S18 E10 - The Way of Trust and Love: Trusting More and More
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In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on “” and focus on Chapter 4: Trusting More and More. We reflect on the tender places where our trust in the Father has been wounded—especially in the disappointments we carry with ourselves, our children, and the circumstances in our lives—and how God gently invites us to bring those disappointments to Him. We also talk about the lies that quietly erode our trust in God, the temptation to carry life’s burdens alone, and the way simple rhythms of prayer allow God to personally reveal to us His goodness. This week, we invite you to...
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S18 E9 - The Way of Trust and Love: Being Reconciled to Our Weakness
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In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on “” and focus on Chapter 3: Being Reconciled to Our Weakness. We talk about how our struggles with ourselves often spill over into our relationships with others and how learning to accept our own weakness can soften our hearts towards the weakness we see in those around us. We also reflect on the tension between accepting our littleness and desiring real conversion, how we become more aware of our imperfections as we draw closer to the Lord, and the gift of community in helping us clearly see our lives. This week, we invite you to...
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S18 E8 - The Way of Trust and Love: An Elevator for Small Children
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In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on “” and focus on Chapter 2: An Elevator for Small Children. We talk about the quiet places of discouragement, and self-reliance that keep us striving instead of surrendering. We also reflect about how radical dependence on God is not laziness, the subtle ways we resist being little before a loving Father, and how our poverty is a doorway into deeper trust. This week, we invite you to fall into the Father’s arms, allow Him to pick you up, and rest in the One who delights in you. Heather’s One Thing - The Prince of Egypt...
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S18 E7 - The Way of Trust and Love: A Completely New Way
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In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on “” and focus on Chapter 1: A Completely New Way. We reflect on the “little way” of St. Thérèse, the invitation to become spiritual children before the Father, and how weakness becomes the very place where Christ comes to meet us. We also talk about the difference between being childish and childlike, why true maturity in faith begins with admitting our own poverty, and how small acts of courage open the door to deep healing. This week, we invite you to name the desires stirring in your heart and let the Holy Spirit awaken a new...
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S18 E6 - The Way of Trust and Love: Introduction
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In this episode, we begin our Lenten book study on “” and focus on the Introduction. We talk about how St. Thérèse’s “little way” offers hope to weary hearts who feel small, fragile, or poor. We discuss how the Lord can transform our lives in a moment, how to boast in our poverty instead of bemoaning it, and the power of a listening heart. This Lent, we invite you into a gentler, deeper journey—one rooted not in striving, but in trust and love. Heather’s One Thing - and everyone who put together this experience Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Michelle’s One...
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S18 E5 - Entering the Desert
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In this episode, we reflect on Lent as a Holy Spirit led journey through the desert to bring us into a deeper union with God. We talk about the resistance many of us feel to fasting, why Lent is not a self-improvement project, and the importance of discerning our Lenten practices. We also discuss how, through Lent, our true identity as beloved daughters is revealed, tested, and healed. Before Lent begins on Wednesday, we invite you to notice where your heart may feel numb, distracted, or defensive, and ask the Holy Spirit what He desires to restore. Our Lenten book study “” will begin next...
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S18 E4 - Communion with God with John Eldredge
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In this episode, we welcome author, counselor, and speaker John Eldredge to the show, who is best known for his book Wild at Heart. We have a powerful conversation about intimacy with God in a world full of chaos, suffering, and spiritual hunger. We reflect on what it means to reclaim a “re-enchanted” Christian worldview, how to pray against chaos, the profound gift women have to offer the world right now. We also talk practically about how to pray as a couple, ask John to lead us in a guided “Pause” prayer, and invite you into a moment of stillness, surrender, and loving awareness of...
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S18 E3 - Scripture: The Living Word of God
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In this episode, we explore why spending time Scripture is essential for staying rooted in Christ and how it aids us in the midst of spiritual battle. We reflect on the reality that Scripture is the living Word of God, far more powerful than we often realize. It has the ability to encourage, correct, heal, and transform our hearts. We share personal stories of how the Holy Spirit has brought Scripture to life for us and how God’s Word has been an anchor during seasons of difficulty. Friends, God desires to speak to you personally through His Word and is inviting you not into just another...
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S18 E2 - Forgiveness
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In this episode, we reflect on the tender and often misunderstood topic of forgiveness, what it is, what it isn’t, and why it's central to finding freedom in Christ. We talk honestly about how resentment and unforgiveness can quietly build in the heart, often as an attempt to protect ourselves from further pain. We also acknowledge how difficult forgiveness can be, what to do with the cry of our hearts when we have been wounded, and how to entrust it to God when we don’t yet feel capable of forgiving. Friends, forgiveness does not strip us of our identity, it affirms who we are in Christ....
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S18 E1 - Word of the Year
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Welcome to season 18 kickoff with our annual tradition of the Word of the Year episode! Each year, we ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share what our words for 2026 mean to us and chat about the Saints journeying with us this year. We are excited to be back and look forward to what this year will bring! Heather’s One Thing - by Dr. Sean Tobin ( too!) Heather’s Other One Thing - by Amanda Cook Sister Miriam’s One Thing - by Fr. Paul Hinnebusch, OP () Michelle’s One Thing - by Allen...
info_outlineIn this episode, we reflect on the legacy of Pope Francis. We talk about how, during his Pontificate, Pope Francis emphasized joy and, through his example, helped us remember to embody this joy in our daily lives to bring others into the Church. We also acknowledge how God has used Pope Francis to speak to us through his writings and discuss which of these writings most profoundly impacted us, how we can pray for our next Pope, and share what we think will be his lasting legacy.
Heather’s One Thing - Her Parents
Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Firm Foundation by Cody Carnes (and the Maverick City Music Remix ;))
Michelle’s One Thing - Wrightsville Beach in Wilmington , NC
Other Resources Mentioned:
- Papal Homily on the Revolution of Tenderness
- Pope Francis’ Surprise TED Talk
- Patris Corde - Apostolic Letter
- Dilexit Nos - Encyclical
- Evangelii Gaudium (Joy of the Gospel) - Apostolic Exhortation
- List of Cardinals attending the Conclave
Abiding Together Episodes on Pope Francis’ Writings:
- The Joy of the Gospel Study
- Rejoice and Be Glad Study
- The Sacred Heart (three part series)
- C’est la Confiance (two part series)
- Revolution of Tenderness
Journal Questions:
- How have I been blessed by Pope Francis’ pontificate?
- In what ways do I experience the Gospel as Lent without Easter?
- How can I embrace the lessons Pope Francis has taught me throughout his papacy in my life?
- How can I pray for the Church during the conclave?
Discussion Questions:
- How did you receive the news of Pope Francis’ passing?
- How can we live out Pope Francis’ vision of the Church as a field hospital in our own lives?
- Which of Pope Francis’ writings left an impactful impression on you?
- What’s one word you would use to describe Pope Francis’ legacy?
Quote to Ponder:
"Joy adapts and changes, but it always endures, even as a flicker of life born of our personal certainty that, when everything is said and done, we are infinitely loved." (Pope Francis)
Scripture for Lectio:
“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.” (Romans 15:13)
Sponsor - Glory: Women’s Conference:
This week’s episode is sponsored by the Glory: Women’s Conference hosted by Steubenville Conferences and our very own Heather Khym! We want to invite you to join Heather, Michelle, and our dear friends Debbie Herbeck, Sarah Kaczmarek, Monica Richards, and Sarah Kroger who will be leading us in worship, this June 6-8 in Steubenville, Ohio as we gather with women across generations and seek God’s presence.
We are just about one month out from the Glory: Women’s Conference and tickets are still available! This is the first one and we want you to be part of it, especially since it’s over Pentecost weekend and we know the Holy Spirit will be showing up in big ways.
The conference schedule will include talks, worship, prayer experiences, and the opportunity to interact with fellow Abiding Together listeners and new friends from all over who will be flying in. Heather and Michelle would absolutely love to meet you. Whether you come with your Abiding Together small group, with a close friend, or on your own, we can’t wait to gather in fellowship with you.
Visit steubenvilleconferences.com/events/glory for more information or to register!
Timestamps:
00:00 - Glory: Women’s Conference
01:10 - Intro
02:01 - Welcome
04:14 - How We Found Out
07:02 - His Funeral and the Upcoming Conclave
08:30 - A Grace-filled Time
09:54 - Evangelii Gaudium (Joy of the Gospel)
13:36 - The Church as a Field Hospital
15:52 - Revolution of Tenderness
18:26 - The Lord Deeply Cares for Us
19:48 - Dilexit Nos (The Sacred Heart)
20:27 - The Holy Spirit and the Holy Family
21:12 - His Lasting Legacy
26:08 - How Can We Pray?
29:52 - One Things