Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

Unfiltered but Not Unkind: Hard Truths About Swinger Etiquette & Communication 02/01/2026

Unfiltered but Not Unkind: Hard Truths About Swinger Etiquette & Communication Unfiltered but Not Unkind is one of those episodes that needed to happen. In this raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation, Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on the lifestyle behaviors we all quietly side-eye… but rarely say out loud. This isn’t a call-out episode. There’s no rage, no dunking, and definitely no drama farming. Instead, it’s thoughtful honesty, humor, and real talk about swinger etiquette, communication breakdowns, confidence versus self-awareness, and why “just communicate more” is terrible advice when no one explains how. We talk openly about: The difference between confidence and lack of self-awareness (and why overconfidence kills attraction) Why hypersexual behavior shuts doors faster than it opens Oversharing explicit content in spaces that didn’t consent to that energy Treating every interaction like a sexual audition (and why that’s a turnoff) The harm caused by “Google it” culture instead of real guidance Jealousy as a signal, not a personal failure Inclusive language without inclusive behavior Why your relationship should always come before the lifestyle We also get deeply personal—sharing moments from our own relationship where communication failed, jealousy showed up, and growth was uncomfortable but necessary. From stopping polyamory to rebuilding emotional security, this episode is a reminder that honesty and kindness can coexist—and that loving the lifestyle doesn’t mean pretending it’s perfect. If you’ve ever left a party thinking, “I don’t want to sound judgy, but…” — this episode is for you. Resources & Links: Website, episodes, blogs, merch & events: Beyond Monogamy Confessional (100% anonymous) Streaming on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central Pris’s Birthday Party — March 14th at 9 PM at Club Eden San Antonio Grab your headphones, pour a drink, and get comfy—this one hits different. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39937400

One-Sided Rules in the Swinger Lifestyle: Insecurity, Control & Communication 01/28/2026

One-Sided Rules in the Swinger Lifestyle: Insecurity, Control & Communication What happens when the swinger lifestyle starts to feel less like freedom and more like permission? In this raw and honest Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam and Pris unpack a listener confession that hits closer to home than most people want to admit: one-sided rules in the lifestyle. The listener describes a dynamic where her husband controls who she can play with, forbids single men, and ultimately restricts her from being with men at all—while she places no rules on him and genuinely wants him to have the best experiences possible. She agrees to the restrictions not because they align with her desires, but because she’s afraid of losing the lifestyle—and possibly her marriage. Adam and Pris break down where these rules often come from, how insecurity shows up early in the lifestyle, and why control is frequently mistaken for safety. They share deeply personal stories from their own journey, including early jealousy, discomfort with watching, and how reassurance, over-communication, and patience helped them evolve instead of implode. This episode isn’t about villainizing anyone. It’s about understanding that feelings are valid on both sides—and that sustainable non-monogamy requires collaboration, not permission slips. In this episode, we talk about: Why one-sided rules are so common in new swinger dynamics The difference between reassurance and restriction Why watching can be harder than participating How insecurity shows up differently for men and women The emotional cost of agreeing to rules you don’t actually want Why slowing down can save your relationship How to schedule “the uncomfortable conversation” without blowing things up If you’ve ever felt like you were compromising too much just to keep the lifestyle alive—or if you’re the partner struggling with jealousy and fear—this conversation is for you. Upcoming Events & Where to Find Us: Live SDC Webinar: February 22nd at 4:00 PM Central – Finding & Vetting Couples: From Profiles to First Meet (Without the Cringe) In Person: Club Eden DFW – Saturday, January 31st Full Swap Radio: Streaming every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central Have a confession, question, or story of your own? Visit www.beyond-monogamy.com and submit it through the Beyond Monogamy Confessional—100% anonymous. Whether you’re swinging, poly, monogamous, curious, or just trying to understand your relationship better—we’re really glad you’re here. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39899045

Non-Monogamy, Attachment & Communication — ft. Sex Therapist Martha Kauppi 01/25/2026

Non-Monogamy, Attachment & Communication — ft. Sex Therapist Martha Kauppi This episode is a deep, grounded, and powerful conversation. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with relationship and sexuality professional Martha Kauppi, an AASECT-certified sex therapist, author, educator, and founder of the Institute for Relational Intimacy. Martha works at the intersection of intimacy, attachment, nervous system regulation, and relationship patterns — helping people understand not just what’s happening in their relationships, but why it’s happening in their bodies, emotions, and connection styles. Together, we unpack some of the most important (and misunderstood) parts of ethical non-monogamy and long-term relationships: communication, differentiation, emotional regulation, compersion, desire, and the real work that starts after the fun part. Martha shares how her personal life and family history led her into this field, why open relationships have been unfairly pathologized in therapy spaces, and what decades-long non-monogamous relationships actually look like when they are built with intention. This conversation goes far beyond labels. We talk about what happens when couples move from swinging into emotional connections, how to navigate mismatched needs, how to express hard truths without destroying trust, and how to stay connected when discomfort shows up. You’ll hear powerful insight on: Why communication is a skill set, not a personality trait The difference between rules, regulation, and relational safety Why many therapists misunderstand non-monogamy How to explore ethically without overwhelming your relationship Compersion, jealousy, and emotional self-awareness How long-term non-monogamous relationships actually sustain intimacy Adam and Pris also get personal — opening up about their own journey from swinging into polyamory and back out again, what they learned about themselves, and how those experiences reshaped their communication, trust, and emotional depth. This episode is honest, validating, and packed with insight whether you’re monogamous, exploring, actively non-monogamous, or simply trying to build better relationships. About our guest: Martha Kauppi is a certified sex therapist, clinical trainer, and author of Polyamory: A Clinical Toolkit for Therapists (and Their Clients). She trains therapists internationally and hosts the podcast Untangling Intimacy. Learn more at: Institute for Relational Intimacy Listener discretion advised. This show contains adult themes and real relationship discussions. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39801560

How to Set Up a Gang Bang (Planning, Consent & Fantasy Reality) 01/21/2026

How to Set Up a Gang Bang (Planning, Consent & Fantasy Reality) This Wednesday Quickie goes places. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive headfirst into a real, unfiltered conversation about how to set up a gang bang — not the porn version, but the actual real-life logistics, planning, communication, and consent that go into making a fantasy like this happen. Pris opens up about a long-standing bucket-list fantasy and makes one thing crystal clear: this experience is about her pleasure, her comfort, and her rules. From hand-selecting participants to making sure everyone understands expectations, boundaries, and consent, this episode breaks down why fantasies take way more work than people realize. Adam plays the role of curious fly-on-the-wall, asking the real questions most people are thinking but never say out loud — flakiness, performance anxiety, group dynamics, recording consent, and whether everyone involved can actually handle the environment. And just when you think the episode couldn’t get more interesting, the conversation takes a turn into lifestyle storytime as Adam and Pris recount a recent swinger party where they discovered something entirely new: ball stretching weights. What started as parallel play turned into a candid (and hilarious) breakdown of how these accessories work, why some couples love them, and how curiosity fuels ongoing exploration in the lifestyle. This episode is equal parts sexy, funny, educational, and brutally honest — covering: Why real-life fantasies require planning, vetting, and communication The difference between porn expectations and lived experiences Consent, comfort, and setting clear intentions Exhibitionism, performance pressure, and group dynamics How curiosity keeps long-term non-monogamous relationships exciting If you’ve ever wondered how fantasies actually come together — or why most of them never do — this episode pulls back the curtain. Listener discretion advised. This show is raw, real, and absolutely not PG. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39799785

Luxury Lifestyle Cruises Explained: Inside LLV Club’s Adults-Only Travel Experiences 01/18/2026

Swinger 101: Rules, Boundaries, Jealousy & How to Start Safely 01/14/2026

Swinger 101: Rules, Boundaries, Jealousy & How to Start Safely Welcome to Swinger 101 — the episode we wish every curious couple listened to before jumping into the lifestyle. In this Wednesday Quickie, Adam & Pris break down the real basics of swinging in a way only Beyond Monogamy can: honest, funny, raw, and actually helpful. If you’re brand new, lifestyle-curious, or still Googling questions at 2am, this episode is for you. We cover what swinging really is (and what it absolutely is not), how it differs from open relationships and polyamory, and why swinging is primarily a sexually-focused branch of ethical non-monogamy. From there, we get into the stuff newbies are usually too scared to ask out loud: Do you have to be married to swing? Do swingers date or is it more casual? How do you even bring this up to your partner? What if one person wants it more than the other? What boundaries should you talk about first? Rules vs boundaries — what’s the difference? How do you deal with jealousy when it shows up? Can you say no… even mid-experience? We also walk through what actually happens at swinger clubs (spoiler: it’s not an Eyes Wide Shut orgy), how privacy is protected, what first nights usually look like, and why watching is always okay. Adam opens up about anxiety, nerves, and learning how to finally find his “no,” while Pris talks honestly about jealousy, communication, and why being upfront saves everyone time and emotional energy. We also cover: Soft swap vs full swap Approaching other couples without being awkward Apps, websites, and finding community safely Verification, fake profiles, and red flags STI conversations, testing, and condom expectations Discretion, careers, family, and real-world consequences This episode is about doing the lifestyle intentionally, ethically, and without wrecking your relationship. If you’re new — welcome. If you’re seasoned — you might still learn something. And if you’ve been thinking about swinging but don’t know where to start… this is it. Got questions? Leave them anonymously in the Beyond Monogamy Confessional at . Love the show? Please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you listen. Reviews help us grow this community more than you know. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39718705

Non-Monogamy on Your Own Terms: Growth, Jealousy & Freedom with Evita "Lavitaloca" Sawyers 01/11/2026

Non-Monogamy on Your Own Terms: Growth, Jealousy & Freedom with Evita "Lavitaloca" Sawyers What happens when non-monogamy stops being about labels and starts being about lived experience? In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we’re joined by speaker, author, and relationship coach Evita “Lavitaloca” Sawyers for a conversation that goes far beyond surface-level polyamory talk. This episode is all about learning how to live non-monogamy on your own terms — not the internet’s, not your partner’s, and definitely not some outdated rulebook you never agreed to in the first place. Evita shares her personal journey from swinging to polyamory, the emotional chaos that came with it, and how jealousy became one of her greatest teachers instead of a relationship-ending villain. We talk about why jealousy isn’t a failure, why compersion isn’t mandatory, and why “doing it right” looks different for everyone. If you’ve ever felt like you were bad at non-monogamy, overwhelmed by emotional reactions, or confused by labels that don’t quite fit — this episode will feel like a deep exhale. In this episode, we cover: Why non-monogamy doesn’t need a label to be valid The emotional shift from swinging to polyamory Why jealousy isn’t the enemy — and how to work with it The myth that compersion is required to be “good” at polyamory How freedom, curiosity, and gratitude change relationship dynamics Letting go of entitlement in relationships Why growth in non-monogamy is messy, nonlinear, and completely normal Evita also breaks down her now-famous analogy of switching relationship operating systems — and why moving from monogamy to non-monogamy isn’t a flip of a switch, but a full system reboot. If you’re new to ethical non-monogamy, questioning polyamory, or redefining what open relationships mean to you, this episode will meet you exactly where you are. Follow & Learn More About Our Guest: Evita “Lavitaloca” Sawyers is the author of A Polyamory Devotional and the voice behind the popular “Daily Polyamory Reminders.” Her work centers emotional literacy, communication, and radical honesty in modern relationships. Connect with us: Visit for episode blogs, guest bios, events, merch, and our anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional. Catch us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, rate, review, and share the show — it helps more curious couples find conversations like this one. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39580325

Instant Gratification in Sex: Why Finishing Fast Isn’t a Failure 01/07/2026

Polyamory, Jealousy, and Boundaries: Making Non-Monogamy Make Sense with Polyphilia 01/04/2026

Compersion Isn’t Automatic: Jealousy, Growth & Real Non-Monogamy 12/31/2025

Compersion Isn’t Automatic: Jealousy, Growth & Real Non-Monogamy Compersion Isn’t Automatic — And That’s Completely Normal Compersion gets talked about a lot in ethical non-monogamy — sometimes like it’s a requirement, sometimes like it’s a badge of honor. But what happens when it just… doesn’t come naturally? In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we get real about jealousy, emotional processing, missed conversations, and the pressure people feel to “do non-monogamy right.” This is a raw, honest conversation pulled straight from real life — no scripts, no coaching language, and no pretending it’s always easy. Pris opens up about why compersion doesn’t come naturally to her, how cultural upbringing and jealousy wiring play a role, and why being okay is sometimes the best she can offer in the moment. Adam shares what it feels like to want to share excitement and connection with your partner — and what happens when that moment doesn’t land the way you expected. What We Talk About In This Episode What compersion actually means (and why it’s not the opposite of jealousy) Why compersion is not natural for everyone Jealousy, possessiveness, and territorial instincts in non-monogamy The pressure to perform happiness for your partner How ADHD, stress, and mental overload affect emotional presence Why not talking can be more damaging than feeling jealous Different processing styles between partners Learning to communicate without shutting down Why compromise matters more than emotional perfection Real-Life Moments, Not Theory This episode is sparked by a real play-date experience that went well — but didn’t get talked about right away. Adam and Pris unpack why timing, mental space, and communication matter just as much as intentions. If you’ve ever felt like you were failing at non-monogamy because jealousy showed up instead of compersion, this conversation will feel very familiar. The Takeaway You do not need to feel compersion to be successful in ethical non-monogamy. You do need honesty, self-awareness, communication, and respect for each other’s boundaries. This episode is a reminder that non-monogamy isn’t about checking emotional boxes — it’s about navigating real human feelings together. Connect With Beyond Monogamy Visit www.beyond-monogamy.com for: Upcoming events and meetups Beyond Monogamy merchandise The anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional Blog posts and episode breakdowns You can also hear us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. If this episode resonated, please subscribe, rate, review, and share the show — it helps us grow and keeps these conversations going. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39560210

Bi Men in Swinging: Breaking Stigma with United Bi Swinging (Ashley & Rob) 12/28/2025

Busy Isn’t Ghosting: Entitlement, Boundaries & Lifestyle Etiquette 12/24/2025

Sex Work, Swinging, & Gooning: Rae's Real Talk On The Lifestyle 12/21/2025

Sex Work, Swinging, & Gooning: Rae's Real Talk On The Lifestyle Episode Summary In this spicy, hilarious, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with lifestyle newcomer and content creator Rae Crush for a conversation that covers everything from cosplaying as anime cats to navigating entitlement, sex work stigma, hypersexuality, and what it’s really like being a single bisexual woman (aka a unicorn) in the lifestyle. Rae shares how she stumbled into the lifestyle, why she immediately felt at home, and how her journey as a content creator naturally overlaps with ethical non-monogamy. We dig into monetization in the lifestyle, why “free access” entitlement is a red flag, and how communication (especially for women) makes sex exponentially better. Recorded live at Club Eden San Antonio, this episode is funny, sexy, validating, and full of real talk you won’t hear anywhere else. Show Notes Meeting Rae and why she fit right in immediately Being new to the lifestyle as a single bi woman Cosplay, anime cats, and content creation beginnings OnlyFans, boundaries, and monetization in the lifestyle Entitlement culture and why it doesn’t belong here Hypersexuality, gooning, and finding your people Why communication makes sex better (especially for women) Feeling safe at lifestyle events and clubs Why content creators absolutely belong in non-monogamy Guest Info Rae Crush is a content creator, cosplayer, and lifestyle unicorn known for her playful anime-inspired looks, authenticity, and zero-BS honesty. Find Rae here: About Beyond Monogamy Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris explores real conversations around consensual non-monogamy, swinging, lifestyle dynamics, sex positivity, and connection — without the fluff or judgment. Website & extras: Hear us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave us a review on your favorite platform. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39412215

Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet: Club Eden, Content Creators & One Wild Night 12/17/2025

The Original Swingers: Sam L. Feldman on Hookups, Hiccups & Freedom 12/14/2025

The Original Swingers: Sam L. Feldman on Hookups, Hiccups & Freedom SUMMARY Ever wonder what the original sexual revolution really looked like? Before there were swinger apps, lifestyle websites, or even the term “ethical non-monogamy,” there were people just living it — raw, real, and unapologetic. In this week’s episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances — to talk about what life and love looked like in the 60s and 70s when freedom was brand new, communication was everything, and consent was just starting to evolve. From key clubs and the dawn of “no-fault” divorce to the lessons that still apply to modern swingers, Sam’s stories remind us how much the world has changed — and how much it really hasn’t. We talk about jealousy, connection, freedom, communication, and how couples can keep their spark alive even decades later. This one’s a fun, flirty, and eye-opening history lesson for anyone exploring non-monogamy today. Sam’s humor and honesty prove that freedom without communication is just chaos wearing a smile. SHOW NOTES Guest: — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances Topics covered: The sexual revolution and how “key clubs” started it all How couples handled jealousy and boundaries before “rules” existed What freedom meant for women in the 60s and 70s — and what’s at stake today Why communication and consent still make or break connection How to keep date nights, desire, and humor alive — even after 60+ years of marriage Favorite quote from Sam: “Freedom without communication is just chaos wearing a smile.” 🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts! And don’t forget to like, subscribe, share, and leave a review — it helps us grow and keep bringing real conversations like this your way. 📣 JOIN THE BEYOND MONOGAMY COMMUNITY 💻 Visit our website: 🎙️ Stream us on every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST 📬 Share your stories (anonymous or not) in the 🎟️ Check out our for live shows, meet-and-greets, and travel plans — 2026 dates are already stacking up! 📚 Grab Sam’s book: 👉 Help keep the conversations going — rate, review, and share the show with your lifestyle friends, club buddies, and open-minded circles. Every review helps more curious couples find us! Follow us on social media for all things Beyond Monogamy: Facebook: Instagram: TikTok: & X/Twitter: YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — Real talk, real couples, real connection. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39386380

QUICKIE Confessionals: Swinger Secrets, Rejections & Real Talk 12/10/2025

QUICKIE Confessionals: Swinger Secrets, Rejections & Real Talk This Week’s QUICKIE: Confessionals This week’s QUICKIE goes deep into the Beyond Monogamy Confessional — the anonymous submission box where listeners spill their wildest lifestyle stories. Adam & Pris read through real confessions about losing interest in the lifestyle, navigating rejection, and the never-ending battle with “horny brain.” From saying no gracefully to balancing trust in BDSM play, it’s equal parts sexy, funny, and real-life relatable. They also shout out The Happy Swinger for the handmade gifts (yes, including a penis whistle), talk about their live hotel-takeover show that almost survived the tech gods, and share why sometimes the best nights in the lifestyle are the ones spent doing absolutely nothing. 👉 Don’t forget: Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet — Saturday, Dec 13 @ 9 PM Central at Club Eden in San Antonio! Come hang out, meet the crew, and catch a live show taping before doors open. 🎧 Catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM CST on . 💋 Join our community for behind-the-scenes content, early drops, and exclusive extras at . 🌐 Find everything — blog, merch, confessionals, events, and more — at . 🗒️ Show Notes Episode: QUICKIE Confessionals Hosts: Adam & Pris Alvarez Highlights: Real listener confessions about navigating attraction, rejection, and self-doubt in the lifestyle The struggle of saying “no” gracefully — and why honesty is the sexiest thing you can bring to playtime “Horny brain” moments, hotel takeovers, and why it’s okay to skip the play and just rest The awkward art of separating vanilla life from lifestyle life BDSM trust, vulnerability, and what it means to feel truly safe with your partner A special shoutout to The Happy Swinger — custom lifestyle-themed gifts, including that unforgettable dick whistle 🎟️ Upcoming Event: Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet — Naughty & Nice Edition 📍 Club Eden San Antonio 📅 Saturday, Dec 13 • 9 PM CST Come meet Adam & Pris, join the party, and be part of the Beyond Monogamy energy live! 💬 Submit your own anonymous story via the Beyond Monogamy Confessional at . 🎧 Listen every Thursday on at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. 💋 Support the show and unlock Patreon-only extras at . 📱 Follow us everywhere: Facebook | Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u | TikTok @beyond.monogamy & @adamandbeyond | X (Twitter) @beyomono | YouTube @BeyondMonogamyWithAdamPris /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39351420

Ms. Nookie on Making Consent Sexy & Dating Without Losing Your Damn Mind 12/07/2025

Ms. Nookie on Making Consent Sexy & Dating Without Losing Your Damn Mind 🎧 This Week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris This week we sit down with the one and only Ms. Nookie — certified love coach, founder of The Love Mastery Institute, and creator of the oh-so-clever Nookie Notes. She’s teaching us how to date smarter, flirt with intention, and communicate like grown-ass adults — without killing the vibe. From turning consent into foreplay to surviving the modern dating apps (spoiler: it’s a shark tank out there), Ms. Nookie keeps it real, funny, and refreshingly human. Whether you’re a swinger, poly, ENM, or just relationship-curious, this episode is packed with truth bombs, belly laughs, and practical takeaways you can use tonight. 🔥 Key Topics How to make consent sound sexy, not clinical The two questions swingers fear most — and how to stop being awkward about them Why self-love is your sexiest asset Nookie’s guide to dating apps (and how to filter out the first layer of scum 😉) The art of slowing down and tapping into your feminine energy Confidence, communication, and why monogamy isn’t “natural” — it’s a choice 💬 Favorite Quotes “Big life changes come from small mindset changes.” – Ms. Nookie “If you don’t love yourself, why would I?” – Adam “Monogamy isn’t natural. Anything you have to work at isn’t.” – Ms. Nookie “You craft your relationship. It doesn’t have to fit society’s box.” – Ms. Nookie ✨ Connect with Ms. Nookie 🌐 Website: 📸 Instagram: 📘 Facebook: 🧵 Threads: 💼 LinkedIn: 🔥 Connect with Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris 🌐 Website: 💋 Listen on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST 🔥 Find us on SDC.com & 3Fun 🎙 Leave us a voicemail or confessional directly on our website ❤️ Like | Subscribe | Share | Review — it keeps the lifestyle love flowing! /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39279725

QUICKIE: Holiday Stress, Libido Slumps & Lifestyle Survival 12/03/2025

QUICKIE: Holiday Stress, Libido Slumps & Lifestyle Survival QUICKIE: Holiday Stress, Libido Slumps & Lifestyle Survival Hosts: Adam & Pris Series: Beyond Monogamy — Wednesday QUICKIE Episode Summary (SEO-Optimized) Holiday stress hits hard — and yes, it can put your libido on ice. In this candid QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get real (and hilarious) about December’s money crunch, mental overload, and what to do when “just not in the mood” becomes the default setting. They unpack how finances and old triggers collide with lifestyle plans, why connection matters more than performance, and how to reset as a couple when the season gets heavy. Expect straight talk, empathy, and laugh-out-loud moments you’ll relate to immediately — plus real tips on surviving the holidays without sacrificing your relationship health (or your sense of humor). Key Talking Points & Highlights Why December feels like the “broke season” for couples and how that impacts desire Stress vs. sex: the evolution from “f**k the stress away” to intentional reconnection Pris on shutting down when overwhelmed — and what helps pull her back in Adam’s raw story of surviving Christmas while homeless, and why the holidays can trigger old memories Practical compassion: how to prioritize your partner when they need comfort more than play Community matters: you are not alone in holiday blues or financial stress Favorite Quotes “We’re dropping money at Thanksgiving and we’re dropping money at Christmas… the weeks in between are literally broke weeks.” “Sometimes I just need a hug, not a hookup.” “You’re not the only ones who are stressed… when things are better, you bang it out.” Find Us, Join Us, Talk to Us Website: Anonymous Confessional & Voicemail: On our website — share a story, ask a question, or vent completely anonymously. Full Swap Radio: We stream every Thursday on at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. Tune in and show us love! Affiliates: SDC (find our link on our site/show notes), 3Fun, and more on our website Links page. Socials: Find all our platforms via the website header (Facebook, Instagram, X, TikTok, YouTube). Upcoming Events . Help Us Grow — It Truly Helps If you enjoyed this episode, please Like, Subscribe, Share, and leave a Review. Your support helps other open-minded couples discover the show and keeps our community growing. Drop a confession or voicemail on the site — we might feature it in a future episode! © Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39246990

From Temptation to Transformation: How Tropical Unicorn Travels Redefines Lifestyle Vacations 11/30/2025

From Temptation to Transformation: How Tropical Unicorn Travels Redefines Lifestyle Vacations Episode Summary Adam & Pris sit down with Jhannyphil Contreras of Tropical Unicorn Travels to unpack the real world of lifestyle-friendly travel—from Temptation Resort vibes to practical safety tips, payment-plan budgeting, and how to pick the right adults-only resort for your energy. We get candid about community, confidence, and body acceptance, and how a thoughtful, drama-free plan can turn any couples’ getaway into something unforgettable. If you’ve been curious about Temptation Cancun, Hedonism in Jamaica, group trips, or simply want a romantic, private escape that fits your budget and boundaries, this episode gives you a step-by-step feel for what to expect and how to book like a pro. Keywords: Temptation Resort, Temptation Cancun, Hedonism Jamaica, lifestyle travel, swinger travel, adults-only resorts, couples vacations, Caribbean travel tips, travel safety, payment plan vacations, Beyond Monogamy podcast, Tropical Unicorn Travels. Show Notes Guest: Tropical Unicorn Travels Name: Jhannyphil Contreras Website: Instagram: TikTok: What She Does: Helps couples plan lifestyle-friendly, adults-only trips (with privacy), matching resort vibe to comfort level—plus realistic budgeting, flexible deposits, and travel safety coaching. What We Cover How curiosity (not participation) brought Jhannyphil into lifestyle spaces and ultimately to Temptation Resort Body confidence & community: why lifestyle-friendly environments often feel more welcoming Resort vibes 101: choosing adults-only vs. party vs. chill—and when the Caribbean is actually at its best Planning smart: deposits, payment timelines, and why booking 3+ months out matters Safety basics: vetting plans, avoiding scams, and protecting your privacy when traveling Romance on a budget: small details (limo transfers, room setups, surprises) that land big Quick Tips & Insights Best Caribbean window: roughly November–April for prettier beaches & milder weather Budget sanity: flexible deposits & payment plans can make bigger trips realistic Excursions: book after you feel out your energy on arrival—don’t lock yourself into early mornings post-party Chapters Intro & guest story Finding lifestyle spaces & community energy Temptation Resort and resort-vibe matching Safety, privacy, and smart planning Budget, deposits, and when to book Romance tips & easy “wow” moments How to work with a travel pro Connect with Beyond Monogamy Website: Events: Patreon: Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 2 PM & 7 PM CST on Instagram: Facebook: YouTube: TikTok: (Pris) & Reddit: Call to Action Book a lifestyle-friendly trip with Tropical Unicorn Travels: Join our Patreon community for extras & behind-the-scenes: Share this episode with a travel-curious couple & leave a review on Apple or Spotify /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39102805

1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy 11/26/2025

1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy 🎙️ 1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy Summary & Show Notes: Adam & Pris celebrate a wild 365 days of Beyond Monogamy — from nervous first recordings to international guests and unfiltered confessions. In this honest, hilarious, and heartfelt anniversary episode, they reveal how the podcast changed their marriage, deepened their communication, and strengthened their connection inside and outside the lifestyle. They share favorite moments, biggest lessons, raw behind-the-scenes stories, and the truth about juggling love, libido, and life on air. Whether you’re a new listener or a long-time fan, this episode proves that honesty, humor, and real talk are the heart of non-monogamy done right. Hear how Beyond Monogamy grew from a small Thanksgiving idea into a global community — and why Adam & Pris are just getting started. 🎉 Beyond Monogamy Turns One! One year ago, Adam & Pris hit record without knowing what the hell they were doing—and somehow turned Beyond Monogamy into one of the most talked-about shows in ethical non-monogamy. This anniversary episode is part reflection, part roast, and 100% real. 🔥 What You’ll Hear: How the podcast changed their marriage (and communication) Funniest and most emotional behind-the-scenes moments What surprised them most about fame inside the lifestyle Lessons from swinging, polyamory, and finding confidence The listener messages that made them realize they’re helping people Why year two will be bigger, deeper, and wilder 💬 Adam & Pris Say: “We started this as a hobby—and now it’s a mission. If you’ve ever felt seen, challenged, or cracked up listening to us… thank you. You’re part of this crazy, beautiful ride.” ☕ Join the Conversation: Follow us on social: Facebook: Instagram: X (Twitter): TikTok: & Reddit: YouTube: 📻 Hear Us on Full Swap Radio: Thursdays 2 PM & 7 PM CST on 🖤 Help Us Grow! If you loved this episode, please rate, review, and subscribe wherever you listen. It helps more open-minded people discover Beyond Monogamy. And don’t forget to share it with your lifestyle friends—you never know whose world it might open up. Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — Raw, Real, and Definitely Not PG. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39169310

Inside Pineapple House TX: The Houston Couple Redefining Lifestyle House Parties 11/23/2025

Inside Pineapple House TX: The Houston Couple Redefining Lifestyle House Parties What happens when a couple turns their home into one of Houston’s most talked-about lifestyle destinations? Adam and Pris sit down with Nicole and Isaac, founders of Pineapple House TX, for an open, hilarious, and eye-opening conversation about what it takes to build a judgment-free space for connection, curiosity, and seriously sexy fun. They talk about how it all started, the challenges of throwing house parties in the lifestyle, and what separates Pineapple House TX from anything else in the Houston scene. From custom-built themed rooms and a fully functional (and classy) glory wall, to screening guests for safety and comfort, Nicole and Isaac have created an experience that balances erotic freedom with genuine hospitality. This one’s equal parts funny, raw, and informative — perfect for anyone curious about what really goes on behind the black curtain at a lifestyle house party. Show Notes Episode: Inside Pineapple House TX: The Houston Couple Redefining Lifestyle House Parties Guests: Nicole & Isaac — Founders of Pineapple House TX Location: Houston, Texas About This Episode Adam and Pris take listeners inside one of the most unique lifestyle spots in Texas — Pineapple House TX. The founders, Nicole and Isaac, share how they went from attending events to creating their own, why safety and comfort are their top priorities, and what they’ve learned after years of hosting themed, inclusive, and wildly creative house parties. Topics Covered How Isaac started in the kink and BDSM community before entering the swinging scene Nicole’s journey from curiosity to confidence in her bisexuality and lifestyle comfort Building a judgment-free, welcoming environment for newbies and experienced couples alike Why their parties are different — themed rooms, lighting, music, and intentional hosting The screening process for guests (especially single men) and why safety comes first Lessons learned from their very first party (and the 15 pizzas no one showed up for) The emotional rollercoaster of hosting and what keeps them motivated Why consent, comfort, and community always come before play Beyond Monogamy at Pineapple House TX Adam and Pris share their firsthand experience attending Pineapple House TX — including the décor, themed rooms like the Zen Room, Enchanted Forest, and Orgy Room, and the surprisingly classy take on the glory wall that became a crowd favorite. The conversation dives into how Pineapple House TX strikes a perfect balance between erotic energy and genuine hospitality, giving new meaning to “Texas-sized” fun in the lifestyle house party scene. Where to Find Pineapple House TX Website: Instagram: @thepineapplehousetx Lifestyle sites: Search “TravelingCoupl3” on SDC and Quiver Connect with Beyond Monogamy Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com Events: beyond-monogamy.com/events Patreon: patreon.com/beyondmonogamy Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 2 PM and 7 PM CST on fullswapradio.com Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) and @adam&beyond (Adam) Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Join the Community Stay up to date on all Beyond Monogamy live events, guest collaborations, and upcoming Pineapple House TX parties. You don’t have to be non-monogamous to enjoy a show about non-monogamy — you just have to be curious enough to press play. SEO Keywords Pineapple House TX, Houston swinger parties, lifestyle house parties, Beyond Monogamy podcast, swinger events Texas, lifestyle community Houston, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, swingers podcast, kink and BDSM, couples events, safe lifestyle spaces, inclusive swinger parties, lifestyle house party Houston, glory hole wall, Texas lifestyle events. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39112470

QUICKIE: Mental Health & The Lifestyle 11/19/2025

QUICKIE: Mental Health & The Lifestyle Mental Health & The Lifestyle: Depression, Anxiety, Jealousy & the Parts Nobody Talks About In this week’s Beyond Monogamy Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris crack open a conversation most lifestyle folks avoid: mental health. From depression that hides behind humor, to feeling unwanted in LS spaces, to the pressure of always “being on” because of content creation, this episode gets raw, honest, and deeply needed. Adam opens up about a form of depression that doesn’t look like the stereotypical “can’t get out of bed” kind — it looks more like working nonstop, smiling through the storm, and masking with jokes. Pris shares the emotional weight of their poly years, what she kept inside, how depression silently grew, and how finally being honest helped her breathe again. Together, they break down the emotional side of non-monogamy that impacts self-worth, jealousy, compersion, body image, performance anxiety, rejection, and confidence in the lifestyle. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed in the lifestyle… if you’ve ever questioned your worth… if you’ve ever smiled on the outside while drowning inside… this one’s for you. 💬 Episode Focus: Mental Health & The Lifestyle In this candid, heartfelt QUICKIE, Adam & Pris dive into the mental and emotional side of ethical non-monogamy and swinging: Why mental health struggles are common but rarely talked about in the lifestyle What happens when one partner is “more into it” than the other, and depression quietly builds under the surface The emotional weight of their poly years and what hiding feelings did to Pris’s mental health The heavy feeling of not feeling wanted or noticed at lifestyle events and clubs How the lifestyle can sometimes feel like high school all over again — cliques, comparison, and insecurity How rejection and “you’re not my type” moments hit self-esteem and confidence The pressure of being “on” all the time when you’re known for your podcast and content Adam’s personal experience with depression that hides behind humor, productivity, and obsession with work Why communication is absolutely crucial when jealousy, compersion, and insecurity show up How mental health and sexual health are deeply connected — and why it’s hard to perform when your brain is overloaded Why it’s okay (and healthy) to pause, reset, or step back from the lifestyle when life starts “lifing” The main takeaway? Protect your peace as much as you protect your parts. The lifestyle can be fun as hell, but only if your mind is in a good place while you’re living it. 🌐 Start Here: Our Website 👉 Events Page: Anonymous Confessional: Share your story, question, or struggle completely anonymously from the site. Patreon: Join for bonus behind-the-scenes extras, deeper dives, and more time with Adam & Pris. 🎧 Listen & Watch You can find Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris on all major platforms, including: Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music Pandora YouTube – full video episodes Remember: You don’t have to be non-monogamous to enjoy a show about non-monogamy. 📻 Full Swap Radio Catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday on at: 2:00 PM Central 7:00 PM Central 📱 Follow & Connect With Us Website: Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u Twitter / X: @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam) YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Discord: Join our community for lifestyle chat, episode discussions, and event info. 💌 Need Support or Someone to Talk To? If this episode hit close to home and you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, jealousy, or feeling unwanted in the lifestyle, please know: You’re not weird. You’re not broken. You’re human. Your mental health matters just as much as your sexual exploration. It’s okay to step back, slow down, or hit pause when life gets heavy. You can: Submit an anonymous story or question through our Confessional on the website. Reach out privately through our contact form or DMs on social media. Share this episode with a partner or friend if you don’t know how to start the conversation. We can’t be your therapists, but we can be your people — a couple who gets it, who’s been through it, and who is willing to talk about the stuff most lifestyle conversations skip. ✅ Before You Go Like, subscribe, and follow on your favorite podcast platform. Leave a rating and review — it helps more people in (and out of) the lifestyle find the show. Share this episode with someone who might be struggling silently. Join our Patreon for deeper dives, behind-the-scenes content, and more real talk. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39079325

The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover 11/16/2025

The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover (one “L”). Listener Voicemail: “How do lesbian couples fit into the lifestyle?” We discuss why many events historically skew toward the straight-male / bi-female dynamic and how to navigate that as a same-sex couple—focusing on mentorship, clear boundaries, and finding welcoming communities. Practical tips: look for friendly faces, build your table if no one pulls out a chair, and use lighthearted icebreakers to meet people. Texas Desires: Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (San Antonio • Dec 5–6) Dates/Location: Dec 5–6 in San Antonio (exact hotel released the week of for attendee safety). True hotel buyout: Texas Desires rents the entire hotel for the weekend, creating a cohesive, clothing-optional vibe within legal rules. Pricing (flat, no add-ons): $500 per room; up to 4 people in a double-queen, 2 people in a king. Organizer covers credit card fees, hotel taxes, security, and DJ. Food & Drinks: BYOB; breakfast included and upgraded; food trucks on site (purchase your own food). Rules & Comfort: Clothing required in food-service areas; full itinerary coming soon. Ladies—bring comfy shoes! How to Reserve: Email (one “L”). Rooms still available—don’t lose your spot! Why This Takeover’s Different Texas Desires designs a true weekend escape—an all-inclusive, full-property experience for the lifestyle community, not a scattered, mixed-public hotel setup. It’s an event where connection, comfort, and freedom meet. Beyond Monogamy Events Keep an eye on our for updates on this takeover and other upcoming meetups. We’ll sync our calendar as Texas Desires releases their full itinerary. Links & How to Support Website & Events: • Confessional (anonymous stories): Available on our website under “Confessional.” Patreon (bonus content & behind-the-scenes): FullSwapRadio: Catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. Socials Facebook: Instagram: X (Twitter): TikTok: (Pris) • (Adam) Reddit: YouTube: Calls to Action Reserve your room: Email (one “L”). Subscribe on YouTube, follow on socials, join Patreon, and drop an anonymous Confession on our site. Share & Review the show—help us grow the lifestyle community! /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/39039255

Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage 11/12/2025

Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage Episode Type: QUICKIE Show: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris What keeps a man grounded when life, love, and the lifestyle all collide? In this fun, raw, and real QUICKIE, Pris flips the mic on her husband and co-host, Adam, to dig deep into how he balances it all: a fiery wife, a busy podcast, family life, and the ups and downs of non-monogamy. From jealousy and communication struggles to menopause, ADHD, finances, and the messy moments in marriage, Adam gets vulnerable about what it really takes to stay connected, keep the peace, and grow stronger together. If you’ve ever wondered what makes a relationship survive the chaos of real life and the lifestyle, this one’s for you. They talk teamwork, love languages, reconnection rituals, emotional self-awareness, and why “meet in the middle” might be the ultimate relationship cheat code. You’ll laugh, relate, and maybe even tear up as Adam shares the heart behind the brand — and why this podcast is so much more than stories and sex talk. ☕ Grab your coffee, your partner, or your favorite toy — this episode is real-life love in the raw. In This Episode How Adam stays balanced through love, chaos, and menopause The truth about communication and emotional reconnection in long-term relationships Jealousy vs. security in non-monogamy and the lifestyle How teamwork and “meeting in the middle” matter more than chemistry alone Reconnecting after lifestyle events: coffee, food, and real conversations Real talk about finances, stress, and why relationships matter more than money How Beyond Monogamy became a growing community for couples and the curious Adam’s passion for turning this podcast into a lifelong mission for both of them Top Takeaways Communication beats competition. If you’re trying to “win” an argument, you both lose. Meet in the middle. Love isn’t always 50/50 — it’s about showing up as a team. Hormones are real. Menopause, cycles, mental health and hormones affect communication and reactions for both partners. Appreciation matters. Small acts of service, physical affection, and words of gratitude stack up over time. Reconnection is a ritual. Post-event coffee dates, debriefs, and honest talks keep you grounded and close. Remember your priorities. Money, jobs, and outside stress come and go — your partner, kids, and core relationships are the real foundation. Honesty over perfection. It’s okay to admit when you’re struggling, shutting down, or needing space — as long as you communicate it. Links & Resources Main Website: Beyond Monogamy Confessional: Share your anonymous stories at Events & Live Shows: Check out our upcoming events, live podcasts, and meet & greets at Listen to Us Around the Web Full Swap Radio: Streaming every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central at YouTube: Support & Extras Patreon: Early access, behind-the-scenes, and extra content at Merch: Shirts, mugs, and more via our website’s merch section. Affiliates & Partners 3Fun: Explore the lifestyle-friendly dating app at SDC: Join the lifestyle community using our referral at Forbidden Fruit: Your local & online adult boutique at Upcoming Events Texas Legends Hotel Takeover – San Antonio December 5–7 — Live Beyond Monogamy show & Q&A on-site. Details on our . Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet – Club Eden San Antonio December 13 — Hang out with us, ask questions, and connect with community. Info also on our . Follow Beyond Monogamy Facebook: Instagram: X (Twitter): TikTok: & Reddit: Help Us Grow If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review wherever you listen. It helps more people find Beyond Monogamy and keeps this community growing strong. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/38993335

Inside Austin’s Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle 11/09/2025

Inside Austin’s Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle 🎧 Inside Austin’s Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle Step inside Austin’s legendary adult boutique, , with Adam & Pris for a wild and hilarious live recording of Beyond Monogamy. In this special episode, the duo explores the shelves of Texas’ oldest adult store — surrounded by locally made toys, leather gear, art, and laughter — while diving into the unspoken rules of flirting in the lifestyle. From favorite toy confessions and lube mishaps to open talk about pleasure, body confidence, and communication, this episode blends real education with the humor and honesty Beyond Monogamy is known for. Whether you’re a curious newcomer or a longtime swinger, this one’s packed with relatable insights, Austin flavor, and a reminder that pleasure is personal — and better when shared. 🔥 Highlights Live at — Austin’s oldest adult store Local toy makers, workshops, and sex-positive education Adam’s first guy toy experience (and how it changed his mind) Pris on female pleasure, confidence, and toys in the bedroom How to introduce toys and talk about pleasure with new partners Upcoming events: Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet, Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (Dec 5–7 in San Antonio) 🎙️ Episode Details Hosts: Adam & Pris Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris 💬 What We Talk About Behind the scenes of Forbidden Fruit, Austin’s oldest adult store Supporting local Texas toy makers and artists Exploring toys, kink gear, and sexual wellness in a welcoming environment The difference between flirting and hitting on people in the lifestyle Why using toys doesn’t replace your partner — it enhances connection Flirting Etiquette 101: how to read energy, respect consent, and avoid awkwardness Real talk about size, pleasure, and confidence between couples Adam & Pris’s personal stories (and hilarious moments caught on mic) 🗓️ Upcoming Events 💥 Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet + Live Show 📍 🗓️ Saturday • 12 PM – 4 PM 🎅 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover 📍 San Antonio, TX • Dec 5–7 🎤 Live Podcast & Q&A with Adam & Pris 👉 🌐 Connect with Beyond Monogamy Website → Patreon → Full Swap Radio → Thursdays @ 2 PM & 7 PM CST 3Fun App → SDC → 📱 Follow Us Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) | @adam&beyond (Adam) X (Twitter): YouTube: Reddit: 🏷️ SEO Tags / Keywords Austin adult store, Forbidden Fruit Austin, sex toys Texas, lifestyle podcast, swinger podcast, Beyond Monogamy, non-monogamy, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, flirting in the lifestyle, swinger tips, sexual wellness, kink in Austin, couples communication, Adam & Pris, Full Swap Radio, Austin block party, Naughty and Nice Hotel Takeover, ForbiddenFruit.com /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/38965675

Lifestyle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party 11/05/2025

Lifestyle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party Quickie Episode • Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Lifecycle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party First link (all details & tickets): Episode Summary Nervous about your first lifestyle event? We’ve got you. In this Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about first-timer anxiety, how to find the right events, what to expect once you’re there, and simple ways to meet people without feeling overwhelmed. We also share details for two big meetups: our November 8th Meet & Greet at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) and the December 5–7 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, where we’ll host a live Beyond Monogamy show with audience Q&A. Come Hang With Us — Upcoming Events 📍 Saturday, November 8 — Meet & Greet @ Forbidden Fruit (Austin, TX) Time: 12:00 PM – 4:00 PM (we may stay later if it’s poppin’) Where: Inside Forbidden Fruit (Austin’s oldest locally owned adult boutique; block-party vibes with neighboring local shops) What’s happening: Photos, lives, light Q&A, merch, and meet-the-hosts energy Parking tip: It’s tight—street or neighborhood parking recommended. Worth the walk! Full address, updates, and reminders are on our . 🎄 December 5–7 — Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (San Antonio, TX) Weekend takeover: Lifestyle community, day events, and night parties We’re performing: A live Beyond Monogamy podcast + audience Q&A (seating + mic setup on site) Heads-up: Rooms are moving fast—see the Events Page for info & booking details Traveling in to see us? Tell us you’re coming—we love meeting out-of-towners. How to Find Lifestyle Events Check vetted platforms like and for party & meet-and-greet listings. Local Facebook communities (often invite-only)—meet people at clubs and ask for a group invite. At meet-and-greets, introduce yourself to the host or a connector; start with one person, let them introduce you onward. First-Timer Tips (Real Talk) It’s normal to be nervous—your first event is the hardest; it gets easier fast. Have a drink if you want, but avoid overdoing it—staying aware keeps you safe and confident. Safety first: watch your surroundings, stick together, and honor consent like it’s sacred. Links & Resources Mentioned 🗓️ All Events (first stop): 🌐 Main Site: 📬 Beyond Monogamy Confessional (anonymous): 📻 Full Swap Radio: — catch us Thursdays at 2 PM & 7 PM Central ❤️ Patreon: 📱 SDC (events/platform): 📱 Kasidie (events/platform): SEO Keywords lifestyle events, swinger events, ethical non-monogamy, meet and greet Austin, Naughty and Nice hotel takeover, swinger podcast, open relationships, Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris, non-monogamy podcast, Full Swap Radio, lifestyle community Texas Enjoyed the episode? Please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review—this helps the community find us and keeps the conversations. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/38910245

Jealousy, Labels & Latino Love: Psychologist Jaime Gama on Ethical Non-Monogamy, Swinging vs. Poly, & Building Community 11/02/2025

Jealousy, Labels & Latino Love: Psychologist Jaime Gama on Ethical Non-Monogamy, Swinging vs. Poly, & Building Community In this powerful and refreshingly funny conversation, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with psychologist, Gestalt therapist, creator of Gotitas de Poliamor, and author Jaime Gama to unpack what it really takes to thrive in ethical non-monogamy. We dive into jealousy vs. compersion, swinging vs. polyamory, boundaries, Latin culture, and unlearning shame—mixing research-backed wisdom with real-life stories. 💧 Jaime’s work: 🌐 Our site: 📻 Listen on FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): ❤️ Support us on Patreon: CTA: If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review on whatever platform you listen on—it seriously helps the community grow! Meet Us IRL: We’ll be at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) on November 8—come say hi and join our live Q&A session! Show Notes Key Topics How labels help—when they’re guides, not molds Swinging vs. Polyamory: sex-forward vs. romance-forward dynamics Jealousy isn’t the villain: safety, communication, and growth Latin culture, masculinity, shame, and sexual autonomy Consent, agency, honesty & compassion as relationship pillars Why community is the #1 unlock for sustainable ENM About Our Guest Jaime Gama is a psychologist and Gestalt therapist, international educator on ethical non-monogamy, and author of Si te duele, ahí no es. He leads workshops, writes, and creates hugely popular content that makes complex relationship ideas practical and accessible. Website: Links & Resources Beyond Monogamy: FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): Patreon: Guest site: How You Can Help Tap those buttons—like, subscribe, share, and review—so more curious, open-minded folks can find the show. Thank you for supporting independent creators! Come Hang With Us Forbidden Fruit (Austin) — November 8 Meet-and-greet + listener Q&A. Can’t wait to see you there! /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/38801150

QUICKIE: Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the Lifestyle 10/29/2025

Transforming Love: Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Shame, Attachment & Polywise Relationships 10/26/2025

Transforming Love: Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Shame, Attachment & Polywise Relationships Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST Patreon (early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord): Show Notes Attachment & IFS: How to spot when a part (not your core self) is driving reactivity—and how to respond with needs-based clarity. Jealousy vs. Resentment: Resentment is the “check-engine light” for unmet needs or long-standing imbalances—don’t villainize it, learn from it. The 50/50 Myth: Healthy partnerships aren’t perfectly split; they’re capacity-aware and transparent about changing needs over time. Polyamory + Parenting: Why time/energy constraints shift when kids are young—and how integrating partners into the family system can help. The Shame Triangle: Inner persecutor ➝ inner victim (shame) ➝ inner rescuer/escapers (over/under-functioning, numbing, projection) and how to break the cycle. Collaboration After Divorce: Jessica & David describe dissolving romance, rebuilding trust, and co-creating work that actually deepens harmony. Guest Links & Resources JessicaFern.com — book info, events, workshops (New book Transforming the Shame Triangle releases on October 31; pre-release discount via site). Polysecure, The Polysecure Workbook, Polywise — widely available wherever books are sold. Upcoming signings mentioned: Asheville (Malaprops, Oct 28), Atlanta (Cherish Books, Nov 4), Bay Area events week of Dec 17 with a day-long workshop on Dec 22. Favorite Moments “Resentment is a really important signal—like a dashboard light. There’s a need underneath it asking to be seen.” “Stop chasing 50/50. Bring your 100%—and expect your partner to bring theirs—in ways that ebb and flow with real capacity.” “The Shame Triangle links that inner critic, the shame it creates, and the ‘escapes’ we use to avoid feeling it. Naming it is the first step to changing it.”Timestamps 00:01 — Meet Jessica & David; books, backgrounds, collaboration 16:00 — Sacredness, conditioning & rethinking mononormative scripts 18:00 — Jealousy vs. resentment; needs, signals & repair 22:00 — Ditching 50/50; capacity, boundaries, expectations 29:00 — Poly + parenting; integrating partners into family systems 44:00 — The Shame Triangle explained (persecutor, victim, rescuer/escapers) 54:00 — Why feedback can trigger shame—and how to receive it better 55:00 — Book release timing & event tour details Support the Show Love the conversation? for early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord hangs, and more. Catch us on every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST. Follow us: Facebook @BeyondMonogamy4U • Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u • TikTok @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond • YouTube @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/38626300

QUICKIE: The Great Expectations 10/22/2025

QUICKIE: The Great Expectations The Great Expectations Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Episode Summary In The Great Expectations, Adam & Pris get real about one of the trickiest parts of ethical non-monogamy: managing what you think is going to happen versus what actually happens. From club nights that don’t go as planned to the pressure of “performing” in lifestyle settings, they unpack how expectations—ours, our partners’, and everyone else’s—shape attraction, confidence, and connection. This candid, funny, and raw conversation explores emotional intelligence, insecurity, chemistry, and the myth of having “no expectations.” Spoiler: everyone has them, and that’s human. Whether you’re new to swinging or deep into open relationship life, you’ll leave with practical perspective: the fewer expectations you cling to, the more freedom (and fun) you’ll find. Show Notes Topics Covered The illusion of “no expectations” in the lifestyle Why we still walk into clubs hoping for magic (and why it rarely plays out like a fantasy) How unrealistic expectations can kill the vibe before the night even starts Attraction vs. organic connection: letting chemistry lead Emotional intelligence as a lifestyle superpower Releasing insecurities and learning to care less (with age and experience) “Podcaster expectations” vs. real-life anxiety and social energy Expectations and performance pressure—why honest communication matters Respect, boundaries, and the expectations partners set for each other Featured Moments Pris opens up about letting go and growing emotional maturity. Adam talks about mental pressure, male performance, and speaking up instead of spiraling. A funny play-by-play of how fantasy scripts fall apart in real life—and why that’s okay. A shared takeaway: try not to have expectations, but admit you always will—then choose flexibility over frustration. Listen & Connect Stream this episode on all major podcast platforms and catch us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. Explore everything—blogs, videos, events, and our anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional—at . Support the Show & Explore the Lifestyle Join Our Patreon Love the raw conversations and want more? Get early access, behind-the-mic clips, uncut moments, and member-only perks by joining our Patreon. Your support keeps the mics on and the real talk flowing. 👉 Find Your People Ready to connect with like-minded folks? Use our links—your sign-ups directly support the podcast: SDC (events, parties, community): 3Fun (meet, match, explore): Click, explore, and say hi—we appreciate you using our links! Episode SEO Keywords: swinger podcast, non-monogamy podcast, expectations in the lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, open relationship podcast, Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris, lifestyle confidence, emotional intelligence, relationship growth, swinging community. /episode/index/show/f2ba8d59-8c6c-465c-a8c3-12798b35c60c/id/38737190

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