm of the Liturgy, and the ordinary moments of daily life. Shannon’s reflections reveal how Mary accompanies us in joy and in sorrow, guiding us always closer to her Son From their baby-safe silicone Rosaries, to their gemstone Rosary bracelets, to the Crux Invicta men’s line and The Way of the Rosary book, every part of Chews Life’s mission is designed to make prayer not just accessible but truly lived. Because for Chews Life, prayer isn’t something you fit in when you can. It’s something that fits beautifully into the life you’re already living. You can explore the full collections and learn more at and . And as a special thank-you to Abiding Together listeners, use the code ABIDE15 for 15% off your order on either site. Chapters: 00:00 Chews Life 01:37 Intro 02:30 Welcome to Elizabeth’s House 06:02 The Shared Gift of the Visitation 08:15 Having A Safe Place to Allow Mystery to Unfold 10:08 The Holy Spirit Reveals Jesus 12:!5 Sacred Companionship 13:40 When We Carry Disappointments 16:50 Speaking Life Into Other People 18:36 Living Out of Our Insecurities 19:49 Being A Safe Place for Others 22:37 Having Sensitivity to the Presence of God 25:26 One Things Music used under license i94Cr0 /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/39396425

S17 E13 - The Four Places of Advent: Loreto (Part 2) 12/08/2025

S17 E13 - The Four Places of Advent: Loreto (Part 2) In this episode, we journey to the house of Loreto, a simple home where the Annunciation took place. We reflect on how God meets us in the quiet, ordinary places of our own lives and how He meets us where we are, no matter how isolated we may feel. We also explore Mary’s free and wholehearted yes, given without a request for details, and consider where the Holy Spirit may be inviting us to trust and surrender in our own hidden spaces. As Advent is a time to rest in stillness, we talk about making room for God in our schedules, noticing His gentle invitations in the everyday, and allowing His Word to take root in us even when the fruits of our yes are not yet visible. Heather’s One Thing - Registration for is open! Michelle and I would love to see you there! Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Michelle’s One Thing - Trader Joe’s winter peonies Next, we come to the House of Loreto, a humble home, walls worn by daily life, where the eternal interrupted the ordinary. Here, a young woman listens and her “yes” ripples through all of time. This is the place of surrender, of saying yes to what we cannot yet understand. The Word takes root in the quiet soil of her trust. Other Resources Mentioned: “” painting by Henry Tanner Journal Questions: Where am I missing God’s presence in the ordinary moments? What does God want to announce to me this Advent? Where have I said no to the Lord in the past? What parts of your life feel uncontrollable? How can I choose to surrender this Advent? Discussion Questions: Where is the Lord inviting you to say yes? How has God interrupted and nudged you in the ordinary moments of life? Where is the Lord inviting you to surrender? How has God slowly unraveled His plan for your life? Quote to Ponder: “This is a serious warning cry: Surrender without reservation to the Lord who has called us. This is required of us so that the face of the earth may be renewed." (Edith Stein) Scripture for Lectio: “The angel Gabriel was sent from God to a town of Galilee called Nazareth…” (Luke 1:26) Sponsor - Small Town Catholic Living: Have you ever dreamed of living in a community where families flourish, bible studies abound, and you can walk to daily Mass and adoration? Have you desired to send your kids to an authentically Catholic school but could never afford the tuition or can afford it, but it lacks deeply rooted Catholic tradition and culture? Small Town Catholic Living is a thriving Catholic community located in Beloit, Kansas. It's a place where strong faith, family values, and small-town charm come together. Here, families and kids walk and ride their bikes around town, young families fill the local 120 year old Romanesque-Gothic Catholic Church, and Eucharisstic adoration is offered 24/7. There is also a PreK-12th grade Catholic school so that your kids can receive an authentic Catholic education for a fraction of what other private schools cost. The town also features all the important necessities of life such as a full-service local hospital, an impressive recreation center, retirement communities, and remote workspace offices. Fishing, hunting, camping, and boating are popular at the nearby Waconda Lake. If you've been dreaming of living in a community where your children can grow up surrounded by others living out their faith, where people truly know you, or a place that has taken a step back from the business of this world, we invite you to learn more by visiting our website at . It's not impossible to be spiritually fed while fulfilling your mission to raise your family! Chapters: 00:00 Small Town Catholic Living 01:15 Intro 02:24 Welcome to Loreto 03:28 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse 05:02 God Comes in the Ordinary 08:14 In the Fullness of Time 10:15 God Invites Us to Respond to His Invitations 11:50 When We Feel Like We are Isolated 15:20 Saying Yes to God Even When We don’t Understand 19:19 The Quiet Work of Faith 21:55 Will We Make Space for God? 26:35 One Things Music used under license i94Cr0 /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/39278080

S17 E12 - The Four Places of Advent: Eden (Part 1) 12/01/2025

S17 E12 - The Four Places of Advent: Eden (Part 1) In this episode, we begin our Advent journey in Eden, a place of freedom, communion, and life without shame. Eden is not only a moment in history, but also an interior garden within each of our hearts. We talk about the deep ache we all feel for union, rest, and peace, and how this longing reveals our original design for communion with God. We also reflect on the shame that often accompanies this desire for communion with others, especially when our desires are left unmet, and how bringing these places of poverty to Jesus opens us up to real, lived communion with Him. Heather’s One Thing - The Renew Conference in Toronto Heather’s Other One Thing - Her Sister Miriam’s One Thing - (Catholic Etsy!) founded by Tim and Molly Olsen Michelle’s One Thing - and this Michelle’s Other One Thing - Fr. Innocent Montgomery, CFR Welcome, dear friends… to this Advent journey, a pilgrimage of the heart, through four sacred spaces where heaven once touched the earth. These are the places of Advent. Eden. Loreto. Elizabeth’s home. And a stable under starlight. Each one holds a mystery… a whisper of God’s coming, a rhythm of waiting, a quiet invitation to abide. We begin… in Eden — the garden of beginnings and original designs, Here, everything was whole once, every breath in attunement with God’s own. But even in the ache of what was lost, something sacred remains, a longing, a promise, a memory of shalom harmony still written in our bones. Eden reminds us: our waiting is not empty. It is the remembering of love that has never stopped pursuing us. Journal Questions: What are the unique gifts that God has placed inside of you? When do I experience shame in the ache for communion? When have I recently experienced a rupture from Eden? Who in your life allows you to feel at home and at ease? How can I return to Eden through a daily practice? Discussion Questions: How have you experienced yourself as a gift? When have you experienced an ache for Eden in your life? When do you feel exiled from Eden? What glimpses of Eden have you seen in your life recently? Quote to Ponder: “We all long for Eden, and we are constantly glimpsing it: our whole nature at its best and least corrupted, its gentlest and most human, is still soaked with the sense of exile.” (J.R.R. Tolkien, The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien) Scripture for Lectio: “Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.” (Genesis 2:25) Sponsor - Altar + Home: Altar and Home by Conception Abbey exists to bring the beauty of Benedictine spirituality into your domestic church. The way we as Benedictine monks punctuate our days with prayer. The way we balance prayer and work (ora et labora). The way we pray with scripture in lectio divina. The way we live in community to support one another. Incorporating these treasures into your daily lives can draw you and your domestic church into Christ one day – one prayer – at a time. Our online store offers intentionally Catholic products for every occasion and every season. Lectio Divina rosary guides, daily journals, greeting cards, sacrament gifts, icons, and prints, along with books, bibles, and everything you need to make your home a sacred space. Make Advent and Christmas a time of joy and peace with our —bundled sets specifically chosen by the monks to share our lives with each of you. They make the perfect gift for the Catholic in your life. Through this Altar + Home ministry, the Benedictine monks of Conception Abbey share the prayer God calls us to at the altar into the domestic church of our customers as we seek to cultivate one holy, apostolic, Catholic Church. We invite you shop with us at . Use the discount code ABIDE to get 20% off your order. Chapters: 00:00 Altar + Home 01:25 Intro 02:17 Welcome to Eden 09:38 Our Heart is a Garden and Place of Communion 11:18 We are Made as a Gift 13:32 Healing from Shame in Our Ache 17:57 Homesickness and Exile 20:23 God is Longing for Us 22:16 Imaginative Prayer 24:13 The Goodness of Our Bodies 26:06 Inviting the Lord into Communion 27:47 Advent is a Time of Preparation 29:32 One Things Music used under license i94Cr0 /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/39183710

S17 E11 - A Moment of Gratitude 11/24/2025

S17 E11 - A Moment of Gratitude In this episode, we reflect on the importance of giving thanks to the Lord for all He has done in both the beautiful and difficult moments of life. We talk about how practicing gratitude can change our perspective of reality and helps us recognize where God has been present even in moments we do not understand. We also name the fears that can sometimes keep us from giving thanks and discuss how gratitude becomes an act of surrender that opens us to God’s steady, faithful presence. As a gift to you, we end today’s episode by doing Lectio Divina with Psalm 34 and invite you into a time of prayer with us. Heather’s One Thing - Recipe Heather’s Other One Thing - and by Amanda Cook Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Her Community Michelle’s One Thing - College Football Other Resources Mentioned: Life Transitions and with Chris Benzinger by Ann Voskamp Journal Questions: What graces have I received this year? How did the Lord accompany me this year? What do I need to let go of as we transition into a new liturgical year? What parts of my life am I afraid to give thanks for? Discussion Questions: What has the Lord taught you in this season? What was surprising this past year? What challenges and joys did you experience this year? Where are you resistant to give thanks? Quote to Ponder: “Gratitude is at the center of a life of faith. It sounds too simple to be true, but isn't that the sign of all deep truth: so simple we're tempted to dismiss it, and so hard, it is exactly what God uses to change our hard lives.” (Ann Voskamp) Scripture for Lectio: “I will bless the Lord at all times; his praise shall continually be in my mouth. My soul makes its boast in the Lord; let the humble hear and be glad. O magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together. I sought the Lord, and he answered me, and delivered me from all my fears. Look to him, and be radiant; so your faces shall never be ashamed. This poor soul cried, and was heard by the Lord, and was saved from every trouble. The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear him, and delivers them. O taste and see that the Lord is good; happy are those who take refuge in him.” (Psalm 34:1-8) Sponsor - The GIVEN Institute: The GIVEN Institute is a vibrant non-profit organization dedicated to activating the gifts of women for the Church and the world. GIVEN wants to help you receive the gift that you are, realize the gifts you’ve been given, and respond with the gift only you can give. Applications are now open for GIVEN’s 2026 Leadership Program. Faithful Catholic women between the ages of 21 and 35 are encouraged to apply today! GIVEN’s program includes participation at the Leadership Forum from June 24-28, 2026 in Washington, DC and a year of dedicated, 1-on-1 mentorship with an established Catholic female leader. Abiding Together Co-Host Heather Khym will be a speaker at the 2026 Leadership Forum next June along with other phenomenal Catholic women leaders of all ages, all vocations, and all walks of life. If you are a woman between the ages 21 and 35 and seeking leadership training, faith formation, and support to better understand and pursue your particular mission, GIVEN’s Leadership Program is designed just for you! You’ll grow in relationship with Christ, gain a deeper understanding of your personal vocation, and be empowered to develop an Action Plan to activate your personal gifts to impact the world. For women over 35 with a desire to get involved, please consider becoming a Mentor or Volunteer! For more information and to apply, please visit . Chapters: 00:00 The Given Institute 01:26 Intro 02:16 Welcome 03:45 Practicing Being Thankful First 06:01 Giving Thanks in All Things 08:25 Gratitude is the Center of A Life of Faith 11:22 Being Afraid to Give Thanks 13:14 Lectio Divina 23:18 Our Reflections from Lectio 28:46 One Things Music used under license i94Cr0 /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/39115415

S17 E10 - Cultivating Unity 11/17/2025

S17 E10 - Cultivating Unity In this episode, we conclude our series on the garden of our hearts and explore what it means to cultivate unity—which is especially important as we enter the busy and often stressful holiday season. We talk about the difference between anger and contempt and how contempt can not only fracture relationships but also plant seeds of division in our hearts. We also reflect on how we can respond to discord with humility, a holy curiosity, and a genuine desire to understand. Ultimately, unity begins with love, bears good fruit, and reflects the presence of Christ within us. Heather’s One Thing - The Cheesecloth Turkey Basting Method () Sister Miriam’s One Thing - College Volleyball Playoffs (especially Nebraska) Michelle’s One Thing - from Walmart Announcement: Our Advent Study begins December 1st, 2025! Journal Questions: Where in my heart am I harboring contempt? What groups of people or individuals do I see as worthless? When was the last time that someone treated you with contempt? How did that impact you? How am I seeking to understand people with different opinions? How is the Lord inviting me to refine and cultivate my tone to speak love to others? When faced with division and disunity, are the movements of my heart and my external actions congruent? Discussion Questions: What differences have you observed between conformity and unity? What differences have you observed between anger and contempt? When are you tempted to roll my eyes, sneer, act with hostility, speak with sarcasm? When is it hardest for you to cultivate unity? Quote to Ponder: “To understand one another and to grow in charity and truth, we need to pause, to accept and listen to one another. In this way, we already begin to experience unity. Unity grows along the way; it never stands still. Unity happens when we walk together.” (Pope Francis, Homily at second Vespers on the solemnity of the conversion of St. Paul, Jan. 25, 2015) Scripture for Lectio: “I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, beg you to lead a life worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all lowliness and meekness, with patience, forbearing one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit… one Lord, one faith, one baptism.” (Ephesians 4:1-6) Sponsor - Glory: Women’s Gathering: If you’re feeling like your spiritual life could use a little more support than podcasts and online formation can offer, you need to check out this week’s sponsor, the Glory: Women’s Conference hosted by Steubenville Conferences in partnership with Heather Khym. We want to invite you to join Heather, Michelle, and our dear friends Debbie Herbeck, Sarah Kaczmarek, Monica Richards, and Fr. Dave Pivonka TOR this coming June 5-7 in Steubenville, Ohio, as we gather with women across generations and seek God’s restoration and healing. This gathering will include talks, worship, prayer experiences, and the opportunity to interact with fellow Abiding Together listeners and new friends from all over who will be flying in. Heather and Michelle would absolutely love to meet you. Whether you come with your Abiding Together small group, with a close friend, or on your own, we can’t wait to gather in fellowship with you. Registration is now open for the Glory: Women’s Conference. For early bird pricing of only $259, register by December 31st. The price will go up in the new year. Visit for more information or to register! Chapters: 00:00 Glory: Women’s Gathering 01:31 Intro 02:22 Advent Announcement 03:14 Welcome 05:19 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse 06:19 Distinguishing Anger vs Contempt 11:28 Living Like We are One Body in Christ 13:48 Seeking to Understand Rather than be Understood 18:22 The Power of Our Tone of Voice 20:35 Examining the Fruit in Our Lives 22:49 Maturing Spiritually 27:06 Repairing Strained Relationships 29:08 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/39035115

S17 E9 - Cultivating Beauty 11/10/2025

S17 E9 - Cultivating Beauty In this episode, we continue our series on the Garden of Our Hearts and talk about the cultivation of beauty. Beauty has the power to transform, heal, and lift us into communion with God, but it must be cultivated with care and intention. We discuss what it means to co-create with God, slow down and savor little moments, and rediscover beauty in the people closest to us. Even when the world around us feels barren or artificial, the Lord invites us to see beauty with new eyes and let the Holy Spirit reveal His presence in unexpected ways. Heather’s One Thing - The designed by Every Sacred Sunday Heather’s Other One Thing - by Pat Barrett Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Michelle’s One Thing - Word on Fire’s - Issue 25 on Beauty Michelle’s Other One Thing - by Emily Stimpson Chapman Other Resources Mentioned: with Jon Tyson and Louie Giglio and will publish the new English edition of the Liturgy of the Hours Journal Questions: How am I uniquely gifted at cultivating beauty? When have you had an experience with beauty that transformed your heart? What lies and limitations do I believe about my own creativity? How does God want to play with me in the dirt this week? In what ways am I too busy for creativity and beauty? What beauty does the Lord want to show you - both within you and outside of you? Discussion Questions: Have you come across AI art recently? How did you respond to it? In what ways have you limited your own creativity? Who or what inspires you to be more creative? How will you cultivate beauty and express creativity in your life? Quotes to Ponder: “Every expression of true beauty can thus be acknowledged as a path leading to an encounter with the Lord Jesus.” -Pope Francis “We must wonder! We must create an environment of wonder! We must create a climate of wonder! This task is closest to the family. . . . Wonder is needed so that beauty might enter into human life, into society and the nation. This beauty is the foundation and the creative moment of the culture. It is impossible to create culture by administrative means. These means can only destroy it. . . . We need to marvel at everything that is found in man.” (Saint Pope John Paul II) Scripture for Lectio: “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” (Philippians 4:8) Sponsor - The Inspired Living: The Inspired Living is your one-stop shop for meaningful Advent and Christmas gifts this season! As an online shop sourcing Catholic home decor, books, and gifts, we believe that our spiritual lives begin at home, and should be a reflection of that which is eternally beautiful, God Himself. At The Inspired Living we have intentionally curated and sourced into one place the best Catholic products - whether that be decor for your home, gifts for sacraments, or books and sacramentals that will enhance your domestic church. We offer a unique array of handcrafted goods and exquisite gifts made by artisans not only in the United States, but around the world. Head to our website to find: Kids stocking stuffers Gifts for St. Nicholas Day Beautiful fine jewelry Hostess gifts for Holiday Parties Advent candles and devotionals Catholic home decor And so much more Explore our shop at or visit us on instagram @the_inspiredliving Use the code ABIDING15 for an exclusive 15% off discount at checkout! Chapters: 00:00 The Inspired Living 00:57 Intro 01:47 Welcome 02:50 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 03:34 When We Don’t See Beauty 05:02 Cultivating Beauty in an Artificial World 10:06 Co-Creating with God 16:24 Discovering Beauty in the Small Things 18:20 Slowing Down to Receive Beauty 23:57 Seeing Beauty in Others and Ourselves 27:25 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/38935180

S17 E8 - Cultivating Peace 11/03/2025

S17 E8 - Cultivating Peace In this episode, we begin a series on cultivating the garden of our hearts and reflect on what it means to cultivate peace–as a fruit that grows from communion with God. The cultivation of peace is not something we control. It comes from learning to rest in God’s presence, even amid life’s storms. We talk practically about how to tend the soil of our hearts, so that peace can take root and grow into a fruit that becomes a visible witness to others. We also discuss how Jesus, the Prince of Peace, invites us to make room for His presence, allowing His breath to bring healing where fear and sin have disrupted our peace. Heather’s One Thing - is now streaming! Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Daniel Chowning, OCD Michelle’s One Thing - by Paul George Journal Questions: What places of my heart are filled with anxiety or despair? Where am I seeking to be fixed instead of seeking communion with the Lord? What sins am I justifying that are robbing me of peace? What lies am I trying to talk myself into? Who or what are you trying to fix in your life that you need to surrender to the Lord? Discussion Questions: How are you trying to control your life and heart rather than cultivating? What things motivate you to operate out of fear or mistrust? How can you internally cultivate peace? How can you externally cultivate peace? Quote to Ponder: Let nothing disturb you, Let nothing frighten you, All things are passing away: God never changes. Patience obtains all things Whoever has God lacks nothing; God alone suffices. (St. Teresa of Avila) Scripture for Lectio: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7) Sponsor - BeeStill Design: is a handcrafted Catholic jewelry and art brand founded by Louisiana artist and entrepreneur Holly Klock. A wife and mom of three, Holly has built BeeStill from a small creative outlet into a growing brand known for pieces that are both beautiful and meaningful. Her collections feature heirloom-quality jewelry, pressed flowers, and custom intaglios, along with enamel work and ornaments. From the very beginning, she has sought to bring the joy and beauty of our faith into each creation—always with the same vision: to design timeless pieces that tell stories of faith, love, and family. Whether you are looking for a piece of jewelry to be a daily reminder of God or would like to find a meaningful gift for someone in your life, head over to and use the code abidingtogether for 20% off your order. Chapters: 00:00 BeeStill Design 01:08 Intro 01:59 Welcome 04:11 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 06:31 Planting Peace in the Soil of Our Hearts 08:34 Cultivating vs Controlling 11:08 Fertilizing the Soil Around Us 13:56 The Breath of Peace 16:25 When We Feel Afraid 18:51 Communion Brings Healing 21:23 Wanting Peace for Those Around Us 23:26 Sin Disrupts Our Peace 27:52 Practical Tips for Cultivating Peace 32:55 Prayer 34:49 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/38861740

S17 E7 - Staying Grounded When Storms Come 10/27/2025

S17 E7 - Staying Grounded When Storms Come In this episode, we talk about what it means to weather the storms of life well. Everyone experiences difficult moments throughout their lives and these storms come in all shapes and sizes. In each one, we have the opportunity to respond from a place of truth and peace instead of fear. We share practical ways we’ve learned to weather the storms in our own lives, from simplifying life to immersing ourselves in Scripture. We also explore how pain, though difficult, can lead us into deeper healing and communion with God. No matter what you’re facing, you are not alone—He is near, and so are we. Heather’s One Thing - by Bill Johnson Heather’s Other One Thing - (feat Jonsal Barriente) from Elevation Worship Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Pints with Aquinas | Michelle’s One Thing - Nonprofit Other Resources Mentioned: book study book study Journal Questions: How have I been making decisions out of fear and overwhelm? What do I believe about God, myself, or another person within the context of my storm? When do I feel the most emotionally dysregulated? What coping mechanisms am I turning to instead of going to the Lord? What good is God doing within me in my suffering? Discussion Questions: What storms are you experiencing in this season? When has the Lord revealed His Presence to you from within a storm? Are you relying on the Lord or on yourself in the midst of your storm? What fruit has been born from suffering in your life? Quotes to Ponder: “Remain in me. This is the word of Jesus. It is not only a call but a promise of strength, peace, and fruitfulness.” (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity) “Let us live with Him as with a friend. Through all the storms, He remains.” (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity) Scripture for Lectio: “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” (Isaiah 41:10) Sponsor - Our Holy Home: Let your Christmas card say what matters most This year, send a card that reflects your faith and the true meaning of the season. Our Holy Home’s custom Catholic Christmas cards make it easy to share the joy of Christ’s birth beautifully and intentionally. Choose from over 30 designs, add your family photo and message, and get 25% off just for being here. Start designing now: Chapters: 00:00 Our Holy Home 01:16 Intro 02:06 Welcome 04:33 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse 08:12 How the Enemy Tries to Amplify Storms 09:45 Slowing Down is Essential 12:08 When Prayer Becomes Dry 14:23 Turmoil Can Feel Like Its Our Fault 16:43 Remembering God’s Faithfulness 18:37 Pain Causes Us to Make A Change 20:48 Distractions Will Never Fulfil Us 22:44 Maturing is A Decision We Make 24:15 Weathering Storms In Community 26:54 Spiritual Practices 28:55 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/38758090

S17 E6 - Return to the Heart with Dr. Shane Owens 10/20/2025

S17 E6 - Return to the Heart with Dr. Shane Owens In this episode, Dr. Shane Owens, a scholar of St. Augustine, joins us to discuss the power of memory. Together, we explore how memory is a place to where we withdraw to understand our identity, shape our whole self, and begin to see God working in our lives. Memory exists for the purpose of hope and we not only talk about how the Scriptures and Eucharist bear the memories of the Church, but also how our sorrowful memories can become sources of hope. Heather’s One Thing - (A conversation with Fr. Dave Pivonka and Dr. Shane Owens) Heather’s Other One Thing - Franciscan University’s Festival of Praise Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Archdiocese of Sydney, Australia Michelle’s One Thing - by Dr. Shane Owens Michelle’s Other One Thing - by St. Thérèse of Lisieux Dr. Shane Owens’ One Thing - from the St. Paul Center Other Resources Mentioned: by Dr. Shane Owens Journal Questions: Am I savoring or swallowing the gifts God has given me? What core memories of my life have been rewritten by God? What sorrowful mysteries of my life feel too complicated to ponder? Where in your memory do you need to ask Jesus where He was present in it? Discussion Questions: How can you hone your spiritual palate to be present to the good that God is doing in your life? When have you experienced the living power of memories? How have your memories been a source of hope? How are you being invited to slow down and ponder? Quote to Ponder: “The heart is the dwelling-place where I am, where I live; according to the Semitic or Biblical expression, the heart is the place "to which I withdraw." The heart is our hidden center, beyond the grasp of our reason and of others; only the Spirit of God can fathom the human heart and know it fully. The heart is the place of decision, deeper than our psychic drives. It is the place of truth, where we choose life or death. It is the place of encounter, because as image of God we live in relation: it is the place of covenant.” (CCC 2563) Scripture for Lectio: “But Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart.” (Luke 2:19) Sponsor - Hallow: Get 3 months free of Hallow at and enjoy over 10,000 audioguided prayers, meditations, and music. Hallow can help you find peace, build a daily habit of prayer, and grow closer to God. Chapters: 00:00 Hallow 01:00 Intro 01:50 Welcome 05:35 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 07:07 Who is St. Augustine? 09:30 What Inspired this Book? 11:18 Entering into Our Memories 13:20 How We Write Our Own Stories 15:34 Scripture and the Eucharist Help Us Understand Our Own Story 17:37 Chewing the Cud 20:47 Wondering vs Pondering 24:30 Hope in Our Sorrowful Mysteries 30:30 Finding Jesus in Painful Memories 38:59 Setting Aside Time to Hope 43:46 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/38606135

S17 E5 - The Ministry of Presence 10/13/2025

S17 E5 - The Ministry of Presence In this episode, we talk about what it means to bring God’s Presence into our relationships with others. Through His life, Jesus shows us how to live at the pace of the Holy Spirit and create space for authentic connection. We explore how easy it is to overlook the significance of ordinary moments and how, through slowing the pace of our lives, we have powerful opportunities to love, listen, and become more attuned to those around us. We also discuss the importance of healthy boundaries, the freedom that comes from not needing to fix others, and how it’s God’s love that shapes how we show up for the people in our lives. Heather’s One Thing - This Wild at Heart Podcast series with Jon Tyson Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Michelle’s One Thing - by Bethel Music, Jonathan Helser, and Melissa Helser Journal Questions: How can I show up for people in my life in this season? How do I need others to show up for me? In what ways do I lose myself when entering into the suffering of others? Do I need to create a boundary in any of my relationships? Discussion Questions: What margin do you need to create for yourself so you can be more present? What is your biggest obstacle to being present to your loved ones? How can you prioritize being present to Christ and what He’s doing in you? What would it look like for you to give from a place of security? Quote to Ponder: “More and more, the desire grows in me simply to walk around, greet people, enter their homes, sit on their doorsteps, play ball, throw water, and be known as someone who wants to live with them. It is a privilege to have the time to practice this simple ministry of presence. Still, it is not as simple as it seems. My own desire to be useful, to do something significant, or to be part of some impressive project is so strong that soon my time is taken up by meetings, conferences, study groups, and workshops that prevent me from walking the streets. It is difficult not to have plans, not to organize people around an urgent cause, and not to feel that you are working directly for social progress. But I wonder more and more if the first thing shouldn’t be to know people by name, to eat and drink with them, to listen to their stories and tell your own, and to let them know with words, handshakes, and hugs that you do not simply like them, but truly love them.” (Henri Nouwen, ) Scripture for Lectio: “O Lord, thou hast searched me and known me!” (Psalm 139:1) Sponsor - Camp Wojtyla: Are you looking for a transformative experience for your middle school or high school student? Camp Wojtyla helps young people fall more in love with Jesus Christ and His Church through epic adventures in the Colorado mountains, awesome community, and huge fun. Camp Wojtyla helps kids learn they are stronger than they thought, and that God is bigger than they could ever have imagined. Camp Wojtyla is nestled in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado on a beautiful, 1200-acre wilderness property, and offers fourteen different single gender programs, giving campers a unique opportunity to LIVE LIFE TO THE FULL! We have a God of adventure. He has a story and a plan for each of us. Camp Wojtyla teaches about God and the Catholic Church through authentic and life-changing adventures in creation. In a culture that inundates us with noise, unplugged time on the mountain helps us understand who God is and who He has made us to be. While at Camp Wojtyla, campers experience expertly designed and sequenced programming that helps them understand that they are called to sainthood...and how they can achieve it! Our carefully selected, and highly trained team of staff and counselors are joyful and faithful role models who can’t wait to help give your camper their best summer ever! Come check us out at www.camp-w.com. We can’t wait to offer you or your child a transformative adventure! The lottery for 2026 programming is open now through October 26th. Sign up today for a chance to experience Life to the Full at Camp Wojtyla this summer! Chapters: (00:00) Camp Wojtyla (01:40) Intro (02:30) Welcome (04:39) Guiding Quote (07:06) Being Present in the Everyday (08:48) The Gift of Another’s Presence (10:05) Contemplating Others as A Mystery to Be Revealed (12:18) The Gift of Presence is an Artform (14:51) Balancing Presence for You and Others (16:34) What Does Accompiment Look Like? (18:44) Having Boundaries (21:24) Fearing Being Present (23:37) Receiving from God First (26:07) One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/38525540

S17 E4 - Hope in Humanity 10/06/2025

S17 E4 - Hope in Humanity In this episode, we explore the gift of tears and the importance of allowing ourselves to cry. We reflect on our experiences with crying and talk about how tears, especially in painful moments, can be a powerful expression of surrender, lament, and hope when offered to God. With the help of the Holy Spirit, our sensitivity and capacity to cry reflect the way we were beautifully created to respond to what breaks God's heart. We discuss the vulnerability of crying, the pain of resisting it, and how Jesus crying out on the cross reveals the value of our own cries. Whether you're too tired to cry, afraid to show need, or already feel safe expressing emotion, we invite you to see crying as an act of worship and intercession. In our sorrow, God meets us with love, truth, and the hope that He can actually do something with our pain. Heather’s One Thing - by Sarah Kroger and Echo Harbor Worship Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Carrie Daunt Michelle’s One Thing - Her new back porch! Other Resources Mentioned: by John Mark Comer Journal Questions: When was the last time I cried? What would it look like for me to cry well? Where has my heart been repressed? Where do I need to cry out? Discussion Questions: How did Pope Leo’s words change your perspective on crying? How are you tempted to give in to cynicism? In what ways are you self-reliant in this season of life? How can you be an empathetic witness to someone crying out in their life? Quote to Ponder: “Finally, she asks God to give her a gift of tears to draw his mercy down upon the world, and especially upon his church. In one of her visions, Catherine records having been told by God: “If you open your mind’s eye you will see that the Holy Spirit weeps in the person of every one of my servants who offers me the fragrance of holy desire and constant humble prayer.” () “We are accustomed to thinking of crying out as something disorderly, to be repressed. The Gospel confers an immense value to our cry, reminding us that it can be an invocation, a protest, a desire, a surrender. It can even be the extreme form of prayer, when there are no words left. In that cry, Jesus gave all that he had left: all his love, all his hope.” (, September 10, 2025, Pope Leo XIV) Scripture for Lectio: “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” (Psalm 22:1) Sponsor - Beata Home: This episode is sponsored by Beata Home, a boutique-style print shop founded by Katie, a wife and mom of four. The word Beata is derived from the Latin word for “blessed,” and that is her hope, that each piece will be a blessing to homes and families. Born out of the conviction that beauty has the power to evangelize, Beata Home makes it easy for Catholic families to surround themselves with art that reflects their faith and lifts hearts and minds to God. Beata Home offers something for every family and every budget: Digital downloads for instant access and affordable printing Fine art prints in sizes from 8x10 up to 30x40 inches Ready-to-hang framed artwork in seven different frame styles Artwork is printed on museum-quality paper with archival inks, ensuring beauty that lasts for generations. Whether it’s a small image for a prayer corner or a statement piece for your living room, Beata Home makes it simple to bring beauty and faith into your everyday spaces. The heart of Beata Home is sacred art, but the collection also includes carefully chosen vintage artwork because all beauty points to the Creator. Visit to explore the growing collection, and as a gift for Abiding Together listeners, use the code ABIDING10 for 10% off your first purchase. Support a Catholic family business and bring beauty into your domestic church with Beata Home! Chapters: 00:00 Beata Home 01:14 Intro 02:04 Welcome 03:58 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 05:11 The Pain of Resisting Tears 06:58 Crying Out is Vulnerable 08:50 Tears are a Gift 11:45 A Remedy for Self Reliance 13:23 What Happens When We Stop Crying Out 15:25 Crying with Others 17:53 Being Needy vs Having Needs 20:41 Sometimes All We Can Do is Cry 22:54 God Speaks to You Though Tears 24:30 Slowing Down 26:37 Crying as an Intercession 28:46 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/38440320

S17 E3 - The Spirit Awakens Hope 09/29/2025

S17 E3 - The Spirit Awakens Hope In this episode, we talk about how God is at work in our lives even when sorrow feels overwhelming. This Jubilee year of hope is still a light for us, especially when we feel stuck, overwhelmed, or tempted to despair. We talk about the “fatigue of living”, what happens when we isolate ourselves, and why the micromovements of our hearts are so important. God has not guaranteed us an easy life, but He abundantly offers us Himself. With Him, we can encounter Jesus deeply, allow the Spirit to help us overcome our fears, and journey through this life with more hope than we thought possible. Heather’s One Thing - Join me on a | August 3 - 12, 2026 Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Father Wilfrid Stinissen Michelle’s One Thing - by Jamie McAleer Other Resources Mentioned: Journal Questions: When did I last pour my heart out to the Lord? How have I been tempted to isolate myself? What distractions do I turn to in suffering? What heartbreaks have I been holding back from the Lord in prayer? Where am I feeling afraid? Discussion Questions: Where in your life are you struggling to see the Lord? How has the Lord given you daily bread today? What lessons have you learned throughout the Jubilee Year of Hope? Where in your life are you waiting for a personal Pentecost? What resonated with you in Sister Miriam’s prayer? Quote to Ponder: “The Holy Spirit bestows understanding. The Spirit overcomes the ‘breach’ that began in Babel, the confusion of mind and heart that sets us one against the other. The Spirit opens borders... The Church must always become anew what she already is. She must open the borders between peoples and break down the barriers between class and race. In her, there cannot be those who are neglected or disdained. In the Church there are only free men and women, brothers and sisters of Jesus Christ.” (, 15 May 2005, Pope Benedict XVI) Scripture for Lectio: “Daughter, your faith has saved you. Go in peace.” (Mark 5:34) Sponsor - The Ember Collective: “Holistic wellness in light of eternity.” is a community of women passionate about holistic wellness through the lens of our Catholic faith. They believe that we cannot separate the physical from the spiritual, and that harmony exists among them.You can subscribe to , a visually stunning quarterly print magazine that dives into nutrition, broader health & wellness topics, our Catholic faith, liturgical living, delicious and nourishing whole food recipes, and more. They just launched their first book, , through Sophia Institute. This book makes the perfect addition to your coffee table, as your seasonal and liturgical companion to living well and whole. Use the code ABIDE10 to get 10% off our entire (subscriptions excluded). Chapters: 00:00 The Ember Collective 00:58 Intro 01:49 Welcome 05:38 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 06:50 The Fatigue of Living 09:17 Into A Place of Isolation 11:25 Micromovements of the Heart 13:33 Bonding vs Bondage 15:48 Deeply Encountering Jesus 18:18 Will this Situation Ever Change? 20:17 The Spirit Opens Borders in Our Own Hearts 22:50 Overcoming Fear 25:45 Inviting the Holy Spirit Into Our Lives Through Prayer 31:38 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/38368270

S17 E2 - The Mysteries of Our Lives (Part 2) 09/22/2025

S17 E2 - The Mysteries of Our Lives (Part 2) In this episode, we conclude our series by reflecting on the sorrowful and glorious mysteries of our lives. In the midst of our own sorrows, we talk about the mortification of authentic love, what it means to carry our cross, and how to be patient when a particular suffering seems endless. We also share the glorious ways God is working in our lives. From the beauty of color to raising our expectations in faith, we ponder how Jesus’ presence in the sufferings of our lives often restores us more deeply than if He simply just healed our pain. Heather’s One Thing - by Katie Prejean McGrady Heather’s Other One Thing - by Brandon Lake Sister Miriam’s One Thing - with Fr. Timothy Gallagher, Discernment of Spirits Series Michelle’s One Thing - Sorrowful Mysteries (Tuesdays & Fridays): The Agony in the Garden – Contrition / Sorrow for Sin The Scourging at the Pillar – Purity / Mortification The Crowning with Thorns – Moral Courage / Humility The Carrying of the Cross – Patience in Suffering The Crucifixion – Perseverance / Salvation / Forgiveness Glorious Mysteries (Wednesdays & Sundays): The Resurrection – Faith The Ascension – Hope / Desire for Heaven The Descent of the Holy Spirit – Wisdom / Love of God / Zeal The Assumption – Grace of a Happy Death / Devotion to Mary The Coronation of Mary – Eternal Happiness / Trust in Mary's Intercession Journal Questions: How did you experience delight this summer? When have I felt hypervigilant in this season? Who in my life am I called to entrust to the Divine Caretaker? How has my faith been expanded this summer? Discussion Questions: Where in your life do you sense Christ walking closely with you? How have you experienced the mortification of authentic love? What breakthroughs have you experienced in this season? How have you experienced the Sorrowful Mysteries in this season? How have you experienced the Glorious Mysteries in this season? Quote to Ponder: “To contemplate the face of Christ, and to contemplate it with Mary, is the ‘program’ which I have set before the Church at the dawn of the third millennium… To recite the Rosary is nothing other than to contemplate with Mary the face of Christ. In this school of Mary, we learn to ‘read’ Christ, to discover his secrets, to understand his message.” (Rosarium Virginis Mariae, St. Pope John Paul II) Scripture for Lectio: “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:8-9) Sponsor - Triumph of the Heart: Triumph of the Heart is an award-winning film that tells one of the most astounding stories of world war II - when a Polish priest, imprisoned in Auschwitz, volunteered to take the place of a condemned man. When faced with a truly apocalyptic war, St. Maximilian Kolbe showed us that Christian love can conquer the deepest horrors of the human condition. In the face of unimaginable suffering, Kolbe didn’t retreat—he stepped forward, offering his life to save another. This film, about the passion of St. Maximilian Kolbe, is the most compelling look ever into both the horror and heroism that was to be found in a Nazi death camp. Audiences have already been deeply moved by the light of hope shining forth from the darkest place on earth. Triumph of the Heart is now showing in select theaters throughout the United States. Go to KolbeMovie.com to find out how you can get tickets to a masterpiece destined to become an enduring film classic. Made with a shoe string budget, many miracles from the Lord, and film quality that rivals any studio backed project, Triumph of the Heart will not disappoint. Distributed in partnership with the Augustine Institute, EWTN Studios, Relevant Radio, and more, you too can join the New Renaissance of Catholic Art at . Timestamps: 00:00 Triumph of the Heart 01:26 Intro 02:15 Contemplating the Face of Christ 05:24 The Carrying of the Cross - Patience in Suffering 09:22 The Scourging at the Pillar - Purity/ Mortification 13:44 The Suffering We Experience as Parents Age 19:32 The Descent of the Holy Spirit - Wisdom/ Love of God/ Zeal 26:36 The Resurrection - Faith 31:33 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/38266095

S17 E1 - The Mysteries of Our Lives (Part 1) 09/15/2025

S17 E1 - The Mysteries of Our Lives (Part 1) Welcome to season 17! In this episode, we continue our tradition of reflecting on the mysteries of our lives based on the mysteries of the Rosary. In every season of our lives, we’re given opportunities to grow in charity and to receive God’s grace. Periodically, it is important to pause and reflect on how God has been working in and through our lives. In our conversation, we model what this looks like and discuss how the virtues of each mystery of the Rosary align with the mysteries of our lives and the fruits God is cultivating. Join us today as we share the Joyful and Luminous mysteries of our lives. Heather’s One Thing - The beauty of being an empty nester! Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Bishop Erik Varden Michelle’s One Thing - Summer camps Michelle’s Other One Thing - College football is back! 🌟 Joyful Mysteries (Mondays & Saturdays): The Annunciation – Humility The Visitation – Love of Neighbor / Charity The Nativity – Poverty of Spirit / Detachment from the World The Presentation – Obedience / Purity The Finding in the Temple – Joy in Finding Jesus / Zeal for God ✨ Luminous Mysteries (Thursdays): The Baptism of Jesus – Openness to the Holy Spirit / Living one’s baptism The Wedding at Cana – To Jesus through Mary / Faith in God's Will The Proclamation of the Kingdom – Repentance and Trust in God The Transfiguration – Desire for Holiness / Spiritual Courage The Institution of the Eucharist – Adoration / Love of the Eucharist Other Resources Mentioned: by Rob Base and DJ EZ Rock Journal Questions: How am I tempted to be so serious that I miss out on having fun? How is the Lord inviting me into detachment and poverty of spirit? What are the paradoxes in my life? What are the prayers and requests of my heart right now? Discussion Questions: When did you tangibly experience the presence of God during this summer? Who can I invite into deeper intercession in this season? How have you experienced the Joyful Mysteries in this season? How have you experienced the Luminous Mysteries in this season? Quote to Ponder: “...We must be able to pause in silence, in meditation, in calm, prolonged reflection; we must know how to stop and think. In this way our mind can find healing from the inevitable wounds of daily life, it can penetrate the events that occur in our life and in the world and can attain that wisdom which makes it possible to see things with new eyes.” (Pope Benedict) Scripture for Lectio: “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:8-9) Sponsor - CORDA: CORDA translates the stories of the saints into scents, and helps you create a place of prayer and peace in your home with their Catholic candles. Each candle is handcrafted with great ingredients and a beautiful modern design, and lasts for 45 hours! Now through November 15, use code ABIDING15 to save 15% when you order! And check out the free Rewards program on CORDA’s website, too - it’s an awesome way to earn points you can redeem for free products, gift cards, and free shipping. Explore all of CORDA’s gorgeous Catholic candles (and 3500+ five-star reviews) at Timestamps: 00:00 CORDA 01:43 Intro 02:22 Welcome 07:43 Quote to Ponder and Scripture Verse 11:18 The Nativity - Poverty of Spirit 15:40 Finding Jesus in the Temple - Zeal for God 19:22 The Nativity - Detachment from the World 22:50 The Baptism of Jesus - Openness to the Holy Spirit 27:48 The Wedding at Cana - Faith in God’s Will 30:58 The Institution of the Eucharist - Adoration 33:57 One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/38199235

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