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#153: Why We Struggle With Struggle—3 Steps to Strengthen Your Family’s Emotional Resilience

LOVE IS FEARLESS

Release Date: 03/26/2025

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Struggle isn’t the enemy, but how we navigate it can either weaken or strengthen our families. In this episode of Love Is Fearless, we’re tackling a fundamental shift that can change everything about the way we experience challenges at home and beyond.

The world teaches us to fear struggle, to fix it, avoid it, or control it. But the kingdom of God offers a completely different way forward—one that leads to peace, connection, and resilience instead of exhaustion and shame.

Today, we’re diving into the power of relational terrain—the unseen atmosphere of trust, connection, and security that determines whether struggle will make us stronger or wear us down.

🔑 In this episode, we explore:
1️⃣ Struggle isn’t the real problem—fear, isolation, and shame are. It’s not the struggle itself that harms us; it’s how we respond to it. In the kingdom, struggle is an invitation to growth, not a reason for guilt.

2️⃣ Your home’s relational terrain shapes how your family navigates struggle. When kids feel safe, seen, and connected, they develop resilience. But when fear, control, or performance shape the home, struggle feels like a crisis instead of a place to grow.

3️⃣ 3 Steps to Strengthen Your Family’s Relational Immune System:
  • The Habit of a Greeting: Simple, daily connection reinforces identity and worth.
  • Technology-Free Zones: Choosing where and when we abide in real connection shapes what fills our minds and hearts.
  • The Habit of a Good Night: Ending the day with peace and presence strengthens security instead of fueling performance anxiety.
🚀 Key Takeaways:
💡 “Struggle doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re growing.”
💡 “You don’t have to control every challenge. You just need to build a home where love, truth, and security hold steady when struggle comes.”
💡 “The terrain of your relationships determines whether struggle strengthens you or breaks you.”
📖 Great Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
📚 Education by Design, Not Default – Janet Newberry’s book on transformation through relationships, rhythms, and learning in freedom.
📚 Atomic Habits – James Clear’s groundbreaking book on how small, intentional habits create lasting change.
📚 Sacred Attachment – Michael Cusick’s wisdom on healing and transformation through secure relationships.
📚 The Connected Life – Dr. Todd Hall’s guide to relational spirituality and why love changes everything.

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🙏 Thank you for listening! You were made for a beautiful life—you don’t have to settle for less.