Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com
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QUICKIE: Mental Health & The Lifestyle
11/19/2025
QUICKIE: Mental Health & The Lifestyle
Mental Health & The Lifestyle: Depression, Anxiety, Jealousy & the Parts Nobody Talks About In this week’s Beyond Monogamy Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris crack open a conversation most lifestyle folks avoid: mental health. From depression that hides behind humor, to feeling unwanted in LS spaces, to the pressure of always “being on” because of content creation, this episode gets raw, honest, and deeply needed. Adam opens up about a form of depression that doesn’t look like the stereotypical “can’t get out of bed” kind — it looks more like working nonstop, smiling through the storm, and masking with jokes. Pris shares the emotional weight of their poly years, what she kept inside, how depression silently grew, and how finally being honest helped her breathe again. Together, they break down the emotional side of non-monogamy that impacts self-worth, jealousy, compersion, body image, performance anxiety, rejection, and confidence in the lifestyle. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed in the lifestyle… if you’ve ever questioned your worth… if you’ve ever smiled on the outside while drowning inside… this one’s for you. 💬 Episode Focus: Mental Health & The Lifestyle In this candid, heartfelt QUICKIE, Adam & Pris dive into the mental and emotional side of ethical non-monogamy and swinging: Why mental health struggles are common but rarely talked about in the lifestyle What happens when one partner is “more into it” than the other, and depression quietly builds under the surface The emotional weight of their poly years and what hiding feelings did to Pris’s mental health The heavy feeling of not feeling wanted or noticed at lifestyle events and clubs How the lifestyle can sometimes feel like high school all over again — cliques, comparison, and insecurity How rejection and “you’re not my type” moments hit self-esteem and confidence The pressure of being “on” all the time when you’re known for your podcast and content Adam’s personal experience with depression that hides behind humor, productivity, and obsession with work Why communication is absolutely crucial when jealousy, compersion, and insecurity show up How mental health and sexual health are deeply connected — and why it’s hard to perform when your brain is overloaded Why it’s okay (and healthy) to pause, reset, or step back from the lifestyle when life starts “lifing” The main takeaway? Protect your peace as much as you protect your parts. The lifestyle can be fun as hell, but only if your mind is in a good place while you’re living it. 🌐 Start Here: Our Website 👉 Events Page: Anonymous Confessional: Share your story, question, or struggle completely anonymously from the site. Patreon: Join for bonus behind-the-scenes extras, deeper dives, and more time with Adam & Pris. 🎧 Listen & Watch You can find Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris on all major platforms, including: Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music Pandora YouTube – full video episodes Remember: You don’t have to be non-monogamous to enjoy a show about non-monogamy. 📻 Full Swap Radio Catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday on at: 2:00 PM Central 7:00 PM Central 📱 Follow & Connect With Us Website: Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u Twitter / X: @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam) YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Discord: Join our community for lifestyle chat, episode discussions, and event info. 💌 Need Support or Someone to Talk To? If this episode hit close to home and you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, jealousy, or feeling unwanted in the lifestyle, please know: You’re not weird. You’re not broken. You’re human. Your mental health matters just as much as your sexual exploration. It’s okay to step back, slow down, or hit pause when life gets heavy. You can: Submit an anonymous story or question through our Confessional on the website. Reach out privately through our contact form or DMs on social media. Share this episode with a partner or friend if you don’t know how to start the conversation. We can’t be your therapists, but we can be your people — a couple who gets it, who’s been through it, and who is willing to talk about the stuff most lifestyle conversations skip. ✅ Before You Go Like, subscribe, and follow on your favorite podcast platform. Leave a rating and review — it helps more people in (and out of) the lifestyle find the show. Share this episode with someone who might be struggling silently. Join our Patreon for deeper dives, behind-the-scenes content, and more real talk.
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The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover
11/16/2025
The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover
(one “L”). Listener Voicemail: “How do lesbian couples fit into the lifestyle?” We discuss why many events historically skew toward the straight-male / bi-female dynamic and how to navigate that as a same-sex couple—focusing on mentorship, clear boundaries, and finding welcoming communities. Practical tips: look for friendly faces, build your table if no one pulls out a chair, and use lighthearted icebreakers to meet people. Texas Desires: Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (San Antonio • Dec 5–6) Dates/Location: Dec 5–6 in San Antonio (exact hotel released the week of for attendee safety). True hotel buyout: Texas Desires rents the entire hotel for the weekend, creating a cohesive, clothing-optional vibe within legal rules. Pricing (flat, no add-ons): $500 per room; up to 4 people in a double-queen, 2 people in a king. Organizer covers credit card fees, hotel taxes, security, and DJ. Food & Drinks: BYOB; breakfast included and upgraded; food trucks on site (purchase your own food). Rules & Comfort: Clothing required in food-service areas; full itinerary coming soon. Ladies—bring comfy shoes! How to Reserve: Email (one “L”). Rooms still available—don’t lose your spot! Why This Takeover’s Different Texas Desires designs a true weekend escape—an all-inclusive, full-property experience for the lifestyle community, not a scattered, mixed-public hotel setup. It’s an event where connection, comfort, and freedom meet. Beyond Monogamy Events Keep an eye on our for updates on this takeover and other upcoming meetups. We’ll sync our calendar as Texas Desires releases their full itinerary. Links & How to Support Website & Events: • Confessional (anonymous stories): Available on our website under “Confessional.” Patreon (bonus content & behind-the-scenes): FullSwapRadio: Catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. Socials Facebook: Instagram: X (Twitter): TikTok: (Pris) • (Adam) Reddit: YouTube: Calls to Action Reserve your room: Email (one “L”). Subscribe on YouTube, follow on socials, join Patreon, and drop an anonymous Confession on our site. Share & Review the show—help us grow the lifestyle community!
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Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage
11/12/2025
Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage
Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage Episode Type: QUICKIE Show: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris What keeps a man grounded when life, love, and the lifestyle all collide? In this fun, raw, and real QUICKIE, Pris flips the mic on her husband and co-host, Adam, to dig deep into how he balances it all: a fiery wife, a busy podcast, family life, and the ups and downs of non-monogamy. From jealousy and communication struggles to menopause, ADHD, finances, and the messy moments in marriage, Adam gets vulnerable about what it really takes to stay connected, keep the peace, and grow stronger together. If you’ve ever wondered what makes a relationship survive the chaos of real life and the lifestyle, this one’s for you. They talk teamwork, love languages, reconnection rituals, emotional self-awareness, and why “meet in the middle” might be the ultimate relationship cheat code. You’ll laugh, relate, and maybe even tear up as Adam shares the heart behind the brand — and why this podcast is so much more than stories and sex talk. ☕ Grab your coffee, your partner, or your favorite toy — this episode is real-life love in the raw. In This Episode How Adam stays balanced through love, chaos, and menopause The truth about communication and emotional reconnection in long-term relationships Jealousy vs. security in non-monogamy and the lifestyle How teamwork and “meeting in the middle” matter more than chemistry alone Reconnecting after lifestyle events: coffee, food, and real conversations Real talk about finances, stress, and why relationships matter more than money How Beyond Monogamy became a growing community for couples and the curious Adam’s passion for turning this podcast into a lifelong mission for both of them Top Takeaways Communication beats competition. If you’re trying to “win” an argument, you both lose. Meet in the middle. Love isn’t always 50/50 — it’s about showing up as a team. Hormones are real. Menopause, cycles, mental health and hormones affect communication and reactions for both partners. Appreciation matters. Small acts of service, physical affection, and words of gratitude stack up over time. Reconnection is a ritual. Post-event coffee dates, debriefs, and honest talks keep you grounded and close. Remember your priorities. Money, jobs, and outside stress come and go — your partner, kids, and core relationships are the real foundation. Honesty over perfection. It’s okay to admit when you’re struggling, shutting down, or needing space — as long as you communicate it. Links & Resources Main Website: Beyond Monogamy Confessional: Share your anonymous stories at Events & Live Shows: Check out our upcoming events, live podcasts, and meet & greets at Listen to Us Around the Web Full Swap Radio: Streaming every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central at YouTube: Support & Extras Patreon: Early access, behind-the-scenes, and extra content at Merch: Shirts, mugs, and more via our website’s merch section. Affiliates & Partners 3Fun: Explore the lifestyle-friendly dating app at SDC: Join the lifestyle community using our referral at Forbidden Fruit: Your local & online adult boutique at Upcoming Events Texas Legends Hotel Takeover – San Antonio December 5–7 — Live Beyond Monogamy show & Q&A on-site. Details on our . Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet – Club Eden San Antonio December 13 — Hang out with us, ask questions, and connect with community. Info also on our . Follow Beyond Monogamy Facebook: Instagram: X (Twitter): TikTok: & Reddit: Help Us Grow If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review wherever you listen. It helps more people find Beyond Monogamy and keeps this community growing strong.
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Inside Austin’s Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle
11/09/2025
Inside Austin’s Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle
🎧 Inside Austin’s Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle Step inside Austin’s legendary adult boutique, , with Adam & Pris for a wild and hilarious live recording of Beyond Monogamy. In this special episode, the duo explores the shelves of Texas’ oldest adult store — surrounded by locally made toys, leather gear, art, and laughter — while diving into the unspoken rules of flirting in the lifestyle. From favorite toy confessions and lube mishaps to open talk about pleasure, body confidence, and communication, this episode blends real education with the humor and honesty Beyond Monogamy is known for. Whether you’re a curious newcomer or a longtime swinger, this one’s packed with relatable insights, Austin flavor, and a reminder that pleasure is personal — and better when shared. 🔥 Highlights Live at — Austin’s oldest adult store Local toy makers, workshops, and sex-positive education Adam’s first guy toy experience (and how it changed his mind) Pris on female pleasure, confidence, and toys in the bedroom How to introduce toys and talk about pleasure with new partners Upcoming events: Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet, Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (Dec 5–7 in San Antonio) 🎙️ Episode Details Hosts: Adam & Pris Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris 💬 What We Talk About Behind the scenes of Forbidden Fruit, Austin’s oldest adult store Supporting local Texas toy makers and artists Exploring toys, kink gear, and sexual wellness in a welcoming environment The difference between flirting and hitting on people in the lifestyle Why using toys doesn’t replace your partner — it enhances connection Flirting Etiquette 101: how to read energy, respect consent, and avoid awkwardness Real talk about size, pleasure, and confidence between couples Adam & Pris’s personal stories (and hilarious moments caught on mic) 🗓️ Upcoming Events 💥 Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet + Live Show 📍 🗓️ Saturday • 12 PM – 4 PM 🎅 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover 📍 San Antonio, TX • Dec 5–7 🎤 Live Podcast & Q&A with Adam & Pris 👉 🌐 Connect with Beyond Monogamy Website → Patreon → Full Swap Radio → Thursdays @ 2 PM & 7 PM CST 3Fun App → SDC → 📱 Follow Us Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) | @adam&beyond (Adam) X (Twitter): YouTube: Reddit: 🏷️ SEO Tags / Keywords Austin adult store, Forbidden Fruit Austin, sex toys Texas, lifestyle podcast, swinger podcast, Beyond Monogamy, non-monogamy, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, flirting in the lifestyle, swinger tips, sexual wellness, kink in Austin, couples communication, Adam & Pris, Full Swap Radio, Austin block party, Naughty and Nice Hotel Takeover, ForbiddenFruit.com
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Lifestyle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party
11/05/2025
Lifestyle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party
Quickie Episode • Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Lifecycle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party First link (all details & tickets): Episode Summary Nervous about your first lifestyle event? We’ve got you. In this Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about first-timer anxiety, how to find the right events, what to expect once you’re there, and simple ways to meet people without feeling overwhelmed. We also share details for two big meetups: our November 8th Meet & Greet at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) and the December 5–7 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, where we’ll host a live Beyond Monogamy show with audience Q&A. Come Hang With Us — Upcoming Events 📍 Saturday, November 8 — Meet & Greet @ Forbidden Fruit (Austin, TX) Time: 12:00 PM – 4:00 PM (we may stay later if it’s poppin’) Where: Inside Forbidden Fruit (Austin’s oldest locally owned adult boutique; block-party vibes with neighboring local shops) What’s happening: Photos, lives, light Q&A, merch, and meet-the-hosts energy Parking tip: It’s tight—street or neighborhood parking recommended. Worth the walk! Full address, updates, and reminders are on our . 🎄 December 5–7 — Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (San Antonio, TX) Weekend takeover: Lifestyle community, day events, and night parties We’re performing: A live Beyond Monogamy podcast + audience Q&A (seating + mic setup on site) Heads-up: Rooms are moving fast—see the Events Page for info & booking details Traveling in to see us? Tell us you’re coming—we love meeting out-of-towners. How to Find Lifestyle Events Check vetted platforms like and for party & meet-and-greet listings. Local Facebook communities (often invite-only)—meet people at clubs and ask for a group invite. At meet-and-greets, introduce yourself to the host or a connector; start with one person, let them introduce you onward. First-Timer Tips (Real Talk) It’s normal to be nervous—your first event is the hardest; it gets easier fast. Have a drink if you want, but avoid overdoing it—staying aware keeps you safe and confident. Safety first: watch your surroundings, stick together, and honor consent like it’s sacred. Links & Resources Mentioned 🗓️ All Events (first stop): 🌐 Main Site: 📬 Beyond Monogamy Confessional (anonymous): 📻 Full Swap Radio: — catch us Thursdays at 2 PM & 7 PM Central ❤️ Patreon: 📱 SDC (events/platform): 📱 Kasidie (events/platform): SEO Keywords lifestyle events, swinger events, ethical non-monogamy, meet and greet Austin, Naughty and Nice hotel takeover, swinger podcast, open relationships, Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris, non-monogamy podcast, Full Swap Radio, lifestyle community Texas Enjoyed the episode? Please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review—this helps the community find us and keeps the conversations.
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Jealousy, Labels & Latino Love: Psychologist Jaime Gama on Ethical Non-Monogamy, Swinging vs. Poly, & Building Community
11/02/2025
Jealousy, Labels & Latino Love: Psychologist Jaime Gama on Ethical Non-Monogamy, Swinging vs. Poly, & Building Community
In this powerful and refreshingly funny conversation, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with psychologist, Gestalt therapist, creator of Gotitas de Poliamor, and author Jaime Gama to unpack what it really takes to thrive in ethical non-monogamy. We dive into jealousy vs. compersion, swinging vs. polyamory, boundaries, Latin culture, and unlearning shame—mixing research-backed wisdom with real-life stories. 💧 Jaime’s work: 🌐 Our site: 📻 Listen on FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): ❤️ Support us on Patreon: CTA: If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review on whatever platform you listen on—it seriously helps the community grow! Meet Us IRL: We’ll be at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) on November 8—come say hi and join our live Q&A session! Show Notes Key Topics How labels help—when they’re guides, not molds Swinging vs. Polyamory: sex-forward vs. romance-forward dynamics Jealousy isn’t the villain: safety, communication, and growth Latin culture, masculinity, shame, and sexual autonomy Consent, agency, honesty & compassion as relationship pillars Why community is the #1 unlock for sustainable ENM About Our Guest Jaime Gama is a psychologist and Gestalt therapist, international educator on ethical non-monogamy, and author of Si te duele, ahí no es. He leads workshops, writes, and creates hugely popular content that makes complex relationship ideas practical and accessible. Website: Links & Resources Beyond Monogamy: FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): Patreon: Guest site: How You Can Help Tap those buttons—like, subscribe, share, and review—so more curious, open-minded folks can find the show. Thank you for supporting independent creators! Come Hang With Us Forbidden Fruit (Austin) — November 8 Meet-and-greet + listener Q&A. Can’t wait to see you there!
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QUICKIE: Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the Lifestyle
10/29/2025
QUICKIE: Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the Lifestyle
Anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional Drop your wild stories, burning questions, or true confessions—100% anonymous. We may feature yours in a future episode. Catch Us on FullSwapRadio Listen every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central alongside a curated lineup of adult talk shows. Everything in One Place Episodes • Events • Confessional • Merch • Socials: Episode Keywords ethical non-monogamy, ENM, swinging, lifestyle clubs, getting spotted in the lifestyle, discretion and consent, open relationships, Beyond Monogamy podcast Thanks for listening! If this helped you breathe easier about “getting spotted,” share it with a friend who needs it.
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Transforming Love: Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Shame, Attachment & Polywise Relationships
10/26/2025
Transforming Love: Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Shame, Attachment & Polywise Relationships
Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST Patreon (early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord): Show Notes Attachment & IFS: How to spot when a part (not your core self) is driving reactivity—and how to respond with needs-based clarity. Jealousy vs. Resentment: Resentment is the “check-engine light” for unmet needs or long-standing imbalances—don’t villainize it, learn from it. The 50/50 Myth: Healthy partnerships aren’t perfectly split; they’re capacity-aware and transparent about changing needs over time. Polyamory + Parenting: Why time/energy constraints shift when kids are young—and how integrating partners into the family system can help. The Shame Triangle: Inner persecutor ➝ inner victim (shame) ➝ inner rescuer/escapers (over/under-functioning, numbing, projection) and how to break the cycle. Collaboration After Divorce: Jessica & David describe dissolving romance, rebuilding trust, and co-creating work that actually deepens harmony. Guest Links & Resources JessicaFern.com — book info, events, workshops (New book Transforming the Shame Triangle releases on October 31; pre-release discount via site). Polysecure, The Polysecure Workbook, Polywise — widely available wherever books are sold. Upcoming signings mentioned: Asheville (Malaprops, Oct 28), Atlanta (Cherish Books, Nov 4), Bay Area events week of Dec 17 with a day-long workshop on Dec 22. Favorite Moments “Resentment is a really important signal—like a dashboard light. There’s a need underneath it asking to be seen.” “Stop chasing 50/50. Bring your 100%—and expect your partner to bring theirs—in ways that ebb and flow with real capacity.” “The Shame Triangle links that inner critic, the shame it creates, and the ‘escapes’ we use to avoid feeling it. Naming it is the first step to changing it.”Timestamps 00:01 — Meet Jessica & David; books, backgrounds, collaboration 16:00 — Sacredness, conditioning & rethinking mononormative scripts 18:00 — Jealousy vs. resentment; needs, signals & repair 22:00 — Ditching 50/50; capacity, boundaries, expectations 29:00 — Poly + parenting; integrating partners into family systems 44:00 — The Shame Triangle explained (persecutor, victim, rescuer/escapers) 54:00 — Why feedback can trigger shame—and how to receive it better 55:00 — Book release timing & event tour details Support the Show Love the conversation? for early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord hangs, and more. Catch us on every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST. Follow us: Facebook @BeyondMonogamy4U • Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u • TikTok @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond • YouTube @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
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QUICKIE: The Great Expectations
10/22/2025
QUICKIE: The Great Expectations
The Great Expectations Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Episode Summary In The Great Expectations, Adam & Pris get real about one of the trickiest parts of ethical non-monogamy: managing what you think is going to happen versus what actually happens. From club nights that don’t go as planned to the pressure of “performing” in lifestyle settings, they unpack how expectations—ours, our partners’, and everyone else’s—shape attraction, confidence, and connection. This candid, funny, and raw conversation explores emotional intelligence, insecurity, chemistry, and the myth of having “no expectations.” Spoiler: everyone has them, and that’s human. Whether you’re new to swinging or deep into open relationship life, you’ll leave with practical perspective: the fewer expectations you cling to, the more freedom (and fun) you’ll find. Show Notes Topics Covered The illusion of “no expectations” in the lifestyle Why we still walk into clubs hoping for magic (and why it rarely plays out like a fantasy) How unrealistic expectations can kill the vibe before the night even starts Attraction vs. organic connection: letting chemistry lead Emotional intelligence as a lifestyle superpower Releasing insecurities and learning to care less (with age and experience) “Podcaster expectations” vs. real-life anxiety and social energy Expectations and performance pressure—why honest communication matters Respect, boundaries, and the expectations partners set for each other Featured Moments Pris opens up about letting go and growing emotional maturity. Adam talks about mental pressure, male performance, and speaking up instead of spiraling. A funny play-by-play of how fantasy scripts fall apart in real life—and why that’s okay. A shared takeaway: try not to have expectations, but admit you always will—then choose flexibility over frustration. Listen & Connect Stream this episode on all major podcast platforms and catch us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. Explore everything—blogs, videos, events, and our anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional—at . Support the Show & Explore the Lifestyle Join Our Patreon Love the raw conversations and want more? Get early access, behind-the-mic clips, uncut moments, and member-only perks by joining our Patreon. Your support keeps the mics on and the real talk flowing. 👉 Find Your People Ready to connect with like-minded folks? Use our links—your sign-ups directly support the podcast: SDC (events, parties, community): 3Fun (meet, match, explore): Click, explore, and say hi—we appreciate you using our links! Episode SEO Keywords: swinger podcast, non-monogamy podcast, expectations in the lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, open relationship podcast, Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris, lifestyle confidence, emotional intelligence, relationship growth, swinging community.
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This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle Stereotypes
10/19/2025
This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle Stereotypes
. Rosie pulls back the curtain on what it really means to live ethically non-monogamous in today’s world—far beyond the clichés of “swingers in suburbia.” From discovering her bisexuality in her teens to finding freedom (and a few fears) in London’s clubs, Rosie shares how she turned curiosity, courage, and COVID downtime into one of the UK’s most refreshingly honest lifestyle blogs. Together, we dive into bisexuality without shame, breaking stereotypes, emotional honesty and the art of giving consent even when you’re not directly involved, plus the cultural contrasts between the UK and US lifestyle scenes. This one’s for anyone navigating open relationships or the messy-beautiful reality of non-monogamy in 2025 and beyond. Show Notes Guest: Key Topics Covered Rosie’s personal journey into non-monogamy & bisexuality How This Kind of Girl started during COVID lockdown UK vs. US lifestyle culture—what’s changing and what’s the same The emotional side: jealousy, consent, self-awareness, and confidence Breaking stereotypes: who actually participates in the lifestyle Inclusivity, women’s empowerment, and moving beyond shame Best Quote “Once you realize that other women aren’t your competition, you’ll have a much better life—not just a better sex life.” — Rosie Kay Follow Rosie Website: Connect with Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Website & blog: Stream us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST: Find us on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, X, YouTube, and Reddit: @BeyondMonogamy © Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Forbidden Fruit: How Austin’s Oldest Adult Store Kept Sex Positive Since the ’80s
10/15/2025
Forbidden Fruit: How Austin’s Oldest Adult Store Kept Sex Positive Since the ’80s
| | | | The Story of an Austin Icon We sit down with Lynn Raridon, owner of Forbidden Fruit, Austin’s beloved sex-positive boutique and education hub. From the early 1980s to today, Forbidden Fruit has blended sexual empowerment, community connection, and hands-on education—long before “sex positivity” was a hashtag. From Punk Rock to Pleasure Revolution Born out of Austin’s punk scene and home party sales that brought products into living rooms, Forbidden Fruit evolved into a community institution. Lynn shares the legal hurdles of the late ’80s and the clever pivots (like labeling vibrators as educational models) that kept the doors open and the mission alive. More Than a Store—A Movement Workshops & classes: BDSM Basics, Fellatio 101, and more, taught by experienced educators. Local makers: artisan floggers, paddles, collars, lingerie, and kink gear. Erotic art exhibits: rotating local art and cultural programming. Trusted guidance: lube testing, body-safe materials, and matching toys to preferences. Convenience: online ordering and easy curbside pickup. Visit Forbidden Fruit 🌐 Website: 📣 Official social links are listed on their website (footer & product pages). 🛍️ Shop toys, lube, lingerie & BDSM gear • Explore workshops & in-store art Beyond Monogamy Live at Forbidden Fruit — November 8 Join Adam & Pris at the shop on Friday, Nov 8 during the neighborhood block party. Forbidden Fruit opens at 12 PM; we’ll be inside with a live show, Q&A, a meet-and-greet, and merch—plus we’ll pop on a few social lives throughout the afternoon. Listen, Watch & Connect | | | | Follow Beyond Monogamy 🌐 Website: 📱 Instagram: • TikTok: • X/Twitter: 💬 Join our Discord (link on website) 🛍️ Merch & blogs: 📻 Full Swap Radio: Thursdays @ 1 PM & 6 PM CST
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Latino Heat In The Lifestyle: Dulce & Angel’s Journey from Event Planners to Swing Club Owners
10/12/2025
Latino Heat In The Lifestyle: Dulce & Angel’s Journey from Event Planners to Swing Club Owners
In this electrifying episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we head west to Los Angeles to meet Dulce and Angel, the powerhouse couple behind Tentaciones Club — one of the hottest new lifestyle destinations in Southern California. Tentaciones isn’t just a swingers’ club; it’s a movement. Built with passion, culture, and a whole lot of reggaetón energy, this Latino-owned lifestyle club blends music, sensuality, and community into one unforgettable experience. Angel and Dulce share how they transformed their 20-year relationship, event-planning expertise, and deep ties to LA’s Latino community into a sex-positive safe space where connection and culture collide. From converting a banquet hall into an 18,000-square-foot play space to educating a new generation of Latinx swingers about consent and communication, their story is bold, raw, and beautifully authentic. They talk about: How COVID boredom and orgy porn sparked the idea that became Tentaciones Club. The challenges of bringing Latino machismo culture into open, ethical non-monogamy. Why music and environment are key to creating comfort and connection. How they’re balancing work, family, and sex-positive entrepreneurship. And the importance of teaching respect, consent, and community inside the lifestyle. This episode isn’t just about a club — it’s about representation, passion, and the power of owning your truth. Whether you’re in the lifestyle or just lifestyle-curious, you’ll leave inspired by their hustle, humor, and heart. 📍 About Tentaciones Club (Los Angeles, CA) Located in the heart of Los Angeles, Tentaciones Club is a sensual, inclusive, and proudly Latino-centered lifestyle venue that brings together couples, singles, and open-minded adults for unforgettable nights of music, dance, and connection. With over 9,000 sq. ft. of play space (and another 9,000+ in expansion), Tentaciones delivers an experience that’s equal parts sexy and safe — featuring vibrant Latino music, open dance floors, and intimate playrooms that celebrate freedom, consent, and community. Their mission? To create a family-like atmosphere where the Latino lifestyle community can express themselves authentically, without judgment or taboo. 👉 Follow and support Tentaciones Club: 📍 Los Angeles, CA 🌐 📸 Instagram: @tentacionesclubla (insert handle if available) 📧 Membership & Events: 🎧 Show Notes Highlights & Time Stamps: [00:00] Adam & Pris introduce Dulce & Angel of Tentaciones Club [04:00] How a banquet hall turned into a lifestyle dream space [07:00] The cultural challenges of normalizing swinging in Latino communities [12:00] Building connection, family, and respect inside the club [15:00] The power of music, dance, and vibe — reggaetón, bachata, and consent [23:00] Fetishization, machismo, and educating new members [30:00] How Dulce embraced her bisexuality and Angel learned true communication [40:00] The business grind — running a club while raising kids and trading crypto [45:00] Upcoming events: Las Santas y los Santos theme night [50:00] Virtual walkthrough of the 18,000-square-foot club [51:00] Final thoughts and connections 🥂 Support the Hosts 💋 Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Exploring open relationships, swinging, polyamory, and the real-life stories behind them — with humor, honesty, and heart. 🌐 Website: 📻 Stream on FullSwapRadio.com: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST 📱 Follow Us: Instagram: TikTok: X / Twitter: YouTube: Discord: Join the conversation! (link on website) 🎁 Support & Merch: 📝 Leave a Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | FullSwapRadio 🗝️ SEO Tags / Keywords Primary: Tentaciones Club Los Angeles, Latino lifestyle club, Los Angeles swingers, Beyond Monogamy Podcast, Dulce and Angel interview, LA sex-positive scene, ethical non-monogamy podcast Secondary: Latino swingers, reggaeton club LA, open relationships, Latinx lifestyle culture, sex positivity, swinger event Los Angeles, lifestyle education, full swap community
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QUICKIE: Sexual Assault in the Lifestyle: Why Consent Still Matters in Swinging and Non-Monogamy Spaces”
10/08/2025
QUICKIE: Sexual Assault in the Lifestyle: Why Consent Still Matters in Swinging and Non-Monogamy Spaces”
In this powerful and necessary Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam and Pris set aside the usual flirty fun to tackle one of the most difficult but crucial conversations in the non-monogamous community — sexual assault in the lifestyle. It’s uncomfortable. It’s raw. But it’s happening more often than people want to admit. Adam and Pris share personal experiences, listener stories, and hard truths about how boundaries get crossed, why consent isn’t a one-time agreement, and how alcohol, pressure, and silence enable abuse inside supposedly “safe” spaces. From club scenes and takeovers to one-on-one dates, the duo breaks down the difference between flirting and coercion, and why “no” should never be negotiable. They discuss the unspoken struggles many face — especially women and closeted men — around finding their voice, saying no without guilt, and holding others accountable. Pris opens up about being an advocate for women in the lifestyle, creating code words and safe-word systems for friends at clubs, and the importance of protecting each other — even if that means calling out bad behavior from someone you love. Adam sheds light on the machismo stigma that stops men from reporting when they’ve been touched without consent, reminding listeners that assault doesn’t discriminate by gender. Together, they stress that being sex-positive means being consent-positive. And that the strength of this community depends on speaking up, watching out for one another, and building spaces where everyone feels safe to explore — not just sexually, but emotionally too. If you’ve ever felt unsafe, silenced, or unsure how to react when boundaries are crossed, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone. Healing starts with awareness, and awareness begins with conversations like this one. 📝 Show Notes (for Podpage, YouTube description, or Spotify “episode info”) Episode: Quickie – Sexual Assault in the Lifestyle: Why Consent Still Matters Hosts: Adam & Pris – Beyond Monogamy Podcast Runtime: ~30 minutes Tone: Raw, honest, compassionate, empowering Topics Covered: What sexual assault can look like inside the lifestyle The dangerous myth that “swingers always consent” How alcohol and intoxication blur boundaries Why men are often silent victims, too How to create safe-word systems with friends at events The psychology of freezing during unwanted touch How to safely intervene if you see someone uncomfortable Rebuilding safety and trust in your lifestyle community Why being sex-positive requires being consent-positive Key Takeaways: Consent isn’t implied — it’s active, ongoing, and revocable. Being in the lifestyle doesn’t mean being “available.” Read the room. Respect boundaries. Call out bad behavior. Clubs and hosts must create a culture of safety and accountability. Every “no” matters — and so does every voice that speaks up. Resources & Links: Visit for blogs, support resources, and past episodes Join the community on: Facebook: Instagram: X (Twitter): TikTok: and Reddit: YouTube: Listen every Thursday on at 1 PM & 6 PM CST CTA: 👉 Like, subscribe, share, and leave a review — your feedback helps keep important conversations like this alive.
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Beyond Monogamy Meets The Swing Nation: Origin Story, Clout, and Community
10/05/2025
Beyond Monogamy Meets The Swing Nation: Origin Story, Clout, and Community
Socials: Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u X/Twitter: @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam) Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris If you enjoyed this convo, like, subscribe, share, and drop a review—it’s the easiest way to help us grow the community. Thanks for listening!
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QUICKIE: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle
10/01/2025
QUICKIE: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle
In this Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about the impact of bad swinging experiences and why one flop doesn’t have to end your lifestyle journey. From erectile dysfunction struggles to mismatched vibes and awkward first encounters, they break down the most common reasons people walk away after a negative night — and how to process, communicate, and bounce back stronger. Adam shares why he believes in second chances and growth, while Pris explains why her instinct is to shut it down after one bad vibe. Together, they show how balancing those approaches can save your confidence, protect your relationship, and help you find better connections. If you’ve ever thought, “One bad swinging night means this isn’t for me,” this episode proves you can reset, learn, and still create amazing experiences in the lifestyle. 🎙️ Show Notes Episode Title: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle Episode Summary: What happens when your first (or even tenth) swinging experience doesn’t go as planned? Adam & Pris dive into how to handle those moments without letting them ruin your outlook on the lifestyle. From bad sex, awkward vibes, or ED issues, they share personal stories and practical strategies for reframing those nights into valuable lessons. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Why one bad swinger night can feel like a dealbreaker (especially for newbies) Pris’s “no second chances” rule vs. Adam’s “everyone deserves another shot” mindset The role of communication, forgiveness, and learning in navigating bad encounters Red flags that truly are dealbreakers vs. just one-off bad vibes How to reset expectations and give the lifestyle another try Why some of the best nights happen right after the worst ones Why This Episode Matters: So many couples quit the lifestyle after a negative experience. This conversation shows you how to move forward instead of letting one bad night define your entire journey. Links & Resources: 🌐 Website: 📻 Catch us on every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST 📱 Follow us on socials: & 🎧 Available everywhere you listen: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora & more.
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Non-Monogamy & The Law: Jonathan Lane on Custody, Contracts & Protecting Non-Traditional Families
09/28/2025
Non-Monogamy & The Law: Jonathan Lane on Custody, Contracts & Protecting Non-Traditional Families
Family law gets real when you’re living outside the box of traditional monogamy. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Maryland/DC attorney Jonathan Lane, a polyamorous lawyer who specializes in ethical non-monogamy, custody battles, divorce, inheritance, and family protections. Jonathan breaks down everything ENM and polyamorous families need to know about child custody risks, de facto parent status, divorce disputes, property ownership, wills, medical directives, employment discrimination, and how judges actually view non-traditional families in court. Whether you’re a swinger, poly, or exploring ENM, this is one of those conversations that could protect your kids, your partners, and your lifestyle. If you’ve ever worried about being “outed” in court, losing custody, or what happens if your throuple breaks up—this episode is packed with answers. 📝 Show Notes (SEO-Optimized) Leave us a review! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Your reviews help Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris grow, get discovered, and keep amazing guests like Jonathan coming on the show. In this week’s episode, we’re diving deep into the legal side of ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging with Jonathan Lane, a Maryland/DC attorney who is out as poly himself and dedicated to protecting non-traditional families in the courtroom. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ⚖️ Custody & Courts — How judges view ENM parents, the “best interest of the child” standard, and why outcomes often depend on your county. 👩👩👧 De Facto Parent Status — What it means, how it protects non-bio/non-adoptive parents, and the strict criteria involved. 💔 Divorce & Breakups — Why written agreements, even texts, matter when disputes over cheating or swinging arise. 🏡 Property, Inheritance & Wills — How throuples/quads can own property together, protect assets, and secure inheritance rights. 🏥 Medical Directives & Power of Attorney — Why ENM partners should set these up before emergencies. 👩⚖️ Employment Discrimination — Why “at will” jobs can be risky, and where (Cambridge, Somerville, Berkeley, Oakland) ENM is starting to see protections. 🌎 Cultural Shifts — How awareness and acceptance of non-monogamy are growing nationwide, even if the laws are still catching up. Jonathan also shares stories from real cases where polyamory and kink showed up in court, from custody battles to divorce disputes—and what lessons we can all take from them. 🔗 Links & Resources Connect with Jonathan Lane: Our socials: Instagram: TikTok: & X (Twitter): Facebook: Reddit: YouTube: Stream us every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on Visit our website:
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When They Want My Spouse but Not Me: Handling Rejection in Ethical Non-Monogamy
09/24/2025
When They Want My Spouse but Not Me: Handling Rejection in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Hey y’all — before we get into today’s QUICKIE, we need your help. If you love hanging out with us every week, please take a minute to leave us a review, hit that subscribe button, and share the show with your friends. It may not seem like much, but reviews are the lifeblood that keep Beyond Monogamy growing. It only takes a few seconds, and it helps us reach more open-minded, curious, and lifestyle-friendly listeners just like you. 💬 About This Episode In today’s QUICKIE, Adam & Pris dive into one of those ouch moments almost every couple in the lifestyle has faced: 👉 What do you do when someone makes it crystal clear they’re into your spouse… but not into you? This episode is raw, funny, and a little sting-filled as we unpack: Real stories from our own encounters when attraction wasn’t mutual. How being “the partner left out” can stir up jealousy, frustration, or even self-doubt. Why delivery matters — the difference between respectful honesty and underhanded sneaking. The role communication plays in softening the sting (and why sugarcoating sometimes happens). How to handle being iced out, ignored, or overlooked without letting it kill your confidence. Tips for reframing rejection so it doesn’t ruin your night — or your relationship. We don’t just talk theory; we get vulnerable about the awkward moments that made us sour, laugh, and learn. And like always, we keep it playful while shining a light on the deeper emotional side of ethical non-monogamy. 🎧 Why Listen? If you’ve ever thought “Wait, why don’t they want me too?” or if you’ve had to sit with the sting of rejection in the lifestyle, this episode is for you. We share practical ways to deal with it, plus a few laughs that prove you’re not alone. 🔗 Connect With Us Thanks for listening and supporting Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris! 📲 Follow & Connect: Facebook: Instagram: X (Twitter): TikTok: & Reddit: YouTube: Website: 📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST — streaming alongside some of the best voices in the lifestyle community.
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Faith, Desire & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi
09/21/2025
Faith, Desire & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi
💥 Review Giveaway Alert! 💥 We’re celebrating YOU with a sexy Review Giveaway, sponsored by our friends at Forbidden Fruit – Austin. Here’s how to enter: Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify. Screenshot it. Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at . 📅 Ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025 at 11:59 PM CST 📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025 during our QUICKIE episode + on socials. Your reviews help new listeners find us — and each entry is a chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit. This week on Beyond Monogamy, we’re joined by the brilliant Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi (aka Rabbi Nikki) — queer, poly, sex-positive rabbi, writer, and educator. Together, we explore how faith, spirituality, and ethical non-monogamy intersect, and how breaking the silence on desire in religious spaces can transform lives. 🔥 Topics include: Coming out as polyamorous in religious and professional spaces. What sacred texts really say (or don’t say) about non-monogamy. Queerness, feminism, and sex positivity in modern Jewish life. Why honesty, consent, and ethics matter more than outdated dogma. Real-life ENM experiences — from dating apps to married life. Rabbi Nikki brings wisdom, humor, and lived experience to the mic, making this a must-listen for anyone exploring the deeper spiritual side of ethical non-monogamy. 🌐 Guest Links ✨ Learn more about Rabbi Nikki: 📻 Catch Us Weekly 🎧 Listen on Apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube. 📻 Tune in every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on Full Swap Radio. 📲 Follow & Connect Website: Instagram: TikTok: + X (Twitter): Facebook: Reddit: YouTube: 🙌 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, share, and review — your interaction helps us grow, keeps us visible, and fuels future conversations.
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QUICKIE: Would You Rather? Ethical Non-Monogamy Edition
09/17/2025
QUICKIE: Would You Rather? Ethical Non-Monogamy Edition
💥 Review Giveaway Alert! 💥 We’re giving back to our community with a sexy review giveaway, sponsored by our friends at Forbidden Fruit – Austin. Here’s how to enter: Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify. Screenshot it. Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at . 📅 Giveaway ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025, at 11:59 PM CST 📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025, during our QUICKIE episode + across all socials. Your reviews help new listeners find our show — and every entry boosts your chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit. Don’t wait, get your review in today! 🎙 Episode: Would You Rather? ENM Quickie Edition In this spicy Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam and Pris play an unfiltered game of “Would You Rather?” with an ethical non-monogamy twist. From sexy lifestyle scenarios to hilarious couple debates, nothing’s off the table. 🔥 Topics we cover: House Party vs Lifestyle Club — where would you rather play? Flirt all night vs play fast — which gets your motor running? Pool party fun vs themed costume parties — which vibe wins? Threesome vs Full Swap — which brings more intimacy and connection? Watch or be watched? — the ultimate ENM performance question. Same-room vs separate-room play — where do couples feel most comfortable? Plus: conversations about time in play sessions, neighbor fantasies, sexy yacht vs mansion parties, and even a wild round of glory holes vs blindfolds. This episode blends humor, personal stories, and real insights into how couples navigate swinging, poly, and ethical non-monogamy in all their messy, fun, and sexy forms. 🌐 Where to Listen & Connect 🎧 Listen everywhere: Apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube: . 📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST. 📲 Follow & Connect: Website: Instagram: TikTok: + X (Twitter): Facebook: Reddit: 💬 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, share, and review — your interaction helps us grow, keeps us visible, and fuels future conversations.
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Savage Swingers Unleashed: TikTok Fame, Lifestyle Myths & Honest Conversations
09/14/2025
Savage Swingers Unleashed: TikTok Fame, Lifestyle Myths & Honest Conversations
👉 Show us some love! Leave a review & help Beyond Monogamy grow: 👉 Join our communities & connect with us off the mic: 👉 Get spicy perks: Sign up for with promo code 38236 🎧 Episode Summary What happens when TikTok meets the swinger lifestyle? In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Amber & Jeff—better known as the Savage Swingers. With their bold, funny, and unfiltered approach, Savage Swingers have built a huge following by showing the lifestyle as it really is: messy, sexy, and authentic. We dive into their story—from a wild tent camping first experience at a music festival, to becoming lifestyle content creators with thousands of followers. Along the way, we laugh about resting bitch face problems, talk through misconceptions about swingers, and explore how communication and education are the real keys to keeping relationships strong. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to live your truth publicly in the ethical non-monogamy world—or you just need some savage laughs with your lifestyle inspo—this episode brings it all. 💡 What You’ll Hear in This Episode How Savage Swingers went from nervous TikTok posts to lifestyle influencers Their not-so-glamorous first experience (tent camping, no A/C, and yep… still fun) The biggest swinger lifestyle myths they want to bust Why communication + education are everything for newbies How they handle jealousy, insecurities, and staying authentic What it’s really like to be recognized at lifestyle events The importance of showing not just the sexy highlights, but the real struggles too 🔑 Keywords & Topics Savage Swingers interview TikTok swingers swinger lifestyle myths ethical non-monogamy podcast open relationship communication ENM content creators jealousy and reassurance in swinging Beyond Monogamy podcast guests 🔗 Savage Swingers Links TikTok: SavageSwingers 1.0, 2.0, 3.0 YouTube: Savage Swingers Patreon: The Savage Swingers Website: 🔗 Beyond Monogamy Links Find more episodes, blogs, and community spaces at: Follow us everywhere: Facebook: Instagram: TikTok: & X (Twitter): YouTube: Streaming Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.
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QUICKIE: Lifestyle 101 Series - Having The "Lifestyle" Talk With Your Partner
09/10/2025
QUICKIE: Lifestyle 101 Series - Having The "Lifestyle" Talk With Your Partner
Review, Connect & Join Our Community 👉 👉 👉 👉 👉 👉 (Promo code: 38236) Episode Summary – QUICKIE: Having The Talk Starting the journey into ethical non-monogamy isn’t about parties or dating apps—it begins with a single conversation: how do you even bring this up with your partner? In this Lifestyle 101 Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get raw, funny, and brutally honest about what that first talk looked like for them (spoiler: it wasn’t perfect) and what they’ve learned along the way. They share: Timing matters – don’t drop the “lifestyle bomb” in the middle of a fight or after a few too many drinks. The preamble is everything – set the stage gently, ask if your partner is in a good headspace, and be ready for big feelings. Insecurities are normal – both men and women may wonder, “Am I not enough?” and that’s okay. Reassurance isn’t optional – words of affirmation, consistent support, and clear communication keep your foundation solid. Rules and boundaries – from safe words to texting check-ins, clear agreements protect both your relationship and your fun. Consent is sexy – not just with play partners, but between you and your spouse, every step of the way. Adam & Pris keep it 100% real about jealousy, insecurities, ultimatums, and the mistakes they made as newbies—and they drop practical advice for how couples can avoid the crash-and-burn moments while setting themselves up for success. At the end of the day, “having the talk” isn’t a one-time thing. It’s a conversation that will keep evolving with your relationship, and the key is staying honest, open, and connected. Show Notes Episode Title: QUICKIE – Having The Talk: Lifestyle 101 with Adam & Pris Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris In this episode you’ll learn: Why timing and setting are critical when you bring up non-monogamy. How to use a preamble to ease your partner into sensitive conversations. The role of reassurance and emotional safety in keeping your relationship strong. Why rules, boundaries, and safe words matter for beginners. How alcohol and ultimatums can derail healthy conversations. The truth about consent—between partners and with others. Links & Community: (Promo code: 38236) Also streaming on: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, YouTube, and every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.
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Beyond Fantasy: Francesca Gentille on Kink, Jealousy & Keeping Passion Alive
09/07/2025
Beyond Fantasy: Francesca Gentille on Kink, Jealousy & Keeping Passion Alive
In this powerful and deeply intimate conversation, Adam & Pris sit down with Francesca Gentille — internationally recognized teacher, coach, and author — to explore the intersections of trauma healing, sacred kink, non-monogamy, and empowered aging. Francesca opens up about her own journey: from childhood as a natural counselor, to studying psychology, tantra, BDSM, and shamanic practices that connect fantasy with healing. She breaks down the roots of modern kink, leather culture, and polyamory, while challenging myths that label kink as “just trauma” or non-monogamy as “abnormal.” Together, we dive into: How fantasies are shaped by trauma, culture, and healing opportunities. Sacred Kink practices that transform play into intention, empowerment, and soul connection. Addiction vs. vibrancy — how to tell when desire is a compulsion and when it’s authentic. Erotic hypnosis, empowerment scenes, and fantasy integration for deeper intimacy. Menopause & vitality: how to break the cultural curse of aging, embrace bioidentical hormone replacement, and keep passion alive in long-term relationships. Jealousy reframed: why Francesca says “don’t call it jealousy” and how to uncover the deeper roots of those feelings. This is one of those episodes that’s hot, spiritual, and full of practical wisdom. Whether you’re kinky, poly, swinging, or just curious, Francesca brings tools and insights that can change the way you approach intimacy. Show Notes 🔥 Guest Links & Resources 🎙️ What You’ll Learn in This Episode The shamanic roots of BDSM and why kink can be sacred. How trauma and fantasy connect — and how to heal without losing your desires. Why menopause doesn’t mean the end of sex (and how to advocate for hormone health). Practical ways couples can juggle family, non-monogamy, and still keep intimacy alive. How reframing “jealousy” can unlock deeper self-understanding and stronger connections. 💬 Join the Conversation If Francesca’s story and wisdom resonate with you, share this episode with a friend or partner, and let’s keep breaking stigmas together. 📲 Connect with Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Website: YouTube: TikTok: | Instagram: Facebook: Reddit: Stream Thursdays on at 1 PM & 6 PM CST 👉 Don’t forget to like, review, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen. Your support helps us bring on amazing guests like Francesca!
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Quickie Confessions: Our First Time, Fumbles, and Lessons Learned
09/03/2025
Quickie Confessions: Our First Time, Fumbles, and Lessons Learned
✨ Beyond Monogamy — Episode Summary & Show Notes 👉 Show us some love! Review us on Spotify: Review us on Apple Podcasts: 💬 Join our Discord community: 🎙️ Episode Summary In this week’s episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive deep into the world of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, and everything in between. We talk real stories, messy moments, and the kind of raw honesty you won’t find anywhere else. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s actually like to navigate relationships beyond traditional monogamy, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a few surprises. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger, exploring polyamory, or just curious about ENM (ethical non-monogamy), we break down the lifestyle in a way that’s both relatable and real. 📌 Show Notes Topics covered: consent, communication, jealousy, swinging etiquette, and the unglamorous truths of the lifestyle. Why listen? This isn’t a “highlight reel”—it’s the authentic ups, downs, and everything in between that make non-monogamy real. SEO keywords woven in: swinging podcast, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory relationships, ENM community, lifestyle couples, consensual non-monogamy stories. 🌐 Connect With Us Website: Facebook: Instagram: X / Twitter: TikTok: & Reddit: YouTube: Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST ⚡ Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share—your reviews and community support help us grow and keep creating raw, unfiltered conversations about love, sex, and everything beyond monogamy.
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Hook, Line, and Lie: When Catfish Swim into the Lifestyle
08/31/2025
Hook, Line, and Lie: When Catfish Swim into the Lifestyle
👉 First things first—review us now and help our community grow! Click here: Your reviews aren’t just kind words—they’re fuel. They help us climb the podcast charts, bring in more incredible guests, and keep the conversation about ethical non-monogamy real, raw, and unfiltered. So hit that link, drop a few stars (we love the shiny 5’s ✨), and let us know how we’re doing. 💻 Episode Summary This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we’re diving into a topic that every swinger, poly couple, and ethically non-monogamous adventurer should have on their radar: catfishing in the lifestyle. No, not fishing in swamps or noodling in muddy rivers—we’re talking about people pretending to be someone they’re not online, sliding into lifestyle spaces with fake photos, shady profiles, and sometimes even predatory intentions. From AOL chatrooms and puppy-love disasters to today’s TikTok scammers asking Adam for $45 nail money (yes, that happened), we unpack decades of personal stories, listener anecdotes, and lifestyle lessons. We break down: 🎭 The Types of Catfish: – Filter fiends & “20-year-old” photos – Fake couples (ahem… actually just one lonely guy) – Profiles with pro-model shots only – “I swear my partner knows!”… when they don’t – The scammers fishing for your nudes (and why we don’t trade pics unless you’re real) 🚩 Red Flags to Watch For: – No face pics – Always “too busy” to meet or video chat – Overeager for nudes or instant hookups – Stories that just don’t add up 💔 The Fallout: – Emotional letdowns & wasted time – Safety concerns, especially for women – Erosion of trust in lifestyle communities – Why a single lie makes people wonder, “What else are they hiding?” 🛡️ Protect Yourself: – Video verify (FaceTime, Messenger, Zoom—anything live) – Meet first at lifestyle clubs or trusted meet & greets – Cross-reference profiles on sites like SDC, SLS, Kasidie – Build a trusted network who can vouch for people – And above all—trust your gut. If it feels off, it probably is. Through all the laughs and real talk, Adam and Pris remind us that the lifestyle is built on trust, consent, and honesty. Without that, the sexy adventures we love lose their magic. 🔥 Key Takeaway Catfishing isn’t just annoying—it can be unsafe. Protect yourself, protect your community, and keep the fun alive by staying vigilant and unapologetically real. 📣 Join the Conversation We want YOUR stories! Have you ever been catfished in the lifestyle? Drop us a voicemail, send a message, or hit us up on our socials. We might even feature your story in a future QUICKIE episode. 📺 Where to Listen & Watch Catch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris everywhere podcasts stream: Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music Pandora iHeartRadio YouTube → And don’t forget—you can also find us on FullSwapRadio.com, streaming every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST. 🌐 Connect With Us Website: Facebook: Instagram: X (Twitter): TikTok: & Reddit: 🙌 Help Us Grow If you enjoyed this episode: ⭐ Leave us a review → 👍 Like, share, and subscribe on YouTube 🔄 Share the podcast with your lifestyle friends and communities Remember—you are part of our community, and our community is our family. 💜
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QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?
08/27/2025
QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?
In this spicy QUICKIE, Adam and Pris dive into one of the stickiest topics in sex and the lifestyle: cum. From facials to cream pies, swallowing to spitting, they explore what men and women really feel about it — the turn-ons, the turn-offs, and the unspoken rules around consent. They share their own stories, laugh at awkward encounters, and break down why porn sets up unrealistic expectations. They also touch on lifestyle etiquette, the psychology of cum play, and how diet and habits affect taste. As always, it’s raw, unfiltered, and hilariously real. ✍️ Show Notes (SEO-Heavy) Title: QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off? Description: In this week’s QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get messy (literally) with a raw and funny conversation about cum. Why do some love it while others hate it? Is swallowing a turn-on or a dealbreaker? What role does diet play in taste? And how does cum play fit into the swinger lifestyle with all its rules, boundaries, and safety concerns? From embarrassing stories and personal kinks to the psychology of facials and cream pies, this episode is all about opening up the conversation — sticky jokes included. You’ll Hear About: Why porn creates unrealistic cum expectations Swallowing vs. spitting (and why consent always matters) The psychology behind facials and cream pies Cum rules in the swinger lifestyle How diet, hydration, and habits affect taste Turn-ons, turn-offs, and awkward cum moments Links & Info: 👉 Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube 👉 Streaming every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on Full Swap Radio 👉 Follow us on socials for giveaways coming in September: Facebook: Instagram: TikTok: & Reddit: YouTube: Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and review — it helps us grow!
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Love, Lust, and Lifestyle: Paul Keable Joins Beyond Monogamy
08/24/2025
Love, Lust, and Lifestyle: Paul Keable Joins Beyond Monogamy
In this week’s episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, the world’s #1 married dating app with over 85 million members worldwide. Far from being just a platform for secret liaisons, Ashley Madison has become a fascinating case study in how technology, desire, and changing social norms are reshaping conversations around non-monogamy, intimacy, and discretion. Paul shares insider insights on why people seek out alternative relationship styles, what their massive trove of real-world data reveals about the future of monogamy, and how 20% of members now identify as “disclosed non-monogamous”—meaning their partners are aware of, or even participate in, their activity on the site. We dive into cultural shifts, surprising academic studies (like research showing 80% of women on the platform are in sexless or orgasm-less marriages, while men often join seeking emotional validation), and the myths that mainstream society gets wrong about ethical non-monogamy. And yes, we also got some juicy behind-the-scenes details—like why France is Ashley Madison’s weakest market (because infidelity is already culturally normalized!) and the story of Bobby Goldman, aka The Curvy Widow, who turned her Ashley Madison adventures into an off-Broadway play. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, actively practicing ethical non-monogamy, or just fascinated by the psychology of relationships, this episode peels back the stereotypes and gives you an inside look at how monogamy and non-monogamy are evolving in 2025 and beyond. 📌 Show Notes & Key Takeaways Guest: Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer, Ashley Madison Ashley Madison Facts: 🌎 85+ million members worldwide 📊 Roughly 1.13 active women for every 1 active paid man account (yes, women are there!) 🔐 Features include private photo lockers, stealth mode, and discretion tools to protect user privacy 💡 Fun fact: Ashley Madison has even been parodied on The Simpsons, proving its cultural impact Hot Topics Discussed: Why monogamy shouldn’t always be the default How women often lead the transition into non-monogamy The “One Penis Policy” red flag in lifestyle dynamics Why toys aren’t competition—they’re allies How better communication = stronger relationships, monogamous or not Memorable Quote: “When monogamy becomes monotony.” – Paul Keable 🔗 Connect With Us 👉 Website: 👉 YouTube: 👉 Instagram: 👉 TikTok: & 👉 X (Twitter): 👉 Facebook: 👉 Reddit: 👉 Full Swap Radio: Catch us every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on 💬 Call to Action If you loved this episode, please take a moment to like, subscribe, share, and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you listen. Reviews help us grow and reach more open-minded people like you—and if your review makes us laugh or smile, we might just read it on a future show!
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QUICKIE: Lifestyle Stereotypes — Truth or Total BS?
08/20/2025
QUICKIE: Lifestyle Stereotypes — Truth or Total BS?
In this week’s Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down the most popular swinger stereotypes — testing each one to see if it’s truth… or total BS. From pineapples and hot tubs to midlife crises and “porno-sized Johnsons,” nothing was off-limits in this hilarious 30-minute myth-busting ride. 🕒 Episode Timeline Highlights [00:02] – The “All Swingers Are Hot” Myth Adam & Pris admit they once thought swingers were all gym-bodied models. Reality check? Swingers come in all shapes, sizes, and vibes. Ads and social media only show the “highlight reel.” Real life = regular people who just happen to be into consensual non-monogamy. [00:05] – Swinging = Cheating? Nope! Swinging is built on consent and honesty, not sneaking around. Pris shares how people back home used to tell her to “just cheat” instead of being openly poly. Spoiler: that’s not how ethical non-monogamy works. [00:07] – Orgies Everywhere? The stereotype says swinger parties are non-stop sex. Reality? Many parties are more drinks than dicks. Some are social, some are DTF, but not every event turns into a late-night orgy fest. [00:09] – Jealousy Doesn’t Exist? Pris calls herself “territorial, not jealous,” while Adam confesses he gets a little turned on when other people want Pris. Bottom line: jealousy happens — it’s human nature. Communication keeps it from blowing up. [00:11] – Only People in Their 20s Do It Big myth. Most community members are in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. Twentysomethings may play on apps or college parties, but real community and connection usually grow later. [00:14] – Midlife Crisis Stereotype Swinging isn’t just about “key parties for suburban boomers.” Sure, some discover it later in life, but Adam & Pris argue it’s more about freedom, empty-nest energy, and exploring fantasies — not a “crisis.” [00:17] – The Pineapple Obsession Ah yes, the iconic upside-down pineapple. It is everywhere, but not everyone rocking one is in the lifestyle. Some folks are just really into tropical fruit or… hospitality tattoos. [00:20] – Always DTF, All the Time? Nope. Swingers aren’t horny robots. Most prefer conversation, connection, and consent over “let’s bang strangers immediately.” [00:22] – No Boundaries? Swingers may actually have more boundaries than the “vanilla” world. From soft swap rules to consent culture, boundaries are what make it work. [00:23] – It’s Just White, Middle-Class Couples False. Adam & Pris (both Hispanic) point out how diverse lifestyle communities really are. [00:25] – Everyone Is Bi Not true. Some are, some aren’t. And no, two men and a woman in a threesome doesn’t automatically mean the guys are gay. Inside the lifestyle, the “all women are bi” stereotype is also exaggerated. [00:27] – Swingers Only Club & Party Sure, some love it, but many are just as happy brunching, binging Netflix, or chilling with lifestyle friends. Not every weekend ends with strobe lights and a playroom. [00:28-30] – Funny Extras & Inside Jokes All swingers own hot tubs (if only). Black silicone wedding bands = swinger “flag” (or maybe just gym wear). All men are porn-star sized (false). Eye contact = “I want you” (false, sometimes you’re just listening). “Practice makes perfect” → Maybe swingers are better lovers? Adam & Pris lean toward yes. 😂 Examples of Stereotypes From Outside the Lifestyle: Swinging = cheating. Everyone’s bisexual. Swingers are all white, rich, and midlife crisis couples. Every party = giant orgy. From Inside the Lifestyle: The “real unicorn” is a straight woman. Black wedding rings, pineapple tattoos, or hot tubs = guaranteed swinger. All lifestyle men have mustaches (really?). “Practice makes perfect” — swingers are assumed to be expert lovers. 🔑 Takeaway Most stereotypes are laughable at best and damaging at worst. The lifestyle is as diverse and unique as the people in it. It’s not about fitting a pineapple-shaped mold — it’s about honesty, fun, and writing your own story. 📢 Get Connected Catch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris every Thursday at 1 PM and 6 PM CST on . 👉 Website: 👉 Facebook: 👉 Instagram: 👉 TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam) 👉 X (Twitter): @beyomono 👉 Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy 👉 YouTube: 💬 Like, share, subscribe, and drop us a review anywhere you listen — or leave us a voice message straight from our website. Your support helps us keep busting myths (and maybe a few bedsprings along the way).
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When the Big "O" Doesn’t Happen: How It Feels on Both Sides
08/17/2025
When the Big "O" Doesn’t Happen: How It Feels on Both Sides
What happens when the orgasm just… doesn’t show up? In this week’s episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive deep into the world of orgasms (and the lack thereof). From the awkwardness of faking it, to the insecurities people face when their partner can’t “finish,” to the myths surrounding male and female orgasms — nothing is off limits. Adam and Pris get personal, funny, and brutally honest about their own experiences in the swinging lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. They share stories of performance anxiety, distractions, delayed ejaculation, women who take a long time (or never) to orgasm, and the mental tricks that can get in the way of the Big O. Plus, they bust through common myths like: “Men always finish.” “If he doesn’t orgasm, he’s not attracted to me.” “Women orgasm easily during penetration.” “Toys mean I’m not enough.” “If it didn’t end in orgasm, it was bad sex.” This episode isn’t just about sex mechanics — it’s about shifting perspective, communication, and celebrating pleasure in all its forms (with or without the finish line). Episode Highlights with Timestamps [00:02:00] Adam shares a recent play experience where a partner admitted she rarely orgasms — and why communication made the moment better. [00:04:00] Pris reveals how few partners have been able to make her orgasm, and the shift she made in openly sharing what works for her. [00:07:00] The story of a “gold star lesbian” partner and Pris faking it… until she didn’t. [00:09:30] Adam admits how distractions, stress, and even clocks in the room have blocked his ability to finish. [00:12:00] The impact of alcohol, drugs, and overstimulation on men’s ability to orgasm. [00:16:00] Myth-busting: “Men always finish” and the pressure behind it. [00:18:00] Myth-busting: “If he doesn’t finish, he’s not attracted to me.” [00:23:00] Adam’s story about lasting for hours at 19 and how cultural myths about “lasting forever” shaped his views. [00:26:00] Myth-busting: “If she doesn’t orgasm, I failed as a lover.” [00:28:00] Discussion on toys: helpers, not competitors. [00:34:00] Squirting ≠ orgasm — important distinctions. [00:38:00] Adam on the insecurity of thinking women only wanted Pris, not him. [00:45:00] Locker room talk, cultural machismo, and how bragging about “orgasms achieved” feeds insecurity. [00:50:00] The psychology of orgasm, fantasies, and why some men come quicker with new partners. [00:53:00] How shifting perception from “must orgasm” to “enjoy the ride” changes everything. [00:57:00] Call to listeners: Share your “when the Big O didn’t happen” stories for a future QUICKIE episode. Show Notes Welcome to another wild and real conversation on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris. In this episode, When the Big O Doesn’t Happen, we tackle one of the most common, yet rarely talked about, experiences in sex: what happens when someone can’t finish. 👉 We discuss performance anxiety, pressure, myths, insecurities, swinging lifestyle dynamics, and how to shift focus toward connection and pleasure instead of just chasing orgasms. 👉 Whether you’re exploring the swinger lifestyle, polyamory, or ethical non-monogamy, this episode offers laughs, relatability, and some practical reassurance that you’re not alone when the Big O doesn’t make an appearance. Where to Listen & Connect ✨ Website: ✨ Full Swap Radio: Catch us streaming every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM CST on ✨ YouTube: — don’t forget to subscribe (help Adam get his plaque 👀) ✨ Facebook: ✨ Instagram: ✨ X (Twitter): ✨ TikTok: (Pris) | (Adam) ✨ Reddit: Support the Show 💬 We want your stories! Have you ever been in a situation where the Big O didn’t happen? Send us your story at or leave us a voicemail. We may feature you in a future QUICKIE episode! 👍 Like, 💌 Share, ✅ Subscribe, and ⭐️ Leave us a review on your favorite platform or directly on our website. Reviews help more people discover the show and keep the conversations flowing.
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QUICKIE: Too Much Sex? Or Not Enough?
08/13/2025
QUICKIE: Too Much Sex? Or Not Enough?
In this steamy QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite lifestyle couple takes a cheeky, unfiltered dive into the question: How much sex is too much… and how little is too little? Adam and Pris pull back the sheets (literally) to share their own hyper-sexual reality — averaging multiple sessions a day — and compare it to national averages showing most couples only get intimate once or twice a week. This fun, candid conversation covers mismatched libidos, how to keep sex exciting after years together, the realities of high sex drive relationships, and how lifestyle couples often break the mold. They discuss “wrong” times for sex, how menopause can shift desire, and even the role of toys, lube, and experimentation in keeping the spark alive. Adam and Pris also touch on the emotional side — insecurities, communication, and what to do when one partner just isn’t in the mood. Whether you’re having daily “bang-a-thons,” enjoying slow-burn intimacy, or wondering how to spice things up, this episode blends humor, honesty, and practical advice for couples in and out of the lifestyle. It’s equal parts sexy banter, relationship insight, and playful oversharing — just the way Beyond Monogamy listeners love it. Show Notes: Topics Covered: Adam & Pris’s personal sex frequency (spoiler: it’s a lot) vs. national averages Why lifestyle couples may naturally have more sex than vanilla couples “Wrong” times for sex (and why Adam thinks they don’t exist) How high libidos can be both a blessing and a scheduling challenge The effect of menopause, stress, and life changes on sexual desire Strategies for keeping sex fresh after years together — toys, positions, new experiences Navigating mismatched sex drives and maintaining intimacy The emotional side: insecurity, compersion, and lifestyle dynamics Pills, patches, and creams — medications that can help with libido issues Fun personal stories, including why ribs and milkshakes once led to truck hookups Listen on Our Website: Catch Us on Full Swap Radio: Streaming every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM EST alongside other amazing lifestyle podcasts — Follow & Connect with Us: Facebook: Instagram: X / Twitter: TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) | @adam&beyond (Adam) Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy YouTube: Support the Show: If you love what we do, help us grow! Like, share, subscribe, and leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform. We read every single one (usually while naked), and your feedback helps us reach more sexy, open-minded listeners like you.
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Examining The Lull: When the Lifestyle Goes from Hot to...Not
08/10/2025
Examining The Lull: When the Lifestyle Goes from Hot to...Not
In this candid and unfiltered episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite tattooed duo takes on a topic every swinger, poly, and ethically non-monogamous couple hits sooner or later—the dreaded Lifestyle Lull. From burnout after back-to-back events, to the toll of repetitive routines, Adam & Pris share their own “meh” moments, why they happen, and the real-life ways they’ve reignited their spark without breaking boundaries. You’ll hear the behind-the-scenes truth about juggling a packed LS schedule, family life, work, and the mental/emotional load that comes with always being “on” socially and sexually. They get into: Signs you’re in a lifestyle rut (and why it’s totally normal) How social burnout and “swinger hangovers” sneak up on you Financial, family, and time realities no one talks about The mental load of playing with new partners vs. your long-term partner Fresh ways to recharge: new events, exploring kinks, changing your social circle Why reconnecting with your partner might be the ultimate fix Whether you’re brand-new to the Lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, this episode will have you nodding, laughing, and maybe rethinking your weekend plans. Show Notes Feeling like your swinger lifestyle has gone from hot to not? You’re not alone. In this week’s Beyond Monogamy Podcast, Adam & Pris talk openly about hitting a lifestyle lull—what causes it, how it affects both your sex life and social life, and the exact things they’ve done to bounce back. From avoiding “repetitive event syndrome” to experimenting with new kinks, to finding the right people who recharge your energy, this episode is a must-listen for anyone in ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, or the swinging scene. 🎧 Listen on Spotify → (and leave us a review!) 📺 Watch the video version → 🌐 Visit our website → for: Guest interest form Blog posts for each episode All our socials in one place Leave us a voicemail! 📣 Follow us on social media: TikTok: Instagram: Facebook: Reddit: 📻 Now streaming on Full Swap Radio – your go-to station for the hottest adult lifestyle podcasts. 💬 We want to hear from you! What’s your #1 tip for busting out of a Lifestyle rut? Drop it in the comments, DM us, or join the convo on our subreddit. ✅ Don’t forget to LIKE, SHARE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE wherever you listen—your support keeps this community thriving!
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