3671 From Confession to Connection
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Parents don't like being mean, but it is our responsibility to train up our children where they are to go. Therefore, as a parent, how do you walk the fine line from confession to connection? Because one of the toughest things we must do is bridge that gap. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . We need to find the happy medium that allows our children to face the truth in their lives so they can grow and be transformed into who they are becoming. And that takes work! It's not something you just wake up to with all the tools in...
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3670 Walk in the Light
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In the midst of life's storms and challenges, it can be all too easy to feel overwhelmed, unseen, and unheard. The weight of turmoil and uncertainty can cast shadows. But there is hope when you walk in the light. Because in the darkness, a guiding light is always waiting to lead us back to safety and solace, the comfort that can only be given by our heavenly Father. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . As we navigate the trials and tribulations of our daily lives, it's essential to remember that we are never truly alone. There is a presence that...
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3669 Embracing Divine Fitness in a World of Temptations
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No matter how hard you try, life poses challenges financially, relationally, and physically. If only one could figure out how embracing divine fitness in a world of temptations could elevate their days, then life would definitely be lived differently. In 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, it is written, "Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies." Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . This...
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3668 The Rise
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In pursuing our dreams and goals, we often face daunting challenges and setbacks that test our resilience and determination. It is in these moments of struggle and adversity that you must remember the rise! When life takes more work to achieve your aspirations, you've got to keep going. The biggest YES often comes from the loudest NO! Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Failure is not the end but merely a stepping stone on the path to success. Each stumble and fall is an opportunity to learn, grow, and evolve. While it may be tempting to...
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3667 Do You Believe What You See in the Mirror?
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Mirrors have a way of magnifying the good, bad, and ugly. No matter what you do, they capture the present moment. So, as you take a peek, do you believe what you see in the mirror? Now, be kind to yourself as you answer that question, and also be very honest. No need to beat around the bush if you want something different. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Change is a constant in life. And no matter where you turn, change will greet you. However, it's not worrying about the change, but how you will face it with eloquence and patience. See,...
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3666 Renewed Day By Day
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"Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day." ~ 2 Corinthians 4:16 So much of Holy Week is in preparation for the jubilation that's to come after the shock and terror of Jesus' death on the cross. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . But for whatever reason, it's easy to overlook the value of Palm Sunday. Imagine if you went to work or on your drive back home through your neighborhood, where everyone came out and celebrated you. The greeting so overwhelming and...
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3665 No Us Without You
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In marriage, it's easy to fall into the trap of pointing out our partner's flaws and expecting them to change, while neglecting our own areas of improvement. There is no us without you. In truth, a relationship takes two to tango. But you first have to look at your contribution to the relationship. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Are you serving yourself only by pointing fingers at your spouse? Or are you searching deeper and starting by looking in the mirror? True growth in a relationship comes from self-reflection and personal...
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3664 From Stress to Strength
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In today's fast-paced and demanding world, children face stress, which impacts their overall well-being. As parents, it's crucial to understand the signs of stress and provide our children with ways to navigate these challenges, from stress to strength. Research suggests that prolonged exposure to stress in childhood can have detrimental effects on a child's development, affecting their psychological, relational, physical, and emotional well-being. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . One of the challenging things in understanding stress and...
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3663 Dive a Little Deeper
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Are you tired of feeling like you're just skimming the surface of life, never quite reaching the depths of your true potential? Do you find yourself settling for mediocrity when you know you're capable of so much more? It's time to take a deep breath and dive a little deeper. Dive a little deeper into your passions, your goals, and ultimately, into yourself. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . In a world that often encourages us to stay on the surface, it can be easy to fall into the trap of living a generalized, surface-level existence. We go...
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3662 Outsmart Your Belly Fat
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Losing weight, especially in the stubborn belly fat area, can be a daunting task as we age. Not only does excess belly fat impact our self-esteem, but it also poses serious health risks. It's time to outsmart your belly fat. What would it mean to you to have your belly fat melt away, or at least decrease? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Research has shown that abdominal fat is more metabolically active and releases more harmful substances into the body compared to fat deposited in other areas, increasing the risk of heart disease, type 2...
info_outlineIn marriage, it's easy to fall into the trap of pointing out our partner's flaws and expecting them to change, while neglecting our own areas of improvement. There is no us without you.
In truth, a relationship takes two to tango. But you first have to look at your contribution to the relationship.
Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com
Are you serving yourself only by pointing fingers at your spouse? Or are you searching deeper and starting by looking in the mirror?
True growth in a relationship comes from self-reflection and personal development.
Our egos appreciate the pointing of the fingers at our spouses. But the success of our marriage is dependent upon the reflection of our own head and heart first.
Once when that clarity sets in and growth is gained for you, that's when the magic shows up in your marriage.
Look in the mirror.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Look in the mirror!
Here are three key strategies for spouses to consider before pointing the finger at their partner:
1. Cultivate Self-Awareness:
Research shows that self-awareness is a critical skill for successful relationships. Before criticizing your spouse, take a moment to reflect on your own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
Ask yourself why certain things trigger you and how you can address those triggers within yourself.
By understanding your own emotional reactions and patterns, you can approach conflicts with your partner from a place of self-awareness and empathy.
2. Understand Where "IT" Comes From:
Once you know your patterns and triggers, the things you see in the mirror— you can begin to understand where they're coming from. It's vital to recognize and acknowledge what is happening so you can make decisions as to how to rectify the situation. How do you turn things around quickly?
And then, in real-time, you can make shifts where you don't even experience the patterns or triggers any longer.
3. What is Your Contribution?
Rather than trying to change your spouse, focus on where your contribution is in the marriage. Wherever you think you're pointing your fingers, look at yourself first.
Make the changes, discuss them with your spouse, and see what happens. Then, you make further tweaks along the way, eventually creating new habits.
Now, it's no longer about what your spouse is doing all wrong, but what you are doing better for your marriage.
Connect your head and heart in this partnership called marriage. That's where you'll see hope and love root deeper, creating a stronger foundation for a beautiful marriage.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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