EP 54: Raccoons, Foxes, and Litterboxes with Skylar - Part 1
Release Date: 09/07/2024
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Traci begins working with Skylar on the issues she's experiencing with her parents, using a variety of techniques. The fog begins to lift and Skylar changes her focus to the people who love and support her unconditionally. Traci then helps Skylar with some strategic goals to help her make the most of her time before surgery (pre-recording content that she can drip over the time she's healing), and using her spare time to rest, recover, and learn how to write comedy. Skylar also talks about how she's continued with traditional therapy, but with hypnotherapy added to her self care, she's able...
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The Hilarious Hypnotist begins going through Sandy's triggers and scrambling her memories with Monty Python quotes and dad jokes. Sandy reveals more details behind the trigger of being around emotional women. Each round she feels better and better. Using a combination of Robert Smith's Faster EFT and David Snyder's techniques, Traci can get Sandy feeling calmer about her upbringing. Sandy agrees to return for another episode, as she still has 5 more "triggers" to work through. KEY POINTS: - Sandy reveals her experience sleeping under a bridge while her mother was in jail. -Traci tells a...
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info_outline- Traci Kanaan introduces Skylar Calico, a fan favorite, and mentions this is Skylar's third session.
- Skylar Calico jokes about her "time blindness" and mentions her social media and financial success.
- Skylar discusses her burnout and constant internal voice of her mother telling her she will fail.
- Skylar shares an example of her mother's negative influence when Skylar was excited about buying a car.
- Skylar describes her mother's criticism about her appearance, including her lips and boobs.
- Skylar talks about her mother's insecurity and anxiety, which she has inherited.
- Skylar mentions her mother's habit of projecting her own insecurities onto Skylar.
- Skylar shares a memory of her mother not being able to tell her she loves her, which still haunts her.
- Skylar explains her decision to go no contact with her mother in December and the reasons behind it.
- Skylar mentions her mother's realization that she needed to work on herself to avoid messing up her younger brother.
- Skylar talks about her mother's history of favoritism towards her adopted sisters and the fear of replacement.
- Skylar shares a traumatic memory of her mother giving away her dog on her 14th birthday.
- Skylar discusses the generational trauma from her grandmother and how it influenced her mother's parenting.
- Skylar recounts a traumatic experience of being hospitalized and her parents stripping her room of everything.
- Skylar talks about her mother's attempts to commit her and the legal action against her.
- Skylar mentions her brother's similar behaviors and diagnoses, and how her parents have learned from their mistakes.
- Skylar describes her mother's controlling behavior during movie outings and the anxiety it caused.
- Skylar shares how her mother's anxiety and reactions have shaped her social interactions and expectations.
- Skylar talks about her fear of being punished and the impact of her mother's reactions on her relationships.
- Skylar mentions her mother's tendency to weaponize everything and the silent treatment as a reaction to being asked to take a break from an argument.
- Skylar expresses her desire to not hear her mother's voice in her head during interactions with others.
- Skylar wants to be able to communicate without fear of her mother's reactions.
- Skylar talks about her tendency to jump to aggression and defensiveness and her desire to change that.
- Skylar mentions her admiration for people who are sweet and nurturing, like her adoptive mother and Bambi Wild.
- Skylar describes Bambi Wild as a sweet, humble, and down-to-earth person who has a capacity for violence but doesn't use it.
- Skylar talks about her admiration for Bambi's career and her nurturing nature.
- Skylar mentions Raven as another role model but notes that Raven has a quicker switch to aggression than Skylar.
- Skylar expresses her desire to be like Bambi, sweet and nurturing, but also capable of defending herself if necessary.
- Skylar explains the significance of raccoons and foxes as symbols of adaptability and resilience.
- Skylar shares her love for animals and how these creatures embody qualities she values in herself.
- Skylar talks about the adaptability of raccoons and foxes and how they can survive anywhere.
- Skylar mentions her raccoon tattoo as a reminder of her ability to adapt and make do with what she has.
- Traci Kanaan explains the goal of the session: breaking up patterns in Skylar's head and moving towards a desired life.
- Traci introduces the concept of the "two space" and how it can help Skylar stay centered and grounded.
- Skylar describes her admiration for people who are in the "two space" and how it helps them navigate interactions.
- Skylar talks about her desire to be in the "two space" and not be hyper-vigilant or defensive in her interactions.
- Traci and Skylar discuss the importance of creating a positive self-image and reinforcing desired traits.
- Skylar talks about her tendency to reinforce negative traits and the need to focus on positive ones.
- Skylar expresses her desire to be sweet, nurturing, and capable of diplomatic conversations.
- Skylar mentions her admiration for people who are kind and humble, and her goal to embody those traits.