27. Answering your questions: Fitting in, Feeling Stuck in Life and Relationships, Holding Yourself Back for Someone Else

Hello, y'all! Welcome back to "This Is for Us," the space where we come together as a community of friends to share, learn, and grow. I’m genuinely thrilled and grateful to have you here, joining me in another episode where we dive deep into real, raw conversations about life.

This week, I decided to do something a bit different. Inspired by the questions you've sent through my website and Instagram DMs, I'm answering three of them that struck a chord with me. Your privacy is paramount, so rest assured, that all questions are presented anonymously.

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Now, let’s dive into your questions.

Navigating High School as an OutsiderThe first question comes from a 16-year-old feeling out of place in a small-town high school. Facing mockery and isolation, they ponder the idea of homeschooling as an escape. My heart goes out to you. Being targeted for being different is painful, but it’s crucial to remember your worth and potential. Homeschooling is an option, but consider it for the right reasons. Explore avenues within your school to connect with like-minded individuals or groups that appreciate you for who you are. Remember, true friends will embrace your uniqueness, not scorn it.

 

A Single Mom’s Creative Crossroads

 A 37-year-old single mother shared her struggle with juggling a draining job while yearning to pursue her creative talents. To you, I say: your resilience and dedication to providing for your family already set a magnificent example for your daughter. To transition into a more fulfilling career, start small. Channel your talents into a side project or hobby that could evolve into a business. Every small step forward on this journey will bring you closer to living your dreams, proving to your daughter that it’s never too late to chase what truly makes you happy.

 

Growing Apart in a Relationship

The last question for today addresses personal growth and its impact on a relationship. A listener finds herself evolving, pursuing new goals and interests, which has created a rift with her boyfriend who longs for the person she was in college. Open, honest communication is key here. Share your feelings, aspirations, and desire for him to grow alongside you. If he’s the right partner, he’ll want to share in your journey, not hold you back. Remember, it’s okay to outgrow relationships that no longer align with your path.

These questions reflect just a fraction of the diverse experiences and challenges we face in our journey through life. By sharing and discussing them, we seek answers and remind ourselves of the strength and support found within our community.

Thank you for sharing this time with me, for being part of this ongoing conversation about life, love, and growth. If today’s discussions sparked a thought, a question, or a story you’d like to share, don’t hesitate to reach out. And if the idea of a retreat where we can connect, unwind, and grow together excites you, drop me a message with the word "retreat." I’m buzzing with excitement at the thought of bringing this dream to life. Until next time, take care and keep cherishing those around you. Remember, we're in this together, and through sharing our stories, we find common ground and healing because This Is For Us. 

I hope you love this episode xoxo