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101.The Five Transformational Mindset Principles That Help You Create Success Without Burnout, Stress, or Self-Sabotage

Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt

Release Date: 12/08/2025

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Why do you keep doing the “right things” but still feel stuck? Why does it feel like something inside you is blocking your goals no matter how hard you try? Why does your mind keep pulling you back into old patterns you swore you were done with?

If you’ve ever wondered “Why am I sabotaging myself even when I want to change?”, this episode is going to feel like relief. Today, I’m breaking down the five mindset frameworks that completely rewired my life, ended my daily suffering, and helped me shift out of fear, resistance, self-doubt, burnout, and survival mode. đŸ€“

These aren’t theories. These are the exact tools I learned after privately coaching with David Bayer, going through every level of his program, and investing over six figures into understanding why our beliefs, stories, and emotional patterns silently dictate our results. If you’ve been feeling like you’re driving with the brakes on, this will help you see exactly where that resistance is hiding.

You’ll learn the formula Desire + Non-Resistance = Desired Result, the real truth behind the primal vs. powerful state, and how to identify when your mind is lying to you. You’ll also hear how neural sculpting, evidence-building, and the decision matrix helped me stop feeling overwhelmed, trapped, or constantly behind in life.

By the end, you’ll understand how beliefs create thoughts, thoughts create feelings, feelings create actions, and actions create your results and most importantly, how to rewrite that loop from the inside out.


If this helped you feel even 1% more hopeful, drop a comment with the belief you’re ready to release and the new belief you’re choosing. Let’s rewire your patterns together.

And if you want to go deeper, join me inside The Great Life Experiment, a free 30-day journey where I send you one powerful question each day to help you live with more clarity, peace, alignment, and purpose.

Your life doesn’t change from knowing the information.

It changes when you decide and take action.

Let’s begin. đŸ€“đŸ”„

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In this, we’ll talk about:

00:00 – The Five Frameworks That Changed Everything

00:36 – How Coaching With David Rewired Me

01:25 – Why Desire Always Reveals Resistance

02:19 – Removing Blocks That Sabotage Goals

04:51 – Primal vs Powerful State Explained

08:07 – The Belief Loop That Runs Your Life

10:32 – The Power of Choosing New Decisions

15:11 – The Decision Matrix That Rewires You

 

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