James Burden : Neurodivergent and Unapologetic
The Relentless Pursuit of Winning Podcast
Release Date: 10/07/2025
The Relentless Pursuit of Winning Podcast
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đ„ Excerpt What if the way you speakâor the identity you cling toâisnât the problem? Speech therapist and coach James Burden unpacks stuttering, ego, and the surprising power of letting go to actually win. ⥠TL;DR James Burdenâspeech therapist and founder of Stuttering Blueprintâjoins me to challenge the myths around stuttering, reframe it through a neurodivergence lens, and trace how a season of personal upheaval (divorce, burnout, a brain tumor) led him to a different definition of success: inner peace. We dig into radical self-acceptance, âwhite-knuckle fluency,â...
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What if the way you speakâor the identity you cling toâisnât the problem? Speech therapist and coach James Burden unpacks stuttering, ego, and the surprising power of letting go to actually win.
⥠TL;DR
James Burdenâspeech therapist and founder of Stuttering Blueprintâjoins me to challenge the myths around stuttering, reframe it through a neurodivergence lens, and trace how a season of personal upheaval (divorce, burnout, a brain tumor) led him to a different definition of success: inner peace. We dig into radical self-acceptance, âwhite-knuckle fluency,â meditation, and why chasing money often repels it.
đ Show Notes
I brought James on to talk stuttering, communication, and confidenceâand we went much deeper. James has spent nearly two decades helping people who stutter communicate with authority without pretending fluency is the goal. He argues the real blocker isnât dysfluency; itâs the story we attach to itâmyths about intelligence, nerves, or ânot being enough.â
Then we take the left turn. James walked through a two-year crucibleâmarriage ending, financial strain, burnout, and a brain tumorâthat forced a hard reset. He went searching for the trappings of success and stumbled into meditation, shadow work, and a ruthlessly simple truth: peace beats performance. When he stopped gripping for status and started allowing, life openedâreconciliation with his ex, a humble home by the beach, and a calmer way of working with clients.
If youâve ever white-knuckled your way through leadershipâover-controlling your speech, your image, your outcomesâthis conversation will hit home. The takeaway isnât âgive up ambition.â
Itâs master the inner game so ambition doesnât own you.
â Key Takeaways
- Stuttering â incompetence. The problem is often the shame narrative, not the speech pattern. Confidence changes how others receive dysfluency.
- âWhite-knuckle fluencyâ backfires. The harder you force smooth speech, the more tensionâand the more stutterâyou create.
- Reframe as neurodivergence. Seeing stuttering as a normal human variation reduces stigma and opens healthier goals: presence, clarity, connection.
- Avoidance kills opportunity. Speaking less to âstay safeâ shrinks roles, revenue, and reach. Exposure with self-acceptance expands capacity.
- Letting go creates space. Chasing money/status often repels both. Build inner peace; outcomes tend to follow.
- Shadow work is the work. You donât meditate to feel blissâyou sit with the parts you spend energy hiding. Integration > image.
- Redefine winning. If the âwhyâ behind your goals is peace, engineer for peace first. The rest is execution.
đ€ Bio
James Burden is a speech-language pathologist and the founder of Stuttering Blueprint, a coaching practice that helps people who stutter build presence and communicate with confidenceâwithout pretending fluency is the finish line. After 17+ years in the field and a personal crucible that reoriented his definition of success, James champions radical self-acceptance, practical communication tools, and the inner work that makes leadership sustainable.
đ§ Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Stuttering and Communication Challenges
03:40 The Journey of a Speech Therapist
06:30 Understanding Neurodivergence and Stuttering
09:15 The Myths Surrounding Stuttering
11:48 Overcoming Stuttering: Confidence and Acceptance
14:48 The Impact of Stuttering on Personal and Professional Life
17:23 The Shift in Perspective: Happiness vs. Success
20:13 Finding Purpose Through Adversity
23:57 The Pursuit of Success and Stress
28:11 Synchronicity and Inner Peace
32:38 Redefining Success: From Ego to Inner Peace
37:08 The Journey of Letting Go
41:43 What Does Winning Mean?
43:59 RPOW Clip Outro Mobile.mp4
44:09 NEWCHAPTER
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