Play It Brave Podcast
The podcast for brave creatives who live in a world that wants you to play it safe. It's time to face facts: You are an indestructible woman fused with super powers that defy convention. Am I right? If so, then this podcast is for you! In Play It Brave, D'Arcy Benincosa dives in deep to her wit and wisdom to teach you about creative a life full of mindset, money, and marketing miracles! Let's get started!
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How to Multiply the Money From Every Job
09/11/2026
How to Multiply the Money From Every Job
What if one job didn’t have to equal one payday? Most of us finish the work, get paid, deliver what we promised — and immediately start hunting for the next client. But there may be far more money sitting inside work you’ve already created. In this short episode, D’Arcy shares a simple way to look at every finished job through three lenses: NOW — the money it makes today. AGAIN — how the same work can be sold, packaged or used again. POSSIBLE — the referrals, reputation, relationships and future opportunities it can create. You’ll hear what this looks like for photographers, coaches, writers and other creative entrepreneurs — and how to stop turning every good idea into more work by asking one simple question: What is the easiest next move? Because the goal isn’t to work more. It’s to make the work you’ve already done work harder for you.
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How I Made $7,000 in Print Sales in One Hour
09/08/2026
How I Made $7,000 in Print Sales in One Hour
I charged $4,500 to photograph the wedding. Then the mother of the bride logged into the gallery and, within about an hour, ordered $7,000 in prints. And she came back and ordered even more. That experience completely changed the way I thought about what happens after a photographer delivers the images. We spend so much time trying to book the next client that we often forget there is revenue, marketing, referrals and future business sitting inside work we've already created. In this episode, I'm breaking down how I've used galleries, physical prints, albums and vendor relationships to make one wedding keep working long after the wedding day is over. You'll hear: The simple thing I did before that $7,000 print order Why gallery delivery shouldn't be the end of the client journey How prints and albums can create revenue without another photoshoot Why your gallery itself is part of your brand How I've used curated galleries to help book clients before I ever photograph them How I photograph specifically for wedding vendors so they actually want to share my work My strategy for getting the entire vendor team to market a wedding on the same day How I use Pic-Time to make the entire process easier The question I want you asking after this episode is: Are you constantly chasing the next client while ignoring the value already sitting inside the work you've created?
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My Ode to Dolly
09/04/2026
My Ode to Dolly
What did Dolly Parton believe about herself before the rest of the world believed it too? In this tribute to Dolly, D’Arcy explores the beliefs underneath an extraordinary creative life: letting yourself want something enormous, refusing to tone down what makes you different, knowing when gratitude doesn’t require staying, continuing to create when the market moves on, and making something simply because it needs to exist. The question underneath all of it: what do you already know about your life that you keep asking the room to approve?
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How to Tell a Story People Can’t Stop Repeating — with Scottish Storyteller Eileen Budd
09/01/2026
How to Tell a Story People Can’t Stop Repeating — with Scottish Storyteller Eileen Budd
Eileen Budd comes from a long line of Scottish storytellers. Her grandfather came home from the war with shrapnel in his legs, took a job driving a tour bus, and out-earned every other driver in Scotland — because he told stories while he drove. Nobody discovered Eileen was legally blind until she was eight, so she learned the world by ear: story by story, told out loud, passed down. In this episode she tells three complete folk tales on air — including the three rules for surviving the Queen of the Fairies — opens her Travelling Folk Museum of donated, two-hundred-year-old objects, and makes the case that the stories of the village, not the castle or the church, are the ones that bring people together. Plus: why we’ve outsourced our imaginations to our phones, what a story did to a $30 compass on eBay, the folk tale that is secretly about postnatal depression, and how to find the story only you can tell. Your imagination: use it or lose it. How to Tell a Story People Can’t Stop Repeating — with Scottish Storyteller Eileen Budd Some stories disappear almost as soon as they’re told. Others survive for hundreds of years. They cross villages, families, kitchens, campfires, churches, pubs and generations without ever needing an algorithm to carry them. That is the kind of story Eileen Budd knows how to tell. Eileen comes from a long line of Scottish storytellers, and she learned the world by listening. Nobody discovered she was legally blind until she was eight, so while other children were reading the room visually, Eileen was absorbing voices, details, rhythms and stories. And in this conversation, she reminded me of something I think many of us are losing: storytelling is not the same thing as content. A story asks something of your imagination. It leaves space. It lets you see something that is not physically in front of you. And the best stories become portable. Someone hears them, carries them away, and tells them again. That is what this episode is really about. Eileen tells three complete folk tales on the podcast, including the story of a midwife summoned to the Queen of the Fairies, the rules she must follow to survive, and a changeling story that carries an unexpectedly compassionate understanding of postnatal depression. But we also talk about what happens to imagination when we fill every empty moment with scrolling, why an ordinary $30 compass became worth $1,000 when it had a story attached to it, and why the stories of ordinary people — the stories of the village — may be the ones that connect us most deeply. One of my favorite things Eileen says is that we have started to outsource our imaginations. And I haven't stopped thinking about that. Because imagination requires empty space. Daydreaming. Wondering. Following an image somewhere without immediately needing it to become useful. And if you are an artist, photographer, writer, entrepreneur or simply a person trying to live a more creative life, I think this conversation will make you want some of that space back. Inside the episode We talk about Eileen’s grandfather, who returned from war with shrapnel in his legs and became a Scottish tour-bus driver — eventually earning more than the other drivers because he told stories while he drove. Eileen explains the difference between stories of the castle, stories of the church and stories of the village, and why the stories of ordinary people are often the ones that bring us together. She shares why she resisted writing oral stories down for years, what changed her mind, and what can be lost when a living story gets trapped on a page. We talk about daydreaming, imagination and the way constant scrolling can crowd out the inner world. You’ll hear the story of a $30 compass whose value changed completely once a story was attached to it, a 200-year-old willow rattle filled with quartz, the full tale of the midwife and the Queen of the Fairies, and Eileen’s beautifully simple way of teaching someone how to become a storyteller. And we end with a Scottish origin story about the giants of day and night. If you make anything for a living, I especially want you to listen to the distinction running underneath this whole conversation: People may consume information. But they carry stories. Connect with Eileen Podcast: Scottish Folk Instagram: @eileenbudd Books: Eileen’s seasonal folklore collections from Wide Open Sea
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Why You Can’t Stop Being Productive
08/21/2026
Why You Can’t Stop Being Productive
Why You Can’t Stop Being Productive Why can it feel easier to keep working when you're exhausted than it does to simply stop? In this episode, D'Arcy looks underneath overworking to the unconscious patterns that can make rest surprisingly uncomfortable. Sometimes the issue isn't that we're “bad at resting.” Rest isn't creating the anxiety. Rest is revealing the anxiety that activity was covering. Scarcity tells us there isn't enough time, money, momentum or opportunity, so stopping feels irresponsible. Being useful gets rewarded. Being capable becomes part of our identity. And eventually we can start living by rules we never consciously chose: I can rest when everything is handled. Everyone and everything gets taken care of before I do. I have to earn rest. Except everything is never handled — so we keep moving the finish line. D'Arcy shares how productivity became part of her own identity, what burnout forced her to confront, and what ten days in silence and two months away from Instagram taught her about who she is when she isn't producing. In this episode: Why rest can sometimes make you anxious How scarcity creates the urge to do more Why “I'll rest when…” becomes an impossible finish line When being capable turns into an identity How we condition ourselves to ignore our bodies and push through Why stillness can feel uncomfortable after years of productivity What silence taught D'Arcy about existing without being useful How to begin making an unconscious productivity pattern conscious Your Brain Rewire Finish this sentence: I can rest when __________. Then ask yourself: What do I believe rest says about me? What do I believe will happen if I stop? Whose approval did usefulness once earn me? The next time you feel the impulse to get up and make yourself useful, don't immediately obey it. Notice the rule first. Consciousness comes before choice.
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The Women Who Hold Us: Self-Trust, Receiving & the Power of Female Friendship with Kara Campbell
08/18/2026
The Women Who Hold Us: Self-Trust, Receiving & the Power of Female Friendship with Kara Campbell
There is an awakening happening in women right now. It isn’t simply about making more money, building a bigger business, or becoming more successful. It’s the question underneath all of it: Is this actually how I want to live? This week, D’Arcy sits down with her friend Kara Campbell — coach, gatherer of women, and founder of the Momentum mastermind — for a conversation about what happens when women stop proving, controlling, and doing everything alone... and start trusting themselves enough to receive. Kara shares the 63-hour labor that shattered her illusion of control and gave her a mantra she still lives by: I allow. I do not force. She talks about the voice that told her to be kind to yourself after years of self-hatred, and the moment she realized that counting money as an adult was carrying the same fear as counting calories in her twenties. Together, Kara and D’Arcy explore self-trust, feminine leadership, loneliness, desire, receiving, and the kind of female friendships that don't tell you who to become — they remind you who you already are. They talk about why queens don't compete with other queens, why the right women help return you to your own knowing, and what it means to be truly witnessed in your grief, joy, ambition, and becoming. And D’Arcy shares one of the hardest seasons of her own life — when she discovered that independence could no longer save her, and she had to learn how to ask her circle to carry her. Near the end, Kara shares something extraordinary: When a female elephant is vulnerable or in danger, the other females gather around her and form a circle. They stay there until the danger passes. This episode is about building that kind of circle — and allowing yourself to stand in the middle of it when it's your turn to be held.
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How I Went From $4,500 To $10,500 in 6 Weeks
08/14/2026
How I Went From $4,500 To $10,500 in 6 Weeks
Sometimes your work grows faster than your identity does. In 2012, I had spent years charging $4,500 for wedding photography when a dream client called me just 27 days before their Sundance wedding. When she asked what I would charge for the weekend, I heard myself say a number I'd never said before: $7,500. She said yes. Two weeks later, I booked my first $10,500 wedding. I didn't suddenly become twice as talented in six weeks. The work had been happening for years. My skill, eye, experience and judgment had already changed. My identity simply hadn't caught up. In this short episode of Play It Brave, we're looking at the version of you who names the price — and whether she's still pricing the work of a woman you've already outgrown. I'll also lead you through a simple rehearsal you can practice for the next 30 days so that when someone asks, "What do you charge?" you don't have to manufacture courage in real time. In this episode: why your identity can lag behind your actual level of mastery · the story behind my jump from $4,500 to $7,500 — and then $10,500 · how to recognize when you're pricing from an earlier version of yourself · what happens in your body when someone asks what you charge · why you don't need to justify your number before anyone has objected to it · a short exercise to rehearse saying your next price · why identity work isn't a substitute for mastery — but can help you finally own the mastery you've already earned. A question to take with you: has your price actually caught up to the person you've become? Your next number doesn't need to be a fantasy. It needs to be a number you have evidence underneath — and are ready to learn how to say. Ready to go deeper? If you know the strategy but something in you keeps pulling back when it's time to sell, be seen, raise your prices or step into the next version of your work — that's exactly the kind of pattern we can explore in a private Breakthrough. .
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How I Lead My Clients Through a Major Transformation
08/11/2026
How I Lead My Clients Through a Major Transformation
You can know exactly why you do something and still keep doing it. You can know where the pattern came from. You can have journaled about it, talked about it, analyzed it, named it—and then Tuesday comes around and there you are, doing the thing again. Because understanding a pattern and changing a pattern are two different skills. In this episode, I'm taking you inside the work I've fallen completely in love with: how I lead a client through a major Breakthrough. Not a quick mindset shift. Not another affirmation pasted over something you don't actually believe. The deeper work of finding the emotions, decisions, internal conflicts and old conclusions that may still be influencing the life you're living now. I'm also sharing what this work has changed in me—including the end of my own panic attacks, the difference between being watched and being seen, and the three words I'm choosing to organize my own life around now. And for the first time, I'm opening a small number of private Breakthrough spaces at founding pricing. If there's something in your life you understand—but still can't seem to change—this episode is for you.
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You’re Not Lazy: Why You Can’t Jump from Stuck to Motivated
08/07/2026
You’re Not Lazy: Why You Can’t Jump from Stuck to Motivated
If you’ve ever tried to force yourself out of procrastination, you know how well that works. You can know exactly what to do. You can have the time. You can want the result so badly it aches — and still find yourself answering emails, returning something to Nordstrom, or deciding the junk drawer has to be dealt with right now. That isn’t laziness. Laziness would be doing nothing, and you are doing a great deal. You’re just not doing the one thing that matters. Which means the problem was never your character. It’s the state you’re in. In this first Rewire Friday, D’Arcy takes you inside a training room where a woman she calls Sarah volunteered her procrastination for a demonstration and landed on the honest word for it: not incapable, not lazy. Stagnant. And instead of asking how to make her motivated, the trainer asked the question almost nobody asks — what would get you out of the state you’re in? Inside: what a state actually is and why naming one changes what you can do next, the cost of turning a behavior into an identity, the difference between the states that push you and the states that pull you — and why procrastination is neither, which is exactly why willpower slides off it. Ten minutes, one rewire, one question to ask before Monday. Timestamps: 2:27 — The word that changes everything: not incapable, not lazy — stagnant 3:00 — The trainer’s question instead of “How do we get you motivated?” 3:32 — Why wanting the result isn’t enough—and the difference between desire and the state that creates action 4:08 — Why motivation is rarely the next state, and finding the bridge that gets you there 6:11 — The cost of turning a behavior into an identity: “I procrastinated, so I’m lazy” 6:57 — States that push you, states that pull you, and why procrastination is neither 8:15 — Chaining anchors: what change work actually looks like, and why D’Arcy isn’t teaching it here 10:42 — What Sarah said when it was over—and why the goal is freedom, not productivity 11:50 — The one question to ask this week instead of yelling at yourself
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Starting Over at 48: I Fired My Team, Ended My Biggest Love, and Flew to India
08/04/2026
Starting Over at 48: I Fired My Team, Ended My Biggest Love, and Flew to India
For the first time, the whole story of the last two years — told from the other side. In this episode: The heroine’s journey — the map: the hero comes home with the treasure; the heroine realizes she is the treasure, and she is the home The launch that cracked it open: 21 yeses where 90 used to say yes — and the sentence that took over December 2024: the call that was harder than the breakup — and why it turned out to be the first brave decision of the rebirth THE VALUES AUDIT — five signs your season is a values change, not a collapse: (1) the wins land flat, (2) you’re still funding your old self, (3) you envy the "wrong" people, (4) you keep changing the strategy but never question the goal, (5) "it’s not working" has become a sentence instead of a fact Tonight’s ten-minute exercise: your calendar + your bank statement — still, or was What ten days of silence in India returned — and what the new values are building now (new episodes every Tuesday and Friday, starting this week) Timestamps : 00:00 — Cold open: the training and the December call 03:57 — The heroine’s journey: the map 05:57 — The empire years 08:19 — Values have seasons 09:21 — The whisper: “It’s not working” 10:42 — Trying to fix it 12:22 — December 2024: the call 14:35 — “The first brave decision of the rebirth” 15:36 — It wasn’t a failure — it was a values change 18:32 — Old strategies, new values 19:47 — The Paris apartment and the cabin 22:08 — The Values Audit: #1, the wins land flat 22:48 — #2, funding your old self 23:51 — #3, envying the wrong people 24:31 — #4, new strategy, same goal 26:27 — #5, a sentence, not a fact 27:24 — Tonight: calendar and bank statement 27:48 — India, Bali, the silence 30:07 — The return 31:57 — Money and meaning 34:02 — If you’re in this season 35:54 — “You are the treasure”
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Content Is Dead: Why the Creator Economy Is Over — and the Artist Economy Is Next
07/30/2026
Content Is Dead: Why the Creator Economy Is Over — and the Artist Economy Is Next
Most photographers aren’t studying photography anymore — they’re studying Instagram. In this solo episode, D’Arcy confesses to a decade of studying the wrong things — algorithms, funnels, hooks — and makes the case for what comes after the creator economy: the artist economy. It starts with Gene Kelly, soaked to the skin and swinging off a lamppost, and the strange grief of watching real devotion. Inside: The sentence the whole episode is built on — you cannot consistently photograph what you refuse to cultivate within yourself. How apprenticeship became consumption The 4 S’s (Story, Style, Structure, Sales) turned ninety degrees into an artistic framework Creative Studies: the practice D’Arcy wants to name for the industry Her own year of study — novels, old films, daily writing, ten rolls of film at a family session Why The English Edit retreat exists, and Claire’s story One study to start this week. Join D’Arcy’s Sunday letter at darcybenincosa.com — where the stories she doesn’t post get told, and where every future creative study is announced first.
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The 3 Love Blocks Keeping High-Achieving Women Single with Sanaiyah Gurnamal
07/07/2026
The 3 Love Blocks Keeping High-Achieving Women Single with Sanaiyah Gurnamal
Success came easy. Love didn't. If you've built the business, the body of work, the beautiful life — and love is still the one thing that won't land — this conversation was recorded for you. D'Arcy sits down with self-love and relationship expert Sanaiyah Gurnamal — two-time TEDx speaker and host of Project Loving Myself (a Spotify Top 50 podcast with 1M+ downloads) — to name the three love blocks that keep high-achieving women single or stuck: the People Pleaser, the Commitment-Phobe, and the Runaway Bride. In this episode: why women who fight for everything never learn to receive [22:46] · the 3 love blocks [25:58] · the airplane story that redefines meeting your own needs [15:45] · grieving a relationship while keeping the growth [43:30] · the journal prompt that reveals your block [52:13] D'Arcy also tells the truth about turning 49, never marrying, and dropping the belief that being single means you love yourself wrong. Connect with Sanaiyah: Project Loving Myself podcast · @sanaiyahgurnamal on Instagram + YouTube · The Love Blocks quiz Full show notes: darcybenincosa.com/love-blocks-high-achieving-women Get the Sunday letter: darcybenincosa.com
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Letting the Good In: How to Stop Pushing Away the Things You Actually Want
06/04/2026
Letting the Good In: How to Stop Pushing Away the Things You Actually Want
What if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you want isn't a lack of opportunity, talent, or strategy, but your ability to receive? In this episode, I'm exploring a question that has fascinated me for years, both in my own life and in my work with clients: Why do we struggle to receive the very things we say we want most? Love, support, visibility, money, rest, belonging. So often, when those things finally arrive, something inside us pushes them away. I share personal stories, powerful insights from my Receiving Map sessions, and lessons from neuroscience and consciousness work that have completely changed the way I think about healing. Instead of asking, "What's wrong with me?" I invite you to consider a gentler question: "What was this protecting me from?" If you've ever found yourself sabotaging opportunities, downplaying compliments, overworking to prove your worth, or waiting for the other shoe to drop, this episode is for you. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why your nervous system prioritizes safety over happiness, and how that can keep you stuck in familiar patterns How old protective strategies can quietly block love, support, money, and opportunity from entering your life The surprising reason self-rejection often has nothing to do with self-worth and everything to do with self-protection Why trying to "fix" yourself can actually keep you trapped in shame and endless self-improvement loops How to identify the unconscious beliefs that make receiving feel uncomfortable or unsafe The connection between truth, expansion, and freedom, and how false stories create contraction and suffering Why so many high-achieving women struggle to receive help, praise, rest, and abundance A simple practice for noticing the stories that keep you feeling excluded, unworthy, or not enough How integrity, self-acceptance, and surrender create more lasting transformation than perfectionism ever could What it really means to let the good in and become available to your life exactly as it is A Few Questions to Reflect On: What is something you deeply want but struggle to receive? When support, love, money, or opportunity arrives, what is your first instinct? What belief might be standing between you and the thing you're asking for? Does that belief make you feel more expanded or more contracted? What would you do with your life if you trusted that you were already enough? For a long time, I thought healing meant fixing every flaw, understanding every wound, and untangling every pattern. But lately, I've come to believe something much simpler: maybe the goal isn't fixing yourself at all. Maybe the goal is becoming available to life again. Available to love. Available to joy. Available to support. Available to beauty. Available to the goodness that is already trying to reach you. The truth is that most of us don't struggle to get what we want. We struggle to let it land. We stay braced for disappointment because it feels more familiar than trust. But what if today was the day you stopped waiting for the other shoe to drop? What if you let yourself receive the compliment, the opportunity, the friendship, the abundance, the love? You don't need to become someone else first. You don't need to be thinner, wealthier, more successful, or more healed. You can let the good in right now.
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From Burnout to Resonance – Building an Elevated Brand from the Inside Out: Live Coaching Call with Kristen Marie
05/07/2026
From Burnout to Resonance – Building an Elevated Brand from the Inside Out: Live Coaching Call with Kristen Marie
What does it actually look like to evolve from a successful photographer into a fully embodied luxury brand? In this deeply personal episode of the Play It Brave podcast, I’m taking you behind the scenes with my client and dear friend, Kristen Marie, as she walks through a massive identity shift, creative rebirth, and business rebrand. Kristen has been photographing weddings and adventure elopements for over eight years, and after years of success in the elopement world, her body finally told her something had to change. Together, we talk openly about burnout, redefining success, and the emotional process of growing out of an old identity that no longer fits. We also share what happened during Kristen’s immersive coaching retreat at my cabin, where we explored her values, archetypes, subconscious beliefs, and the deeper emotional patterns underneath her business. Then, in a rare behind-the-scenes look, we bring you directly into one of Kristen’s real coaching calls along with her brand designer, Kass. You’ll hear us brainstorm everything from visual identity and positioning to luxury storytelling, artistic authority, nature-inspired branding, and what it truly means to create a brand that resonates instead of imitates. In this episode, we talk about: The hidden burnout that can happen even inside a successful photography business Why Kristen realized she could no longer continue as an overextended adventure elopement photographer How identity work and nervous system healing play a huge role in luxury rebranding The values and archetypes that shaped Kristen’s new direction Moving from “cute girl with a camera” into grounded artistic authority The difference between copying luxury branding and creating true resonance Building a brand inspired by nature, stillness, cinematic storytelling, and emotional depth Why luxury positioning is often more about embodiment than skill level The visual and emotional references influencing Kristen’s rebrand, from Ralph Lauren campaigns to Terrence Malick films How photographers can evolve their businesses without abandoning themselves in the process One of the biggest things I hope you take away from this episode is that rebranding is never just about aesthetics. It’s not just new fonts, prettier colors, or a more elevated website. A true rebrand asks you to become honest about who you are now, who you’ve been, and who you’re ready to become. Watching Kristen move through this process with so much courage, self-awareness, and openness has been incredibly beautiful. She’s not simply trying to book higher-paying weddings. She’s learning how to trust herself, honor her energy, deepen her artistry, and create a business that actually supports the life she wants to live. That’s the kind of transformation that changes everything. I cannot wait for you to hear this behind-the-scenes conversation and witness what it really looks like to build a brand from the inside out.
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How I Prep to Shoot a 4-Day Wedding (and Tell the Actual Story)
04/30/2026
How I Prep to Shoot a 4-Day Wedding (and Tell the Actual Story)
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how I approach photographing a high-level, multi-day destination wedding—from the mindset I bring, to the creative direction, to the very real pressure behind the glamour. After more than two decades in this industry, I don’t just show up and “document” a wedding. I direct it. I shape it. I craft it into a visual story that feels cinematic, intentional, and deeply personal to the couple. If you’ve ever wondered how to elevate your work from delivering a gallery to creating a story that stops people in their tracks, this episode is for you. I’m walking you through exactly how I prepare, how I think about storytelling, and how I balance structure with magic so I can consistently create images that feel both timeless and alive. Key Takeaways You’re not just a photographer—you’re a creative director. The industry is shifting away from simple documentation and toward storytelling. Your role is to guide, shape, and intentionally create moments, not just capture what happens. A gallery is not the same as a story. A true wedding story has a narrative arc: a beginning, rising action, climax, and resolution. When your images build on each other emotionally and visually, the viewer experiences the wedding rather than just seeing it. Multi-day weddings create deeper storytelling opportunities. Each event becomes its own “chapter” with a distinct visual world—color palette, mood, and energy—allowing for a richer, more dimensional final body of work. The couple’s language is your creative blueprint. How your clients describe their relationship reveals the emotional tone you should be capturing. Words like “ease,” “safety,” or “joy” directly inform your direction and approach. Plan your “future portfolio” intentionally. Identify 10–15 images you don’t yet have but wish you did. These become your creative targets so you’re always evolving instead of repeating yourself. Hero shots are non-negotiable. Think in terms of impactful, scroll-stopping images: Venue/establishing shot Fashion/editorial moment Emotional peak Elevated detail Scale/negative space Movement These are the images that define your work and get published. Preparation creates space for magic. Wardrobe mapping, location scouting, timeline awareness, and shot planning don’t limit creativity—they free you to be fully present when the unexpected, magical moments happen. Details should feel specific, not generic. Ask yourself: Does this image tell me something unique about this couple? If it could belong to anyone’s wedding, it’s not strong enough yet. Your energy matters just as much as your skill. Weddings are high-pressure environments. Your ability to regulate your energy, stay grounded, and lead confidently impacts the entire creative outcome. Trends come and go, but story endures. You can incorporate trends, but your foundation should always be timeless storytelling that evokes emotion decades later. At the end of the day, this work is about so much more than pretty images. It’s about crafting something that holds meaning, emotion, and memory in a way that lasts. Yes, there’s beauty in the spontaneity of a wedding day. But the real magic happens when preparation meets intuition — when you’ve done the work to understand your couple, mapped out your vision, and then allow yourself to co-create something alive in the moment. That’s where your artistry lives. And if you can step into that role fully — not just as someone who captures, but as someone who creates — you don’t just deliver galleries. You build stories, elevate your brand, and open the door to a completely different level of work.
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The Truth About Manifestation and Reclaiming Your Intuition
04/16/2026
The Truth About Manifestation and Reclaiming Your Intuition
On this episode of the Play It Brave podcast, I’m taking a conversation I started on Instagram and going deeper into something I care deeply about: manifestation, intuition, and personal power. Because here’s the truth, I don’t believe you when you say you don’t know who you are or what you want. I say that with love. What I’ve found, both in my own life and in working with so many of you, is that “not knowing” is often a protection mechanism. It’s a way we stay safe from the courage, change, and disruption that comes with actually claiming what we want. So today, I’m breaking down what manifestation really is and what it is not, why your intuition isn’t missing, and how subconscious patterns may be quietly running your life and your business. Key Takeaways Manifestation isn’t broken. You’re just stuck on the first floor Writing lists, vision boards, and affirmations aren’t wrong. They are just the beginning. True co-creation requires stepping into your power as a sovereign adult, not staying in a childlike wish and hope dynamic. Most of what you think you want isn’t actually yours Your dream life may be shaped by culture, family, religion, or social media. Real manifestation begins when you ask: is this truly my desire, or something I’ve been taught to want? You don’t lack intuition. You’re afraid to follow it Intuition often asks you to make hard choices, face uncertainty, or let go of what feels safe. Most people don’t want clearer intuition. They want a version that guarantees comfort and certainty. “I don’t know what I want” is often a protective pattern When following your truth feels too costly, whether emotionally, financially, or socially, you learn to shut it down. Not knowing becomes a way to avoid the consequences of knowing. Your power leaks in three key places Will I still belong if I change? Will I be safe financially, physically, or emotionally? Will I be judged, envied, or rejected if I grow? Subconscious patterns shape what you believe you’re allowed to have Whether it’s tying love to achievement, suppressing your needs, or making yourself smaller to be accepted, these patterns directly impact what you try to manifest. You can’t out-strategize a subconscious block No marketing plan, sales funnel, or branding strategy can override beliefs like “I’m not allowed to be seen” or “I have to earn love.” This is identity work, not just business strategy. Receiving is often harder than giving Many of us are conditioned to overgive because it feels safe. Receiving love, support, money, and rest can feel uncomfortable or even threatening to the nervous system. Transformation happens in the body, not just the mind Real change comes from identifying and rewriting subconscious agreements you made long ago. It is not just about thinking differently, but embodying something new. You likely already know your path. You’ve just been choosing not to know The real question isn’t what you want. It’s whether you’re willing to stop avoiding it and become the person who can hold it. If there’s one thing I want you to take with you, it’s this: You are not lost. You are not confused. You are not lacking clarity. You already know. Maybe not every detail, but the direction, the desire, the truth of who you are has been there for a long time. The real work is having the courage to release the patterns that have been keeping you small. Manifestation is not about asking for more. It is about becoming the version of you who can receive it.
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Stepping Into a New Era
04/09/2026
Stepping Into a New Era
This episode feels different, and that’s because I am different. This is the first episode I’m recording on the other side of a deep personal and professional transformation. I’ve let go of old identities, old offers, old stories, and I’m stepping into a new era of my life and business. If you’re at a crossroads right now, if you feel like you’ve outgrown something but are scared to let it go, this conversation is for you. We’re talking about identity shifts, entrepreneurship in the age of AI, and what it really looks like to honor your evolution instead of clinging to what used to work. Because the truth is, your business isn’t meant to stay the same. You’re not meant to stay the same. And the real question I want you to sit with is this: What is the gift you bring to the world? Key Takeaways We get to live multiple lifetimes in one life. The old model of choosing one path and staying there forever is gone. Growth requires change, and you’re allowed to evolve. Outgrowing your business is not failure. It’s alignment. If something no longer fits, it doesn’t mean you did it wrong. It means you’re ready for your next level. Most “business problems” are actually identity problems. People-pleasing, fear of visibility, scarcity mindset. These don’t just live in your mind. They show up in your offers, your pricing, and your results. Letting go is part of becoming. Releasing old versions of yourself, outdated offers, and misaligned paths creates space for something far more powerful to emerge. AI is changing everything, but it can’t replace your essence. Information is now free and instant. What matters now is your taste, your discernment, your lived experience, and your ability to see what others can’t. Your gifts stay the same, even when your expression changes. For me, it’s teaching, vision, and helping people see their own brilliance. The format may evolve, but the core gift remains. Energy leaks keep you stuck in the past. When you release old pain, stories, and identities, you reclaim energy. That energy fuels clarity, creativity, and momentum. You don’t need permission to change, but I’ll go first anyway. If you’ve been waiting for someone to show you what’s on the other side of reinvention, this is me raising my hand. Over the next few episodes, I’m going to take you behind the scenes of everything I’m building, what I’m creating, how I’m rebranding, and what this next era looks like. I’m sharing it all because I know so many of you are standing right where I was, knowing something needs to change but feeling afraid to take the leap. So let me remind you. There is nothing wrong with you for outgrowing your life. That’s the point. If this episode resonated, I want to hear from you. DM me on Instagram and answer this question: What is your gift to the world? And if you haven’t yet, it would mean the world if you left a five-star review. It helps this message reach more people who need it. I’m so grateful you’re here. Truly. We’re just getting started. Links & Resources
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When to Stay and When to Leave: Processing My Breakup with Relationship Coach Karen McMahon
04/02/2026
When to Stay and When to Leave: Processing My Breakup with Relationship Coach Karen McMahon
This episode is a deeply personal one. I sat down with my dear friend Karen McMahon, and while she’s known as a high-conflict divorce strategist, this conversation goes far beyond divorce. It’s about personal power. It’s about self-abandonment. It’s about the moment you realize you’ve been editing yourself to keep the peace, and what it takes to finally come home to yourself. Karen supported me through a major breakup, and what she helped me see changed everything: sometimes what we think is “chemistry” is actually a dysregulated nervous system. Sometimes what we call love is actually a trauma loop. In this episode, we unpack the difference between healthy conflict and high-conflict dynamics, how we lose ourselves in relationships, and what it really looks like to reclaim your voice, your truth, and your life. Key Takeaways Not all conflict is unhealthy, but high conflict has clear signs. Lack of empathy, inability to take responsibility, “my way or the highway” dynamics, and revisionist history are major red flags. If you’re constantly questioning your reality, pay attention. What feels like chemistry can actually be trauma. That intense push-pull dynamic? The fighting followed by closeness? It’s often a nervous system loop, not deep compatibility. Self-abandonment is usually rooted in childhood survival. If you learned to manage a parent’s emotions growing up, you may now overgive, people-please, or edit yourself in relationships without even realizing it. A powerful lens: fear vs. desire. Every decision is either fear-based or desire-based. Fear leads to self-abandonment. Desire leads to alignment. You are not responsible for managing someone else’s emotions. You can have compassion for someone’s wounds without taking them on as your job to fix. Feelings are valid. Behavior is where boundaries matter. Anger is okay. Hurt is okay. But how someone behaves because of those emotions is what determines what you will or won’t tolerate. “Observe, don’t absorb.” You can witness someone else’s emotional experience without taking it into your own body or identity. Boundaries are about your behavior, not controlling theirs. It’s not “make them change.” It’s “this is what I will or won’t stay for.” The fable of the rope: stop doing someone else’s work. When you’re holding the rope for someone who refuses to pull themselves up, you’re abandoning yourself… and keeping them stuck. You are not responsible for other people’s stories about you. Let them misunderstand you. Let them share their version. The people who truly know you won’t be swayed. Relationships aren’t meant to make you happy. They’re meant to grow you. The right relationship will challenge you, expand you, and invite you into deeper emotional maturity. Green flags matter just as much as red ones. Look for communication, trust, respect, and the ability to be honest without fear. If there’s one thing I hope you take from this conversation, it’s this: You are allowed to choose yourself. Not in a way that disconnects you from love, but in a way that deepens it. Real love doesn’t require you to shrink, edit, or abandon who you are. It invites you to become more fully yourself. And that takes courage. It takes the kind of courage Karen talked about: Looking in the mirror, taking responsibility for your own healing, and choosing growth over comfort. Because at the end of the day, the bravest thing you can do is come home to yourself. Meet Karen Karen McMahon is a High Conflict Divorce Strategist, Certified Divorce Coach and Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce. She began divorce coaching in 2010 after recognizing that the pain of her divorce led her on a transformational journey into a powerful and unexpected new life. Karen leads a national team of divorce coaches in supporting men and women around the world to become calm, clear and confident as they navigate divorce. Karen is also the host of the acclaimed Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, and co-author of ‘Stepping out of Chaos: Turning Pain to Possibility”. Connect with Karen
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Curating Like Hermès: Creating a Brand People Want to Buy From with Raphaëlle Granger
03/19/2026
Curating Like Hermès: Creating a Brand People Want to Buy From with Raphaëlle Granger
There comes a point in so many creative careers where what once felt exciting starts to feel heavy. The work may look successful from the outside, but internally, something feels off. In this episode of Play It Brave, I’m joined by photographer Raphaëlle Granger for an honest conversation about what it really looks like to outgrow a brand, walk away from work that no longer fits, and rebuild from a deeper place of artistic truth. Raphaëlle shares her journey from building a successful adventure elopement brand to realizing that the work she had carefully created no longer aligned with who she was. What followed wasn’t just a rebrand, but a full creative reinvention rooted in intuition, artistry, emotion, and a desire to tell richer, more human stories. We talk about the difference between building a brand that performs well and building one that actually feels like home. We get into curation, luxury branding, portfolio editing, client alignment, and the courage it takes to stop shooting what you think you should shoot in order to make space for the work your soul is actually drawn to create. In this episode, we discuss: Raphaëlle’s transition from adventure elopements to multi-day luxury weddings How burnout can be a sign that your brand no longer fits Why rebranding is often more about alignment than aesthetics How to know when it’s time to let go of an old brand What luxury clients are really looking for in a photographer and brand experience How to curate your portfolio more ruthlessly and stop diluting your work Why “less is more” is such an important principle in luxury branding How Raphaëlle communicates her artistic process to clients before they book Why studying luxury hospitality, design, and psychology can elevate your brand The importance of trusting your artistic voice instead of following trends What I loved about this conversation is how deeply Raphaëlle trusts her own eye now. She’s not chasing what wedding photography is supposed to look like. She’s building a brand that is specific, soulful, elevated, and unmistakably hers. If you’ve been feeling the tension between what’s working and what’s actually right, I hope this episode gives you permission to pause, reassess, and listen more honestly to what your work is asking of you. Meet Raphaëlle Raphaëlle Granger is an award-winning wedding photographer known for her refined documentary approach and her ability to capture the in-between moments that hold the most meaning. Named one of Rangefinder’s 30 Rising Stars of Wedding Photography, her work spans Canada, Europe, and beyond, serving couples who value presence, artistry, and legacy. In addition to her photography, Raphaëlle is the co-founder of Les Annexes, an educational platform created to redefine support for wedding creatives through curation, communication, and visibility. Her mission is to guide artists not only in refining their craft but in building enduring legacies that resonate across markets and generations. Connect with Raphaëlle & Resources
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Why Photographers Aren’t Booking Like They Used To — and What To Do About It with Alicia Daw
03/05/2026
Why Photographers Aren’t Booking Like They Used To — and What To Do About It with Alicia Daw
On today’s episode of the Play It Brave podcast, I’m talking about something many people in the wedding industry are quietly feeling but not always naming out loud. Photographers who used to book 15–20 weddings a year are sitting at just a handful. Retreats are being canceled. Educators who used to sell out instantly are extending deadlines. And behind the scenes, my DMs are filled with the same question: “Is it just me?” So today we’re talking about it honestly. I invited my friend Alicia Daw — an experienced luxury wedding photographer who has spent decades in this industry — to join me for a grounded conversation about what’s actually happening and how we can respond to it thoughtfully instead of panicking. I don’t believe this is just a slow year. I think the industry is going through a correction — post-COVID demand leveling out, economic uncertainty, new buyer behavior, and major technological shifts like AI. The industry isn’t ending, but it is changing. And the more clearly we see those changes, the better we can adapt. Key Takeaways This is likely a market correction, not just a slow season. Post-COVID demand, economic uncertainty, and industry saturation are all contributing to the shift. Buyer behavior has changed. Couples compare far more options, hesitate longer, and often communicate less clearly than past clients. Trust matters more than ever. Showing full galleries, simplifying pricing, and clearly communicating your process helps reduce buyer uncertainty. Generic brands struggle in a comparison-heavy market. Clear positioning and personality help you stand out among hundreds of similar photographers. The middle market feels the most pressure. Budget vendors will book, luxury vendors will continue booking, but the mid-range is often the most saturated. Pricing can be both aspirational and strategic. Holding premium dates for high-end bookings while remaining flexible with short-notice opportunities can create stability. Relationships still convert best. Planner relationships, venue partnerships, and referrals often outperform social media algorithms. Multiple revenue streams reduce stress. Diversifying income can provide stability when inquiries fluctuate. After more than 20 years in this industry, Alicia and I have both learned that the wedding world moves in cycles. The key isn’t ignoring change, it’s responding to it. That means strengthening your positioning, building trust with your clients, nurturing real relationships in the industry, and being willing to adjust your strategy as the market evolves. Challenges like this don’t mean the industry is over. They simply mean we’re being invited to grow, refine, and approach our businesses with more intention than ever. If you want deeper support in navigating this shift, Alicia shares about her Strategy Retreat in this episode, where she helps wedding professionals align their business strategy with the life they actually want to build. And as always, thank you for being here and for continuing to play it brave in your work and your business. Meet Alicia Alicia Daw is an international, luxury wedding photographer who has spent nearly three decades of her life globetrotting to 45 countries - and counting - while developing an effortless style for capturing exquisite and emotionally charged weddings and events. Featured in prestigious publications like Grace Ormonde, Style Me Pretty, Wezoree, Carats & Cake, and Wedding Chicks, Alicia knows how to attract chic, jet-setting couples and deliver a luxury experience again and again. Within 13 months of starting her photography business, Alicia went from making $10,000 a year as a missionary to over $100,000, consistently booking 5 figure weddings. Less weddings = more money = more life. She is an expert at helping other wedding and portrait industry professionals grow their businesses into something they're proud of by making sense of all the nitty-gritty details so they can pursue life outside of business. She is passionate about finding joy and adventure in the everyday, ordinary moments in her life with the people she loves most. Connect with Alicia
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Is AI Destroying Art or Saving It? with Noella Andres of Imagen
02/26/2026
Is AI Destroying Art or Saving It? with Noella Andres of Imagen
On this episode of Play It Brave, we’re diving into one of the biggest conversations happening in photography right now: AI. The excitement. The skepticism. The “Is this going to replace us?” energy. All of it. I brought on Noella Andres from Imagen AI to talk about what AI in editing actually is (and what it isn’t). Noella has spent over 20 years supporting photographers in finding more freedom in their workflows, and her move into Imagen fits perfectly with that mission. Together, we unpack how AI can support your artistry instead of threaten it, how it integrates into Lightroom, how it learns your style, and how to use it consciously — without losing your creative voice. Key Takeaways The real question isn’t “Will AI replace photographers?”, it’s “How can we use AI consciously?” Burnout in photography often comes from hours behind the screen, not from shooting itself. When repetitive tasks are automated, creative energy expands. AI can function like a virtual assistant, handling the grunt work while you stay in artistic control. The danger isn’t AI — it’s losing your unique voice by relying on formulas (in editing, branding, or marketing). As the world becomes more automated, genuine human connection and client experience become even more valuable. Originality requires intention. Photographers must resist copying trends and instead refine their own artistic identity. Social media fatigue is real. Intentional automations (like email marketing funnels) can create sustainability without constant online presence. Used wisely, AI can actually help you fall back in love with photography by giving you your time and inspiration back. AI isn’t the enemy. Burnout is. Blending in is. Giving away your creative voice is. When you let AI handle the repeatable tasks — culling, base edits, workflow — you get your time back for what actually matters: your clients, your craft, and creating because you want to. If you’re curious, you can try Imagen through my ambassador link (with 1500 free edits included). And if you have questions, DM me. I want you editing faster, loving your images more, and feeling inspired again. Meet Noella Noella Andres has been in the photography game for over 20 years — Chasing love stories, and eventually finding her real passion: helping other photographers grow wildly successful businesses of their own. These days, she's all about marketing, brand partnerships, and business coaching — guiding photographers as they step into their next big thing, whether that’s launching a course, building passive income, or leveling up their visibility. She’s part strategy nerd, part hype girl, and fully invested in helping creatives find freedom in their business (and have a little fun doing it). Connect with Noella + Imagen AI
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The Infinite Ways to Photograph a Woman with Elizabeth Messina
02/05/2026
The Infinite Ways to Photograph a Woman with Elizabeth Messina
There are episodes that feel like a permission slip… and this one is exactly that. If you’ve ever thought, “I’m a wedding photographer,” or “I’m a family photographer,” or you’ve let a label quietly box you in—this conversation is for you. I’m bringing back my dear friend Elizabeth Messina to the podcast, and every time she’s here, I’m reminded why her work has moved people for decades: she doesn’t just take photos—she sees women. We talk about what it actually looks like to evolve across genres without losing your signature. How to stay curious even after years in the industry. And why the real “secret” behind her iconic imagery isn’t a preset or a pose—it’s connection, presence, and trust. Key Takeaways Trust your voice—your point of view matters, even when other styles inspire you. Stay curious forever; learning keeps your work (and you) alive. Sensitivity and empathy aren’t “too much”—they’re a creative advantage behind the camera. Your brand can be cohesive across genres when your eye is the through-line. Photograph women through seasons of life, not rigid categories like “weddings” or “maternity.” Maternity work is powerful because it holds joy, vulnerability, and identity change at once. There are infinite ways to photograph pregnancy—go beyond the standard belly pose. Build trust through connection first; the image comes second. Offer possibility with “What if…?” instead of forcing a concept onto a client. Make the process the win—real connection matters even when you don’t get the booking. Know your gear and workflow so the “technical math” doesn’t interrupt your creativity. Stay engaged with your own work (even if you outsource) so you keep evolving as an artist. Trust is built in your communication long before the shoot—read what they asked and respond like a human. A sustainable career often comes from evolving alongside your clients over time. This episode is a love letter to the idea that you don’t have to be “one thing” to be taken seriously. You can evolve. You can explore. You can shoot weddings and maternity and dark moody work and sun-drenched dreamy work—and still be unmistakably you. Elizabeth’s work is proof that your artistry gets stronger the more you stay connected: to your camera, to your subjects, and to your own creative truth. And if you’re feeling that tug to expand what you shoot—take this as your sign: you’re allowed to grow. Meet Elizabeth Elizabeth Messina is a world renowned, award winning, celebrity photographer. She is a New York Times best selling author & a passionate teacher.. Elizabeth was named "one of the most influential photographers of our decade" by PDN. Elizabeth has been capturing evocative photographs of women since she picked up a camera at the tender age of 12. Her images are a reflection of her heart. Elizabeth Messina is a visionary, her images tell stories of longing, solitude & the tangible beauty of the human experience. Although Elizabeth's photography takes her all over the world, her home is in Southern California, where she lives with her 3 children & 3 dogs. She continues to be a seeker of beautiful light, strong coffee & meaningful connections. Connect with Elizabeth
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Building a Brand That Attracts the Right Opportunities with Gary & Kim Evans
01/22/2026
Building a Brand That Attracts the Right Opportunities with Gary & Kim Evans
On today’s episode of the Play It Brave podcast, I’m sitting down with one of my favorite creative power couples in the photography industry, Gary Evans and Kim Evans. We talk about what it really looks like to rebrand with intention, build a cohesive identity, and grow multiple businesses together without losing alignment—or your relationship—in the process. This conversation weaves together the emotional and practical sides of entrepreneurship: branding beyond logos, finding your voice in the education space, building an email list that actually converts, and creating offers like retreats that feel meaningful and expansive. We also dive into collaboration, working as a couple, and why asking for help can completely change the trajectory of your business. What we talk about in this episode: Why branding is foundational, not optional, when building a sustainable business How to create a cohesive identity that actually reflects who you are The role visual identity plays in client trust and perception Finding your unique voice in a crowded education space Using email lists and freebies as powerful (and aligned) growth tools Why retreats can be such a transformative offering for photographers The magic that happens when collaboration is rooted in alignment Working with your partner’s strengths instead of against them Prioritizing family and relationships while growing a business Why reaching out for help can fast-track your growth in the best way This episode is a beautiful reminder that success doesn’t have to be chaotic or lonely—and that when your brand truly reflects who you are, it can open doors you never even knew to knock on. Meet Gary & Kim Here's our story - we met, despite living in separate countries, by a complete twist of fate that led Gary to help a friend at the same wedding show where Kim had a booth. Gary scoped her out and said she's "right up my street" and 18 months later, after multiple flights, over 50,000 miles, Gary sold his photography company, house, and just about everything else and moved from the UK to Ontario, Canada. We had to completely rebuild his business in Canada, sold our decorating and floral design business, rejigged the photography, built Pop Up Weddings, a wedding subscription box, I Do Box.... When I say we're serious business builders, we're not lying. With every business move, we analyze + plan + move forward. We release what is not profitable and focus on the projects that are making bank. That's our story - we are serial creators. And you get two for the price of one. We're a dynamic team, each with individual strengths that we can use to supercharge your business. Gary is a technical whiz, anything photography we got you. Kim is a marketing, systems and logistics queen. She'll figure out how to make it work, attack any issues like a pitbull and cheer you on while you reach your biggest goals. Connect with Gary & Kim
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The Sales Call Mistakes Costing You Luxury Clients: Live Coaching with Jasmine Ortiz
01/08/2026
The Sales Call Mistakes Costing You Luxury Clients: Live Coaching with Jasmine Ortiz
This week on the Play It Brave podcast, I’m doing something a little different — I’m bringing you behind the scenes for a real coaching session with one of my favorite photographers (and one of my trusted second shooters), Jasmine Ortiz. This episode is for every photographer who has ever thought: “I know my work is good… so why do I get weird and wobbly the second it’s time to talk about pricing?” Because that moment — where you’re ready to raise your rates, step into a higher tier of client, and be paid like the artist you actually are — requires more than updating a number on a proposal. It requires an identity shift. In this conversation, Jasmine shares what’s been happening as she raises her prices: how her old sales call script worked at a lower price point, but suddenly feels stiff, robotic, and way too logistics-heavy for the clients she wants to book now. And from there, I walk her through the exact framework I teach inside my one-to-one coaching and masterminds — the same structure that’s helped photographers go from booking $3–6K weddings to booking $8K, $10K, $20K, even $30K. Because at the luxury and intro-luxury level, clients aren’t choosing you because you’re “easygoing” and “go with the flow.” They’re choosing you because you feel like a leader. A director. An artist with presence, taste, and a clear process. And the best part? You can learn that. You can practice that. You can embody that. In this episode, we talk about: Why so many photographers unintentionally dilute their authority by trying to be the couple’s “bestie” How luxury clients want warmth, yes — but they also want clarity, confidence, and precision The difference between “participating” in the call vs. leading the call How to ask better questions than “So what’s your vision?” Why selling at a higher level means selling an experience and a feeling, not hours and deliverables How to keep the first call exciting (and not turn it into a timeline-planning meeting) What to say instead of “We can totally do whatever you want” (because… no. Not if you’re positioning luxury) The 7 shifts I gave Jasmine (you can steal these too): Before we recorded, Jasmine sent me a transcript of a real sales call — and once I read it, I found seven immediate tweaks that would completely change her conversions at a higher price point. Here they are: Stop being overly casual. Warm is good. Too familiar is not. Luxury requires a calm, grounded presence. Don’t let the couple dictate the call. They don’t want to run the show — they want to hire someone who can. Step into the identity of the director. You’re not auditioning to be chosen. You’re guiding them through a curated experience. Remove all “wishy-washy” language. “Whatever you want!” is not elegance. Recommendations are. Mirror their exact words back to them. This is huge. If you don’t repeat their emotional buying criteria, they won’t feel seen. Hold the space as an expert guide. Don’t match chaos. Don’t match overwhelm. You hold the calm. Stay professional while still being warm. Approachable, yes. Chatty friend energy, no. If you’re in the season of raising your rates, hear me when I say: you don’t just raise your prices — you raise your presence. You shift your language. You shift your leadership. You shift your identity. Because luxury clients aren’t buying your packages. They’re buying you.
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Talking to Trees and Dealing with Depression: D’Arcy’s 2025 Reflection
12/11/2025
Talking to Trees and Dealing with Depression: D’Arcy’s 2025 Reflection
Welcome to the final episode of 2025 — the year of the snake, the year of shedding skins that no longer fit. If this year felt like a raw unraveling, a call to deeper truth, a refusal from the Universe to let you live inside half-truths or “good enough,” this episode is for you. As has become tradition, I invited one of my wisest, most grounded friends — Casey — to interview me about my year. She’s someone who’s seen my behind-the-scenes, the unglamorous parts, the sacred parts, the parts that never make it to Instagram. And because this was a year of immense change, grief, healing, and rebirth, I wanted this conversation to be real. We talk about everything: The breakup. The depression. The healing journey in Bali and India. The spiritual reconnection I didn’t see coming. The beauty that still insisted on blooming. The nervous system work that saved my life. Talking to trees. (Yes… literally.) And the small, holy ways I remembered myself again. This episode is tender, unpolished, and human — and I’m sharing it because if you are walking through something dark, I want you to know you aren’t alone, and your story doesn’t end there. So wherever you are — whether you’re on a mountaintop celebrating or inching your way out of darkness — you’re not behind. You’re not broken. You’re simply learning the wisdom that your soul came here to learn. Beauty is already blooming for you. Let it in. Thank you for walking with me through this year. Thank you for your prayers, your messages, your presence. I can’t wait for what we’ll create together in 2026 — the year of movement, momentum, freedom, and joy. Stay brave. Stay tender. Stay open to beauty. Much love, D’Arcy
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The Art of High-End Weddings with Dawn Weisberg of Tularosa Flowers
12/04/2025
The Art of High-End Weddings with Dawn Weisberg of Tularosa Flowers
In today’s episode, I’m talking with my friend Dawn Weisberg of Tularosa Flowers about what it actually takes to create and book large-scale luxury weddings — not just from a “pretty” standpoint, but from a strategic, energetic, and logistical one. Dawn and I both came to the wedding industry later in life with long creative careers behind us — mine in directing and acting, hers in costume design for film and television. We get into how those backgrounds shaped the way we approach weddings as world-building: cinematic, intentional, immersive, and deeply rooted in storytelling. We talk about: How Dawn went from starting florals at 45 to designing six-figure weddings in under a decade Why she treats every wedding like a film set: thinking in scenes, movement, and guest experience The behind-the-scenes systems and logistics that make large-scale productions possible How her viral “Malibu Barbie meets Marie Antoinette” pink wedding came to life — and what made it blow up online The creative process of pulling inspiration from runway shows, architecture, art, travel, and above all, the couple themselves Why color is having a moment in the luxury world and how to use it in a way that still feels timeless and elevated The mindset shifts required to feel safe holding and delivering on big budgets The role publications & Pinterest have played in her growth (and how she handles rejection like a pro) How styled shoots and editorials catapulted both of our careers into higher price points What florists actually need from photographers on a wedding day to grow their own businesses We also explore the emotional and energetic side of this work — what it’s like to be genuinely obsessed with your craft, how to avoid burnout by building a business that actually feeds you, and why weddings are still the modern-day fairy tale for both couples and creatives. P.S. I’m hosting a Tuscany Real Wedding Workshop this spring — a real wedding with a real couple and 30 real guests, photographed and designed over multiple days. You’ll walk away with: A full multi-day destination wedding story (engagement, welcome party, bridal editorial, wedding day, farewell event) A pre-trip mentorship to refine your brand, portfolio gaps, and shot list A post-trip call where we turn your gallery into a 90-day luxury marketing plan If your gut is saying “this is my next level,” send me a DM and I’ll send you the full proposal. We have very limited spots. Meet Dawn Dawn Weisberg is the owner and flower mastermind behind Tularosa Flowers, a luxury wedding design company in Southern California in the San Diego area. Voted Best Florist San Diego by California Wedding Magazine for both 2025 and 2024, she is dedicated to providing the highest level of design and service to her clients. Dawn's breadth of expertise enables her to offer a visionary edge to her work with a unique perspective in the wedding industry. With a Master's Degree in Theatrical Design from New York University's acclaimed Tisch School of the Arts, her classical training was augmented studying fine art in Italy, where she apprenticed in a Costume and Mask Studio in Venice. After a successful career for 20 years in film and television as a costume designer, Tularosa Flowers's owner chose to pursue her passion for flowers. Dawn combines her cinematic design background with her love of nature to create one-of-a-kind immersive experiences for her clients. The Tularosa style is an effortless maximalism combining Old World European style with California vibrance. Tularosa Flowers has been featured in all of the top wedding publications, including Vogue, Martha Stewart Weddings, Style Me Pretty, Once Wed, The Knot, Brides, Ruffled, Green Wedding Shoes, California Wedding Day, Inspired by This, 100 Layer Cake, June Bug, Wedding Chicks, Hey Wedding Lady, Smashing the Glass, and the Gay Wedding Guide. Tularosa has also partnered with luxury brands including Hermes, and David Austin Wedding Roses. As one of the nation's top and premier floral designers, Dawn has appeared as a wedding trend expert on CBS and FOX, as well as multiple wedding industry podcasts, and was the Mayesh 2024 Wedding Florist Design Star. Connect with Dawn
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Live Coaching: When Marketing Feels Like Too Much (And What to Do Instead)
11/21/2025
Live Coaching: When Marketing Feels Like Too Much (And What to Do Instead)
On today’s episode of Play It Brave, I’m bringing you behind the scenes for Part Two of my coaching call with photographer Staci Addison. In Part One, we focused on nervous system safety, trauma, and getting her out of chronic fight-or-flight so she could actually show up for her business. In this Part Two, we shift into strategy – creating a marketing plan that feels simple, sustainable, and true to who she is, instead of a giant pile of “shoulds” that leave her frozen and overwhelmed. I walk Staci through how to narrow her focus to just a few key marketing channels, how to build systems that support consistency (even if she doesn’t feel like a “systems person”), and how to use her natural gifts as a caring, creative, fun-loving photographer to become a true client magnet. In this episode, we discuss: How to narrow your marketing down to 2–3 simple, sustainable channels you can actually stick with. A step-by-step venue networking strategy that turns tours into blogs, Pinterest content, and real bookings. Why Pinterest + blogging are a power duo for local markets like Savannah (and how to use them intentionally). How to stop fearing “wrong clients” and instead attract aligned couples through clear process and storytelling. Ways to collect specific, story-driven testimonials that actually sell your experience. How to use ChatGPT as your marketing assistant to map out a month of content that still feels like you. We wrap the call by replacing overwhelm with simplicity and grounding into the belief: “I am a client magnet. My caring, creativity, and courage draw aligned clients to me.” Resources Mentioned: Italy Workshop (Sicily + Real Wedding Experience) Join me for an immersive creative pilgrimage in Sicily or a once-in-a-lifetime real wedding weekend experience in Italy. Both workshops include coaching, portfolio curation, and hands-on shooting with stunning venues, world-class florals, and intimate group guidance designed to elevate your brand Free Training — 25 Marketing Tips My most-loved free resource packed with 25 high-impact, doable marketing ideas you can start using immediately Want a practical, step-by-step marketing strategy? Skip ahead to 21:12.
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Live Coaching: When You Want to Grow, But Your Body Says No
11/06/2025
Live Coaching: When You Want to Grow, But Your Body Says No
Today I’m sharing something different: a real coaching call with my client, Staci Addison. Instead of jumping straight into marketing, we start where sustainable growth actually begins—helping your nervous system feel safe after grief, burnout, and a long, hard season. Most creatives don’t get stuck because they lack strategy; they get stuck because fear, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and old money stories keep their bodies from feeling safe enough to take action. When we rebuild safety and self-trust, the execution part finally clicks. On this call, I guide Staci to separate the “negative mind” from her true voice, create immediate safety in her body with simple somatic tools, and set loving boundaries (including with family) so her energy stops leaking and returns to her art and business. We also turn a nightly habit into a ritual of presence, upgrade the language she uses with herself, and practice micro-mothering—small daily acts that refill her capacity. Next week I’ll share her full marketing plan, but this episode is the foundation that makes strategy work. Takeaways: It’s not about fixing yourself; it’s about building safety so action becomes possible. Name and externalize the “negative pattern,” then let your heart answer back (two-column journaling, two minutes). Use simple somatics—Havening touch, a low “Voo” tone, orienting to the room, and a daily nature dose—to calm your system fast. Boundaries are love in action; they turn people-pleasing into choice and conserve energy for your business. Transform escapes into rituals of presence (music, candle, intention): I am coming home to myself. Upgrade your language: not “I’m not good enough,” but “A negative pattern is saying ___; my truth is ___.” Micro-mother yourself daily with one small act of care to rebuild self-trust. If this resonates and you want private support, I’m finalizing 2025 coaching pricing and bundles through November 30, 2025. . There is a softer way back—and I’ll meet you there.
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The Price of Status: What It Really Takes to Get Published with Sandra Åberg
10/16/2025
The Price of Status: What It Really Takes to Get Published with Sandra Åberg
Today I’m joined by my brilliant friend, fashion-and-wedding photographer Sandra Åberg, for a real talk we’ve both been having off-mic for years: does being “published” (Vogue, Harper’s, Martha) actually mean you’ve arrived—or is it another industry illusion that keeps creatives chasing validation? We swap origin stories (Milan fashion sets, Sports Illustrated mayhem, and stumbling into weddings), talk integrity lines, and share the unseen mechanics behind advertorials, vendor lists, and “top” roundups—what’s paid, what’s earned, and what actually moves the needle in a creative business. We also dig into the soul of the work: why connection with your couples matters more than a logo, and how to protect your creative magic in a content-driven world. If you’ve ever wondered whether you should pay to play, whether that “Vogue cover” on Instagram was an ad, or how to define success on your own terms—this one’s for you. In this episode, we cover: The myth of arrival: Why “as seen in…” is social proof—not a finish line. Paid vs. earned press: Advertorials, vendor lists, and “Top Photographer” roundups—how they really work and what they’re good for. Integrity lines: Finding your yes/no around paying for placements, ads, and algorithms. From fashion to weddings: Sandra’s Milan years, mentorship, and the moment that shifted her values. When the dream feels empty: Sandra’s Vogue Japan cover—and the unexpected loneliness on the other side. What books/awards/followers really signal: The strategy behind best-seller lists and big platforms. Connection over clout: Why knowing (and liking!) your couples changes the images—and the experience. Working with planners: How to keep creative chemistry when gatekeepers run the process. Creator vs. content creator: Guardrails for protecting your artistry in a metrics world. Defining success: Visibility, vulnerability, and being seen for who you are—not what you’ve published. Part two lands soon: “Be a Creator, Not Just a Content Creator”—plus details on our intimate Italy experience designed to rekindle your artistry (and yes, we’ll talk smart, values-aligned pathways to publication). Question for you: Where’s your line between integrity and appearances—and what does “playing it brave” look like in your visibility strategy right now? Meet Sandra Sandra Åberg is an internationally acclaimed photographer known for her ethereal style, poetic storytelling, and deeply emotional imagery. With over 15 years of experience, she has photographed for Vogue, captured celebrity weddings, and built a reputation as one of Europe’s leading names in luxury destination wedding photography. Founder of both Atelier Åberg and her namesake brand, Sandra is not only a visual artist but also an educator and mentor, inspiring photographers and creatives worldwide to dream big and build a life they love. Connect with Sandra
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The Myth of the Perfect Leader with Jessica Drogosz
10/09/2025
The Myth of the Perfect Leader with Jessica Drogosz
If you’ve ever paused on your next chapter because you think you need to be “more ready” or “more perfect,” this one’s for you. My dear friend, multi-hyphenate creative and mentor Jessica Eileen Drogosz joins me to dismantle the myth that leaders must have it all together before they lead. From building associate teams and separating brands to launching a heart-led coaching offer, Jessica shares the real (and often messy) middle—where clarity, courage, and connection are forged. So many of you are standing on the edge of your next season—coaching, teaching, creating a course, or simply showing up more boldly online. If perfectionism has been your speed bump, consider this your green light. Progress—not flawlessness—is what builds mastery, self-trust, and momentum. In this episode, we cover: The myth of perfection and why showing your humanity actually builds more trust. Following the “whisper”—how to recognize the nudge that it’s time for your next thing. Making space for multipassionate work: running successful photo brands and stepping into mentorship. Leadership in real life: humility, owning mistakes, and building systems with your team. Identity first, strategy second: creating from the future you (website, offers, and voice) before you “feel ready.” Micro-leaps & progress tracking: simple daily practices that compound into big outcomes. Social media resistance: sharing vulnerably in a new container without overthinking it. Coaching with depth: why inner story work belongs before scaling strategies. You don’t need a perfect plan to lead—you need your imperfect, present self and one brave step. If you’re ready to move from dreaming to doing, go follow Jessica and book a clarity call. And if you want coaching around identity, mindset, and strategy for your next season, my door’s open too. Let’s build the future you—starting today. Meet Jessica Jessica Eileen Drogosz is a multi-hyphenate creative with over 14 years of experience turning vision into reality through artistry, strategy, and soul. As the founder of For Just a Moment Weddings and Our Days Photo and Film, she has traveled the world documenting love, legacy, and human connection—blending refined editorial style with honest, documentary storytelling. Beyond photography her work has always been about more: helping others step fully into their story, create with truth, and embrace the beauty of becoming. Through her Undone & Becoming coaching, Jessica supports women and creative entrepreneurs in moving from uncertainty to clarity, from dreaming to doing. She offers strategic guidance, grounded mentorship, and bold encouragement to help others take their next leap—with heart, purpose, and integrity. Connect with Jessica
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