3443 Are You More Absent Than Present?
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Release Date: 06/29/2024
3445 Get The Right Things Done
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Most of our time is spent worrying about what we can't do or where we failed. At what point do you change your tune, encouraging your thoughts and words to get the right things done? There's no other way to put it than to create your now! Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . But how do you make it all work? How do you formulate your thoughts to position your words to control your actions so you can have behaviors that, over time, give way to your habits that can change the world you touch? Why does life have to be so complicated? Why can't we...
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3444 The Strength of Patience
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
How much do you fill your day with sugar just to get through it? What if you could have a sugar that feeds your heart and soul? In the meantime of life, rely on God's presence and the strength of patience. You're busy. The feelings of overwhelm drain you and cause you to become weary. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . We crave instant results, instant gratification, and instant relief from our stresses. We want everything to happen quickly, seamlessly, and effortlessly. But what if I told you that the key to finding true strength, peace,...
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3443 Are You More Absent Than Present?
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
There are many ways to show up in your marriage, two of which are physically and emotionally. How involved and invested are you emotionally in your spouse, or are you more absent than present? Unfortunately, after we get done dating and we've locked the relationship with wedding bells and rings, it seems that all the effort of investing in the marriage is tossed out the window. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Now, for a few month, and if you're lucky a few years, you might be subject to the "honeymoon" phase. But that goes away...
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3442 The Power of Celebration
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
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3441 Embrace the Hurdles
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
When the hours of our day often lead the heart of passion to stray, we must not forget that the darkest moments come before dawn. So fear not your circumstances, but embrace the hurdles as pebbles of hope. Challenges often overshadow our aspirations and crush our dreams. Our days seem more like the dark nights where hope can't be seen as easily. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . The weight of our worries can feel heavier than the strength in our bones. It's important to remember that every struggle is a stepping stone on the journey...
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3440 The Rhythm of Comfort
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
When it comes to healthy living, how much do you really want it? From traveling to life's challenges to unexplainable situations, who wants to do anything different but hang out in the rhythm of comfort? And then you wonder why. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . You know-- the allure of comfort can be irresistibly tempting. Whether it's indulging in familiar foods, staying within our routine, or avoiding challenges that push us out of our cozy bubble, the rhythm of comfort often dictates our choices. But is this reliance on comfort...
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3439 Do Something Radical
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Just because life throws you lemons doesn't mean you have to catch the sourness of life. Enjoy the sweetness of life when you make your own lemonade—do something radical! Maybe you're stuck in a routine or season that has you hanging out with your excuses more than the possibilities. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Just so you know-- You're not alone. That feeling of being stuck, caught in a rut, or uninspired is real for many of us. Maybe you're wanting a change of pace. Maybe you're yearning for more excitement or want to...
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3438 You Can't Stay Here
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
In a world where limitations often feel like roadblocks, it's easy to get caught up in what we can't do. The endless list of "you can't go there" or "you can't achieve that" can cloud your vision. But you can't stay here! Where are you right now? What are you battling in your mind? What conversations keep coming up for you that lead you to a mental war with yourself? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Are you one who is all about the next step and ready to take A.I.M. on what you know to do? Or are you hanging out with your self-doubt, your...
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3437 Answer God's Call
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
“Do not come any closer,” God said. “Take off your sandals, for the place where you are standing is holy ground.” (Exodus 3:5) Just as Moses, are you willing to answer God's call? Then he said, “I am the God of your father, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac and the God of Jacob.” At this, Moses hid his face, because he was afraid to look at God. (Exodus 3:6) Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . How many times have you been in the presence of God and hid your face? How many times have you heard...
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3436 Never Accept The Odds
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
When two people stand at the altar and exchange vows, the last thing on their minds is the possibility of becoming just another statistic. If you ever thought breaking up was in your cards, never accept the odds. As you know, relationships require effort, dedication, and a willingness to beat the odds. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . "It's easier to not work on something than it is to make the changes for it to work." ~ Kristianne Wargo Many couples face challenges in their marriage. Rather than accepting defeat, it’s crucial to take...
info_outlineThere are many ways to show up in your marriage, two of which are physically and emotionally. How involved and invested are you emotionally in your spouse, or are you more absent than present?
Unfortunately, after we get done dating and we've locked the relationship with wedding bells and rings, it seems that all the effort of investing in the marriage is tossed out the window.
Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co
Now, for a few month, and if you're lucky a few years, you might be subject to the "honeymoon" phase.
But that goes away swiftly, and then each person the in the marriage is left to fend for themselves.
Doesn't that sound like a marriage you want to be in?
Probably not. And that's why we need to chat. Marriage takes two and requires effort from both parties. However, if you are getting what you want, why would you try harder?
This is what happens when you have one spouse who is physically present, but emotionally absent. They do everything to keep you close enough without giving you everything you need. Literally, they are stringing you along.
They think they are providing for you, working hard for the family, and all you do is complain. They flip it on you making it your fault. They don't want to give anymore, but they want more from you.
It's when a partner like that is emotionally lazy. They're done. Now, it's all up to you to hold the marriage together.
That is not a marriage! If you are in this position, you can't withstand this over time. Your marriage is dying.
So what do you do if you are in this situation?
The K.I.S.S. ~ Confront this dynamic in your marriage!
In moments of emotional absence from a spouse, taking proactive steps can help bridge the gap and nurture emotional intimacy. Here are three strategies that can be implemented:
1. Set Clear Expectations: Establishing clear expectations for emotional availability and support can provide a roadmap for both partners. Communicate openly about your needs and boundaries to foster a deeper emotional connection.
2. Avoid Over Functioning: Rather than repeatedly pleading with your spouse for emotional engagement, focus on setting boundaries and expressing your needs assertively. Over-functioning can lead to feelings of frustration and resentment.
3. Accountability: Encourage open and honest communication about feelings and experiences. Holding each other accountable for emotional responsiveness can promote understanding and connection.
In the ebb and flow of marriage, emotional stability acts as a cornerstone for navigating challenges and celebrating milestones together. It is essential for partners to be attuned to each other's emotional needs, dreams, and aspirations.
"Emotional stability is the catalyst that fuels the journey of two souls intertwined in love and commitment." ~ Kristianne Wargo
Embracing emotional presence in marriage means prioritizing understanding, empathy, and mutual support. By fostering emotional stability, couples can cultivate a deep sense of connection, resilience, and joy in their shared journey of love and partnership.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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Music by Mandisa - Overcomer
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Song ID: 68209
Song Title: Overcomer
Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
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