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EP 62: Staying Strong and Sober Through Grief and Loss, With Amy - Part 1

The Hilarious Hypnotist

Release Date: 04/23/2025

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Amy is back for her 3rd session with The Hilarious Hypnotist (see previous episodes 17, 18, & 45).  In Episode 45 (April of 2024), she was newly sober and worried about slipping back into drugs and alcohol when it was time for her beloved dog, Sweet Pea, to transition.  In January, Sweet Pea passed, and then Amy lost 2 more family members the same week.  A few weeks later, she lost her friend Julie at the age of 43.  While at Julie's celebration of life, she meets James, and a lovely romance begins.  James is polyamorous like Amy, but when he leaves to visit his other partner, Amy has difficulty accepting his absence and is concerned she has an unhealthy attachment to him.  She wants to be grounded and centered and find peace within.  Traci gets the details of the past several months and realizes Amy has done everything right.  Amy reached out to her support system, and they all chipped in to provide support to Amy and helped ensure she stayed sober.  Traci also discovers that Amy has made peace with her sister, mother, father,and  step-mother (episode 45), that are now also part of her support system.

Amy's Recent Losses and Traumas
Traci Kanaan introduces Amy Ortiz, a repeat guest who has experienced significant losses and traumas.
Amy shares that her dog, Sweet Pea, passed away on January 4, which triggered a series of other losses.
Amy's cousin died of the flu and was taken off a ventilator, followed by her uncle, who also died after being taken off a ventilator.
Amy's friend Jenny, who was only 43, died of a heart attack, and her neighbor Maria died from an accidental overdose.

Impact of Losses on Amy's Mental Health
Amy describes how the losses affected her mental health, leading her to feel devastated and wanting to drink.
She managed to stay sober through her program, meetings, and support from her sponsor.
Amy met someone she believed to be her soulmate at Jenny's celebration of life event.
The relationship with her soulmate became unhealthy, leading to separation anxiety when he left to visit his other partner.


Amy's Coping Mechanisms and Support System
Traci Kanaan suggests writing letters to the people Amy has lost, which Amy finds therapeutic.
Amy writes letters to Sweet Pea, her ex-partner Eli, and her partner James, which helps her process her feelings.
Traci emphasizes the importance of having a support system, including God, her sponsor, friends, and family.
Amy acknowledges the support she received from her new boss, roommate, and other friends and family members.

Amy's Personal Growth and Achievements
Amy reflects on her personal growth, noting that she is better off now than she was five years ago.
She has remained sober for 14 and a half months and has elevated from a vet tech to a groomer.
Amy has lost 13 pounds and has reconnected with her mom, stepmom, and dad.
She appreciates the support from her sponsor, friends, and new boss, which has helped her stay grounded.

Amy's Struggles with Separation Anxiety
Amy discusses her struggles with separation anxiety and the impact of James's absence on her mental health.
She describes the physical symptoms she experienced, including not eating and difficulty sleeping.
Amy's friend Mel advised her to take space from James to reconnect with herself.
She has started to feel better, eating again and sleeping through the night, but still needs to process the losses.

Amy's Journey to Healing
Traci Kanaan guides Amy through a visualization exercise to help her process her losses and find stability.
Amy visualizes a rock in her heart representing the loss and separates it from the true love she feels for her lost ones.
She crumbles the rock, symbolizing the strength and resilience she found to stay sober.
Amy adds positive aspects of her life, including her relationship with James, her new job, and her support system, to the rock.

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