Pro You Podcast
What began as a fitness podcast slowly became host Tom J Deters' verbal journal. Through sharing his journey and all the aspects of his life that he's "gone through", get real world examples in each episode of how to shift your perspective to reflect, grow, improve and work on yourself to create the "best version of you".
Hosted by Tom J Deters and Produced by Niko Ketsilis.
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#493 BUDDHA
04/24/2025
#493 BUDDHA
Hello and happy Thursday! First and foremost, Tom did not get a new dog. But he has an amazing story about a dog he met named Buddha. That, combined with a book he received for his birthday, are having a real impact on Tom's Pro You journey. The main reason for this episode was due to an email story Tom received from one half of the dynamic duo that is The Canadian Assassins! And to bring it all around full circle, Tom discusses the Anterior Mid-Cingulate Cortex - yes, you got that right! Tom recently replied to "how are you doing" with two answers: 1- Tom showed them the book he's currently reading and 2- I'm the best I've ever been and I'm 60! Just a fun filled episode of PYP! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#492 Calm At 60
04/03/2025
#492 Calm At 60
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom openly admitted the last two episodes of PYP were a bit uncomfortable to record. There was darkness in Tom's world as well as the real world and although Tom found the light - it was not all 'feel good'. March was when the darkness lifted and clarity landed upon Tom's path. With that, his health and Zen's health were doing great and gratitude was alive and well along Tom's path. Finding the light consistently also allows one to be a light for others; which to Tom, there is no greater purpose. Tom is incredibly grateful and Tom is 'Calm' at 60. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#491 PYP IS TEN!
03/13/2025
#491 PYP IS TEN!
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom is very thankful to be 'here now' with PYP and it's Ten Year Anniversary! One fact truly sets the tone for this episode; Tom recorded it and then accidentally erased it. Now that comes with the knowledge that Tom has been 'in it' for awhile; searching for the light within the storm. So it took Tom a week to re-record this episode. "What's behind this mountain you're climbing? More mountains!" is a quote Tom loves and returns to it for this episode. Tom clearly remembers growing up wondering at what age - when in life - does this discomfort fade and the fear goes away - forever..? Now Tom knows it never happens. How one deals with, manages, and exists with that knowledge will determine how successful their Pro You path will be. A big shout out THANK YOU to Sir Hardwick for this opportunity ten years ago and to Niko, the best producer ever! And THANK YOU, THANK YOU and THANK YOU to ALL the listeners of PYP! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#490 The Light Within the Storm
02/13/2025
#490 The Light Within the Storm
Hello and happy Thursday! There's a lot of bad in the world. There has always been bad in the world. So how do we navigate our lives, our Pro You paths, in lieu of the bad? Tom has mentioned the donut and the hole before - "You cannot get a donut without a hole" - no one gets a life without suffering. So there's the "Storm" and the "Light": that which is created by your effort. What Is in your control is what serves you, and what will help you evolve and become the best version of yourself; therefore allowing the best potential to stay more mindful of the donut and not the hole. The light within the storm. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#489 Serenity
01/23/2025
#489 Serenity
Hello and happy Thursday! A lot has been going on for Tom in 2025. A lot has been going on in California in 2025. A secret to no one what devastation has occurred throughout Los Angeles. So many people losing everything, so incredibly sad. Can you believe Tom has a very Pro You story describing his personal experience with the fires? Well, he does. And this was solid proof that what Tom had described in the last episode about experiencing a huge shift "In Omnia Paratus" but how would he handle his next test? Well he passed with flying colors. But, there was no excitement or much want to share a podcast episode solely about LA burning. On Wednesday January 8 Tom made the decision to pack his vehicle just in case. Which he had never experienced in all his years in California. On Friday January 17 a tiny kitten chose Tom as her owner. Tom was not looking for anything to add to his life. Not looking for a second pet and definitely not ever going to get a cat. What transpired with this kitten and Tom is why this episode came out; something wonderfully positive to balance what Tom shares on this episode. The Donut and the Hole. The Yin and the Yang. What one can control and what one cannot. Deeming yourself worthy and experiencing a new and better you. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#488 IN OMNIA PARATUS
01/02/2025
#488 IN OMNIA PARATUS
Hello, happy Thursday and Happy New year. In lieu of when this episode came out, it is the official last episode of 2024. And yes, PYP has gone Latin! One of the takeaways from this past year was 'it's not how it begins, it's how it ends'. It seems like every year has its challenges and like most, Tom has his. But Tom was aware that he was doing better in moments than he had in the past; he felt real growth in some challenging areas. December rolled in and there was a very tangible shift for Tom. Similar to that of 2020. Tom explains what 'In Omnia Paratus' means and what it meant to him. Tom also reflects on the moments that moved him the most in 2024. Tom once again is so very thankful for the podcast, for Niko and especially for the listeners. PYP is getting close to being 10 years old and Ep. #500 is around the corner. That means a lot to Tom. PYP means a lot to Tom. Thank you, thank you and thank you. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#487 Becoming the Best You!
12/05/2024
#487 Becoming the Best You!
Hello and happy Thursday! The second half of this episode's title: "Is not about you being comfortable". It is truly the Hero's Journey. One leaves what is familiar and faces the unknown, uncertain and unfamiliar. While on this path one will find consistent discomfort. That is why one grows along this path. It is a path of personal growth. Tom had quite a few sticky notes but not a consistent theme. Then Tom got a new client and the personal trainer version that he is now came out. Tom had the experience, the clarity and the awareness to truly prepare this new client for what was ahead. One of Tom's favorite words is Pyung Ahn which means Peaceful Confidence. It is a truly wonderful thing to know that feeling along your path. This doesn't take away the bad, the tests, the life challenges but it changes your relationship with those things that are not in your control. Again, that is a better feeling - a better experience - even though one is going through a challenging time. Tom wanted to mention how much he truly appreciates his listeners. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#486 A TEST
10/17/2024
#486 A TEST
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom has consistently taken notes; plans out and organizes the info before he records a podcast. The title "A Test" is about the physical and mental test Tom has experienced the past two months. His next choice also became a bit of a test. He awoke on Sunday morning and decided to record a podcast sharing the story but he hadn't taken any notes - no sticky notes. In the past, Tom used to just grab the mic and begin recording. So it became a 'test within a test' recording this episode. Then, right before he began recording, he experienced computer issues. Now, a test within a test, within a test - how poetic! Good news Tom made it through all the tests and by the time he had finished recording, there was a definite end to the story/test that Tom was experiencing. All's well that ends well! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#485 I'd Rather Be Calm.
09/26/2024
#485 I'd Rather Be Calm.
Hello and happy Thursday! The title is from a dear friend that Tom chats with frequently. They kept passing it back and forth and pretty soon Tom had shared it with clients. It was truly resonating. So Tom asked for his friend's permission to use it as the title and permission was granted! When someone is on a Pro You path of personal growth, they are on the lookout for tools, steps, doorways, new grooves, anything and everything they can find that assists in their journey of self discovery. But as they continue to grow, they will continue to discover new things that resonate in new ways. So one may end up using a variety of tools, yet they are all similar. Find what works and do that! The notes Tom had collected didn't seem to have a consistent theme at first glance. But once Tom began, it all seemed to come together. Tom felt 'Calm' after he finished recording (Wink-wink!) Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#484 A Canadian Experience Part VI
09/05/2024
#484 A Canadian Experience Part VI
Hello and happy Thursday! Well, it has been a month since we've last heard from the Canadian Assassin's Niko and Kosta, so Tom thought what a great excuse to check in with the dynamic duo and see how they are doing after just over a month of finishing their four week intensive challenge. Well, when Tom received an email from Niko just two hours before their meeting for Part Six stating they were both excited and they had stories to share, that's all Tom needed to hear! What a great final (?) episode and what an inspiring story to end with. The final thing Tom said to the duo was "None of what you shared on this episode would've happened if you had not accepted the challenge of increasing the level of discomfort along your Pro You path. Congrats!" Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#483 The Story Vs. Reality
08/29/2024
#483 The Story Vs. Reality
Hello and happy Thursday! It feels like Tom has done a lot of episodes recently. Well, it's because he has! He's hoping that's a good thing! The flexibility Tom gave himself to simply record a PYP episode when he felt he had something of meaning to share also allowed him to be open to the possibility of having more to share - which means more episodes. This episode is almost a Part 2 of the previous episode. It picks up exactly where the last one ended. The positive was Tom's level of awareness in those moments. Once again it is not all wonderful and unicorns, but the 'good/donut' is that Tom was highly aware and chose appropriate responses. Tom's hope is that this depth of sharing helps people to find what resonates and how they can apply that to their path of personal growth. And lastly, it is real. It is confirmed. It IS happening! A CANADIAN EXPERIENCE PART VI COMING NEXT THURSDAY! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#482 The Power of Consistency
08/22/2024
#482 The Power of Consistency
Hello and happy Thursday! Never before has Tom had an experience recording a PYP episode as he did this episode. Tom was originally excited to share some big news - "A Canadian Experience Part VI" is coming SOON! Tom kept collecting sticky notes waiting till he had enough for a full episode. Tom feels a funk come on but wakes up and has an amazing experience. So much so it's plenty to share and Tom gets excited to record. The morning he chooses to record the wheels start falling off. The good news is Tom was very aware as he observed himself and got through the obstacles and the funk to record this episode. So if nothing in the episode resonates maybe what Tom went through and got through will. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#481 Your Life Is Happening Right Now
08/08/2024
#481 Your Life Is Happening Right Now
Hello and happy Thursday! It feels like it's been awhile for Tom, well, because it has! Tom's podcast was taken over by Canadian Assassins! For the past whole month! And Tom already misses them! Tom reflects on the 'Canadian Experience' and shares what it meant to him. Tom also shares another podcast where he listened twice and took notes on it. Tom is also enjoying the book he's reading and shares what is resonating and why. Lastly, Tom has sticky notes that have been piling up since before the Canadian Experience happened. Which he shares and reflects on. Tom felt very thankful during the recording of this episode of the podcast. The opportunity to do what he does, share, and create the opportunity for something like the Canadian Experience to happen. Very proud and grateful. A big thank you to Niko and Kosta and to all the listeners. THANK YOU! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#480 A Canadian Experience Part V
07/25/2024
#480 A Canadian Experience Part V
Hello and happy Thursday! It has truly been an amazing, fulfilling and rewarding experience for Tom. He is so very thankful for the Ketsilis brothers from Canada! It was a great moment in Tom's life; a long time quest came to fruition. But so much credit goes to Niko and Kosta. Such a wonderful display of will and commitment. A true example of what being Pro You is. Each episode there were moments of learning, clarity, increased awareness and challenges. Tom was so excited for the final episode to share what he had been feeling as of late. And yes, Tom gets emotional and gets a sense of sadness the experience is over. Tom wanted to thank Niko and Kosta for being them, showing up, and creating a moment Tom will never forget. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#479 A Canadian Experience Part IV
07/18/2024
#479 A Canadian Experience Part IV
Hello and happy Thursday! Wow. That's all Tom can say about this Canadian Experience. A wonderful thing is happening and it's happening to two very well deserving guys! Week One Niko and Kosta shared positive benefits. Week Two, the same. And Week Three was the best yet! These two guys on this journey and sharing their insights is immeasurable in Tom's eyes. It is an 'as perfect as you can get' Pro You story. A consistent and huge thank you to both Niko and Kosta for just being themselves! Tom is so very thankful - filled with gratitude! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#478 A Canadian Experience Part III
07/11/2024
#478 A Canadian Experience Part III
Hello and happy Thursday! Part 3 of 'A Canadian Experience' is up and ready to be listened to and it just gets better each week! It is a true Pro You story! And something Tom has always wanted to achieve through sharing these experiments with real people. Take two really good guys who are both on paths of personal growth and add a little more 'unfamiliar, unplanned, uncomfortable' and watch them flourish! There were wonderful results Part 1 and every session there is just more and more! Is it easy, fun or without mistakes - no. But the only way to a better version of you is embracing it and going through it. A huge thank you to both our Canadian Assassin participants for their Pro You effort and for sharing their journey. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#477 A Canadian Experience Part II
07/04/2024
#477 A Canadian Experience Part II
Hello and happy Thursday! It took a little bit, but they got to Part 2 of "A Canadian Experience" (Technical Difficulties). But it was definitely worth the effort. What a wonderful first week for both of our Canadian Assassins, willing participants Niko and Kosta. Both Niko and Kosta share their first week experiences with a new food plan, logging into an app, working out consistently and what their biggest take away was. The theme of Part 2 definitely turned into twofold; Getting comfortable being uncomfortable and little things done consistently. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#476 A Canadian Experience Part I
06/27/2024
#476 A Canadian Experience Part I
Hello and happy Thursday! Well, it's happening! "A Canadian Experience" took flight and here is Part 1 of a series of 5 parts. This is the introduction episode. Introduction of our two participants and their introduction to their next 4 weeks. Tom goes over their workout, their nutrition, logging their food and workouts using an app, and what he is specifically looking for in their journey. A big thank you to Niko and Kosta for accepting this personal challenge and the willingness to share their journey with the PYP listeners. This 'Experience' is already feeling different/better than the previous ones and Tom is stoked! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#475 WORRY
06/20/2024
#475 WORRY
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom has 2 wonderful client moments and a big announcement to share. That's it! A few more things sprinkled in along the way of course. But the big news - the big announcement - Tom is bringing back "PYP LIVE EXPERIENCE"! Except not exactly. A little different, a little more successful (hopefully) and a lot more enjoyable! You're going to have to listen to today's episode to find out the details. But Tom is definitely stoked! Tom chats about 'worry' and shares a great quote that really drives it home. Tom also talks heavily about the waste worry is and that it is on you. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#474 Appreciate Your Existence
06/06/2024
#474 Appreciate Your Existence
Hello and happy Thursday! Today's episode title stems from a text exchange Tom had with a friend. This episode is full of moments #stickynotes Tom has experienced since the last episode of PYP. A few themes run consistently in Tom's life currently and he shares them. One of Tom's favorite client stories and Tom throws out more stuff. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#473 Uncertainty
05/02/2024
#473 Uncertainty
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom is back at it with this jam packed episode! He has a very heart pulling opening book end in the beginning and a wonderful moment to book end the closing of this latest episode of PYP. Uncertainty. The root of all that is bad; stress, anxiety, fear, doubt, worry, depression. How does one overcome this? Can you overcome some losses? How to move forward. All this and Tom finishes his birthday story and shares a moment that touched Tom's heart. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#472 Awareness and Acceptance
03/28/2024
#472 Awareness and Acceptance
Hello and happy Thursday! On the morning of March 25th Tom walked Zen from 5-5:30 am. He entered his complex and soon discovered a homeless dude chilling inside the gated complex. Immediately Tom had PTSD (if you heard the last episode you'll understand). Tom was standing with Zen and when he asked the man to leave, he did. A ton of weight dropped off Tom's shoulders. Tom walked in and by 6:30 he was in a heated discussion with his new internet provider about the non-working Modem and the fact its replacement was not received over the weekend as promised. Then Tom thought he threw out a cord he needed. This was Tom's birthday morning. He was pretty much done for the day. BUT! The best version of Tom took a few deep breaths and decided to just do one thing. Which led to one more thing and before you know it Tom was pleasantly, surprisingly recording this episode. Tom has never recorded an episode on his birthday nor has he ever recorded an episode feeling like he felt. The more Tom recorded the more victorious he felt. As the recording of the episode ended, Tom knew that because of how he responded he was guaranteed a better day than if he would've given in to the older version of him reacting to how the day started. Awareness and acceptance are key! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#471 HANDCUFFS CAN'T STOP ME!
02/29/2024
#471 HANDCUFFS CAN'T STOP ME!
Hello and happy Thursday! It is with great pride Tom presents to you the 471st episode of PYP on its 9 year anniversary. That was going to be the topic and title until... YUP! Tom was detained; and what a story it became for this anniversary episode! What Tom wanted to discuss was how different he is now compared to the version of himself that began PYP. In hindsight, Tom realized that what he had experienced was the perfect example of how different Tom is and the version he has worked on so very hard to become. Lastly, the importance of knowing who you are and being that in lieu of everything that is going on. Be true. Be you. Be thankful. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#470 Processing
02/01/2024
#470 Processing
Hello and happy Thursday! The second episode of 2024 is up and ready to listen to! The other title was 'Zen is 9'. That time of year where it's Zen's birthday, then PYP's and then Tom's. Tom shares a podcast which he took notes on - means it resonated. Tom became aware of the word 'processing' while he was in the midst of a true challenge. So much so, older versions of Tom were knocking on the door wanting to be in the moment as well. Not fun, not comfortable, not planned to experience nor share and why they're called tests. Tom discusses the importance of Zen and their relationship. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#469 Moving Forward
01/11/2024
#469 Moving Forward
Hello, happy Thursday and happy New Year! Moving forward became the title of this episode because that is exactly what we're doing - moving forward into the new year. Tom had a couple of great stories jotted down on sticky notes before the actual end of the year. Then he filled out more and more sticky note observations from a spectacular end of the year and an even better beginning of this year! He was excited to share! Tom is hoping everyone enjoyed their holiday time and they hit 2024 running - deeming yourselves worthy! Enjoy, and as, always thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#468 I Am Grateful
12/21/2023
#468 I Am Grateful
Hello, happy Thursday and welcome to the last PYP episode of 2023! And it's a good one! Good referring to how Tom is feeling and doing. It has been one of the most challenging and yet the most rewarding year of Tom's life. Tom loves doing the 'end of the year reflection' episodes; it's like a highlight reel of the past year. So, looking back at what he and Zen went through this year, Tom was quite stoked and thankful just to get through it all. All the unconditional love and support Tom received was an amazing gift. He was overwhelmed in the best possible way. To Tom's surprise, it got even better! Recently Tom (and Zen) had the best day of the year! It was a gift and a celebration surrounding the fact of how well Zen has recovered. Tom is so very thankful for so many things but this last gift was simply next level. Gratitude, gratitude and gratitude. Enjoy and thank you for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#467 Nine Years Ago Today...
11/23/2023
#467 Nine Years Ago Today...
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom was thinking he might have an episode a week after his last episode looking at his sticky notes. Then the tipping point; Tom remembered what happened nine years ago today. He knew he would record an episode that would come out on 'Thursday' (some folk call it Thanksgiving) which Tom doesn't celebrate. But what Tom will celebrate is that exactly nine years ago on a 'Thursday' he had spent it alone and had an amazingly quiet, peaceful, rewarding day. He knew he had spent the last year and a half depressed and he was coming out of it. And he was thankful everyday. The very next morning Tom knew he wanted to start a podcast. He knew what his message would be. To be thankful and mindful. Tom has not left that path or swayed from that message in the last nine years. And Tom has only gotten better. Tom sharing his experiences is part of his reward, part of enjoying the fruits of his labor. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#466 Good.
11/16/2023
#466 Good.
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom explains what's behind the title and where it came from. The title and a pretty amazing story happened the day before Tom recorded this episode. So it's a full episode of Tom's experiences and they all seem to end 'good' (wink-wink). Personal growth is quiet and a reminder of the importance of focusing on what you can control. Lastly, Tom feels he is being very repetitive with the message that your life is on you and he continues as such. Anyone looking interested in online training message Tom! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#465 What Truly Matters
10/19/2023
#465 What Truly Matters
Hello and happy Thursday! Yes, it's been awhile. Tom almost had an episode ready to record prior to his producer, Niko, returning from his trip. But then something happened. As it does in life. But Tom's energy was now demanded in another area. As well as his focus and time. Once Tom was in the middle of it all, he didn't have the energy or clarity to surmise his experience. In time, hindsight becomes a wonderful friend. Tom will share when he has something of value to share. Tom believes this episode has value because he wanted to share it. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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#464 Incremental Improvements
08/24/2023
#464 Incremental Improvements
Hello and happy Thursday! Another episode out in 2023 and what a year! Tom wrote down the title while speaking with a friend. It sounded cool and it immediately made Tom think about 'little things done consistently' and the similarities between them. Building a solid day, A Pro You day, one that not only serves you but fuels you, is the path of personal growth. Tom has shared this principle before in many ways but at the core of it, it all has to do with you taking control of the things you can and letting go of the things you cannot. Tom is dog sitting with Zen and shares how Day One went and his thought process reading into it. Any questions, or comments, or interested in online training, please contact Tom. Enjoy and as always thank you for listening! Take a deep breath slowly in through your nose. Hold it. Release that breath slowly out of your mouth. What's one thing you are grateful for? The Pro You Podcast is grateful you are here - taking the first step on your path to deeming yourself worthy. Worthy of being the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Be sure to like Pro You on , follow along on Twitter and check out on Instagram for daily inspiration! Or look through the extensive back catalogue of episodes at
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