How a Nurse Practitioner Faced Her Daughter’s Tetralogy of Fallot Diagnosis (258)- Sarah's Story
Release Date: 06/11/2025
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In this inspiring episode, we meet Sarah Michelle Boes—nurse practitioner, entrepreneur, and mom to Meadow, who was diagnosed in utero with Tetralogy of Fallot and multiple congenital heart defects. Sarah brings a powerful trifecta of perspectives: as a medical provider, mental health advocate, and dedicated heart mom.
We cover:
✅ Meadow’s life-saving heart surgeries and long ICU stays
✅ How Sarah navigated new motherhood with OCD and anxiety
✅ The emotional toll of being both a medical provider and a parent
✅ Creating a connection through medical play to ease doctor visits
✅ How Sarah turned survival into purpose through national advocacy
Whether you're a fellow medical parent, healthcare provider, or mental health professional, this episode will leave you with real insight into the raw challenges and unexpected joys of raising a child with complex medical needs.
Key Topics & Highlights
[00:00] – Meet Sarah Michelle Boes
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Nurse practitioner, entrepreneur, and heart mom
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Her daughter Meadow’s surprise diagnosis of Tetralogy of Fallot at 36 weeks
⏱️ [03:00] – From Business Success to Medical Crisis
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Selling her business weeks before Meadow’s diagnosis
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The shock of learning Meadow had four heart defects
⏱️ [05:00] – Learning to Navigate as a Medical Parent
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How Sarah’s medical background helped (and complicated) her parenting
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Teaching her husband how to advocate medically alongside her
⏱️ [07:00] – Mother’s Intuition & Switching OBs
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Sarah felt something was wrong during pregnancy but was dismissed
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A new ultrasound revealed her daughter's heart looked “weird”
⏱️ [10:00] – NICU Rollercoaster Begins
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Meadow intubated within hours of birth due to medication side effect
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Sarah and her husband find strength in teamwork
⏱️ [14:00] – Advice for New Heart Parents
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The overwhelm of tracking vitals and data post-discharge
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Feeling more like Meadow’s nurse than her mom
⏱️ [17:00] – The Unexpected Second Surgery & Major Setbacks
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Meadow’s patch failed, requiring emergency open-heart surgery
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Her chest remained open for a week due to complications
⏱️ [21:00] – A Brain Bleed Diagnosis & Mental Health Spiral
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Sarah shares how uncertainty triggered her OCD
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Emotional trauma of seeing Meadow cold, still, and open-chested
⏱️ [25:00] – Living in the ICU Full-Time
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How Sarah and her husband made the hospital their home
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The benefits of being physically present 24/7
⏱️ [28:00] – Discharge Shock & OCD Diagnosis
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Meadow is stable—but Sarah’s anxiety peaks post-discharge
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Diagnosed with OCD just 10 days after coming home
⏱️ [32:00] – Healing Through Gratitude & Giving Back
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Family vacation sparks the idea for a donation
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The heart institute is named in Meadow’s honor with a mural
⏱️ [36:00] – Sarah’s Ongoing CHD Advocacy Work
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Advocating for the Congenital Heart Futures Act
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Raising awareness for adult congenital cardiology and research needs
⏱️ [40:00] – The Power of Medical Play
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Meadow's echos improved after doing medical play at home
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Sarah incorporates play to help her daughter cope with appointments
⏱️ [43:00] – Reflections & Advice for Other Parents
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Learning how strong her partnership with her husband is
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Why having the right support person changes everything
⏱️ [45:00] – Where to Follow Sarah & Continue the Journey
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Website, LinkedIn, Instagram, and more
Connect with Sarah Michelle Boes
📲 Website & Heart Mom Resources: www.sarahmichelleboes.com
📷 Instagram: @sarahmichelleboes
💼 LinkedIn Community & Advocacy Writing: Connect on LinkedIn
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🧠 This episode also sheds light on the mental health challenges parents face—especially postpartum OCD—bringing compassion and visibility to an often-misunderstood diagnosis.
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