041: Recovering from Divorce with Karen McMahon
The Communicate & Connect Podcast for Military Relationships
Release Date: 08/01/2023
The Communicate & Connect Podcast for Military Relationships
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info_outlineWelcome to The Communicate & Connect Podcast, the go-to resource for those seeking insightful discussions around relationships and personal growth. Today, we're delving into a topic that often feels like the end of the world but can actually be the dawn of a new beginning—recovering from divorce. This episode titled "Recovering from Divorce with Karen McMahon" is a must-listen for anyone experiencing or contemplating this life-altering transition.
Joining us is the incredible Karen McMahon, a divorce and relationship coach with years of experience guiding individuals through the highs and lows of divorce. Karen’s personal journey through a high-conflict divorce, which she describes as both "a living hell and the best thing that ever happened to me," is a testament to the potential for profound personal growth during one of life’s most challenging events. This episode is packed with invaluable divorce recovery strategies that offer both emotional support and practical guidance.
Karen will be sharing insights on how to navigate the emotional whirlwind of divorce. We'll explore the concept of "reframing," a powerful technique that can help transform negative thoughts and stories into empowering narratives, allowing for greater emotional resilience and personal empowerment. Additionally, Karen will discuss strategies for minimizing conflict reactivity—a crucial skill not only in the process of divorce but in every facet of life.
This conversation isn't just for those going through a divorce; it's for anyone interested in personal development and breaking free from destructive patterns. You'll learn how to harness this period of significant upheaval to reinvent yourself and break generational cycles, ensuring a healthier future for yourself and your children. Importantly, we'll address the unique challenges faced by military families and the potential impact of divorce on service members, offering tips to navigate these specific hurdles with strength and grace.
Our host, Elizabeth Polinsky, will guide this meaningful discussion, connecting Karen's expert advice with practical steps you can take right now to start your journey towards healing and growth. Whether you're on the brink of this transition or deep in the midst of it, this episode is filled with tools and insights to help you emerge stronger, wiser, and ready to embrace your next chapter with open arms.
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