83.Praise Paradox: Stop People Pleasing and Overcome Fear of Disapproval
Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt
Release Date: 04/14/2025
104.How We Stopped Fighting Over the Little Things and How to Reconnect Instead of React
Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt
👉 You’ve chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Why do small things trigger big fights in relationships? Have you ever wondered why you keep reacting to your partner even when you don’t want to? And why does it feel like the argument is never really about the thing you’re arguing about? In this episode of Real Influence, Joey breaks down why small things trigger you in...
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103.Therapy Didn’t Fail You: The “Ceiling” of Talk Therapy, the Action Gap, and How to Know It’s Time to Upgrade
Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt
👉 You’ve chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Have you done therapy, gained awareness, and still feel stuck in the same patterns? What if the issue isn’t therapy but the level of support you’re using? In this episode of Real Influence, it breaks down therapy vs coaching and explains why therapy often stops working for high achievers who already understand their...
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102.The 7-Step Life Planning Framework I Use Every Year (use this for 2026)
Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt
👉 You’ve chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Are you crushing business goals but quietly feeling like life is passing you by? What if the reason success feels heavy isn’t lack of discipline but lack of intentional life planning? And what if planning your life the same way you plan your business could actually give you more peace, clarity, and joy? Every year, high...
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101.The Five Transformational Mindset Principles That Help You Create Success Without Burnout, Stress, or Self-Sabotage
Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt
👉 You’ve chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Why do you keep doing the “right things” but still feel stuck? Why does it feel like something inside you is blocking your goals no matter how hard you try? Why does your mind keep pulling you back into old patterns you swore you were done with? If you’ve ever wondered “Why am I sabotaging myself even when I want to...
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100.Too Old, Too Late, Not Enough Time? Rethinking Limits, Timelines, and What’s Truly Possible
Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt
👉 You’ve chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: 🤔 Have you ever wondered if your goals are truly possible or just wishful thinking? Do you feel stuck in life, unsure if your beliefs are holding you back? 💡 Are you chasing big dreams but struggling with limiting beliefs and self-doubt? In this episode of Real Influence, Joey Vaillancourt dives deep into the difference between wishful thinking vs....
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99.The Truth About Manifestation (Most Get It Wrong)
Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt
👉 You’ve chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Have you ever tried manifesting — but nothing actually happened? 🤔 Do you feel like you’re doing all the “right things” — vision boards, affirmations, positive thinking — but still feel stuck? 😩 What if manifestation isn’t magic at all… but a real, brain-based process that you can actually train...
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98.The Truth About the 12 Step Program and the Life-Changing Powers Beyond Addiction
Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt
👉 You’ve chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: What if your addiction isn’t to alcohol or substances — but to control, perfection, or validation? 🤔 Have you ever wondered why success still feels empty, even when you’ve hit every goal? 🏆 Or maybe you’ve been chasing “growth” and “healing,” but deep down, something still feels off — like you’re disconnected from who you really are....
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97.The Echo Effect: How to Overcome Quitting Too Soon When Making Big Changes
Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt
👉 You’ve chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: https://joeyvaillancourt.com/the-30-day-challenge/ Have you ever tried manifestation, positive affirmations, or goal setting… but gave up because you thought it wasn’t working? 🤔 Do you feel like you’re doing everything right in your personal development journey, yet the results don’t show up fast enough? ⏳ What if the reason isn’t that...
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96.The Truth About David Bayer: What I Learned After Investing $100k+
Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt
👉 You’ve chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: https://joeyvaillancourt.com/the-30-day-challenge/ Have you ever wondered if mindset coaches are actually the real deal? 🤔 Are personal development programs like David Bayer’s coaching really worth the high investment? 💸 Or is it all just another hype machine promising transformation but leaving you stuck in the same old patterns? Here’s what you’ll...
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95.Hustle Less, Live More: A New Success Formula
Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt
👉 30-Day Challenge 🚀30 days. 30 questions. From empty wins to deep fulfillment—start your Great Life Experiment today. 🤔 Do you ever feel like you’re constantly grinding, pushing, and hustling… yet deep down, you still feel unfulfilled? 😓 Have you ever asked yourself why success feels empty, even after hitting your goals? 🌱 What if slowing down, practicing self-reflection, and redefining what success means could be the secret to true happiness and freedom? In this video, we dive deep into how to escape hustle culture and finally break free from the endless...
info_outline😩 Ever feel like you're constantly saying yes just to avoid disappointing others? Are you stuck in the trap of people pleasing and the fear of disapproval? What if redefining personal success on your own terms could change everything?
In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the disease to please—how it’s quietly sabotaging your confidence, your boundaries, and your definition of success. 💥 Whether you’re battling the fear of disapproval from friends, family, or even strangers, this conversation is here to remind you that you have permission to say NO. 💯
You’ll hear powerful insights on:
✅ How to stop people pleasing without guilt
✅ Overcoming the fear of not being liked or accepted
✅ Why most people tie their self-worth to external validation
✅ How to redefine personal success based on YOUR values
✅ The mindset shift that helped Julien Blanc set new life standards
✅ Why chasing approval keeps you stuck and unhappy
✅ Setting boundaries without feeling selfish
✅ The psychology behind saying “no” and feeling empowered
✅ Letting go of societal pressure and defining happiness for yourself
✅ How to reclaim your time, energy, and self-respect 🙌
If you’re ready to break the cycle and become unapologetically YOU, this is your sign. 🚨
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In this we’ll talk about:
00:00 - The Disease to Please
01:45 – Understanding Fear of Disapproval
04:20 – Giving Yourself Permission to Say No
7:10 – Redefining Personal Success on Your Own Terms
9:50 – Julien Blanc's Approach to Overcoming Limiting Beliefs
12:30 – Breaking Free from People-Pleasing Behavior
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