Using Mindful Communication to give feedback and offer advise
Release Date: 11/24/2017
Loving and Living the Quran
Allah says: “So set your face toward the religion, inclining upright — the fitrah of Allah upon which He created mankind. There is no altering Allah’s creation. That is the upright religion, but most people do not know.” (30:30) Today we reflect on the word fitrah — the innate, primordial nature upon which every human being is created. Fitrah is our original calibration. It is the built-in inclination toward truth, justice, beauty, compassion, and tawḥīd. Before culture shapes us, before society influences us, there is something within us that recognizes what is right. Islam is...
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Allah describes the creation of the human being: “So when I have proportioned him and breathed into him of My Spirit, then fall down before him prostrating.” (38:72) In this verse, Adam (as) is first fashioned from clay, then honoured by the breathing of Allah’s Rūḥ. Scholars clarify that this does not mean humans carry a piece of God. Allah is utterly transcendent. Rather, this attribution is a declaration of dignity — an honour bestowed upon humanity. Like the Ka‘bah is called “My House,” this language elevates what is being described. We are not merely animated clay. We are...
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Allah tells us: “Truly We created the human being in the most beautiful stature (ahsanu taqwīm). Then We cast him to the lowest of the low.” (95:4–5) These verses outline the full spectrum of the human condition. The word taqwīm comes from qawwama — to shape, form, arrange in balance. Scholars explain that ahsanu taqwīmrefers not only to our outward form, but to our inner potential — harmony, balance, moral and spiritual beauty. We were created with the capacity for outward and inward excellence. Yet the next verse reminds us that we can also descend to asfala sāfilīn — the...
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Many of us are watching the state of the world with heavy hearts. We see cruelty, dehumanization, and moral numbness — and we ask: How can human beings do this? Where is their conscience? The Qur’an reminds us that moral collapse does not happen overnight. It is rarely one dramatic moment. It is a gradual process — a slow silencing of the inner voice that once made wrongdoing uncomfortable. This Ramadan, we begin a journey to understand that process — not to judge others, but to guard ourselves. Allah speaks of the nafs al-lawwāmah — the self-reproaching soul — so important that...
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info_outlineIn this episode, we use the foundations of Mindful Communication to explore a rather challenging kind of communication: Our responsibility to give feedback Amr bil Maroof and doing amr bil maroof – enjoining good and discouraging evil.
Providing advice by enjoining the good and forbidding the evil is an integral part of Islamic teachings. And yet it is more challenging today than ever, in part because we often do not have a shared value system and also because we are led to believe that minding our own business is a good thing.
In this lecture we try and understand why it is essential to keep each other accountable by giving feedback when appropriate.
We also discuss appropriate ways to give feedback so that it is more likely to be accepted.
Apologies for the less-than-ideal quality of the audio. Did not realize that there was a fan right behind the microphone!
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