474 | Mentors Teach You How to Collapse Time
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Release Date: 11/14/2022
827 | Rewiring Your Patterns for Ease
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In this episode, I share the concept of "anchors," a powerful technique from Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). Have you ever tried to push through resistance only to feel disconnected and unnatural? This struggle often stems from limiting beliefs and ingrained strategies that dictate our actions. Just like baking a cake requires a specific order of operations, so does our approach to personal growth. Anchoring allows us to evoke and harness positive emotions—such as confidence, gratitude, and joy—by consciously recalling specific experiences. However, we often anchor negative emotions...
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826 | Celebrating the Women Who Paved the Way
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In this episode, I take a moment to reflect on the significance of International Women's Day, which is just around the corner. I share my personal journey of understanding and embracing this day, a realization that only came to me about a decade ago. The history of International Women's Day is rich and profound, and I emphasize the importance of women supporting one another—a theme that resonates deeply with me. Together, we rise, and together, we can create a powerful community of support and empowerment. Happy International Women's Day to all the incredible women out there! Thank you for...
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825 | Embrace Your Human Experience to Manifest Abundance with Kathleen Cameron
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I speak with The World’s Top Manifestation Mentor, Kathleen Cameron, in this episode. Kathleen is the world’s top manifestation mentor. Her company, Diamond Academy, has skyrocketed to international acclaim, generating over $30M in under four years. She has helped thousands of people transform their lives with her innovative approach to “The Art of Expansion.” Using her techniques for raising self-awareness, expanding consciousness, and embodying faith, over 100,000 people have manifested more love, health, money, success, and undeniable impact. Kathleen is the author of two...
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824 | The Identity Shifts You Walk Through
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In this episode, I share the concept of identity and its critical role in facilitating lasting change, particularly through the lens of neurolinguistic programming (NLP). I share insights from my experiences with clients in various coaching settings, emphasizing that true transformation occurs at the identity level. I talk about the destruction before creation, explaining that letting go of old patterns, relationships, and beliefs is essential for making space for new growth. I encourage listeners to reframe their perspectives on loss, viewing it as a sign of alignment rather than...
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823 | Leading from the Heart with Boundaries
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In this episode, I am sharing the concept of being a heart-led leader while maintaining essential boundaries. Drawing from my personal experiences, including my journey as a leader in the Heartwired Leaders mastermind and the profound lessons learned from recent personal challenges, I explore the delicate balance between vulnerability and self-protection. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction to Heart-Led Leadership and Boundaries 00:01:00 - The Importance of Boundaries in Leadership 00:02:00 - Personal Reflections on Loss and Gratitude 00:03:00 - The Power of Sharing and Holding Space 00:04:00 -...
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822 | What it Takes to Be A Sober Gangster with Kate Vitela
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In this episode, I speak with Kate Vitela, a board-certified nurse coach and certified addiction RN with over two decades of nursing experience. Kate has been sober since 2018. She has empowered women in recovery with humour, science, and spiritual growth. Her podcast, "You Been Selected," inspires transformation through real talk and actionable tools for sobriety and personal development. Throughout our conversation, we explored the misconceptions surrounding addiction, particularly the stigma that often accompanies it. Kate emphasized the importance of understanding addiction as a...
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821 | It's Not About Whether Anyone Else Believes in You
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In this episode, I am sharing the myth that you need someone to believe in order to have success in yourself. I challenge the notion that we need this external belief to move forward in our lives and businesses. Instead, I emphasize the importance of cultivating our own belief in ourselves, as this internal conviction is what truly drives change and success. Throughout the episode, I introduce the idea that our calling is uniquely ours—it's not a conference call where everyone else is expected to cheer us on. I encourage listeners to consider what it would feel like to believe in themselves...
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820 | Where Do You Find Your Expanders?
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In this episode, I dive deep into one of the most transformative elements of my business journey: the power of in-person connections. I have witnessed firsthand how being in a room with like-minded individuals can expand my network, mindset, and business potential. Throughout the episode, I emphasize the concept of "expanders"—individuals who stretch our vision of what is possible. I encourage listeners to seek out these expanders in virtual or in-person settings, as they can provide invaluable insights and inspiration. I discuss how entering the right rooms can change your energy, boost...
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819 | The Power of Presence to Navigate High-Stakes Situations with Brian Hite
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In this episode, I speak with Brian Hite. Brian is a modern-day Renaissance man, blending high-octane stunt work with sport/performance psychology and education. With over 100 film and TV credits, including a Screen Actors Guild award for "24," and more than a decade training U.S. Army soldiers, Brian brings a wealth of experience to his work. Holding a Master's in Sport Psychology, a Ph.D. in Organizational Psychology, and several coaching certifications, he is an expert in human performance. Brian’s engaging keynotes challenge conventional thinking and inspire bold, innovative solutions....
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818 | Raising the Floor Before Raising the Bar
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In this episode, I recount my experience speaking at the Manifest Her event, where I participated in a wealth panel. This opportunity sparked a significant realization about the disconnect between our lofty goals and our self-belief. I emphasize the necessity of raising our "floor"—the foundation of our self-worth and belief in our capabilities—before we can effectively reach higher goals. I discuss how failing to address this gap can lead to a cycle of self-sabotage, where unmet goals diminish our self-esteem even further. I encourage listeners to define their success and assess whether...
info_outlineIn this episode, I am sharing thoughts on how mentors can teach you how to collapse time. I have been in the role of being a lifelong student for years, and I recently experienced a Breakthrough Day as a Master NLP Practitioner and it had me reflecting on this journey.
In this episode, we discuss:
1) We all have a personal and business vision of who we are and where we want to be, but getting there on our own, with all life’s distractions, commitments, psychological baggage, perceived limitations and roadblocks, can block our momentum. Our brain, limiting thoughts and beliefs are not our friend and can stop us in our tracks.
2) A great coach or mentor, especially one who has been in your shoes before, and then upsized. For a good coach to be a good fit for you, they must have had actual experience in what you want to achieve, and they must have done what you want before, in their own lives. They are an expert because they have shared their experiences and it is relatable to you and where you’re at.
3) The only way they can truly collapse time is if you choose to integrate, apply the learnings and embody the lessons. Plus your network becomes your net worth. Get in the rooms and allow yourself to immerse and learn what you are meant to learn. It’s accountability at its finest.
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Marsha Vanwynsberghe — Author, Speaker, and Life Coach
Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”. She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse far past the level of normal experimentation.
Through her programs, coaching, and live events for women, Marsha is on a mission to teach you how to “Own Your Choices” in your own life. She teaches women how to own their stories, lead themselves and pay it forward to others by creating businesses that serve, support, and impact others.