815 | Moving Through Emotions with Powerful Questions
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In this episode, I am sharing a coaching experience that will resonate with many of you, especially those grappling with procrastination and self-doubt. While this episode isn't solely about procrastination, it offers valuable questions and insights that can help shift your mindset and energy away from anything that isn't serving you. Here are the four key questions to help you shift your mindset: 1. Is it possible to do and good to have done? 2. What decision would my future self make? 3. How can I do one thing that moves me toward where I'm going today? 4. How can I micro and macro stack my...
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814 | From Overthinking to Action: Break the Cycle of Suffering
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In this episode, I dive into the powerful distinction between pain and suffering, a topic that has resonated with many of you after I shared a thought-provoking quote on my social media. The quote, "Pain is inevitable. Suffering is a choice," has taken on new meaning for me, and I want to explore it further with you. Throughout the episode, I stress that suffering is an energy leak that can hinder our progress and well-being. I encourage listeners to call themselves out when they find themselves stuck in an overthinking cycle and choose action instead. I highlight the importance of learning...
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813 | How Writing Transforms Your Mindset with Kayla Logue
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In this episode, I am connecting with Best-Selling Author, Non-Profit Founder and Motivational Speaker Kayla Logue. Kayla is a trailblazer on a mission to empower individuals to sculpt their own destinies and redefine success. As a bestselling author and founder of the non-profit Move Into Words, Kayla inspires others to embrace radical self-accountability and unleash their full potential. Her dynamic journey from a "picture-perfect" life to a path of bold choices exemplifies the power of personal transformation. Graduating with honors in Communications from the University of South Carolina...
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812 | Manifesting with the Power of NLP
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In this episode, I am sharing the message of manifestation combined with NLP. I am currently reading "Mind Magic" by Dr. James Doty, a neurosurgeon who explores the science behind manifesting and how our brains function. His insights have resonated with me, especially as he outlines a six-step process for manifesting anything you want. I share these steps through the Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) lens, hoping to provide a fresh perspective that might resonate with you. Bring your pen and paper. This is a packed episode. The six steps broken down in this episode are: 1. Reclaim...
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811 | The Book You’re Writing Every Day
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In this episode, I dive into the concept of our daily thoughts and how they shape the narrative of our lives. I start by sharing a striking statistic: we have between 60,000 and 80,000 thoughts daily, with 80% to 90% being repetitive and predominantly negative. This realization led me to a powerful metaphor: if we write a book in our minds daily, what kind of book are we writing? What is your "daily book" revealing about you? Are the thoughts uplifting and empowering, or do they serve to tear you down? What would someone learn about you if they read the book of their thoughts from that...
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810 | Bridging Cultures with a Focus on Philanthropy with Erika Aquino
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We speak with Angel Investor, Advisor and Mentor Erika Aquino in this episode. Erika is an experienced angel investor, strategic advisor and world traveller. She is passionate about empowering startups that balance profit with purpose. Based in the Philippines but often travelling between Miami, Singapore, and other global hubs, Erika specializes in supporting early-stage ventures focused on sustainability, wellness, education, and the future of work. Her philanthropy and volunteer work include providing educational access to underprivileged children and supporting underserved entrepreneurs....
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809 | You Will Never Outrun Your Thoughts
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In this episode, I share the transformative power of our thoughts and how they shape our lives. I start by sharing my experience of entering the year feeling slightly off and struggling to pinpoint the reasons behind my funk. It wasn't until I revisited a journaling practice that I began to uncover the layers of my thoughts and emotions. I emphasize the importance of allowing ourselves to express our thoughts freely without judgment or editing. This brain dump technique can lead to surprising revelations about our inner dialogue, often exposing feelings and beliefs we may not consciously...
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808 | Creating Safety Within Will Help to Manifest Your Dreams
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As we kick off this short Friday episode, I introduce a tool that I wish I had understood much earlier in my journey. The key takeaway? To truly create results in your life, you must first feel it before you see it. I discuss the importance of cultivating a sense of safety within your body to hold the goals you desire. Many of my clients come in with big dreams, but when I ask them how it would feel if those dreams were realized today, they often express feelings of fear and unpreparedness. This reaction stems from the subconscious mind's primary job: to keep us safe. I emphasize that stepping...
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807 | How to Turn Wounds into Rocket Fuel with Mike “C-Roc” Ciorrocco
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In this episode, we speak with Serial Entrepreneur, Author, and Co-Founder Mike C-Roc Ciorrocco. Mike is a futurist, serial entrepreneur, and luminary in business. As the founder of That1 Brand and Agency, he has demonstrated an unparalleled knack for launching and scaling successful enterprises. Renowned for his visionary leadership and dynamic public speaking abilities, Mike is the author of the acclaimed book, "ROCKET FUEL: Convert Setbacks. Become Unstoppable" and the host of the inspirational podcast "What Are You Made Of?" He has been acknowledged by Yahoo! Finance as one of the Top...
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806 | The Power of Your Thoughts Through The Lens of NLP
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In this episode, I am talking about the transformative potential of your thoughts. Through the lens of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), I share how our thoughts shape our reality. I stress the importance of managing your thoughts, as they directly influence your feelings, behaviours, and, ultimately, the results you achieve. I encourage listeners to identify their most persistent negative thoughts and to recognize that these thoughts are like seeds that can either nurture growth or hinder progress. I share practical strategies for catching and reframing negative thoughts. First, I discuss...
info_outlineIn this episode, I dive into the transformative power of changing our perspectives, particularly through the lens of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP). I share a realization I had recently: without altering our perspective, we cannot see our stories or circumstances in a new light. This episode is dedicated to exploring how shifting our viewpoint can unlock new opportunities for growth, healing, and self-discovery.
I begin by discussing the essence of NLP, which is fundamentally about understanding our mind's patterns and recognizing our blind spots. Our subconscious mind often operates on autopilot, replaying past experiences and limiting beliefs that keep us stuck in a comfort zone, even if that zone is uncomfortable. I emphasize the importance of reprogramming our inner narrative to change how we perceive our experiences and, ultimately, our reality.
One of the key techniques I introduce is subconscious timeline work. I explain how our subconscious does not recognize time, which means we can revisit past experiences and reframe them to create a more empowering narrative. By visualizing our future as if it has already happened, we can familiarize our subconscious with success and reduce the fear associated with pursuing new opportunities.
I also introduce the concept of perceptual positions, using the metaphor of watching a movie. By changing our viewpoint—whether as an observer in a theatre or as a distant camera operator—we can detach from the emotional intensity of our experiences. This shift allows us to gain insights and empathy, reducing stress and opening up new solutions that were previously hidden by our emotional responses.
Additionally, I discuss the technique of reframing, which involves changing the frame around our experiences to see them from a different angle. This simple yet powerful tool can transform obstacles into stepping stones, helping us to let go of limiting beliefs and embrace endless possibilities.
If you are ready to learn these tools, techniques and methods for changing your beliefs, thoughts and stories, I invite you into the OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification.
HIGHLIGHTS
00:00:00 - Introduction to NLP and Perspective Shift
00:01:05 - Understanding Your Mind and Patterns
00:02:21 - Subconscious Timeline Work
00:03:23 - The Comfort Zone and Safety
00:04:06 - Changing Your Perspective
00:05:10 - Perceptual Positioning Explained
00:06:34 - The Power of Observing Your Story
00:07:17 - Stepping Out of the Movie
00:08:31 - Empathy and Insight Through Perspective
00:09:56 - Reframing Your Experiences
00:10:49 - Shifting from Stuck to Possibilities
00:12:04 - Connecting to Your True Potential
00:12:58 - Invitation to Join Outspoken
Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster
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