#12: The psychological factor that makes success inevitable
Release Date: 11/01/2017
Benji Bruce Podcast
We know we should study successful people and model their success. But how do you study success?
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In this episode we talk about how to get unstuck. On your entrepreneur journey, you're going to feel stuck. You're going to feel uncertain about what to do next. So what do you do about it? That's what we discuss in this episode.
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Pain and struggle is part of growing a business. Eventually, you'll become numb to the pain and keep pushing through the struggle to reach your success
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Learn to think highly of yourself. You won't get anywhere by thinking low of yourself
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Most people aren't willing to sit through the boring parts of their business, for long enough, for their business to take off. Get out of your feelings and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Because it's not about doing what you love. It's about doing what you must.
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You get demotivated when your expectations don’t match reality get excited do some work for a day, or two, or a week You don’t see immediate results so you ‘rethink’ & ‘plan’ You say “It’s not quantity it’s quality” So you slow down B/c you slowed down, you’re contacting less = only makes it worse You plan more, look at others online Wonder why you’re not getting results & get demotivated You blame the guru/person who told you to do the work You search for another method & get back to planning Story: Moved into high rise & filming didn’t work ...
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definition: the impetus(force) gained by a moving object Problem: Most people don’t get things done or start/stop Story: Living with a friend & schedule days to prospect. Got momentum, then stopped. Hard to get back Story 2: Facebook ads were going, I had to stop to change the website & didn’t start until two months later Made excuses about ‘creating content’ Momentum makes you an unstoppable force Makes you obsessed by generating thoughts because you have to keep up Sense of urgency You get excited and feel like you can (and should) do more ...
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This is the email that was sent out... The first time I hit $1,000 a month, I thought it was amazing. Then $10,000 a month. Then $25,000. Then $90,000/month, etc. I looked at the $90,000 that month and thought, “Damn…for the longest time I struggled to make that in a year, and I just did it in a month.” What changed? What was the mindset that changed inside of me that allowed it to happen? Honestly…nothing. I was always a badass. Success doesn’t happen overnight, you iterate your way to it. You keep changing and adjusting until you finally get it one day. But I want to give you 4...
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The only thing standing in your way of growing your business are the excuses you make for why you don’t have any business. I don’t know how much you’re making right now in your business, but I do know that if you’re not making at least six figures, you’re making excuses instead. You don’t have time because you have a job and you have kids. I hear you. You can’t spend money right now because you have to pay bills. I hear you. You can’t bring a video guy with you to an event. I hear you. But do you know what I hear? “Excuse,...
info_outlinedefinition: the impetus(force) gained by a moving object
Problem: Most people don’t get things done or start/stop
Story: Living with a friend & schedule days to prospect. Got momentum, then stopped.
- Hard to get back
Story 2: Facebook ads were going, I had to stop to change the website & didn’t start until two months later
- Made excuses about ‘creating content’
Momentum makes you an unstoppable force
- Makes you obsessed by generating thoughts because you have to keep up
- Sense of urgency
- You get excited and feel like you can (and should) do more
I went out for walks and felt hyped because of the energy a walk creates
I did weekly calls and got hyped at the end of the calls on Sundays to keep working
E=mc2 … energy becomes mass
- I don’t care if it’s not true, let me believe in Santa Claus
- Under the right conditions, energy can become mass and vice versa
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- The energy you have, actively creates something physical
- Ex: Thoughts in my head became a book on restaurant magic
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- It never existed, until it did
Get into the habit of making decisions
- You won’t make ‘right’ decisions all the time
- Think ‘speed’ first. Then worry about being ‘right’ later
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- You can fix wrong decisions
- But you’re stuck if no decision has been made
Excuses & reasons destroy momentum
- PT Barnum didn’t have the money to buy Joice Heth but figured it out
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- He committed and figured it out later. NO EXCUSES MODE
- Momentum makes you commit and figure it out later
- Iterate your way to success
- People say ‘it’s about quality’ or ‘do it right the first time’ so nothing happens in their life
Momentum is created when you feel like you’re on a mission
- People say ‘set goals’ because you’re on a mission
Just get out there and do something
definition: the impetus(force) gained by a moving object
- BECOME the moving object that turns ideas into reality through practical execution