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Real Estate Distractions Are Killing Your Success—Here’s How to Crush Them w/Shelley Cooley | Episode 99

Real Producers

Release Date: 02/20/2025

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In real estate, it’s easy to get distracted by flashy opportunities, side projects, or things that seem more exciting than the work in front of us. But here’s the truth: every time you divert your attention away from what truly matters, you're sacrificing long-term success.

Shelley Cooley knows that feeling all too well. She started as a teacher, transitioned into real estate staging, and ultimately became a successful real estate agent. What made the difference? She stopped focusing on what she wasn’t doing and doubled down on what mattered most.

Are you spending time on things that truly grow your business, or are you getting caught up in distractions? Do you find yourself avoiding the hard tasks that actually move the needle? What if the real key to success is simply showing up, staying consistent, and prioritizing the work that serves you?

The truth is, success isn’t about doing everything—it’s about doing the right things. 

In this episode, team leader of The Cooley Team Shelley Cooley joins me to talk about eliminating distractions, the importance of focusing on the basics, and always tackling the hardest tasks first. We also talk about gratitude and why it matters even in the most difficult situations.

 

If you don’t make certain things a priority, you’re only letting yourself down. -Remington Ramsey

 

Things You’ll Learn In This Episode 

  • How to shift towards gratitude
    Gratitude shifts your focus to what you have, even in tough times. How can shifting your focus to gratitude improve your mindset during challenges?

  • The power of a good morning routine
    A consistent morning routine sets the tone for a productive and focused day. How can small changes to your morning routine improve your daily performance?

  • The key is consistency
    Consistency builds momentum and leads to long-term success. How can small daily habits improve your long-term results?

 

Guest Bio

Shelley Cooley is a top-producing Realtor in the Cypress and greater Houston area, and known for her deep knowledge, dedication, and unmatched expertise in the local real estate market. Before making her mark in real estate, Shelley spent 15 years as an educator, eight of those years with Cy-Fair ISD, where she honed her skills in communication, organization, and client care. 

In 2009, she made the leap into real estate as a professional home stager, and after obtaining her real estate license in 2016, she never looked back. Since then, Shelley has built an impressive career. She was named Texas Star Realtor in 2021, has been recognized as a Howard Hughes' Top Producer for seven consecutive years, and was Bridgeland's #1 Top Producer in 2023 and 2024. She has successfully closed over 500 transactions, consistently earning five-star reviews from clients who value her professionalism, market insight, and strong negotiation skills.

Visit https://countoncooleyhtx.com/ 

Follow Shelley on Instagram @shelley_countoncooley 

Find Shelley on Facebook @Shelley Cooley 

 

About Your Host

Remington Ramsey is a dynamic keynote speaker, entrepreneur, and visionary in the world of real estate. As the creator of "Real Producers", a widely acclaimed magazine connecting top agents and industry leaders, Remington has built an impressive platform dedicated to celebrating and elevating the real estate community. With a passion for motivating and mentoring, he’s shared stages with some of the biggest names in business, helping professionals break through barriers and reach new heights. When he’s not busy being a real estate guru, Remington is known for his contagious energy, practical wisdom, and a good dose of humor—because let’s face it, navigating life and business requires both grit and a sense of humor. With multiple successful ventures under his belt and a reputation for engaging storytelling, he has the rare ability to make even the driest industry stats sound exciting.

 

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