#179: What brave leadership really looks like with David McQueen
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"Bravery for them is, well, I can sack 12,000 people and I can do it in an email at 9:30 on a Monday morning. That's not bravery, that's cowardice. I would look them in their face and go, you're a coward. Just because you've got the power…it doesn’t make you brave at all." When is a “brave” decision really just avoiding humanity? David McQueen, leadership consultant, speaker, and author joins me for a provocative and honest conversation about change, leadership, and the myth of bravery at work. We discuss the doors that open when you seize terrifying...
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#178: Never throw in the towel with Anthony Hutton
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"I'm speaking from proof, from experience…I do believe, if you really, really, really want to do something, you can." What happens when doors open to unimaginable fame, and then close again, leaving you to find a new way forward? In this very honest episode, Anthony Hutton, Big Brother winner, barber, and founder of Never Throw in the Towel joins me for a conversation about navigating extremes: overnight celebrity, public success, private struggles, and the reinvention forced by change. We chat about the unglamorous aftermath of reality TV victory,and why...
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#177: Creating a leadership legacy from the messy process of change with Ada Parris
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"Multiple things can be true. There's nothing binary about life." What happens when you step into the unknown, let go of predefined paths, and allow yourself to be messy, vulnerable, and unfinished? In this episode, Ada Parris artist, storyteller, and author of Leadership Legacy: A Manifesto to Create a Mindful Future and a Thriving Planet, talks about about paradox, transformation, and intentionally shaping new identities. We talk about the rawness of unmasking after decades of masking, the courage to sit with uncertainty and having faith in the unknown, and why sometimes the most...
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#176: The career come down: What to do when work isn’t working for you with Stefanie Sword-Williams
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"The sort of door that closed for me was not necessarily somebody else shutting a door, but me shutting the door on putting work above everything but my health." What happens when the drive for success, identity, and achievement gets shaken by something that stops you in your tracks? In this episode, Stefanie Sword-Williams, founder of Fuck Being Humble and author of Career Comedown, shares her experience of a "lifequake", an unexpected, seismic event that forces you to reassess everything, including your relationship with work. I chatted to Stefanie about why the "career comedown"...
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#175: Closing the door on shame with Andrea McLean
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"I ended up losing that business. And not only did we lose the business, but we had self-funded it. So we lost our home, all our savings, my pension, everything... So that was a door that closed that I was not anticipating." What do you do when multiple doors slam shut all at once, career, home, health, identity? In this episode, Andrea McLean, broadcaster, author and former Loose Women host, shares her deeply honest story of losing her business, home, savings, health and sense of identity. She talks about the shame and upheaval that followed, selling her possessions and starting again...
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#174: The power of rebellious play in moments of change with Gary Ware
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"We, as adults, go from seeing the world as a playground of possibilities to a proving ground, the need to prove to ‘myself and to others that I'm worthy’. And when you have that mindset, the playfulness goes away because you're not seeing the world as something that is playful that you can experiment with." What happens when your life’s defining door suddenly closes, not just once but in a cascade, career, home, certainty all at once? In this episode, Gary Ware, founder of Playful Rebellion, shares his journey from executive stress, pressure, challenge to rediscovering joy,...
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#173: Confidence isn’t given. Its practised, chosen, claimed with Lauren Currie
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“Confidence is the first step of protest. And whether that is a protest where you make a sign and you go and stand outside down the street, or whether it's a protest when you're in a doctor's surgery room and the doctor's not listening to you, or whether it's a protest at the school gates because your kid's teacher's not taking your kid's needs seriously. Confidence is the first step of that self-advocacy and we need that so much right now because the tactics that our governments are using is fear. Fear divides people. Fear keeps people small, and fear takes your confidence away.” ...
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#172: Closing the door on a London agency and building a new creative life in France with Lucy Werner
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"I have found, when I've shared my fails as well as the journey to getting to my wins, the people who are there with me at the winning line, that finish line, are more involved in that story because they've come with me on the journey. And more often than not, the fails on the journey have led to more opportunities landing for me because people want to talk to me about the fails more than the the wins." What does it really take to shut the door on a thriving city business and step into an entirely different life in rural France ? In this episode, I speak to Lucy Werner shares the honest...
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#171: Navigating life, fame, and self-discovery with Anthony Kavanagh
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In this heartfelt conversation, Anthony Kavanagh shares the ups and downs of his journey from aspiring pop star to author, exploring themes of resilience, vulnerability, and authentic self-expression. This episode is about overcoming personal challenges and embracing life's unpredictable twists. Key topics we cover - Anthony's early dreams of music and the drive to succeed in the 90s pop scene The power of storytelling in healing and self-discovery Insights into writing a memoir and revisiting past traumas Memorable moments with celebrities like Madonna, Prince, and Faye...
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#170: How leaving the wrong job opened the right door for Cara-Lyn Giovanniello
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“Don’t confuse comfort with alignment. Just because something is familiar, stable, or impressive on paper doesn’t mean it’s meant for who you’re becoming or what the universe has in store for you.” What happens when you land the job that seemed perfect only to find, deep down, it isn’t right at all? In this episode, Cara-Lyn talks about the daunting process of leaving a high-profile role that simply wasn’t a fit, and how that closed door became fuel for reinvention. From wrongly ignoring her intuition, through the physical toll of staying somewhere misaligned, to finally making...
info_outline"I'm speaking from proof, from experience…I do believe, if you really, really, really want to do something, you can."
What happens when doors open to unimaginable fame, and then close again, leaving you to find a new way forward?
In this very honest episode, Anthony Hutton, Big Brother winner, barber, and founder of Never Throw in the Towel joins me for a conversation about navigating extremes: overnight celebrity, public success, private struggles, and the reinvention forced by change.
We chat about the unglamorous aftermath of reality TV victory,and why delusion and vision matter. We also explore letting go of identity, and how real stories can inspire a new purpose.
Anthony also shares how sitting with discomfort, and real messy chats in the barber’s chair, and a late grandmother’s legacy shaped his journey into men’s mental health advocacy and why it’s never too late to open a new door, no matter how messy it gets.
Highlights:
00:00 Intro: From Big Brother highs to rock bottom, meet Anthony Hutton
06:03 Early family life, football dreams, and the drive to prove himself
12:22 “I need to get on TV.” Delusion and manifesting reality TV
14:25 The wins you get from a “failed” dream
18:28 Self-belief versus delusion, the power of “just being ridiculous”
20:10 “You have to work for it.” What cranking yourself up to 10 looks like
26:31 What reality TV is really like behind the scenes
29:59 The “dirty word” of wanting to win
33:13 What happens when the door opens, the euphoria of overnight fame
34:52 The deal: £200k OK! photoshoot to wild celebrity nights
38:28 Door closing: fame fades and the slow, painful return to “normal”
41:27 Losing friends, lost identity, and being a “has-been” in his twenties
45:03 Moving, cutting out the chaos, and getting back to barbering
46:45 Becoming a listener and “unofficial therapist” for men
48:08 Grandma’s death, and the birth of ‘Never Throw in the Towel’
51:24 From free haircuts to men’s meetups
54:37 The power of honest conversations and using LinkedIn
64:27 Landing the show… and finding gold in facing the mess.
Anthony Hutton’s Change Toolkit:
Soundtrack: “Heart’s on Fire” from Rocky IV
Book: Greenlights by Matthew McConaughey
One piece of advice: “Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit.”
About Anthony:
Anthony Hutton is a British television personality best known for winning Big Brother UK in 2005. Entering the house as a confident, outspoken Geordie, Anthony became a fan favourite for his humour, authenticity, and resilience, securing one of the show’s most decisive public victories. Since his time on television, he has transitioned into meaningful advocacy work as a keynote speaker and founder of the Never Throw In The Towel project. Through this initiative, Anthony supports men’s mental health, encouraging open conversations, resilience, and practical tools to help men work through mental health challenges and personal setbacks.
Connect with Anthony:
Website: https://neverthrowinthetowel.com/
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