The Dr. Shyamala Show
Join ex- Psychotherapist of 20 years, Dr. Shyamala as we explore the intersection of Emotional Intelligence + Energetics in order to unlock the life, business, and relationships we TRULY desire. Inside this podcast, we share mindset, communication, relationship + leadership strategies for high-impact women who are ready to create the life of their dreams. Connect with me on Instagram @iam.drshyam Visit my website: www.shyamalakiru.com/
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5 Core Concepts of Worthiness
08/28/2025
5 Core Concepts of Worthiness
There’s a version of you who knows you’re meant for more. More depth. More love. More ease. More impact. But if you’ve ever wondered why the things you want aren’t landing — no matter how clear your vision or how hard you work — I want you to listen closely: You cannot receive what you feel unworthy of. Not because you’re blocked. Not because you’re broken. But because unworthiness distorts your frequency. In this week’s episode, I’m bringing you into the real work I’ve been doing behind the scenes — through shifts in my love life, my businesses, and my deepest self-concept. It’s raw. It’s personal. And it’s a reclamation of worthiness as your energetic baseline. Inside this episode, we explore: Why manifestation isn’t just about mindset — it’s about energetic congruence The real reason you may be repelling the very things you desire How to release guilt as a daily practice, not a once-in-a-while event The science behind why unworthiness blocks manifestation (this part is so validating) A behind-the-scenes look at the shifts I’m navigating in love, co-parenting, and business — and how they’re sharpening my spiritual edge A sneak peek at the five energetic concepts I’m personally embodying to fully release unworthiness… and receive with precision. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: BOOK A 1-MONTH PRIVATE INTENSIVE: JOIN THE CREATRIX METHOD WAITLIST: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Contractual Love vs Unconditional Love
08/07/2025
Contractual Love vs Unconditional Love
What if the thing blocking intimacy is the contract you didn’t even know you signed? Not a legal one. A silent one. The one that says: “If you meet my needs, I’ll meet yours.” “If you make me feel safe, I’ll stay open.” “If you act how I expect, I’ll keep loving you.” It’s a model most of us inherited. A tit-for-tat paradigm of partnership. One that feels familiar, even responsible. But also: One that quietly contracts our capacity for intimacy. This week on the podcast, I’m pulling back the curtain on the very personal experiment I’m doing in my own relationship — one that’s challenging everything I used to believe about love. After years as a couples therapist… After 15+ years in a former marriage… After guiding thousands of relationships toward healing… I find myself asking a question I’ve never fully answered: Can love be unconditional, even in romantic partnership? Inside this episode, I share: *What I’ve seen in my work with couples — and why many of us are still playing by outdated rules *How conditional love quietly kills desire *Why freedom is the hidden ingredient for long-term intimacy *And the personal practice I’m exploring daily to expand my capacity for love This isn’t a story of perfection. It’s a story of practice. A story about what happens when you stop trying to earn love — and start learning how to live it. If you’ve ever felt like love must be negotiated… If you’ve ever questioned what it means to be fully seen, fully chosen, fully free… Let this episode be a mirror. Website -
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Magnetizing Love: Lessons from my New Relationship
07/24/2025
Magnetizing Love: Lessons from my New Relationship
What if the thing that’s actually keeping love out is your need for perfection? Not the lack of healing. Not the wrong timing. Not your history. But the subtle belief that you must show up flawless to be worthy of love. This came up for me in a recent moment that cracked me open — and I’m sharing it, fully, in this week’s podcast. After two years of deep healing post-divorce, I met someone new. Someone wonderful. Someone real. And in his presence, I’ve met both the most surrendered version of myself… …and the most activated. One afternoon, we were in the car together. I answered a tense co-parenting call. When I hung up, I asked for his thoughts. He said — with deep care — “It sounded like you were placating.” I wanted to crawl out of my skin. Because placating was an old pattern. One I’ve worked hard to heal. And in that moment, the shame that rose up wasn’t just about him witnessing me. It was the belief that if I wasn’t perfect, I wouldn’t be lovable. That I needed to earn love by being above my patterns — not inside them. And yet… That vulnerable girl part of me — the one who used to believe love was conditional — was met with tenderness. Not rejection. He reminded me: “I admire your strength. But what draws me most is your softness.” This week’s episode is a story about that moment — but more than that, it’s about the old paradigms we still carry. The ones that say love must be performed for. This moment reminded me of a truth I return to again and again: Healing happens in layers. Magnetism is born in our willingness to be fully seen. Self-love deepens when we soften into our humanness, not away from it. So if you’ve been holding onto the idea that love requires perfection — that you need to finish your healing before receiving the love you want — I offer this story as a mirror. You get to be both powerful and tender. You get to show up with patterns — and still be deeply worthy of love.
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The Power Of Radical Decision Making
06/12/2025
The Power Of Radical Decision Making
You know the feeling That quiet tension when someone asks what you want, and for just a moment... you pause. Not because you don't know, but because somewhere along the way, you learned to check with everyone else first. To make sure your desires were acceptable. Reasonable. Not too much. Maybe it started small—waiting for your partner's approval before making a decision. Checking with your mother before changing your hair. Asking your business mentor if your idea was "good enough" before moving forward. But over time, it became something bigger. You started waiting for permission to want what you want. To choose what you choose. To trust what you know to be true. And here's what I've learned after two decades of working with women just like you: The energy of waiting is the energy of disempowerment. When we wait—for permission, for validation, for the perfect moment, for someone else to lead—we leak our personal power. We hand over our ability to create the life we truly desire to external forces that were never meant to hold that responsibility. In this week's podcast episode, I'm sharing the story of how I learned this lesson the hard way during my separation and divorce. How I discovered that so much of my "successful" life was actually built on other people's definitions of success. Other people's expectations. Other people's timelines. Where to connect: Website - Instagram - @iam.drshyam
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The Truth About Confidence That No One Talks About
05/29/2025
The Truth About Confidence That No One Talks About
Even the most outwardly successful women quietly wrestle with this. They’ve achieved degrees. Built the career. Created a beautiful life. And yet… Confidence still feels elusive. It shows up in some moments—and disappears in others. It feels conditional. Fragile. Dependent on things outside of you. In this week’s podcast, we’re unpacking why this happens—and how to finally shift into embodied confidence that doesn’t need proving or performance. Here’s what we explore: The subtle (but powerful) difference between ego-based and embodied confidence Why even high-achievers struggle with deep, stable self-trust How your decision-making reveals the truth about your inner power A new lens for reclaiming confidence without needing to “do more” This is about creating a version of confidence that is unshakable—because it’s built from within. If you’ve ever found yourself second-guessing your worth, overthinking decisions, or seeking external validation just to feel “enough”…this episode is your invitation to begin again. No performance. No pretense. Just help you get aligned with your own power. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: BOOK A 1-MONTH PRIVATE INTENSIVE: JOIN THE CREATRIX METHOD WAITLIST: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Why Telling Yourself to Change Doesn’t Work
05/22/2025
Why Telling Yourself to Change Doesn’t Work
“Fake it ‘til you make it.” We’ve all been taught this. Say the right affirmations. Walk like you’re confident. Act like you’ve already changed. But here’s the truth no one talks about: You can’t fake your way into embodiment. And surface-level change will always crack under pressure. In today’s episode of the podcast, I’m unpacking why “acting as if” creates more frustration than freedom—and what it actually takes to create change that lasts. Here’s why you’ll want to press play: The hidden cost of “fake it ‘til you make it” (and why it backfires) How behavioral change without embodiment erodes your confidence The critical difference between releasing a pattern and replacing it What actually rewires your reality on a subconscious level This is for the woman who’s ready to stop performing, and start creating from her deepest truth. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: BOOK A 1-MONTH PRIVATE INTENSIVE: JOIN THE CREATRIX METHOD WAITLIST: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Your Emotional Depth Determines the Quality of Your Relationships
05/08/2025
Your Emotional Depth Determines the Quality of Your Relationships
We often think of intimacy as something we create with others. But what if the real portal to richer connection, more fulfilling relationships, and even deeper self-trust… was your emotional depth? In this week’s episode, I’m unpacking a powerful truth: You can only meet someone as deeply as you’ve met yourself. Whether you’re navigating intimate partnerships, parenting, leadership, or friendship—your ability to hold space for others is directly shaped by your capacity to hold space for your own emotions. Inside this episode, you’ll hear: The true definition of emotional depth—and why nuance matters How your capacity to be with emotion shapes every relationship you have Why you can’t hold others if you haven’t learned to hold yourself A powerful mindset shift around emotional regulation and decision-making This is one of the most important conversations I’ve shared—because the skill of emotional depth is a foundational key to creating the relationships you truly desire. If you’ve ever wondered why surface-level connection no longer satisfies you—or why intimacy feels hard to sustain—this episode is your next step. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: BOOK A 1-MONTH PRIVATE INTENSIVE: JOIN THE CREATRIX METHOD WAITLIST: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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(Re) Discovering Myself Through Dating
05/01/2025
(Re) Discovering Myself Through Dating
This week, I’m sharing something personal. Not a framework. But a reflection on what it’s been like to re-enter the dating world in my late 40s and rediscovering myself in the process. At 48, dating feels completely different than it did in my 30s. And it should. Because I am completely different. What I’ve realized is this: Dating isn’t about evaluating the other—it’s about witnessing yourself Most of us are still carrying outdated, fear-based paradigms around love and relationship You can desire intimacy without abandoning your own energy in the process And when you become the governing energy in your life—everything changes This episode is tender, honest, and filled with the exact kinds of questions I ask myself (and my clients) as we unhook from ego-based patterns and return to soul-aligned power. This goes beyond just dating, because this conversation is really about YOU. If you’re curious, click play and dive into this conversation with me. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: BOOK A 1-MONTH PRIVATE INTENSIVE: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Cultivating Stillness in the Midst of Chaos
04/24/2025
Cultivating Stillness in the Midst of Chaos
In a world that glorifies the hustle, the most powerful thing a woman can do is hold stillness. Not check out. Not shut down. But root deeper into herself. Because when you learn to become the governing energy of your life— rather than reacting to everyone else’s—you become magnetic. Grounded. Unshakeable. That’s exactly what I’m diving into on this week’s podcast episode. We’ll explore: Why most women unknowingly abandon their power (and how to stop) The real reason your energy feels scattered—and how to reclaim it What it actually means to lead yourself How to cultivate unwavering clarity—even in the midst of chaos Why stillness isn’t something you “fit in,” it’s something you lead from Where to Connect: WEBSITE: BOOK A 1-MONTH PRIVATE INTENSIVE: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Why Your Confidence Wavers
03/27/2025
Why Your Confidence Wavers
What if you could move through life knowing, without a doubt, that you are capable of creating exactly what you desire? So many high-impact women look confident on the outside—but behind the scenes, they’re battling self-doubt, seeking validation, and second-guessing their every move. That’s because most of us were taught ego-based confidence—confidence that is fleeting, dependent on external validation, and easily shaken by stress. But true, embodied confidence—the kind that is magnetic, unwavering, and self-sourced—is something entirely different. And inside this week’s podcast episode, I’m breaking down exactly what it takes to shift from confidence that crumbles under pressure to confidence that holds steady—no matter what. We’ll cover: How societal conditioning keeps you trapped in external validation. The biggest reason is that your confidence still wavers (even if you’ve “done the work”). How to shift into a deep, embodied confidence that stays with you in every decision, relationship, and opportunity. And if you’re ready to truly integrate this level of confidence into every area of your life—your relationships, your career, your energy—this is exactly what we do inside The Creatrix Method mentorship. This is your space to step into full self-leadership, self-trust, and the highest version of yourself—so you can create exactly what you want with certainty. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: APPLY TO JOIN THE CREATRIX METHOD: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Mastering Your Internal World: Exploring Emotional, Relationship and Energetic Intelligence
03/13/2025
Mastering Your Internal World: Exploring Emotional, Relationship and Energetic Intelligence
Have you ever felt like no matter how much effort you put in, something still feels off? Like you're so close to the life you want, but something invisible is keeping you stuck in cycles of doubt, overworking, or second-guessing yourself? Here’s the truth: The ability to create exactly what you want has nothing to do with effort and everything to do with alignment. And when you understand this—when you truly master your internal world—everything changes. In this week’s episode of the podcast, I’m diving deep into: The power of certainty: Why the most successful women know they can create anything they desire—and how you can cultivate that same unshakable trust in yourself. The missing piece in manifestation: Why you’re stuck in cycles of hoping and waiting instead of actually seeing results. The 3 pillars of mastery: How mastering your emotions, relationships, and energetics is the only way to create lasting transformation. Releasing outdated paradigms: The real reason you're feeling misaligned—and how to break free from external expectations for good. If you’re tired of trying all the things—therapy, courses, strategies—only to feel like you're still not quite where you want to be… this episode is for you. It’s time to stop second-guessing and start creating with absolute certainty. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: APPLY TO JOIN THE CREATRIX METHOD: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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3 Habits of Self Actualized People
03/06/2025
3 Habits of Self Actualized People
What if you could move through life with unshakable confidence, fully aligned with your highest self—without needing validation, without attachment to the outcome, and without fear of what others think? Self-actualized women live differently. They don’t wait for permission. They don’t force outcomes. They don’t shape their lives around expectations that aren’t their own. Instead, they trust themselves fully, take bold action, and surrender to the unfolding of their highest potential. In this week’s podcast episode, I’m breaking down 3 key habits of self-actualized women—and how you can start embodying them now: ✨ They are free from the opinions of others. True alignment means making decisions that serve you, not seeking outside approval. When you stop needing others to understand your choices, you reclaim your power. ✨ They are detached from the outcome. They take inspired action, but they don’t obsess over how things will unfold. Instead, they trust in divine timing and stay open to possibilities beyond what they can see. ✨ They trust their own path—even when others don’t get it. Following your highest path doesn’t always make sense to the people around you. But it doesn’t have to. Your alignment is yours alone. If you’ve ever felt stuck in self-doubt, worried about what others think, or frustrated by the need to control outcomes—this episode is for you. Are you ready? Let’s dive in. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: APPLY TO JOIN THE CREATRIX METHOD: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Re-Programing The Subconscious Mind
02/27/2025
Re-Programing The Subconscious Mind
Your subconscious mind is the powerhouse driving 95% of your reality—but most of us are still operating from outdated thought patterns. So, what if you could reprogram that powerhouse to match the empowered, confident life you really want to live? In this week’s episode of the podcast, I break down why reprogramming your subconscious mind is the key to creating the life you’ve always dreamed of—and how to start doing it today. Here’s a glimpse of what we cover: Why your subconscious mind can’t think critically—but is magical at manifesting whatever you feed it. How your subconscious, which doesn’t analyze but simply responds, is responsible for everything you experience. Why consistency is absolutely non-negotiable when it comes to rewiring your internal landscape. Practical steps to commit to daily mindset work so you can shift from old patterns to a reality that mirrors the empowered, confident woman you’re meant to be. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of limiting beliefs or noticed that your dreams aren’t manifesting the way you want, this episode is for you. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: THE CREATRIX METHOD WAITLIST: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Why you need Self Trust in order to Manifest more Powerfully
02/13/2025
Why you need Self Trust in order to Manifest more Powerfully
Trusting yourself isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you build. And just like in any relationship, self-trust is created through consistent follow-through. In this week’s podcast episode, I’m diving into three powerful ways to strengthen self-trust, sharpen your intuition, and step into deeper alignment so you can make confident, soul-aligned decisions. Here’s a glimpse of what we cover: The small daily habit that rewires your brain for deeper self-trust (most people overlook this!) Why your intuition feels so hard to hear sometimes—and the key to distinguishing it from mind chatter A simple practice to instantly ground yourself and quiet the overthinking spiral How to test your intuitive nudges in real-time so you can start making aligned decisions with confidence If you’ve ever felt stuck in self-doubt, second-guessed your gut feelings, or struggled to follow through on what you know is best for you… this episode is for you. You ready? Let’s dive in. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: THE CREATRIX METHOD WAITLIST: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Releasing old Paradigms + Patterns
02/06/2025
Releasing old Paradigms + Patterns
Let’s be real—change isn’t easy. But do you know what’s even harder? Staying stuck. There comes a moment where you realize that the pain of staying the same is far greater than the discomfort of growth. That’s when real transformation happens. But if you’ve ever tried to change—only to find yourself slipping back into old patterns—you’re not alone. There’s a reason this happens, and in this week’s podcast episode, I’m breaking it all down for you. Here’s what we dive into: Why change feels impossible sometimes (and how to shift that for good) The role of energetic embodiment in rewiring your patterns effortlessly How to recognize and break free from outdated beliefs that are keeping you stuck The exact first step to take if you’re ready to create a new reality that actually serves you For decades, you’ve been operating from a certain set of beliefs. You’ve looked at yourself, your relationships, and the world through a specific lens. But what if that lens isn’t the full truth? What if you could shatter it and rebuild a reality that aligns with all the things you TRULY desire for yourself? This is the work of true transformation. It’s not about surface-level changes—it’s about rewiring the way you lead your life. I promise you, when you commit to this work, you don’t just hope things will change. You become the woman who creates the life she desires—without hesitation. If you’re serious about stepping into your power and making these shifts permanent, this episode is a must-listen. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: THE CREATRIX METHOD WAITLIST: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Why Blaming Others is Keeping YOU Stuck
01/30/2025
Why Blaming Others is Keeping YOU Stuck
let me ask you this: Where in your life are you blaming others for what’s not going well? We all do it—whether it’s blaming society, our partner, or even our mom (because let’s be real, who hasn’t?). But here’s the truth: as long as we point fingers outside ourselves, we remain stuck. Healing, growth, and the life you dream of creating all begin when you turn inward and take ownership. And there’s magic waiting for you on the other side of that shift. In this week’s episode of the podcast, I’m unpacking: Why the blame game is so common (hint: it’s modeled for us from an early age). How to release shame and stop the pattern of blaming others. The role emotional regulation plays in reclaiming your personal power. Why clarity only comes when you’re grounded and connected to yourself. If you’ve ever wondered why you feel stuck or struggle to make decisions that truly align with your highest good, this episode will give you the tools to shift your energy and regain your footing. It’s time to reclaim your personal power and consciously create the life you deserve. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: THE CREATRIX METHOD WAITLIST: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Your 2025 Blueprint for Your Highest Timeline, Part 3, Harness Energetic Intelligence
01/23/2025
Your 2025 Blueprint for Your Highest Timeline, Part 3, Harness Energetic Intelligence
Manifesting the life of your WILDEST DREAMS isn’t just a vision to chase—I believe it’s our responsibility as women to create it. By wildest dreams, I mean all of it - the relationships, connection, fulfillment, income, impact and anything else you want to add to that list. If it’s for your highest good, it can be yours. As women, we are deeply connected to Source energy, and it’s through this divine connection that we have the power to consciously create the life we desire. The Divine Feminine essence within us is inherently spiritual, and it's this very spirituality that empowers us to manifest with precision and power. I firmly believe that not only can we manifest powerfully, but it’s our responsibility to call forward the life we want to live. This is a practice I do every single day—and it's something I teach high-impact women just like you. In this final part of my 3-part podcast series, we dive into the 3rd pillar of The Creatrix Method - energetic intelligence. Here’s what we dive into: The concept of energetic intelligence and how it impacts every area of your life. Manifestation vs. conscious creation—and why I prefer the latter. How to amplify your presence and create a magnetic energetic signature. The role of boundaries and standards in protecting and elevating your energy. The Divine Feminine connection to Source energy and its power in manifestation. Practical steps to consciously create the life you desire. Why mastering your energy is key to stepping into your highest potential. How your energetic mastery influences your relationships, career, and overall success. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: THE CREATRIX METHOD WAITLIST: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Your 2025 Blueprint for Your Highest Timeline, Part 2, Embrace Erotic Intelligence
01/16/2025
Your 2025 Blueprint for Your Highest Timeline, Part 2, Embrace Erotic Intelligence
Have you ever wondered what it takes to truly thrive in your long-term partnership while maintaining your individuality and personal power? In this week’s podcast episode—Part 2 of my 3-part series on the Creatrix Method—we’re diving into the second pillar: Embracing Erotic Intelligence. The most fulfilling, long-term partnerships aren’t about fusing into one identity—they’re about finding the balance between togetherness and separateness. It’s about showing up with your own essence, thought leadership, and clarity, so that when you connect with your partner, you’re bringing your full self to the table. Here’s what I cover in this episode: 💫 How to cultivate and sustain desire in long-term relationships. 💫 Why polarity is essential to intimacy and connection. 💫 The importance of embracing your sensuality and tapping into your feminine essence. If you missed Part 1, we explored the first pillar of the Creatrix Method: Emotional Intelligence—unlocking emotional regulation, assertive communication, and inner healing to position yourself for success in every area of life. ✨ Next week, I’ll be releasing the final part of this series, where we’ll explore the third and final pillar of the Creatrix Method. And here’s some exciting news: The waitlist for the Creatrix Method is officially open! If you’re ready to dive even deeper into this work and transform your life, this is your chance. Happy listening and reach out if something within this episode resonates with you, I would LOVE to hear about it! Where to Connect: WEBSITE: THE CREATRIX METHOD WAITLIST: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Your 2025 Blueprint for Your Highest Timeline, Part 1, Unlock Emotional Intelligence
01/09/2025
Your 2025 Blueprint for Your Highest Timeline, Part 1, Unlock Emotional Intelligence
Are you ready to unlock your fullest potential and step into your highest timeline? Over the next three podcast episodes, I’m sharing a powerful blueprint I’ve developed through two decades of clinical practice and mentoring purpose-driven women. In this series, I’ll walk you through the three key areas that have been absolutely foundational in helping women step into their highest potential, unlock their personal power, and create the life they are destined for. Today, in Part 1, we dive into the first pillar: Emotional Intelligence. You see, emotional intelligence isn’t just a “nice-to-have” skill; it’s essential for creating a life that you love. It’s about learning how to navigate your inner world with clarity and personal power, and without these two things, we can quickly start creating chaos instead of alignment. Over the years, I’ve seen time and time again that without emotional intelligence, no amount of manifestation tools or practices will give you the results you desire. But when you unlock your emotional intelligence and embody it deeply, you’ll see how everything in your life can shift. I’ll be sharing practical insights and actionable steps that you can immediately apply to your life—so that you can embody emotional intelligence in every situation and create outcomes that truly serve you. The Creatrix Method is all about mastering intelligence on three levels, and emotional intelligence is the first step to mastering your inner world. So, are you ready to step into your full power and create the life you’ve always wanted? Where to Connect: WEBSITE: THE CREATRIX METHOD WAITLIST: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Maintaining Individuality In Your Relationships
11/28/2024
Maintaining Individuality In Your Relationships
The secret to keeping desire alive? It's in the space between. Picture this: watching your partner completely in their element, doing their own thing, being utterly themselves. That moment of pure admiration, that flutter of 'wow'... THAT's where desire lives. Here's what most get wrong: we think closeness means completely merging into one person. But desire needs room to breathe. It thrives in the dance between togetherness and individuality. Truth bomb: The most passionate long-term relationships aren't about fusion - they're about two whole people choosing to dance together while honoring their separate rhythms. This week on the podcast I’ll be deep diving into the psychology of desire, how to maintain your individuality within a long-term committed relationship, plus and how to keep that spark alive year after year. Truth is, your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other connection in your life. When you're grounded in your body, trusting your intuition, and completely at home in your energy... that's when the magic happens. Here's what I've learned: You can only connect as deeply with others as you're willing to connect with yourself. The beautiful part? As we learn to understand our triggers, honour our fears, and voice our desires... everything shifts. This journey of coming home to ourselves? It's the most magnetic force there is. The transformation you're seeking in your relationships begins the moment you decide to connect more deeply with yourself first. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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How to Identify a Low Quality Relationship
11/21/2024
How to Identify a Low Quality Relationship
Do you want to improve the depth, connection and communication in your relationship? Your communication style and your attachment style make all the difference. It's not just about what you say, but the energy behind your words. The Low-Down On Communication Styles While there are 4 communication styles (passive, aggressive, passive-aggressive, and assertive), here's the truth: true intimacy only flourishes with assertive communication. The Coles Notes On Attachment Styles Whether you're anxious, avoidant, disorganized, or secure - your attachment pattern shapes everything from emotional regulation to communication. 💫Here's the truth: Operating from any style except secure attachment will lead to lower quality relationships. No exceptions. The good news? We can all move toward creating a secure attachment style and assertive communication when we take radical responsibility for our actions, thoughts, emotions and of course, our energy. If having a deeply fulfilling connection and improving the communication inside your relationships is important to you, you definitely want to carve out 20 minutes to listen to this week's episode of my podcast! Where to Connect: WEBSITE: FREE PRECISION-MANIFESTATION SERIES:
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Standards are Communicated Energetically, Not Verbally
11/14/2024
Standards are Communicated Energetically, Not Verbally
Standards are non-negotiable when it comes to creating really deep and fulfilling relationships. Standards and boundaries are NOT the same thing. They are both foundational but they are different. Boundaries must be communicated verbally. Your standards are expressed energetically. They are also a reflection of the level of emotional intelligence you hold. The standards that you hold are truly a reflection of what you believe: ✨About yourself ✨About your self-worth ✨About what you deserve in life They will always reflect that. The hard truth: the lower your self worth, the lower your standards will be. As you do the work to heal core wounding and really to shift the way that you see yourself, you will learn how to hold the frequency of: “I am worthy, I deserve X, Y and Z in my life” It’s not enough to simply say those words. You must truly hold this energetic belief in yourself. This is the type of work I do with my clients - I can help you unwind old paradigms and rewrite new beliefs that will allow you to unlock your dream life. This is actually my super power 😉 Want more of this conversation? Tune into today’s episode of the podcast to explore why Standards are Communicated Energetically, Not Verbally and how this impacts your ability to manifest your dream life. I share about the differences between boundaries vs. standards and the questions to ask yourself so you can check-in with your current standards. Get cozy with me or take this on a walk and let’s explore this conversation together… Where to Connect: WEBSITE: FREE MASTERCLASS: DUALITY -
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Why Spirituality is Central to the Divine Feminine Essence
11/07/2024
Why Spirituality is Central to the Divine Feminine Essence
✨The Universe ✨Source ✨Mother Nature ✨Gaia ✨God A connection to a higher power - whatever that power means to you - is the gateway to unlocking your divine feminine essence. This profound connection creates a bridge to an energy greater than ourselves, one that helps manifest your dream life in a way that feels safe, protected, and divinely guided. Today on the podcast, we’re exploring Why Spirituality is Central to the Divine Feminine Essence as well as the 4 connections that are integral to your ability to access the level of power and certainty that lies within your divine feminine. When a woman is tapped into this power, she is deeply connected to herself as well as a higher power. 🤎She does not lose herself in her relationships. 🤎She's able to love openly and unconditionally. 🤎She's able to love in a way that is not selfish. 🤎She's able to love in a way that also doesn't invite her to be a doormat. 🤎 She's able to share and express what I believe is the purest frequency of love in her relationships. Imagine this level of self-love and what doors it could open up for you? Get cozy with me or take this on a walk and let’s explore this conversation together… Where to Connect: WEBSITE: FREE MASTERCLASS: DUALITY -
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Why I Stopped Chasing Success + Started Seeking Fulfilment
10/24/2024
Why I Stopped Chasing Success + Started Seeking Fulfilment
Success and Fulfillment are NOT the same thing. Success is based on external circumstances. When we place emphasis on creating success vs. feeling fulfilled, we are giving our power away to the external. Leading your life from a place of deep fulfillment is what opens the door to endless possibilities. It becomes a driving and magnetic force that will call forward the life of your dreams…if you know how to connect with and hold onto it. When you lead your life and make your choices from a place of deep fulfillment…your potential becomes limitless. But in order to step into that energy and hold onto it no matter what the circumstance may be, we must first learn to connect to our soul. We must let go of what others expect us to be and step into who we truly are on a soul level. When you learn to lead from this place, you become an unstoppable force. Tune into today’s episode of the podcast to explore this conversation of Success vs. Fulfillment and how understanding the distinction can impact your ability to manifest with precision Where to Connect: WEBSITE: FREE MASTERCLASS: DUALITY -
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The Cyclical Nature Of Healing + How It Affects Manifestation
10/03/2024
The Cyclical Nature Of Healing + How It Affects Manifestation
Inevitably, we all experience some form of wounding as children. 🤎 It's a part of our process. 🤎 It's a part of our journey in this lifetime. 🤎 It's a part of being human. Ignoring your triggers and pretending that you aren’t feeling something in your body is doing a massive disservice to you, your soul and ultimately, to your ability to manifest with precision. You cannot high-vibe your way out of feeling and working through your core wounds. When something dark, uncomfortable or triggering comes up for you, don’t ignore it. It will bubble up again, and again, and again over your lifetime. The further you push it away, the more it will come back. And it will contribute to you calling forward the things that you DON’T want. It's important to be able to identify clearly what your core wounds are so that when these wounds come back up for you at different intervals throughout your life, you can recognize them. When I talk about the cyclical nature of healing, it is not a linear process. It is not a one and done. It very much is a process of healing at deeper and deeper levels so that we can expand and step into greater levels of our personal power + our sovereign power as co-creators with the universe. Tune into today’s episode of the podcast to learn about The Cyclical Nature of Healing + How it Affects Manifestation - it’s powerful work and it’s so important! Where to Connect: WEBSITE: FREE MASTERCLASS: DUALITY -
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A New Paradigm for Manifestation Series, Part 3- Creating with Sovereignty + Power
09/19/2024
A New Paradigm for Manifestation Series, Part 3- Creating with Sovereignty + Power
The energy of sovereign creation is incredibly grounded. It feels so aligned. It feels so certain. This level of certainty only comes WHEN… We are tapped into our personal power We are in tune with what we truly want for ourselves We are tapped into the energy of being a Sovereign Creator A Sovereign Creator is limitless. She is certain. She is powerful. And she is fully aligned. If you’re ready to know more about how to unlock this level of power and certainty, tune into today’s episode of the podcast to learn about the third and final process you must integrate in order to manifest with limitless power and precision. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: https://shyamalakiru.com FREE MASTERCLASS: DUALITY - https://drshyam.myflodesk.com/duality
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A New Paradigm for Manifestation Series, Part 2- Aligning With The Soul
09/12/2024
A New Paradigm for Manifestation Series, Part 2- Aligning With The Soul
So listen, here's the truth. If you are not creating the life that you want… With a level of consistency. With precision. With complete accuracy. If that is not happening, you are holding resistance. Period. Resistance is fear. Resistance is insecurities. Resistance is vigilance. And it’s not that you won’t have these feelings in your life, but when you are not processing them or actively working through them… you are holding onto resistance. When you operate from a NEED to control every aspect and every outcome… you are holding onto resistance. What the human (we can also refer to it as your ego) actually needs in order to release this resistance, is to be led by the soul. And learning to align to the desires of your soul is hands down the most powerful pathway to creating the life that you want. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: FREE MASTERCLASS: DUALITY -
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A New Paradigm for Manifestation Series | Part 1 - Healing the Human
09/05/2024
A New Paradigm for Manifestation Series | Part 1 - Healing the Human
When we don’t heal our core wounds, we diminish our energetic potency and our capacity to manifest exactly what we want. Why? One of the reasons is that as human beings, we tend to refuse to take the time to heal. We don't like to do healing work. We don't like to look at the really hard or icky aspects of our life. We don't like to really look deeply and process those things that do not feel good, especially in today's culture of instant gratification + “high vibes only”. We don't want to stay in a low vibrational state. We have been taught to be afraid of looking at the things that will actually result in the greatest expansion, which is doing our healing work. Today on the podcast, we are diving into Part 1 of 3…Healing The Human. Inside this 3-part series, we will explore the processes you must integrate in order to manifest with limitless power and precision. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: FREE MASTERCLASS: DUALITY -
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An Evolution In The Way We Manifest
08/29/2024
An Evolution In The Way We Manifest
I believe we are being called to level-up the way that we manifest And we're looking for an approach that moves beyond the behavioral and cognitive shifts like affirmations, visualization, mantras and high vibes… I think we’re asking for a way to co-create our dreams in a much more powerful and effortless way. One that allows us to create more consistently. It's actually our frequency or the energies that we hold at all times that create our results and our reality. If we employ the classic approaches to manifestation, the reason we can become very frustrated with what we're calling into our life is because cognitive and behavioral changes are only temporary. Can we learn to change our mindset over the long term? Yes, we can. However, changing at the level of mindset alone does not create a change at the level of our energetics. When we change at the level of our energetics, this is what actually shifts our capacity to create and manifest our dreams powerfully, consistently and effortlessly. This is a massive topic that I will need several episodes to cover. So, I have decided that over the next few weeks, I'm going to release a 3-part series here on the podcast where I will be teaching you what it looks like to tap into an evolved and far more powerful way to manifest. There are three paradigms that we need to shift internally in order to do this. If you want to find out what those 3-paradigms are, tune into today’s episode of the podcast + learn more about the evolution of manifestation. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: FREE MASTERCLASS: DUALITY -
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Retiring My License & Redefining Success
08/22/2024
Retiring My License & Redefining Success
This week's podcast episode is an emotional one for me… I got emotional just writing the notes for it. I am officially retiring my license as a registered psychotherapist and a registered couple and family therapist. I am letting go of this final piece of my professional identity in order to step into something new. I want to share with you today the things that I needed to do in order to make these internal shifts. The first thing I needed to do was redefine success for myself. At the deepest level of my soul, what I have come to realize is that my definition of success actually has nothing to do with external factors. It was a difficult realization for me to make + it was also very freeing…my entire life, I had adopted a definition of success that was completely tied to external factors. Things like how much money I made, my achievements, the credentials that stood behind my name and in front of my name. So, my definition of success, as I began to really look at this, is actually intrinsically tied to internal factors, and it always has been. I've always known this at a very core level. But I have been so conditioned by my family of origin, my upbringing, and the cultural and social paradigms that I grew up in that I moved further and further and further away from my soul's truth. My new definition of success… I want to live a life where I have the most incredible connected, intimate, fulfilling, satisfying relationships. And I want to have an incredible depth of impact on the people that I serve along the way. That’s it! Outside of those internal factors, there's very little meaning, satisfaction or fulfillment within the external achievements that used to mean everything to me. So, success for me has been completely redefined. If you know you desire something different for yourself, even if it’s a whisper…tune into the episode to open up this conversation with yourself. Where to Connect: WEBSITE: FREE MASTERCLASS: DUALITY -
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