Episode 52: “Stuck on Stupid, Rewriting History, and Still Lying to Yourself”
Release Date: 09/20/2025
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info_outline🎙️ Episode 52: “Stuck on Stupid, Rewriting History, and Still Lying to Yourself”
Podcast: The Trigger and The Truth
Host: Tina White
Series: Money Matters - A Bonus Drop in The Trigger and The Truth's September Series: Money Moves & Mental Health
Episode Summary:
Description:
In this raw, unscheduled bonus episode of The Trigger and The Truth,host Tina White takes a break from proposal-writing and platform-building to speak directly to the energy-draining mess that’s been circling back from the past. From long-winded texts to revisionist history, Tina unpacks what happens when people lose access to your energy and try to reconnect—not with truth, but with delusion. She breaks down what it means to be a “one of one,” why people regret how they mishandled you, and why spiritual boundaries matter more than fake apologies. If you’ve ever had someone mistreat you, then try to loop back like nothing happened — this one’s for you.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
Segment 1: Stuck on Stupid, Still Lying to Yourself
– How ghosts from the past reappear when your energy becomes sacred
– What people reveal when they write long messages but still take no
accountability
– The danger of people who rewrite history instead of taking responsibility
Segment 2: When You’re “One of One”
– And They Know It Too Late
– Why not everyone is replaceable — especially the chosen
– The spiritual weight of being misunderstood but divinely assigned
– How Tina's late father taught her to recognize real love and set the standard
Segment 3: The Contract Code™ is Cooking – And Regret Can’t Eat at This Table
– Why Tina skipped this week’s main episode (hint: it’s epic what’s coming)
– A sneak peek at The Contract Code™, the new NYC-focused contract platform for business owners
– What happens when you're building the future and others are stuck reliving the past
Closing Reflection:
Some people are so lost in their own lies they don’t even recognize the blessing they fumbled. And by the time they realize what they lost… it’s too late. Don’t be that person.
Key Quote:
"Sometimes, you only get one of one. And if you mess that up, you'll have to learn to live without that energy." – Tina White
Bold truth-telling, zero tolerance for fake accountability, heavy on the
boundaries and healing. You will feel seen. You may feel triggered. But you
will definitely leave empowered.
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#EnergyProtection #KarmaIsReal #RewritingHistory #DelusionalPeople #BoundariesMatter #TheContractCode #MentalWealth #MoneyMoves #AbundanceMindset #EntrepreneurLife #GovCon #SmallBusiness #TriggerAndTruth
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The Contract Code
“Imagine turning the maze of procurement into a clear path. This September, on The Trigger and The Truth, Money Moves is all about helping small businesses navigate government, state and city contracts. Tina White built The Contract Code, a roadmap for bidding with confidence. It demystifies the process, fits your budget, respects your sanity, and guides you to do more with less stress. Keep listening: your perspective on business is about to change.”
The Contract Code
“Imagine turning the maze of procurement into a clear path. This September, on The Trigger and The Truth, Money Moves is all about helping small businesses navigate government, state and city contracts. Tina White built The Contract Code, a roadmap for bidding with confidence. It demystifies the process, fits your budget, respects your sanity, and guides you to do more with less stress. Keep listening: your perspective on business is about to change.”