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S15 E9 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 3) 11/18/2024

S15 E9 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 3) In this week's episode, we conclude our three part series on the heart and Pope Francis’ recent encyclical . We reflect on Scripture as a personal love story, how it speaks to our areas of weakness, and the awesome reality of Jesus desiring to love and heal us there. The Lord meets us where we are and He is always seeking to bring our hearts closer to His. He speaks directly to each one of us with an invitation to be loved and to love. This invitation of love requires a response not only in big moments but in the ordinary moments of each day. Heather’s One Thing - Her friends Laura and Brandon Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Classic Dice Game Michelle’s One Thing - Nazareth Organics (especially the ) Michelle’s Other One Thing - The Florida State vs UNC game Other Resources Mentioned: Journal Questions: How do I experience spiritual amnesia and forget the ways the Lord loves me? When have I experienced the tender love of the Lord in places of poverty and isolation in my heart? Where in my life do I need to hear the sweet sound of the Lord’s heartbeats? What does Jesus want to convey to me through that sound? What parts of Christ’s Body, the Church, do I fail to love? Discussion Questions: How has the Lord being present to your heart brought you healing and communion? How has the barrage of tragedy and hardship from the news and social media hardened your heart toward human suffering? Where are the lukewarm places of your heart? What conversations can you have, actions can you take, or apologies can you make to love your neighbor like Christ? Quotes to Ponder: The pierced heart of Christ embodies all God’s declarations of love present in the Scriptures. That love is no mere matter of words; rather, the open side of his Son is a source of life for those whom he loves, the fount that quenches the thirst of his people. (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 101) Saint Augustine opened the way to devotion to the Sacred Heart as the locus of our personal encounter with the Lord. For Augustine, Christ’s wounded side is not only the source of grace and the sacraments, but also the symbol of our intimate union with Christ, the setting of an encounter of love. There we find the source of the most precious wisdom of all, which is knowledge of him. In effect, Augustine writes that John, the beloved disciple, reclining on Jesus’ bosom at the Last Supper, drew near to the secret place of wisdom. (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 103) Scripture for Lectio: “I led them with cords of human kindness, with bands of love. I was to them like those who lift infants to their cheeks. I bent down to them and fed them.” (Hosea 11:4) Sponsor - Leanne Bowen: Today’s sponsor is Leanne Bowen Fine Art. We love her prints and her candles. These candles smell so good and burn super slowly. She just released a beautiful collection of candle tins that are the perfect size for stockings and hostess gifts! She has a new image of the three wisemen on a Frankincense and Myrrh candle. Her candle scents are really unique and the artwork on the labels make them very intentional gifts. Her most popular candle in November is the Cranberry Orange Spice. It has a stunning image of the Holy Family on the label. She also has a Chrism Sacred Heart candle that smells JUST like Chrism! Leanne also offers Christmas cards of the Holy Family, Saint Nicholas, the three wisemen, and Mary holding Jesus. She is offering 15% off to all our listeners with the code ABIDE15 at . We think you’ll love her stuff! Timestamps: 00:00 - Leanne Bowen 01:33 - Intro 02:26 - Welcome 05:10 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 06:26 - This is a Love Story 08:17 - Thirsting for God 10:30 - God Will Never Forget You 12:29 - Being Loved in Our Weaknesses 17:38 - Deeply and Individually Loved 19:42 - A Lament and a Request 22:42 - Loving Like Jesus 25:01 - Repairing 29:26 - Final Thoughts 30:36 - One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/33946507

S15 E8 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 2) 11/11/2024

S15 E8 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 2) In this week's episode, we continue our three part series on Pope Francis’ recent encyclical . We reflect on our ache to be loved, how Jesus heals in close proximity to us, and the “science of the caress”. We also talk about how Jesus is a man who comes and finds us wherever we are and longs to open up a new place for us in relationship with Him. Will we allow our hearts to beat again with love? Heather’s One Thing - Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Dom Dysmas de Lassus Michelle’s One Thing(s) - Fr. Mark Mary’s podcast: and Other Resources Mentioned: and Journal Questions: Do I perceive Jesus’ presence in my life as being up close to me, or at a distance? How have I encountered Jesus as the Lover? How do I project my scars onto Jesus? Who in my community or in the Church is hardest for me to love right now? How can I love them better? Where do I have a belief that Jesus is indifferent to me? Discussion Questions: How have you experienced the ache to be cherished? How can you bring communion where there is polarity and discord? What happens in you when you consider the Sacred Heart of Jesus? When have you blindly trusted in Jesus and His Love and Providence for you? How did He prove Himself trustworthy? Quotes to Ponder: “The heart of Christ, as the symbol of the deepest and most personal source of his love for us, is the very core of the initial preaching of the Gospel. It stands at the origin of our faith, as the wellspring that refreshes and enlivens our Christian beliefs.” (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 32) Scripture for Lectio: “Take heart, daughter!” (Matthew 9:22) Sponsor - Florecita Design: wants to help you build your domestic church. The Florecita Design Activity Bundle is a set of 12-15 printable activities for young children, delivered each month and based on the Catholic liturgical calendar. Every month, Florecita Design will help you incorporate math, science, and pre-literacy skills with your little kids all within the context of the Catholic Church. This Activity Bundle is a digital subscription created by a speech-language pathologist to provide parents with the tools and language to incorporate the faith easily into every day play for their 2 to 7 year-olds. All parents have to do is print the activities and follow along the instructional booklet for enriching, screen free ways to entertain their kids. Florecita Design just released the Advent and Christmas Activity Bundle, which is a holiday special with TWENTY activities, including puzzles, an Advent prayer banner, St. Nicholas activities, and so much more. To learn more, visit florecitadesign.com. You can use the code ABIDE10 for 10% off your first three months of the Activity Bundle! You can also follow along on Instagram @florecitadesign for speech-language tips, sales and liturgical living ideas for little kids. Let’s teach our kids the Catholic faith in ways that are simple, tangible and beautiful! Timestamps: 00:00 - Florecita Design 01:19 - Intro 02:12 - Welcome 02:43 - Actions Reflect Our Heart 04:09 - The Science of Caress 05:37 - The Humanity of Christ 08:26 - Aching to Be Loved 10:11 - The Holy Spirit and Community 14:03 - The Human Heart 17:08 - Vulnerability and Secure Love 20:00 - Our Image of God 23:08 - One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/33819786

S15 E7 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 1) 11/04/2024

S15 E7 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 1) In this week's episode, we begin a three part series on Pope Francis’ recent encyclical (on the human and divine love of the Heart of Jesus Christ). We discuss how God, as the Divine initiator, loved us first and continuously calls us deeper into His most Sacred Heart. We also reflect on the meaning of our hearts, being captivated by Jesus’ love, and the beauty of allowing Him to set our hearts aflame. Heather’s One Thing - Man and Woman and the Order of Creation Conference at Franciscan University () Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Michelle’s One Thing - The book by Fr. Innocent Montgomery, CFR, and Fr. Angelus Montgomery, CFR ( Sign up to get the consecration reflections) Other Resources Mentioned: Journal Questions: Who am I, really? What am I looking for? What direction do I want to give to my life? Why and for what purpose am I in the world? How do I want to look back on my life once it ends? What meaning do I want to give to all my experiences? Who do I want to be for others? Who am I for God? Discussion Questions: How do you belittle or dismiss the movements of your own heart? When do you feel distanced from your heart in this season? How can you minimize the distance you have from your heart this week? How do you self-protect instead of making a self-gift? What direction do you want to give to your life? Why and for what purpose are you in the world? Quotes to Ponder: “The heart is also the locus of sincerity, where deceit and disguise have no place. It usually indicates our true intentions, what we really think, believe and desire, the “secrets” that we tell no one: in a word, the naked truth about ourselves. It is the part of us that is neither appearance or illusion, but is instead authentic, real, entirely “who we are”.” (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 5) Scripture for Lectio: “He loved us first.” (1 John 4:19) Sponsor - Reform Wellness: is a Christ-centered functional medicine and holistic wellness ministry. Reform redefines health as the state of your body and soul. Their mission is to empower the whole person to find well-being in Christ and become the best versions of themselves physically and spiritually. Reform works with private clients, corporate teams, religious communities, and educational institutions worldwide, both in-person and online. They offer valuable information, educational resources, and lifelong tools to improve your physical and spiritual well-being. We invite you to learn more about Reform’s foundational course which offers educational tools, best practices, and community through their nine wellness pillars centered in Christ. Reform is extending an exclusive discount for all our listeners on their upcoming Cohort: Reform Your Home and Family. We highly recommend this three-month foundational course; we’ve each taken Reform Online and still benefit from the fruits in our daily lives. Use code “Abide10'' for your exclusive discount through November 15. Timestamps: 00:00 - Reform Wellness 01:39 - Intro 02:31 - Announcement and Welcome 05:04 - About the Encyclical 06:53 - The Importance of the Heart 11:16 - The Heart as the Locus of Sincerity 14:54 - Our Heart is Meant for Love 18:46 - Being Captivated by Jesus’ Love 24:20 - The Sacred Heart Aflame with Love 25:51 - One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/33736772

S15 E6 - Practical Aspects of Living Out Community 10/28/2024

S15 E6 - Practical Aspects of Living Out Community In this week's episode, we continue our discussion on communion and focus on the practical aspects of living out in community. We reflect on the four main pillars of building a community: intentionality, vulnerability, proximity, and organically. We also talk about community as a journey and that we learn to love others by experiencing the love of God ourselves. This experience brings communion within us, which bears fruit, and then we are then able to give that love away to others. Heather’s One Thing - Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Quiz Michelle’s One Thing - Announcement: Check out our new page! Journal Questions: How can I express more mercy and curiosity within my community? Who in my local community can I extend an invitation to? Is there variety in my family’s community (vocations, ages, stages of life, etc)? For those not currently in an Abiding Together small group: Consider praying about starting an Abiding Together small group or study group. What fears or concerns do I have about starting a group? Discussion Questions: When do you feel more tempted to speak out harshly instead of conversing gently with those you’re in conflict with? What repeating strains and roadblocks have you observed in your relationships over the years? What do you think God may be teaching you through those strains? Throughout the episode, we covered four different aspects of community (intentionality, vulnerability, proximity, and organic engagement). Which of these aspects is hardest for you within your relationships? How can you initiate moments of organic community in your current season? Set a goal for yourself this week and check back in with each next time you connect. Quotes to Ponder: "God is love and in himself he lives a mystery of personal loving communion. Creating the human race in his own image .... God inscribed in the humanity of man and woman the vocation, and thus the capacity and responsibility, of love and communion." (CCC 2331) “The person who loves their dream of community will destroy community, but the person who loves those around them will create community.” (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community) Scripture for Lectio: “And fear came upon every soul; and many wonders and signs were done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common; and they sold their possessions and goods and distributed them to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they partook of food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved.” (Acts 2:43-47) Sponsor - Nazareth Organics: Nazareth Organics (@nazarethorganics) is a Catholic family-owned natural skincare company that handcrafts balms with high quality, wild-crafted, and organic ingredients from nature. From facial moisturizers and serums to diaper creams and body butters, Nazareth Organics carries nourishing natural products for a wide array of skin conditions. They use grass-fed tallow from a local Catholic farm as a base for many of their balms, because it is rich in fat-soluble vitamins and fatty acids that can increase collagen production, strengthen the skin, and calm inflammation. The best thing about this business is that it’s dedicated to the Holy Family of Nazareth. From website to packaging, every sustainably sourced product points back to the faith and the ultimate source of creation. They also donate a portion of all proceeds to Catholic charitable organizations. If you want to honor and care for your body using pure and natural ingredients straight from God’s hands, then check out Nazareth Organics. Find them at nazareth-organics.com and use code ABIDE10 at checkout for a 10% discount. Follow them on Instagram and Facebook at: @nazarethorganics. Timestamps: 00:00 - Nazareth Organics 01:31 - Intro 02:23 - Welcome and Recap 03:23 - Judgement vs Curiosity 06:36 - Bearing Fruit in Community 08:43 - Jesus as a Model of Community 11:05 - Aspects of Community 18:28 - Good Community Takes Time to Build 19:17 - Abiding Together Small Group Resources 22:22 - One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/33599977

S15 E5 - Theology of Communion 10/21/2024

S15 E5 - Theology of Communion In this week's episode, we talk about the theology of communion. Our desire for communion with others is very good and comes from God Himself. In fact, our ache for community is an ache for eternity. God desires to bring us into an eternal communion with Him and the community here on earth points towards this in a small way. We discuss what happens when we experience a broken community, the challenges faced in building community, and how community changes throughout the seasons of life. Heather’s One Thing - My art on the (add photos to website) Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Michelle’s One Thing - Every Sacred Sunday Announcement: Order your Abiding Together shirt in our today! Journal Questions: How have I been wounded within community? How have I been healed through community? In what ways are my friendships free, total, faithful, and fruitful? In what ways are my friendships not free, total, faithful, and fruitful? What kind of friend do I need to tend to my heart? What kind of friend am I to my friends’ hearts? How have I withheld belonging from others? Discussion Questions: How has your need and capacity for community changed over the years? How can you extend belonging to people in your community? What lies isolate you from entering into friendship? How is God inviting you to cultivate and receive community? Quotes to Ponder: "God is love and in himself he lives a mystery of personal loving communion. Creating the human race in his own image .... God inscribed in the humanity of man and woman the vocation, and thus the capacity and responsibility, of love and communion." (CCC 2331) “The person who loves their dream of community will destroy community, but the person who loves those around them will create community.” (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community) Scripture for Lectio: “And fear came upon every soul; and many wonders and signs were done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common; and they sold their possessions and goods and distributed them to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they partook of food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved.” (Acts 2:43-47) Sponsor - CORDA: Connect with the saints through scent with CORDA’s handcrafted Catholic candles. Each candle scent is directly inspired by different saints and aspects of the faith, and is made with clean coconut wax and a beautiful, modern design. Be sure to sign up for the CORDA Fan Club, too: it’s free and an awesome way to earn points that you can redeem for free products, gift cards, and free shipping. You can join the club and explore CORDA’s gorgeous Catholic candles (and 3,000+ reviews!) at cordacandles.com. And when you’re placing your order, don’t forget to enter code ABIDINGTOGETHER to save 15% on everything, now through the end of the year. Thank you for supporting this Catholic small business! Timestamps: 00:00 - CORDA 01:23 - Intro 02:15 - Announcement 02:42 - Welcome 04:23 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quotes 05:47 - Initial Thoughts 08:41 - The Desire for Communion is Good 13:39 - Community Takes Work 16:36 - Learning How to Love 18:04 - Identifying the Lies 24:34 - Understanding the Wounds of Others 29:00 - One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/33500542

S15 E4 - Lectio Divina 10/14/2024

S15 E4 - Lectio Divina In this week's episode, we model what it looks like to pray Lectio Divina, which is a divine reading of Sacred Scripture. We begin by sharing the different ways we spend time in Sacred Scripture, how it has impacted our lives, and model how to pray Lectio Divina. We invite you to follow along and join us as we spend time reading and reflecting on John 15:5-8. Sacred Scripture is the voice of God and what He has said is alive forever and relevant to our lives in all situations. We encourage you to journey with us as we deepen our relationship with God through His word. Heather’s One Thing - Franciscan University’s and Sister Miriam’s One Thing - () Michelle’s One Thing - Praying for anyone affected by hurricane Helene , , Other Resources Mentioned: and Announcement: We are so excited to announce that we will have new Abiding Together shirts in our shop next week! Follow us on social media for all the latest updates! Journal Questions: When do I encounter the Scriptures throughout my day? Do I incorporate Lectio Divina into my prayer routine? What obstacles prevent me from entering into Lectio Divina? How can I begin to incorporate Lectio Divina more frequently into my prayer? Discussion Questions: How have you been nourished by the Word of God? Have you struggled to hear the voice of God in the past? When do you hear the voice of God in this season of your life? What stuck out to you during the Lectio Divina within the episode? Scripture for Lectio: “I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who abide in me and I in them bear much fruit; because apart from me you can do nothing. Whoever does not abide in me is thrown away like a branch and withers; such branches are gathered, thrown into the fire and burned. If you abide in me and my words abide in you, ask for whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. My Father is glorified by this, that you bear much fruit, and become my disciples.” (John 15:5-8) Sponsor - Emmaus Road Publishing: Introducing Saints Around the World for Little Ones, a new six-volume collection from Emmaus Road Publishing! Following the success of the original Saints Around the World, this set for ages 0-8 shares the inspiring stories of 90 saints, presented through stunning illustrations and child-friendly text. Each book focuses on different types of saints—from young adventurers to warriors and royalty. You can purchase the books individually or get the whole set at a 15% discount, and you can use promo code Abide10 for an additional 10% off your purchase! Get them today at . Timestamps: 00:00 - Emmaus Road Publishing 01:09 - Intro 02:01 - Welcome 07:23 - Sacred Scripture in Our Lives 12:45 - How to Pray Lectio Divina 15:37 - First Reading 17:59 - Second Reading 19:23 - Third Reading 21:01 - Reflections 28:23 - One Things 32:06 - Announcement /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/33406067

S15 E3 - Suffering & Love 10/07/2024

S15 E3 - Suffering & Love In this week's episode, we reflect on suffering and love. We all have deep and tender places in our hearts where we suffer. Sometimes we feel alone in these sorrows and because of this, turn inwards into our pain. But the reality is, we are never alone in our suffering; God is always with us. We also reflect on fear in suffering, suffering in isolation vs suffering in communion, and how to allow God’s light to shine into these sorrowful places. Heather’s One Thing - The subscription and . (especially this candle) Sister Miriam’s One Thing - (particularly a recent excerpt from paragraphs 37-40) Michelle’s One Thing - “” from Blessed is She and all the women in her small group (use link or code MICHELLE10 for 10% off) Announcement: Friends, we are excited to announce our 2024 Advent Study will be the book by Heather Khym! Journal Questions: What suffering am I running from? Take some time to identify your current fears. How can you let these fears bring you into an encounter with Love Himself? Do I have a friend I can invite into my suffering? How can I be present to her suffering as well? How has Jesus transformed injury into compassion in my life? Discussion Questions: Are you suffering in communion or in isolation? How can you suffer more like Jesus in this season? What habits in your spiritual toolbox protect your heart in moments of suffering and desolation? How can you love well when your heart is broken? Scripture for Lectio: “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; a time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; a time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to throw away; a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; a time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace” (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8) Sponsor - Laura-Anne: Laura-Anne is a Catholic wedding photographer and marriage mentor who will help you thrive during your engagement, capture heirloom-quality photos of your wedding, and prepare for a joy-filled marriage that reflects God’s design. Because it's possible to plan a beautiful, thoughtful wedding reflective of both you and your fiance and, ultimately, surrender your desires for the day to the Lord…all while preparing your heart for the Sacrament of Marriage. Laura-Anne’s resources, like , will help you do just that. The Catholic Wedding Kit is a collection of digital tools to guide you through every decision you need to make about your wedding and the why behind each one, helping you communicate, pray, and discern as a couple. Learn more about The Catholic Wedding Kit and the rest of Laura-Anne’s resources and photography services at or on Instagram Use code ABIDE for 15% off any digital resources. Timestamps: 00:00 - Laura-Anne 01:28 - Intro 02:20 - Welcome 06:57 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 09:02 - Fear in Suffering 12:13 - Suffering in Communion 19:28 - Choosing to Love 27:41 - Transformation in Freedom 29:23 - Prayer 34:20 - Advent Study Announcement 36:13 - One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/33319762

S15 E2 - Living the Mysteries (Part 2) 09/30/2024

S15 E2 - Living the Mysteries (Part 2) In this week's episode, we look back and remember both the glorious and luminous moments in our lives. We share how allowing the Holy Spirit to overshadow us has brought forth an overflowing of grace and restoration in our lives. We also reflect on how God desires to restore our voices in places where we are afraid and have become silent. Today, join us in reflecting on your recent faith journey to discover the beautiful ways God has been shaping your soul through your own glorious and luminous mysteries. Glorious - something you see the Lord redeeming and restoring (it can be in process) Luminous - something the Lord brought to light, an area or pruning, longing, and an ache Heather’s One Thing - The song by Amanda Cook Sister Miriam’s One Thing - All moms whose kids went away to the first day of school Michelle’s One Thing - and this Journal Questions: What were the glorious mysteries (something you see the Lord restoring) of my summer? What were the luminous mysteries (something the Lord brought to light, an area of pruning, an ache) of my summer? How is God restoring your voice in this season? How have I forgotten that the Gospel is costly? Discussion Questions: What have you been carrying by your own power, instead of by the Holy Spirit’s overshadowing? “You do not need a new plan, you need a new posture.” What new posture is the Lord inviting you to? What parts of your life need the gentle, healing touch of Jesus? How has God responded to the aches and longings of your life right now? Quote to Ponder: "Dear friends, what an immense joy to have Mary Immaculate as our Mother! Every time we experience our frailty and the promptings of evil, we may turn to her and our hearts receive light and comfort. Even in the trials of life, in the storms that cause faith and hope to vacillate, let us recall that we are her children and that our existence is deeply rooted in the infinite grace of God. Although the Church is exposed to the negative influences of the world, she always finds in Mary the star to guide her so that she may follow the route pointed out to her by Christ.” (Angelus, December 8, 2009) Scripture for Lectio: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6) Sponsor - Ascension: It may seem like holiness is unattainable for normal, everyday people. But one saint shows us that our littleness is actually the way to holiness. In , St. Thérèse of Lisieux’s autobiography, this little saint has taught generations that God can make us saints through unbounded confidence in his love and an embrace of our littleness. Starting October 1st, the feast day of St. Thérèse, you can listen to the only authorized full English translation of Story of a Soul, along with expert commentary, for free on the Catholic Classics podcast! This podcast is available to you on all major podcast platforms including and . Plus, you can get the beautiful Catholic Classics edition from Ascension of to follow along with the podcast. is created in collaboration with the Institute of Carmelite Studies. Included in this new edition are photos from St. Thérèse’s life, additional expert commentary, plus more to help you understand and dive into this important Catholic text. Download the reading plan and order your copy of Story of a Soul at . Timestamps: 00:00 - Ascension 01:12 - Intro 02:05 - Welcome 03:36 - Guiding Quote 04:44 - Glorious 15:22 - Luminous 24:32 - Scripture Verse 24:52 - One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/33233817

S15 E1 - Living the Mysteries (Part 1) 09/23/2024

S15 E1 - Living the Mysteries (Part 1) In this week's episode, we look back over the past year and remember both the joyful and sorrowful moments in our lives. We discuss the importance of regularly bringing our attention to what God is doing in our lives and reflecting on the opportunities we have to deepen our surrender to God’s provision. Today, join us in reflecting on your recent faith journey to discover the beautiful ways God has been shaping your soul through your own joyful and sorrowful mysteries. Joyful - an area of delight or gratitude where you have felt the tangible presence of the Lord Sorrowful - a hurt or an obstacle we’ve noticed Heather’s One Thing - Big Apple Catholic’s new ! Especially the Sister Miriam’s One Thing - A quote from St. Catherine of Siena “He will provide the way and the means, such as you could never have imagined. Leave it all to Him, let go of yourself, lose yourself on the Cross, and you will find yourself entirely.” Michelle’s One Thing - and Other Resources Mentioned: Podcast Series Announcement: New Abiding Together merch is coming soon! to our weekly email newsletter to receive updates. Journal Questions: What were the joyful mysteries (delights, tangible gratitude) of my summer? How are you waiting on the Lord’s Providence? What were the sorrowful mysteries (hurts, obstacles) of my summer? Where in my life do I believe that if “it feels bad, it is bad?” Discussion Questions: Who walked with you throughout this summer? How have you tangibly experienced Christ’s presence in the midst of sorrow? Where have you experienced healing from the Lord this summer? What changes are you sensing (internally or externally) with the start of fall? Quote to Ponder: “Looking at Mary, how can we, her children, fail to let the aspiration to beauty, goodness and purity of heart be aroused in us? Her heavenly candor draws us to God, helping us to overcome the temptation to live a mediocre life composed of compromises with evil, and directs us decisively towards the authentic good that is the source of joy.” (Angelus, December 8, 2005 Pope Benedict) Scripture for Lectio: “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5-6) Sponsor - Called to Communicate Our baptism equips and compels us to extend the prophetic mission of Jesus Christ. Each woman who has encountered Christ has a story and a message of hope. We live in times that need women’s voices to reclaim the power of words and put them in the service of the Gospel. Called to Communicate is a free 5-day online conference beginning September 30, 2024. This online event promises encouragement, laughter, tears, practical advice, and spiritual wisdom from the women leading in the Church’s mission of evangelization. Register at . If the event dates have passed, the entire conference is still available to purchase and watch! Listen to powerful interviews with Heather, Michelle, Sister Miriam and many others. Use code “Abide” for $10 off extended access and bonus gifts. Timestamps: 00:00 - Called to Communicate 01:28 - Intro 02:21 - Welcome 06:37 - Guiding Quote 07:40 - Joy 15:36 - Sorrow 30:05 - One Things 33:02 - Announcement /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/33137727

Bonus: Abiding in Hope 08/05/2024

Bonus: Abiding in Hope In this bonus episode, Heather is joined by Fr. Dave Pivonka, TOR live at the National Eucharistic Congress (NEC) for a special Abiding Together and They that Hope podcast mashup. They reflect on their experiences at the NEC and share how they hope God will transform the lives of not only those in attendance, but also those at home. Heather and Fr. Dave also discuss finding Jesus in our daily lives and the importance of feasting on God instead of earthly things. This episode is a production of and . Special thanks to for recording and hosting the live podcast stage. Heather’s Highlight from the NEC - Adoration with Heather’s One Thing - Receiving a copy of her new book: (A Guided Advent Journal for Prayer and Meditation) Fr. Dave’s Highlight from the NEC - His time spent with the young people at the Congress Fr. Dave’s One Thing - Deep friendships Other Resources Mentioned: Announcement: Season 15 begins September 2024 - join our to receive updates! Journal Questions: How have I experienced Eucharistic revival this year? Have you allowed the stress of your duties and burdens take your eyes off Christ in this season? How can I shift my gaze from my inner world to Christ? Discussion Questions: How has Christ encountered you personally when you felt lost in the crowd? What obstacles cause you to miss Him when He’s right in front of you? How can you put yourself back into the reality that God is sovereign and in control? Quote to Ponder: “The One whom the Father has sent into our hearts, the Spirit of his Son, is truly God. Consubstantial with the Father and the Son, the Spirit is inseparable from them, in both the inner life of the Trinity and his gift of love for the world. In adoring the Holy Trinity, life-giving, consubstantial, and indivisible, the Church's faith also professes the distinction of persons. When the Father sends his Word, he always sends his Breath. In their joint mission, the Son and the Holy Spirit are distinct but inseparable. To be sure, it is Christ who is seen, the visible image of the invisible God, but it is the Spirit who reveals him.” (CCC 689) Scripture for Lectio: “When he was at table with them, he took the bread and blessed, and broke it, and gave it to them. And their eyes were opened and they recognized him; and he vanished out of their sight. They said to each other, “Did not our hearts burn within us while he talked to us on the road, while he opened to us the scriptures?” (Luke 24:30-32) /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/32385142

S14 E22 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 13-17) 07/29/2024

S14 E21 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 9-12) 07/22/2024

S14 E21 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 9-12) In this week's episode, we continue with our book study on the Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe (chapters 9-12). We discuss themes like the false narrative of the enemy, the dynamic of stoney hearts that God wants to restore and turn to flesh, true living of the paschal mystery, and the power of God’s resurrection power in our lives. We hope you enjoy this episode! Heather’s One Thing - The Abiding Together small groups! We love you! Sister Miriam’s One Thing - - Fr. Thomas Dubay Michelle’s One Thing - The movie “” Journal Questions: Instead of being child-like, we can be childish with God. What is the difference between these two dynamics that I can see in my own life? The enemy makes empty promises. What is one empty promise that he has made to me? What is one promise of God and His faithfulness that I have seen at work in my life? “Battle looks like surrender.” What is one battle that I need to move into a disposition of surrender to God? Discussion Questions: What is one of the false narratives that the enemy has been telling in your life? What do you think the Father wants to say about that false narrative? What area of your heart do you feel has been turned to stone or has been hardened? Why? “Hurting people, hurt people.” How have you experienced this concept and how can we offer a response of healing? Where have you settled for the dry bread from the enemy instead of the banquet that God is offering you? Quote to Ponder: "Aslan is on the move” - (Mr. Beaver) C.S. Lewis - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe Scripture for Lectio: “A new heart I will give you, and a new spirit I will put within you; and I will remove from your body the heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” -Ezekiel 36:26 Timestamps: (00:00) - Introduction (01:36) - Welcome (03:42) - Edmund’s Narrative (10:48) - The Winter in Our Hearts (13:16) - Father Christmas vs the White Witch (15:15) - The Gifts of Father Christmas (20:03) - The Empty Promises of Turkish Delight (23:02) - The Thawing of Winter into Spring (27:09) - One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/32144742

S14 E20 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 5-8) 07/15/2024

S14 E20 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 5-8) In this week's episode, we continue our book study on the Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe Chapters 5-8. We reflect deeper on the story and how it relates to our spiritual lives. Themes such as the battle of light and darkness, jealousy and making others feel small, the power of the name of Jesus, surrender vs control and how the story of Narnia is an echo of what our hearts long for in Christ. Heather’s One Thing - Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The women from the “Undone” retreat Michelle’s One Thing - The book “” by Bryan Stevenson Journal Questions: Who can I go to who will speak wisdom into my life? Like Edmund, are there any places in my life that I feel fear when I think about God? What parts of my heart have been turned to stone and need the warmth of God’s hand to bring them back to life? Discussion Questions: What is one truth about God that you can see in your story? Where do you need to grow into your royal identity as a daughter of God? Discuss the truth about how the name of Jesus contains His presence. How could this change how you pray? “He isn’t safe, but He’s good.” How have you experienced the truth of this quote? Quote to Ponder: “"Safe?" said Mr. Beaver ..."Who said anything about safe? Course he isn't safe. But he's good. He's the King, I tell you.”” - (Mr. Beaver) C.S. Lewis - The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe Scripture for Lectio: "He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death' or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away. He who was seated on the throne said, "I am making everything new!" Then he said, "Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true. He said to me: "It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life. Those who are victorious will inherit all this, and I will be their God and they will be my children." - Revelation 21:4-7 Timestamps: (00:00) - Introduction (01:36) - Welcome (03:48) - Discovering the Truth (08:33) - The Professor (14:14) - Going Back into the Wardrobe (15:22) - The Power of Aslan (23:54) - Safety and Goodness (29:56) - One Things /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/32068352

S14 E19 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 1-4) 07/08/2024

S14 E19 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 1-4) In this week's episode, we begin our book study on The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 1-4). We dive into the themes of this chapter such as innocence, faith, temptation, sin, and shared adventure. We hope you will continue to join us on the journey into this wonderful story, which we hope will help us reflect more deeply on our relationship with Christ, our own story of faith and redemption, and the invitation to adventure with God. Heather’s One Thing - Her Playlist Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The song “” (the live version) by Amanda Cook Michelle’s One Thing - The song “” by Ellie and Drew Holcomb Other Resources Mentioned: Audiobook on Journal Questions: How has the enemy spoken things in my life that bring about shame? What are the parts of Edmund that I see in myself? What parts of Lucy do I see? What is my Turkish delight (sin or temptation) that keeps me bound? Where are the places I hide from the Lord and others? Discussion Questions: What stood out to you in the reading for this week? Where in my life has the enemy taken a place and I need "Christmas" to come? Discuss the difference of femininity between Lucy and the witch. How have different examples of femininity affected your life? When we numb our heart and our identity, we numb our wonder and our inheritance. How have you seen this truth in your life? Where are the places and spaces that you can find wonder that leads to God? Quote to Ponder: "And what wonderful adventures we shall have, now that we are all in it together." - (Lucy) C.S. Lewis Scripture for Lectio: “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3) Timestamps: (00:00) - Introduction (01:39) - Welcome (4:00) - History of Narnia (9:48) - Lucy in the Beginning (16:37) - Edmund in the Beginning (22:38) - Winter vs Christmas (26:00) - Living like Lucy and Learning from Edmund (30:21) - Final Reflections (33:13) - One Things (36:54) - Photo Challenge /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/31982207

S14 E18 - Lessons Learned 05/27/2024

S14 E18 - Lessons Learned In this week's episode, we conclude season 14 by reflecting on what we have learned in our lives this past season. We chat about surrendering control and allowing the Holy Spirit to move in power, the need to be grateful for what we already have and the importance of being present in the present moment. We also share personal experiences of transformation and deep intimacy we have found with God, even in the midst of suffering. Thank you for an amazing season, we are truly honored to be on this journey with you. God bless! Heather’s One Thing - Her recent Healing Pilgrimage to France through Franciscan University (check out their to join future pilgrimages) and Michelle’s Sweatshirt Sister Miriam’s One Thing - You :) Michelle’s One Thing - , , and the book by Sarah Metts Announcements: Join us July 8-29 2024 as we re-release our book study on The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by CS Lewis. Season 15 begins September 2024 - join our to receive updates! Journal Questions: Which episode, conversation, or theme resonated with me most this season? What miracles have I been managing lately? What has the process of transformation looked like in my life? How do I partner with fear in my life? What freedom and goodness does the Lord offer me in those areas? Discussion Questions: What does it look like to move through the power of the Holy Spirit? What is God asking you to get rid of and let go of before you move into the next season of life? What graces are you grateful for in this season of your life? How will you cultivate intimacy with the Lord and community with others throughout the summer? Quote to Ponder: “Faith walks simply, childlike, between the darkness of human life and the hope of what is to come.” (Catherine Doherty) Scripture for Lectio: “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” (Colossians 3:15) Sponsor - Behold Visio Divina: Encounter the Lord more deeply amidst all the seasons in life through Behold Visio Divina. Behold is devoted to helping women encounter who Christ is through prayer and sacred art. Through their books, formation, and workshops, Behold hopes women can encounter the beauty of who God created them to be and share that with the world! Offering over 10 different sacred art prayer companions on themes such as praying through fear, post abortive healing, relational healing, and many others, Behold has options for every woman’s heart. Upcoming book topics include miscarriage and infant loss, iconography, and scrupulosity. Friend, you are seen, known, and loved wherever the Lord has you in life. And we are here to provide the opportunity to invite you and Jesus into conversation through art and community. We currently are accepting registration for our in person and virtual groups taking part this summer. Take a look at our small groups and join us! Because the Abiding Together community holds such a special place in our heart, Behold is offering 15% off any of their items, small group registration, and books. Use the code “ABIDING” for this special rate at . On our website you can also register for our “Weekly Dose of Beauty” emails! We hope you can join our Behold family soon, please know of our prayers for you! /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/31456912

S14 E17 - Worship (with Sarah Kroger) 05/20/2024

S14 E17 - Worship (with Sarah Kroger) In this week's episode, we welcome Sarah Kroger, a GMA Dove Award®-nominated artist, songwriter, and worship leader to the podcast to speak into the beauty of worship. Sarah shares her story of becoming a worship leader, how she creates music based on the joys and sorrows from her personal life, and her passion for collaborating with others and the Holy Spirit. We also chat about spiritual dryness, cultivating peace and persisting in faith while in seasons of darkness, and the fruit that comes about from suffering. Check out Sarah’s new album, , here! Heather’s One Thing - recipe and the upcoming series on our four identities Sister Miriam’s One Thing - (especially the candle) Michelle’s One Thing - The book by Matthew Dickerson and her priest friends and the gift of their fatherhood Sarah’s One Thing - The book by Dr. Alicia Britt Chole and Sourdough bread! Other Resources Mentioned: Check out Sarah’s and Listen to her new album, A New Reality, on Journal Questions: What parts of my life or my faith scare me? How can I find God in those scary parts? When have I experienced a dying of my childhood faith? When have I experienced a resurrection of that death? Whose suffering has borne fruit in my life? How can I submit my will to God to more closely work in partnership with Him? Discussion Questions: How has your practice of faith evolved throughout different seasons? How are you using your gifts to glorify God? How are you withholding my gifts? How can you invite the Holy Spirit into your own gifts and projects? What’s your next right step in following the inspiration of the Holy Spirit? Quote to Ponder: “I raise a hallelujah, in the presence of my enemies. I raise a hallelujah, louder than my unbelief. I raise a hallelujah, my weapon is a melody.” (Raise A Hallelujah by Jonathan and Melissa Helser) Scripture for Lectio: “But the hour is coming and is now here when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father seeks such as these to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” (John 4:23-24) Sponsor - Annunciation Heights: Looking for an adventure-filled experience rooted in your Catholic faith this summer? Annunciation Heights Catholic Youth and Family Camp in Estes Park, Colorado is the perfect place for you and your family! As a ministry of the Archdiocese of Denver, Annunciation Heights exists to be a place of transformative encounter with Jesus Christ, so that all who come to camp may live life fully for the glory of the Father. A Catholic camping experience can be deeply transformative for your child and your family. With week-long youth camps, four-day family camps, and outdoor education and retreat programs throughout the year, the impact of camp can last a lifetime. Join us at the Heights and discover what God has in store! To register for a camp program or to learn more, visit our website at today! /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/31343402

S14 E16 - Mothering Our Little Places (with Brya Hanan) 05/13/2024

S14 E16 - Mothering Our Little Places (with Brya Hanan) In this week's episode, we welcome Brya Hanan, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, to share how we can learn to engage as an adult with the young parts of ourselves. Brya shares her story, the trauma she experienced as a child, and how it affected not only her self-perception but also how she related to others. She reflects on her healing journey and shares practical ways you can begin your healing journey. We also chat about how our unmet needs as a child can affect us as adults, how to have compassion for ourselves in our brokenness, and why healing ourselves allows us to love those around us much more fully. Heather’s One Thing - Her parents Sister Miriam’s One Thing - and Michelle’s One Thing - Her husband, Chris, and his loving support Brya’s One Thing - Barre Classes! Other Resources Mentioned: Buy Brya’s book Check out Brya’s and Restore the Glory Podcast Journal Questions: Where do I sense deep divides within myself? How do I care for others as a way of avoiding care for myself? What would it look like for me to befriend my inner child? What are my defense mechanisms? Is it time to seek out therapy? Discussion Questions: What “templates” of wounds and experiences do you find yourself living through? In your healing journey, when have you experienced things getting worse before they got better? What made the change for the better? What does your inner child need to hear today? When do you feel dysregulated? When do you feel well-regulated? Quotes to Ponder: “Remember, you are held safe. You are loved. You are protected. You are in communion with God and with those whom God has sent you. What is of God will last. It belongs to the eternal life. Choose it, and it will be yours.” (Henri J.M. Nouwen, ) “The history of every human being passes through the threshold of a woman’s motherhood.” (Saint Pope JPII) Scripture for Lectio: A large crowd followed and pressed around him. And a woman was there who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years. She had suffered a great deal under the care of many doctors and had spent all she had, yet instead of getting better she grew worse. When she heard about Jesus, she came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak, because she thought, “If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed.” Immediately her bleeding stopped and she felt in her body that she was freed from her suffering. At once Jesus realized that power had gone out from him. He turned around in the crowd and asked, “Who touched my clothes?” “You see the people crowding against you,” his disciples answered, “and yet you can ask, ‘Who touched me?’ ” But Jesus kept looking around to see who had done it. Then the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came and fell at his feet and, trembling with fear, told him the whole truth. He said to her, “Daughter, your faith has healed you.Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.” (Mark 5: 24- 34) Sponsor - Holy Confident Birth: Are you an expectant mama who’s dreaming of a natural birth experience that feels like an act of worship, leaves you feeling empowered in your motherhood, and even brings you closer to Christ? Maybe you’ve been searching high and low for a resource that will help you get there AND that aligns with your Catholic values, but it just didn’t seem to exist! If you want to feel EQUIPPED to knock your birth out of the park, EMPOWERED in your ability to make informed decisions, and EXCITED for the Spirit-led, fear-free birth you’ve been dreaming of, The Holy Confident Birth Course might be just the solution you’ve been looking for. Inside this course, you’ll find eight modules comprised of video lessons and handouts,where you’ll learn about the labor and birth process, building the perfect team, managing your options and interventions, advocating for yourself during labor and so much more! If you want to take the next step towards a birth you’ll love, learn more at www.holyconfidentbirth.com/birthcourse and use code ABIDE for an extra $49 off at checkout. /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/31229817

S14 E15 - Life in the Power of the Holy Spirit (with Dr. Mary Healy) 05/06/2024

S14 E15 - Life in the Power of the Holy Spirit (with Dr. Mary Healy) In this week's episode, we welcome Dr. Mary Healy, author, and professor of Scripture at Sacred Heart Major Seminary, to talk about living life in the power of the Holy Spirit. Dr. Healy shares how her life was radically transformed through an encounter with the Holy Spirit and reflects on the beauty of allowing the Holy Spirit to work in her life. We also chat practically about how to live life day by day in the power of the Holy Spirit, how to learn to hear and respond to the voice of the Holy Spirit, and how we can prepare our hearts for Pentecost. Heather’s One Thing - on the Holy Spirit Heather’s Other One Thing - Peter and Debbie Herbeck (check out and ) Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Springtime! Michelle’s One Thing - and Dr. Mary Healy’s One Thing - Journal Questions: When did the love of God first become real to me? Have you ever experienced “white knuckle” Christianity? How can I live my life in the power of the Holy Spirit? What areas of my life are hardest to surrender to the Holy Spirit? Where in my life have I rationed the Holy Spirit? Where am I blocking the Holy Spirit? Discussion Questions: When do you feel like your failures are too much for God? What has your experience been with the Holy Spirit? Who in your life is filled with the fire of the Holy Spirit? What sacrifices have I had to make to surrender more fully to God? Quote to Ponder: “I would sacrifice myself a thousand times if I had the lives . . . I will go and I will do as the Holy Spirit inspires me” (Catherine of Sienna) Scripture for Lectio: “When the day of Pentecost had come, they were all together in one place. And suddenly from heaven there came a sound like the rush of a violent wind, and it filled the entire house where they were sitting. Divided tongues, as of fire, appeared among them, and a tongue rested on each of them. All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other languages, as the Spirit gave them ability.” (Acts 2:1-4) Sponsor - Hallow: Get 3 months free of Hallow, the #1 app for prayer, meditation, and music at with over 10,000 audio-guided prayers to help you find peace and grow closer to God. Join the 33 Days to Morning Glory Marian Consecration with Sr. Miriam today! /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/31112093

S14 E14 - Leading with God-Given Authority (Part 2) 04/29/2024

S14 E14 - Leading with God-Given Authority (Part 2) In this week's episode, we continue our conversation about leading with our God-given authority, particularly in our spiritual or biological motherhood. We talk about how God has blessed us with the Sacraments, Scripture, and prayer to fight spiritual battles. We reflect on the importance of rooting our identity in Christ, how Our Lady modeled feminine leadership, and practical ways to do spiritual warfare. We also discuss generational bondage, repairing trust, and the power of an apology given and received. Heather’s One Thing - Her playlist and her friendship with Michelle and Sister Miriam and the way they have helped her through dark seasons in life Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Having Heather visit and The Michelle’s One Thing - a Catholic Jewelry Company Other Resources Mentioned: Priscilla Shirer’s talk on the Sr. Miriam and Fr. John Burn’s talks on forgiveness ( and ) Sr. Miriam’s Journal Questions: What areas does the enemy often attack me in this area? What are my frequent sins? What are the deeper longs behind my frequent sins? Am I tempted to under-spiritualize or over-spiritualize the sufferings, temptations, and attacks in my life? When did I last go to confession? When am I planning to go next? What battles have I inherited from my family? How can I take responsibility for those battles? Discussion Questions: How can you apply the invitation to worship rather than worry in your current season? What are the prayers and tools God has given you out of love to help you on this journey? Who has been entrusted to you? How can you pray for them and do battle? Where in my life can I invite Christ’s Precious Blood into my life and family? What are some of Jesus’ promises in response to the attacks you face? Quote to Ponder: “Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication.” (Ephesians 6:10-18) Scripture for Lectio: “Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them” (Deuteronomy 4:9) Sponsor - Leanne Bowen: Today’s sponsor is Leanne Bowen Fine Art. Leanne is a Catholic Artist and a stay at home mom. She has released a beautiful collection of candles, prints, and gifts just in time for Mother's Day, Confirmations and all the upcoming Sacraments! She has an incredible Holy Spirit candle and a baptism candle that smells just like Chrism. These are beautiful gifts intentionally curated for those receiving their Sacraments. Her most popular print, Sacrifice of Love, depicts a married couple embracing the cross on their wedding day. It is bound to be the most intentional gift your friends or family will receive for their wedding. Leanne also just released a batch of bronze Prayer Card Holders that are absolutely stunning. They come in a three pack of each of the Hearts of the Holy Family. They are sturdy and beautiful- the perfect weight to hold small prints. She is offering 15% off site wide to all our listeners with the code ABIDE15 at . /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/30993128

S14 E13 - Leading with God-Given Authority 04/22/2024

S14 E13 - Leading with God-Given Authority In this week's episode, we reflect on leading with our God-given authority rather than worldly influence. We discuss the importance of remembering our identity in Christ and how true authority is a display of intimacy that has been rooted in a real tangible love. We share the ways we may have been wounded by authority figures in our past, why these wounds can distort our perception of authority, and how to heal from these wounds so that we can lead others into the light of Christ. Heather’s One Thing - from My Kitchen Little Sister Miriam’s On Thing - The book by Dr Gerry Crete Michelle’s One Thing - (an album of Catholic lullabies) from Beatify with Josh Blakesley and Kelly Lombardi Other Resources Mentioned: The series on Parts Work ( Journal Questions: How have I abdicated my God-given authority? When do I perceive surrender to be a form of defeat? How has authority been misused in my life? How is God inviting me to stay with Him in faithfulness and obedience? Where do I need to be both honoring and honest? Discussion Questions: How often do you think God is holding out on you? How do I lose sight of God-given authority by seeking out worldly influence? What accountability do I need to choose surrendered, God-given authority over worldly influence? When have you felt safe under God’s authority? How do you need to grow and mature to better lead and serve others? Quote to Ponder: “The fourth commandment opens the second table of the Decalogue. It shows us the order of charity. God has willed that, after him, we should honor our parents to whom we owe life and who have handed on to us the knowledge of God. We are obliged to honor and respect all those whom God, for our good, has vested with his authority.” (CCC 2197) Scripture for Lectio: “Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them.” (Deuteronomy 4:9) Sponsor - WalletWin: A big thank you to our sponsor WalletWin, Catholic financial formation for the whole family and creators of . Most of us were never taught how to manage our money 💰from a Catholic perspective. This has left many feeling weighed down 😩about finances and unable to freely pursue God’s calling. This is why we’re so excited to tell you about Catholic Money Academy from WalletWin. Since 2017, they’ve helped thousands of Catholics… …eliminate debt 💸 …build their savings 💪 …morally invest 🙌 …give generously ❤️ …and more! With their step-by-step program rooted in Catholic principles, they take the guesswork out of managing money. The Catholic Money Academy contains engaging video content, live coaching calls, and thorough financial formation to help you become the good steward you’re called to be. 🕊️💰 If you’re ready to feel confident and at peace with your finances, visit to start your extended 30-day free trial. Other Resources and Products You’ll Love from WalletWin: 🚑 🗓️ 👦🏻 🎧 /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/30917788

S14 E12 - Living in the Resurrection 04/15/2024

S14 E12 - Living in the Resurrection In this week's episode, we reflect on the themes of resurrection, grief, and hope in Pope Francis’ . We chat about the sadness of unfulfilled dreams and the tender places in our hearts where we are afraid to hope and want to stay in the tomb. We also talk about the anxieties and worries that can come with trying to figure things out on our own and the importance of surrendering our plans to God. Just like Christ, we are called to walk through the sufferings of this life with Him into the Resurrection. Heather’s One Thing - Her Heather’s Other One Thing - The book by Rachel Bulman () Sister Miriam’s On Thing - The book by Carrie Daunt Michelle’s One Thing - The book by Brya Hanan () Other Resources Mentioned: The series on Parts Work ( Journal Questions: What hopes have been dashed by the sorrowful mysteries of my life? Where are the places that I am afraid to hope? Do I believe my dreams are doomed to fail? What anxieties in my heart are preventing me from hoping? Discussion Questions: How are you still living in winter during the spring of Easter? Do you know how to practice Resurrection? In what ways do you believe your dreams rely on you for their fulfillment? How do you intellectualize or explain away your dreams? Quote to Ponder: “Yet the same women who bore this darkness in their hearts tell us something quite extraordinary. When they looked up, they saw that the stone, which was very large, had already been rolled back. This is the Pasch of Christ, the revelation of God’s power: the victory of life over death, the triumph of light over darkness, the rebirth of hope amid the ruins of failure. It is the Lord, the God of the impossible, who rolled away the stone forever. Even now, he opens our hearts, so that hope may be born ever anew. We too, then, should “look up” to him.” (Pope Francis, ) Scripture for Lectio: “When they looked up, they saw that the stone, which was very large, had already been rolled back.” (Mark 16:4) Sponsor - Farm of the Child: Farm of the Child is a Catholic children's home, school and clinic in Trujillo, Honduras where children receive healing care from a team of Honduran staff, Franciscan sisters, and international missionaries. Each year, the Farm of the Child attracts dedicated missionaries who make a 2 year commitment of service. Missionaries come from all different walks of life in order to serve in a variety of functions such as teaching, nursing, project management and community outreach. After spending 6 weeks in Antigua, Guatemala learning Spanish, missionaries travel to the children’s home where they live together and are guided by the four pillars of community, spirituality, simplicity and service. Short term immersion trips, remote and summer service opportunities are also available. If you think you might be called to serve in the capacity of an international missionary, email . Want to learn more about how to get involved in the mission in the US? Check out farmofthechild.org and sign up for our monthly newsletter here: /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/30799568

S14 E11 - A Time of Renewal (Holy Week: Focus) 03/25/2024

S14 E11 - A Time of Renewal (Holy Week: Focus) In this week's episode, we conclude our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and discuss the theme of “focus”. We chat about our natural temptation to focus on our woundedness, why we should take action and invite Jesus into these places, and how our wounds can be transformed into signs of the resurrection power of Christ. We also talk about the crosses we bear and the importance of recognizing the little resurrections in our life. Friends, thank you for journeying with us this Lenten season. We look forward to seeing you again after Easter! Heather’s One Thing - Our team behind the scenes: Kate, Camille, and Kristina! We are so grateful for you Sister Miriam’s On Thing - Springtime! Michelle’s One Thing - These Easter themed charcuterie boards! . . Announcement(s): We will be taking a two week break for Easter beginning on 4/1/24! Season 14 will continue on 4/15/24! Journal Questions: What was hard for me? What were the graces and mercies I experienced? How have I grown? How can I make this week holy? What wounds do I bring to Jesus? What wounds do I simply “stare at”? Discussion Questions: Where in your life are you seeking glory? Do I live like the Resurrection is a reality? When do you lose hope? Does the story you tell yourself about God align with God’s story (the Paschal Mystery)? What are the places of my heart that I don’t believe the narrative (of the Paschal Mystery)? Quotes to Ponder: “How are wounds made glorious? By our deciding what we will do with them. Our Jesus turned his wounds into beauty, and there is not one of us who would say, “Oh, this should not be in eternity.” Our poor hearts thrill to the verity that he is always showing his wounds to the Father on our behalf. They are transformed now in glory. Likewise, there is a transformation that we too can make of our own little everyday wounds which sometimes seem so deep and so big and so insufferable to us. How do we transform them into glory? By looking at Jesus, by remembering his suffering which was turned into glory.” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 207) Scripture for Lectio: “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.” (John 12:24) Sponsor - Pearl and Thistle: Pearl & Thistle equips Catholics to both understand and love God’s design for our bodies and menstrual cycles – from puberty to perimenopause, and everything in between! Pearl & Thistle features online courses, like: for parents and daughters to prepare for her first period, together! for couples who want to navigate NFP amidst cycle changes, together! Plus, books for teens and single women and tons of downloadable body literacy resources! Pearl and Thistle founder Christina Valenzuela weaves together modern cycle science with insights from Scripture, tradition, and JPII’s Theology of the Body to give us the positive language to talk about cycles, periods, and fertility – even when it all may just feel like a confusing mess. Learn more about Pearl and Thistle’s innovative approach to Catholic body literacy @pearlandthistle or , and be sure to use code TOGETHER to get 10% off /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/30461823

S14 E10 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 5: Scholarship) 03/18/2024

S14 E10 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 5: Scholarship) In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on how life is a continual process of refinement and how true learning comes through the healing found in suffering and communion. We also talk about the feelings of shame that accompany situations where we fall short, the importance of recognizing our limitations in humility, and how God desires to redeem our deepest wounds to help us grow in communion and love. Heather’s One Thing - Sarah Kroger’s new song Sister Miriam’s On Thing - Heather Khym’s (AGAIN!!) Michelle’s One Thing - Announcement: We will be taking a two week break for Easter beginning on 4/1/24. Season 14 will continue on 4/15/24! Journal Questions: What learning curves in my life do I react to with shame or fear? Where in my life do I feel like I need to figure it out? What are my most frequent complaints? How do they wound the Heart of Christ? How can I honor the Lord this upcoming Holy Week? Discussion Questions: What lessons are you learning this Lent? What blocks and walls do you experience when learning new lessons? How is the Lord inviting you to put in effort in learning the lessons of this season? How can you show loving and attentive devotion to the Lord in your daily life? Quote to Ponder: “Let us think for a few minutes about the process of learning. All real learning requires a great effort….One could perhaps define the greatest scholars as those who have put forth the most effort with the equipment that God gave them. There is always some form of suffering in all learning because there must be patience, and patience is suffering. There is always humility in learning. It is the great scholars who realize how little they know…” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 175) Scripture for Lectio: “He said to his apostles, “I have yet many things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now.”” (John 16:12) Sponsor - The Christa McAuliffe Academy School of Arts and Sciences: Discover CMASAS, where education is as unique as your child. CMASAS offers a personalized learning experience that adapts to each student's passions and pace. This WASC-accredited K-12 online school is an asynchronous, mastery-based program is a great fit for families seeking flexibility. CMASAS offers an experienced instructional support team with an average of 15 years’ experience. Course Instructors and Personalized Education Coaches (PECs) work with parents and students to develop a Personalized Education Plan specific to each student’s goals. The CMASAS community represents 30 countries. Students create lifelong friendships as they connect at clubs, homerooms, international trips, and in-person events. With dual-enrollment and AP options, students often graduate with college credits. We're excited to offer Abiding Together listeners a special promo code ABIDE2024 to waive the enrollment registration fee. Discover how CMASAS can redefine education for your child: Visit , Email , Call 503.226.7374 /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/30376933

S14 E9 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 4: Filling Up the Sufferings of Christ) 03/11/2024

S14 E9 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 4: Filling Up the Sufferings of Christ) In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on the theme of “filling up the sufferings of Christ”. We reflect on the connection between repentance and love, recognizing how they complement each other, and the beauty of repentance as an intimate act of drawing nearer to God. We share our own struggles during this Lenten season, how others have helped keep us accountable, and the importance of helping others grow in holiness. Lastly, we chat about the significance of renouncing falsehoods about ourselves and embracing the truth about our identity that can only be found in God. Heather’s One Thing -The song by Gateway Worship Sister Miriam’s On Thing - Andrew Laubacher and his organization called Michelle’s One Thing - Fr. Mark Mary CFR new book Journal Questions: Where is the ease of the Lord in my life? How can I turn back to the Lord in moments of hardship this Lent? In the people I struggle with most, how do I encounter the image of God in them? In my own self-righteousness, from whom do I withhold the kingdom of God? Discussion Questions: Do you perceive repentance as an opportunity for intimacy or a response to punishment? How can you more urgently respond to God’s invitation of love? What accountability can you incorporate to be steadfast to your Lenten promises? How can you invite a culture of redemption into your life? Quote to Ponder: “Our joy must be in him, where alone things have permanent depth and even eternality. The more earnestly we live our Lent, the more will we be finding our joy in Jesus.” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 148) Scripture for Lectio: “He delivered us from the dominion of the darkness and transferred us into the kingdom of his beloved son.” (Colossians 1:13) Sponsor - Mary’s Meals: Mary’s Meals sets up community-run school feeding projects in some of the world’s poorest communities, where poverty and hunger prevent children from gaining an education. The idea is a simple one that works. Mary’s Meals provides one daily meal in a place of learning to attract chronically poor children into the classroom, where they receive an education that can, in the future, be their ladder out of poverty. Bringing hope to hungry children around the world, their mission is to enable people to offer their money, goods, skills, time, or prayer, and through this involvement, provide the most effective help to those suffering the effects of extreme poverty in the world’s poorest Communities. Today, Mary’s Meals is providing more than 2.4 million children with a daily school meal across five continents. But the need is great! The appalling reality is that there are still 73 million children living in extreme poverty in need of school feeding. Please help to reach the next hungry child waiting for Mary’s Meals. To get involved or learn more visit marysmeals.ca in Canada or marysmealsusa.org in the USA. /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/30277473

S14 E8 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 3: The Right Kind of Zeal) 03/04/2024

S14 E8 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 3: The Right Kind of Zeal) In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on the theme of the right kind of zeal. We chat about how we may be feeling tired and tempted to relax our Lenten penances and discuss the importance of taking time to reflect on why we felt called to take on a specific sacrifice and then recommitting ourselves with zeal to carry it out. We also talk about the joys of living in covenant with the Lord, the heartache we should experience when our hearts wander, and the beauty of giving ourselves totally to Him out of love. Heather’s One Thing - Happy 80th birthday to her dad! Heather’s Other One Thing - Episode 5 of Fr. Dave’s series called: My father’s Father. Watch on or . Sister Miriam’s On Thing - Heather Khym’s Michelle’s One Thing - The song by Seven Hills Worship () Journal Questions: What do you need to fill your tank for the long spiritual roadtrip of Lent? What spiritual rest stops do I need to take to continue to go the distance with the Lord? How am I letting my emotions drive the bus? Do I treat my covenant with the Lord with the same respect as I show the covenants of marriage or religious life? Discussion Questions: How do you need the Lord to love you this week? Have you been feeling empty, angsty, or frustrated this Lent? How is the Lord inviting you into deeper freedom through this experience? How can you suffer and fast with more joy? Quotes to Ponder: “The ancient name for Lent is “the season of the battle”, agonia, which was the Greek word for the final testing of the athlete or the warrior, and has become the term for the Agony in the Garden.” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 143) Scripture for Lectio: “His disciples recalled the words of Scripture, Zeal for your house will consume me.” (John 2:17) Sponsor - JPII Healing Center: Discover the healing God deeply desires for you. Our brand-new dives deep into your areas of woundedness and pain and the healing and restoration God deeply longs to give you. All 8 transformational talks by Dr. Bob Schuchts and Sr. Miriam James Heidland, as well as 10hrs of Q&As, are now available to you on our streaming platform right in the comfort of your home. To aid you in your journey to healing and wholeness use code Abiding25 to receive 25% off individual and group leader subscriptions (expires 4/1/24). Additionally, the numerous books and resources offered in our offer you insight and accompaniment on your path to healing. There you will find several familiar authors including Dr. Bob Schuchts and Abiding Together’s very own Sr. Miriam. /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/30140523

S14 E7 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 2: In Conversation with Jesus) 02/26/2024

S14 E7 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 2: In Conversation with Jesus) In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on the theme of being in conversation with Jesus. We reflect on the importance of reserving space for dialogue with God, surrendering to Him our own plans and desires, and allowing Him to love us in our poverty. The process of dying to self is always accompanied with the hope in the promise of resurrection and new life that Jesus offers. Heather’s One Thing - In thanksgiving for Deacon Bob and Fr Dave Pivonka letting her use their studio to record this episode and for being asked to be a guest on their podcast called . Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The book by David Brooks Michelle’s One Thing - Her household sisters at Francisan University Journal Questions: Am I in conversation with God or in a monologue with myself? How can I create more space for dialogue with God? What Isaacs (idols) do I have? How do I self-sabotage in order to confirm my deepest fears? Discussion Questions: What does it look like for you to be a new creation in Christ? Have you ever felt like God contradicts Himself? How did He resolve that apparent contradiction? What littleness in your life do you tend to hide and run away from? How can you be more open with the Lord in your littleness? What holds me back from entering into prayer honestly or making a confession regularly? Quotes to Ponder: “Then, a word about the Tabor Gospel. I was newly impressed by the fact that Moses and Elijah were in conversation with Jesus. Let us be occupied always in being in conversation with Jesus. We know the deepest conversations are the wordless ones. We love that simple and profound word of Pope Saint John Paul II, “Let Jesus be the one to whom you talk the most.”” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 76) Scripture for Lectio: “Here am I, Lord!” (Genesis 22:1) Sponsor - CORDA: Connect with the saints and create a peaceful place of prayer with CORDA's handcrafted Catholic candles. Each candle has a custom scent inspired by saints and the faith, and they're made with clean coconut wax and have a beautiful, modern design. There’s 24 candles and counting, including ones inspired by St. Therese, St. Augustine, and Morning Prayer, with unique scents for everyone. There’s even a fragrance-free option, inspired by Mary the Immaculate Conception. Each CORDA candle comes beautifully packaged, with the story behind the scent inspiration on the box. And the simple design of the candle leads with beauty, making them perfect for gifting and helping you share the faith in a lovely and meaningful way. If you know someone getting married or having a baby, CORDA also offers special bulk discounts for wedding favors, bridal showers, and baby showers! CORDA is a Catholic small business run by a husband-and-wife team, and they'd love to gift you a free tealight sampler with your next order of $35 or more - thar's 6 free mini candles! To receive your special gift, be sure to go to and follow the steps on that page (good now through April 30, 2024). /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/30064618

S14 E6 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 1: True Self-Denial) 02/19/2024

S14 E6 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 1: True Self-Denial) In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on the theme of true self-denial. We reflect on the importance of recognizing our need for God’s love and allowing ourselves to be transformed by His grace. We also share personal experiences and insights on repentance, amendment, and trusting in God’s plan especially when the desires of our heart are not being fulfilled. We end by discussing the joys that can come from Lent when approached with a tender, sensitive, and alert heart. Heather’s One Thing - Heather’s Other One Thing - The talk by Monsignor Shea Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Pints with Aquinas episode on w/ Fr. Michael Baggot (Watch on here) Michelle’s One Thing - The book by Fr. Burke Masters Journal Questions: Have I ever approached Lent with a sense of wonder? How have I approached Lent with self hatred in the past? What parts of myself are the stranger I need to welcome home and allow the Father to love? How can I be more open to God as the Divine Interruptor? Discussion Questions: Where are you hungry? Where are others in your life hungry? Who in your life is the stranger you need to welcome? Do you believe something wonderful can happen this Lent? Where have you become resigned and hard of heart instead of tender and sensitive? Quotes to Ponder: We are called to a glorious festival of love—to be spiritually dizzied with the fact that this is how much God has loved us. Surely we shall all look at the crucifix with a new vision, a deepened understanding that he really. (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 37) Scripture for Lectio: “After John had been arrested, Jesus came to Galilee proclaiming the gospel of God: “This is the time of fulfillment. The kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the Gospel.”” (Mark 1:14-15) Sponsor - Reform Wellness: is a Christ-centered functional medicine and holistic wellness ministry. Reform redefines health as the state of your body and soul. Their mission is to empower the whole person to find well-being in Christ and become the best versions of themselves physically and spiritually. Reform works with private clients, corporate teams, religious communities, and educational institutions worldwide, both in-person and online. They offer valuable information, educational resources, and lifelong tools to improve your well-being. We invite you to learn more about Reform’s foundational course Reform Online which offers educational tools, best practices, and community through their nine wellness pillars. Reform is extending an exclusive discount for all our listeners on their Lenten Cohort. We highly recommend this three-month foundational course; we’ve each taken Reform Online and still benefit from the fruits in our daily lives. Use code “Abide10'' for your exclusive discount through February 29. /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/29985893

S14 E5 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Intro: A Time of Reflowering) 02/12/2024

S14 E5 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Intro: A Time of Reflowering) In this week's episode, we begin our seven week Lenten study of the book “A Time of Renewal” by Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. In this episode we cover the introduction and the sections on the first four days of Lent. We discuss how Lent is an opportunity for us to grow in intimacy with God and how viewing fasting as a time of renewal, not suffering, can help us encounter a deeper transformation. We also reflect on our ability to help others grow in holiness, why Lent is the Springtime of the liturgical year, and how we can allow ourselves to bloom this Lenten season. Heather’s One Thing - by Francis Chan Sister Miriam’s One Thing - the women at the Trini-tea fundraiser () Michelle’s One Thing - ABBA by Johnathan Helser and the people of Louisiana Journal Questions: Take inventory of your heart: where are you? Where do I need to reflower? What areas of my life does the Lord want to prune? Am I approaching this Lent like “just another Lent”? How can I accept this Lent as a unique season and invitation from the Lord? What practices put me back in the gaze of the Father? How can I incorporate them into my Lenten plan? Discussion Questions: Which fruits in my life are good fruits? Which fruits are bad fruits? How can you be more conscious of your responsibility for one another’s holiness? Whose growth in holiness is God inviting you to be conscious of? Who can you offer your Lenten prayers and fasts up for? How close are you to the Lord today? Quotes to Ponder: “I hope we will not allow ourselves to think of it as “just another Lent”. There is a very deep sense in which there is not another Lent and then another and another after that. This Lent is unlike any other. It is this acceptable time. We do not know if there will be another Lent for us, but we do know God has brought us to this acceptable time, to this prolonged day of salvation.” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 19) Scripture for Lectio: “Is not this the fast that I chose: to loose the bonds of wickedness and to undo the thongs of the yoke, to let the oppressed go free and break every yoke?” (Isaiah 58:6) Sponsor - The Little Rose Shop: Discover the beauty of integrating faith into your everyday life with The Little Rose Shop. Our is the perfect companion for your morning routine, allowing you to start each day with a heartfelt prayer, focusing your thoughts on Christ. Plus, explore our Quiet Books collection, including the , , and the . These engaging books are designed for babies and toddlers, making it easy to introduce them to the wonders of faith in a quiet and interactive way—perfect for adoration or Mass. As a special treat for Abiding Together listeners, use promo code ABIDING15 for an exclusive 15% discount at checkout. Enrich your spiritual journey and bring the joy of faith into your home with The Little Rose Shop. /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/29877458

S14 E4 - My Father’s Father with Fr. Dave Pivonka, TOR 02/05/2024

S14 E4 - My Father’s Father with Fr. Dave Pivonka, TOR In this week's episode, we welcome Fr. Dave Pivonka, TOR as our guest to dive deep into what it means to be in relationship with God as Father. Together we chat about how our earthly fathers both positively and negatively impact our relationship with God the Father and how to begin to receive the love of God the Father. We also share how our relationship with God the Father has changed through the loss of earthly fathers. Check out Fr. Dave’s new (free!) video series entitled (or ). Heather’s One Thing - with Franciscan to France and Alaska Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The the beauty of the Pensacola beach Michelle’s One Thing - Watching NFL Playoffs with Sister Miriam Fr. Dave’s One Thing - The book by Mitch Albom Other Resources Mentioned: Spotify Playlist Journal Questions: What does (or did) my father’s relationship with our Heavenly Father look like? In what ways can I grow in honoring and being honest about my father? Other than my earthly father, who in my life revealed the heart of our Heavenly Father to me? For those whose fathers have passed away: how has my relationship with God the Father changed since my father passed away? Discussion Questions: How has your relationship with your earthly father shaped your relationship with your Heavenly Father? In your current state of life, when do you feel most connected to your identity as a child? What thoughts, emotions, and associations arise when you think of your primary identity as a child? How can you grow in and more deeply receive your daughterhood from the Father? Quotes to Ponder: “The whole of the Christian life is like a great pilgrimage to the house of the Father, whose unconditional love for every human creature, and in particular for the 'prodigal son,' we discover anew each day.” (JPII Tertio Millennio Adveniente) Scripture for Lectio: “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” (1 John 3:1) Sponsor - Ascension: With the , you can easily find answers to the most challenging questions about church teaching and Scripture. Designed to help you understand the faith like never before, you’ll experience the peace that comes from deepening your prayer life and knowledge of God. The Ascension App includes: Both of Fr. Mike's In a Year podcasts in one place Transcripts for every podcast episode The full texts of the Bible and Catechism Nearly 1,000 questions that Bible In a Year listeners have had over the years with their answers! Episode summaries, bonus content, and reflection questions Daily readings with video reflections from your favorite Catholic creators! And if you’re feeling overwhelmed or disconnected as you prepare for Lent, you’re not alone. The Ascension App will be a one-stop-shop for prayer this season, with Fr. Mark Toups’ Lenten Companion audio + video reflections guiding you day-by-day to an encounter with the person of Christ. Explore the Ascension App’s premium features with a free 7-day trial! /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/29775283

S14 E3 - Living in the Tension: Solitude and Community 01/29/2024

S14 E3 - Living in the Tension: Solitude and Community In this week's episode, we discuss the relationship between solitude and community and how no matter if we are introverted or extroverted, we need both in order to live rightly ordered lives. We reflect on how solitude and community has changed throughout the different seasons of our lives and the importance of being open to these changes so we can receive the blessings God desires to give us. When we let our cups be filled by God through authentic solitude, we are able to grow, and therefore build deeper and more intimate relationships within our community. Heather’s One Thing - The book from the January Jane Shop Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The book by Hannah Hurnard Michelle’s One Thing - Spending time with Sister Miriam at the O’Grady’s Beach House Journal Questions: What obstacles do you encounter to being in communion with Christ when you enter into silence? How am I tempted to perceive solitude as isolation? How am I tempted to perceive being with people as community? When I think about solitude and community and which one I currently need more of, how can I create space in my life to tend to that need? What needs do I need to voice to someone in my life? Discussion Questions: Which comes more naturally to you: solitude or community? Throughout your life, which communities have brought you closer to Christ and allowed you to become more fully human? In your current season of life, have you sensed a stronger need for solitude or community? What daily, weekly, or monthly rhythms do you have to cultivate community and solitude? Quotes to Ponder: “Let him who cannot be alone beware of community... Let him who is not in community beware of being alone... Each by itself has profound perils and pitfalls. One who wants fellowship without solitude plunges into the void of words and feelings, and the one who seeks solitude without fellowship perishes in the abyss of vanity, self-infatuation and despair.” (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, ) “True silence is a garden enclosed, where alone the soul can meet its God.” (Catherine Doherty) Scripture for Lectio: “And after he had dismissed the crowds, he went up the mountain by himself to pray.” (Matthew 14:23 ) Sponsor - Ascension: With the , you can easily find answers to the most challenging questions about church teaching and Scripture. Designed to help you understand the faith like never before, you’ll experience the peace that comes from deepening your prayer life and knowledge of God. The Ascension App includes: Both of Fr. Mike's In a Year podcasts in one place Transcripts for every podcast episode The full texts of the Bible and Catechism Nearly 1,000 questions that Bible In a Year listeners have had over the years with their answers! Episode summaries, bonus content, and reflection questions Daily readings with video reflections from your favorite Catholic creators! And if you’re feeling overwhelmed or disconnected as you prepare for Lent, you’re not alone. The Ascension App will be a one-stop-shop for prayer this season, with Fr. Mark Toups’ Lenten Companion audio + video reflections guiding you day-by-day to an encounter with the person of Christ. Explore the Ascension App’s premium features with a free 7-day trial! /episode/index/show/abidingtogether/id/29673208

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