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Practice and Pursuit of Ihsan-Lecture2

Release Date: 08/24/2020

Episode 362: The Motivation to Let Go [24:22]

Loving and Living the Quran

Yesterday we reflected on the cost of holding onto grudges. Today we turn to the motivation the Qur’an offers for choosing the difficult path of forgiveness. Allah says: “Let them pardon and overlook. Do you not love that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.” (24:22) Before addressing the motivation embedded in this verse, we must acknowledge something honestly: forgiveness is difficult. The Qur’an itself describes it as an act of courage. Why is it so hard? When someone wrongs us, the injury often feels like a threat to our dignity. Holding onto the grievance...

Episode 363: Returning Home [89:27-30]

Loving and Living the Quran

Thirty days ago we began this series exploring the journey of the human nafs toward Allah. We reflected on the full spectrum of who we are: a noble creature before whom the angels bowed (38:72), and a creature of weakness who forgets (4:28). We explored the fitrah, the inner compass of conscience that Allah placed within us. We examined the nafs al-ammarah that pulls us toward desire and the nafs al-lawwamah that awakens discomfort when we stray. We discussed the path of returning to Allah through tawbah, and the courage required to repair our relationships with others through apology,...

Episode 361: The Cost of Holding On [42:40]

Loving and Living the Quran

Yesterday we reflected on verse 42:40 and discussed “aslaha” — making amends with others, which is an important part of setting things right with Allah. Today we turn to the word that comes before it in the verse: “The recompense of evil is an evil like it, but whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, his reward is with Allah.” (42:40) Before reconciliation comes forgiveness ‘afw. The Qur’an begins by acknowledging something deeply human: if someone wrongs you, you have the right to respond proportionally. Justice is permitted. The Qur’an is not asking you to pretend the harm...

Episode 360: The Harder Turning [42:40]

Loving and Living the Quran

Allah says: “The recompense of evil is an evil like it. But whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, his reward is with Allah.” (42:40) This verse recognizes something important: when someone harms us, we have the right to respond proportionally. Justice is permitted. But the verse then points to something higher. Whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, their reward is with Allah. Over the past few days we have been talking about tawbah — returning to Allah and repairing our relationship with Him. Today’s verse shifts the focus to another dimension of repentance: repairing our...

Episode 359: Recognizing Al-Tawwāb [2:37]

Loving and Living the Quran

Allah says: “Then Adam received words from his Lord, so He turned to him mercifully. Surely He is al-Tawwāb, the Merciful.” (2:37) The first time the Qur’an introduces the Divine name al-Tawwāb appears in the story of Adam (as). After being tempted by Iblis and leaving the Garden, Adam experienced the weight of what had happened. In that moment of remorse, he turned back to Allah. But the Qur’an highlights something remarkable: Adam’s turning did not begin with him alone. Allah taught him the words of return — the kalimāt through which he repented. This reveals something...

Episode 358: Tawwab as an Identity [2:222]

Loving and Living the Quran

Allah says: “Surely Allah loves those who turn to Him repeatedly, and He loves those who purify themselves.” (2:222) The Qur’an does not simply praise those who repent once. It praises al-tawwābīn — those who return again and again. The word tawwāb in Arabic implies repetition and continuity. It describes a person for whom returning to Allah is not a rare emergency response after a major mistake, but a regular spiritual rhythm. Repentance becomes a disposition. The people Allah loves are not those who never drift. They are those who do not stay away for long. Imam Khomeini reflects...

Episode 357: You Will Find Him [4:110]

Loving and Living the Quran

Allah says: “Whoever does evil or wrongs his own soul and then seeks forgiveness from Allah will find Allah Forgiving, Merciful.” (4:110) This verse contains a powerful promise. It acknowledges two kinds of wrongdoing: harm toward others and harm toward one’s own soul through sin. Yet the verse does not end with condemnation. It ends with an invitation. If such a person turns and seeks forgiveness, the Qur’an says: “he will find Allah.” The verb used is yajid — he will find. It is immediate and certain. To find something implies it was already there. The verse suggests that Allah...

Episode 356: The Roadmap to Return [66:8]

Loving and Living the Quran

Allah says: “O you who believe! Turn to Allah in sincere repentance (tawbatan nasūḥā). Perhaps your Lord will remove from you your evil and admit you into gardens beneath which rivers flow.” (66:8) This verse addresses believers — people already in relationship with Allah. Tawbah is not only for those far away. It is part of the ongoing life of faith. The Qur’an emphasizes the quality of repentance: tawbatan nasūḥā — sincere, wholehearted repentance. Scholars explain the word nasūḥā in several ways: A repentance done purely for Allah’s sake. A repentance that...

Episode 355 : Do Not Despair [39:53]

Loving and Living the Quran

Allah says: “Say: O My servants who have transgressed against their own souls, do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Surely Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, He is the Forgiving, the Merciful.” (39:53) This verse is often described by scholars as one of the most hope-giving verses in the Qur’an. Notice how Allah addresses the very people who feel most distant: “O My servants.” Even in the moment of transgression, the relationship is not severed. The belonging remains. The Qur’an describes sin as “transgressing against your own soul.” It frames wrongdoing not primarily as...

Episode 354: The Cost of Drifting [83:14]

Loving and Living the Quran

Allah says: “No! Rather, what they used to do has become like rust upon their hearts.” (83:14) Over the past reflections, we have explored the inner landscape of the soul — the fitrah, the states of the nafs, the pull of desire, and the voice of conscience. Recently we reflected on how communities help protect that conscience through mutual guardianship. Today we ask a difficult question: what happens when the soul drifts and does not return? The Qur’an uses the word rān, often translated as rust or a covering over the heart. Classical scholars explain that the human soul begins pure...

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DEFINITION OF ISLAM: Rahma- dealing with people with more than just justice.

REFERENCE: SURAH AL-ISRA/BANI-ISRAEL- THE NIGHT JOURNEY

When you do ihsan, you do it for yourself. We have the freedom of choice to choose our actions but we do not choose the consequences of our actions.

Physical benefits of doing good to others:

Causes longevity
Reduction of early death
Reduced incidence of brain decline

Mental and emotional benefits of doing good to others:

Helper’s high: Engaging in good deeds results in the brain releasing feel-good chemicals that are associated with happiness.
Brain chemicals are also released: oxytocin, dopamine, endorphins
Tend and mend response- we want to approach people and build relationships.
Helps keep our problems in perspective. Having a larger purpose helps direct your attention and keep it in perspective.
Starts a virtuous cycle that cements relationships and strengthens families, communities.
A kindness bank is created in our brains. Every time we think about those good actions we feel good.
You win hearts when you do good deeds.
Must do it consistently in order to gain its benefits.

However, you must do the deed with the correct intention or it will not benefit you. Do it out of the goodness of your heart rather than to gain something in return.

Certain etiquettes whilst doing ihsan:

Underestimate and undervalue the good act.
Do not make a person feel obligated towards you for helping them out.
Conceal the good deed from the rest of society.
Only reveal the good deed if it will encourage others to partake of the deed too.
Hastening the completion of the good deed. Don’t make people wait for your help once you have offered it.
Forget about the deed once it is completed.

Narration of Imam Ali (AS): To be in this world is not good except for two types of people:

Someone who is doing more good deeds and ihsan
Someone who has done bad deeds and is trying to compensate by doing tawba.

LINKS:

Surah Al-Isra- The Night Journey- [17:7]
Tuhaf al Uqul no. 403

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