707 | Cancer Taught Me To Appreciate The Moments with Ray Hartjen
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
Release Date: 05/23/2024
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I had the pleasure of welcoming Avalon Moans, a talented photographer specializing in helping female small business owners become the confident face of their brands. Our conversation began with a nostalgic reflection on our first meeting at a networking event, where I encouraged Avalon to share her story and record it. This moment marked a significant turning point for her, as it helped her gain confidence in articulating her message. Avalon shared her transformative journey, highlighting how stepping out of her comfort zone by volunteering at networking events opened doors to...
info_outline 780 | You Cannot Outthink How Your Body FeelsOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I dive deep into the significance of our thoughts and how they shape our reality. I emphasize the importance of owning our thoughts and stories, explaining that they will own us if we don’t take control. I discuss the concept that we cannot outthink how our bodies feel, highlighting the disconnect many experiences between our conscious thoughts and subconscious emotions. I encourage listeners to recognize when fear or anxiety arises and to understand that these feelings are often rooted in past experiences and trapped emotions. Throughout the episode, I stress the necessity...
info_outline 779 | Handling Comments Like a Pro — Using the Power of Language to Respond with ConfidenceOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this quick Friday episode, I dive into the art of handling comments like a pro, whether they come from in-person interactions or the online world. I recount a recent experience with a client who was struggling with negative online comments. It became clear that she was internalizing these remarks, interpreting them as personal attacks, even when they weren't directed at her. I emphasize the importance of recognizing that comments often stem from the speaker's own perspective and experiences, not necessarily reflecting our worth or abilities. I outline several techniques for handling...
info_outline 778 | The Tools for Female Founders to Soar with Ashley DelandOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I am speaking with Ashley Deland. Ashley is a Strategic Business Advisor for female founders specializing in marketing, branding, and business development. She is also the Founder and CEO of Maison De Land, a full-service creative design house that supports lifestyle brands and founders through comprehensive done-for-you services. With over a decade of experience, Ashley is a recognized expert in the field of business, has been featured in Forbes, INC, and Entrepreneur, and currently sits on the Forbes Business Council for the third consecutive year. She was the Business...
info_outline 777 | From Burnout to Breakthrough: My Journey to Feminine FlowOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I dive deep into the transformative journey of balancing masculine and feminine energies, particularly in building a successful business. Reflecting on my past experiences, I share how I spent much of my life operating solely in masculine energy—characterized by grit, tenacity, and a relentless push for results. While these traits are undeniably important, I realized that they often led me to cycles of burnout and disconnection from my true self. I recount my recent experience as a keynote speaker at the High Vibe Summit, where I faced personal challenges just days before...
info_outline 776 | What Do You Do When It Feels Like Nothing Is Working?Own Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I explore a topic that many of us can relate to: the feeling that despite our best efforts, nothing is working in our lives. I share insights from a recent conversation with a client, as well as my own experiences, to explore the question: What do you do when it feels like everything is happening but nothing is happening? I begin by encouraging listeners to clarify what they mean when they say, "Nothing is working." Is it a lack of progress or the absence of desired results? I emphasize the importance of specificity in our goals and definitions of success. Next, I discuss the...
info_outline 775 | No More Layers: Finding Freedom from Perfectionism with Martine CohenOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, we speak with Martine Cohen, the published author and former attorney who recently launched her book No More Layers. Martine grew up in Montreal and attended McGill University, earning degrees in civil law and common law. She has been an attorney for over 25 years and loves everything strategy. She spent the first few years of her career in litigation before entering the corporate world, advising and consulting for growth companies. Back in 2016, Martine’s world came crashing down after a car accident that left her with a severe concussion. It was a pivotal turning point in...
info_outline 774 | How Your Higher Self Guides You to SuccessOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I explore the profound connection between our higher selves and the intuitive downloads we receive throughout our lives. As I prepare to speak at a High-Vibe summit, I know I want to share my personal beliefs about stepping into our highest selves and the transformative power they hold for life and business. I begin by discussing the concept of intuitive downloads—those sudden, often inexplicable urges to pursue a new idea or project. These downloads come from our higher selves, guiding us toward our true path, even when our conscious minds may resist due to fear or...
info_outline 773 | What If It Did Happen Quickly?Own Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, we explore the powerful concept of readiness and the feelings that arise when we pursue our goals, mainly when they manifest quickly. Marsha works closely with entrepreneurs at various stages of their journeys and shares personal experiences and reflections on the emotional road of ambition and growth. We begin by addressing a common scenario: many aspiring business owners set lofty goals, such as attracting clients or speaking on stages, but when they envision achieving these goals overnight, they often feel a wave of panic. This reaction highlights a disconnect between their...
info_outline 772 | The Intersection of Spirituality, Mindset and Healing with Renée WalkerOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I am thrilled to welcome Renee Walker, a Mindset & Spiritual Teacher, Business Mentor & Speaker, and the podcast host of "Spiritually Wired." Our conversation dives deep into the intersection of spirituality, mindset, and personal growth, exploring how these elements can transform our lives and businesses. Renee shares her journey of self-discovery, which began over twenty years ago when she was prompted to reflect on her identity beyond the roles she played as a mother and professional. This pivotal moment ignited her spiritual journey, leading her to understand that...
info_outline707 | Cancer Taught Me To Appreciate The Moments with Ray Hartjen
In this episode, we speak with Writer & Musician, Ray Hartjen. Ray is a writer, musician and songwriter living in Northern California. In a professional career that has spanned parts of five decades, he pivoted on many occasions, from investment banking to pharmaceuticals, from consumer electronics to SaaS software. One constant throughout his career path, however, has been storytelling. A cancer fighter every day of the week that ends in a ‘y,’ Ray shares his experience and raises funds for the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation with his latest book, Me, Myself & My Multiple Myeloma. And, with life’s soundtrack playing in his head, Ray also performs and records with his two-piece acoustic band, the Chronic Padres.
In this episode, we discuss:
1) Cancer has become Ray’s biggest calling and he shares his experience and raises funds for the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation in his latest book, Me, Myself & My Myeloma. He has reframed his fight against cancer to focus on what makes life worth living.
2) Cancer taught Ray to not take life for granted, and the power of vulnerability and learning that his story could help others feel less alone in their story too.
Connect with Ray
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rayhartjen
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chronicpadres
Website: https://rayhartjen.com/store
Website: https://rayhartjen.com/
Email: [email protected]
Marsha Vanwynsberghe — Storytelling NLP Trainer, Speaker, Publisher & Author, 2xs Podcaster
Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”. She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse that tore her family unit apart. Marsha has been published 7xs, most recently with her co-platform, Every Body Holds A Story, and she is on a mission to continue to help women and men to speak, share, and publish their stories.
Through her tools, OUTSPOKEN NLP certification, programs, coaching, and podcast, Marsha teaches the power of Radical Responsibility and Owning Your Choices in your own life. She empowers people how to heal and own their stories, be conscious leaders, and build platform businesses that create massive impact.