Navigating Modern World To Find Love: Interview with Allison Raskin
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Release Date: 11/29/2024
When Sex Feels Like Love: Breaking the Cycle of Fast-Tracked Intimacy
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Sometimes sex feels like love or chemistry but that is not the only kind of intimacy there is. But you might get caught in a cycle where you are leading with sex to get a connection and in the end not finding the right partner for you. And then, you might shut down and be nervous about showing your flirty, sexy side after being hurt. In Episode 402 of The Charisma Quotient, “When Sex Feels Like Love: Breaking the Cycle of Fast-Tracked Intimacy” Kimmy does a live coaching session with Nicolle, a vibrant and self-assured woman who has embraced her sexuality for years,...
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Dating Without Attachment: Lisa’s Dating Transformation Journey
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Have you ever felt like you were on the outside looking in—guarded by fear, overwhelmed by old patterns, or unsure how to take that first step back into dating after heartbreak or disappointment? In Episode 401 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating Without Attachment: Lisa’s Dating Transformation Journey” In this powerful episode of the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy is joined by the inspiring Lisa, whose courageous journey from emotional pain to empowered dating will resonate with anyone who has ever felt invisible, stuck, or scared to put themselves back out there. After years of hiding behind...
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400th Episode Special: Confidence Hacks That Turn Dates Into Love
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Join Kimmy as she celebrates 400 episodes of client coaching calls, solo episodes, talking with experts, and hearing success stories from people who have worked with Kimmy In Episode 400 of The Charisma Quotient, “400th Episode Special: Confidence Hacks That Turn Dates Into Love” we’re looking back at some of our favorite episodes throughout the years around the themes of getting past fears, increasing confidence and conversation hacks. This special episode dives into the heart of her most popular coaching: how dating yourself and learning the skills will lead to love. You'll hear...
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Beyond the Swipe: How to Meet People in Real Life with Jena Kingsley
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Have you ever wanted to strike up a conversation with a stranger—at a coffee shop, in line at the store, or on a first date—but felt totally tongue-tied or worried you’d seem awkward? In Episode 399 of The Charisma Quotient, “Beyond the Swipe: How to Meet People in Real Life with Jena Kingsley” Kimmy sits down with the fearless and funny Jena Kingsley. Jena is a comedian, writer, and the viral sensation behind daring, hilarious social experiments that turn the everyday awkward into unforgettable moments. Featured on CNN, MTV, The Today Show, and with her popular book Darcy Dates: An...
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How Self-Worth Sabotages Your Dating Life: Coaching with Kimmy
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Do you ever wonder how your self-worth is secretly impacting your dating life? Are you stuck in the same painful patterns—chasing the unavailable, feeling unworthy, or never quite connecting with the right match? In Episode 398 of The Charisma Quotient, “How Self-Worth Sabotages Your Dating Life: Coaching with Kimmy” Kimmy coaches Jessica, a single mom and nurse who’s struggling with insecurity, self-concept, and a cycle of unfulfilling dates. Together they unpack why feeling “not enough” can become an unconscious magnet for the wrong partners—and why genuine confidence,...
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Why you keep attracting the wrong people: Uncovering your love blocks with Orna and Matthew Walters
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Have you ever found yourself thinking, “Why do I keep attracting the wrong people?” Or maybe you’re out there dating, putting yourself out there, but it just never seems to click or you think there are no good men or women out there left? In Episode 397 of The Charisma Quotient, “Why you keep attracting the wrong people: Uncovering your love blocks with Orna and Matthew Walters” Kimmy welcomes Orna and Matthew Walters, internationally acclaimed dating coaches, co-founders of Creating Love on Purpose, and co-authors of the powerful new book “Getting It Right This Time:...
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5 Hidden Shields That Block Love After 40
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Ever feel like no matter how much you’ve accomplished, lasting love is still just out of reach? In Episode 396 of The Charisma Quotient, “5 Hidden Shields That Block Love After 40" Kimmy peels back the layers on the “hidden love shields” that so many successful, independent later-in-life daters unknowingly wear as armor—and reveals how these silent protectors can be the very barriers keeping true intimacy at bay. This episode zeroes in on the subtle beliefs and patterns that form after years of heartbreak or flying solo, unpacking how they sabotage romance despite your best...
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Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now with Jeff
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Are you ready to hear a transformative love story that will light a spark of hope and motivation in your own dating journey—no matter where you’re starting from? In Episode 395 of The Charisma Quotient, “Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now with Jeff” Kimmy sits down with her former client. Meet Jeff: a successful lawyer, devoted dog dad, and someone who, after a 40-year marriage, found himself navigating the modern dating scene for the very first time. When Jeff first began coaching with Kimmy, he confessed to feeling like a fish out of water—uncertain about online...
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Why Intimacy Is a Skill—Not Just Chemistry: Reclaiming Desire & Connection with Danielle Harel & Celeste Hirschman
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Did you know intimacy is a skill that is a learnable, empowering skill? In Episode 394 of The Charisma Quotient, “Why Intimacy Is a Skill—Not Just Chemistry: Reclaiming Desire & Connection with Danielle Harel & Celeste Hirschman” Kimmy chats with Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Herrell, co-founders of the revolutionary Somatica Institute and authors of three powerful books, including Making Love Real. With extensive experience training over 1,000 coaches and transforming countless lives, Celeste and Danielle blend science, humor, and heart to help people build confidence in...
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ICYMI: What Is Your Dating Archetype?
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Why do we keep finding ourselves in the same frustrating dating patterns, no matter how much we try to shake things up? In Episode 393 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: What Is Your Dating Archetype?” Kimmy gets to the heart of the matter by introducing her breakthrough framework: the Five Dating Archetypes. Whether you’re struggling to meet the right person or find yourself replaying old dynamics, this episode is your fast track to self-awareness—and real change. Drawing from years as a leading dating and makeover expert, therapist, and matchmaker, Kimmy has worked with thousands of...
info_outlineRemember a time when finding a date was as easy as asking the girl next door? When people would pick up a rotary phone to call each other up? In the modern world of dating, there are numerous challenges that come up with new choices we didn’t have before. In Episode 374 of The Charisma Quotient, “Navigating Modern World To Find Love: Interview with Allison Raskin,” Kimmy chats with Allison – a New York Times bestselling author, mental health advocate, and comedian who knows a thing or two about navigating modern love. From her beginnings as a TV comedy writer to creating profound content centered on relationships and mental health, Allison's journey is as dynamic as the insights she shares. Her book, "I Do, I Think," tackles the nuances of modern marriage for Gen Z, millennials and beyond.
In this episode, Kimmy and Allison engage in a powerful conversation about redefining traditional notions of marriage and partnership. They explore questions such as: What role does communication have in navigating shared and separate interests? And, in a world proliferated by dating apps and social media, how does one find genuine compatibility without succumbing to dating fatigue? You’ll hear the importance of self-care and maintaining individuality within partnerships and why older and younger generations have differing views on marriage and partnerships. These two explore how to reframe divorce as a learning experience and ways to overcome dating fatigue.
If you are having a hard time navigating the modern dating world join Kimmy’s Virtual Holiday Speed Dating event this December to brush up on your dating and flirting skills. But hurry spots are limited! This is a LIVE, interactive, co-ed event that combines coaching and speed dating for an unforgettable experience. Don’t miss your chance to be part of this VIP-ONLY experience.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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