3933 How Grief Affects Your Mindset
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Grief isn’t just about losing a loved one. It’s a full-body, mind-consuming response to any meaningful loss: a job, a home, a relationship, a dream gone sideways. If you don’t understand how grief rewires your mindset, it can trap you in a mental box where all you see is what’s broken—and how far you are from climbing out of that dark hole. When you understand how grief affects your mindset, you get why you're paralyzed, stuck replaying the what, why, and how over and over, missing the possibility of what’s next. So let’s get real: grief is brutal, disorienting, and...
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3932 Stand Firm on God's Holy Ground
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Walking in step with God is never a passive journey, especially when the world around you seems determined to pull you off course. Jealousy, deceit, and manipulation are real weapons some wield to fracture your spirit and cloud your vision. When hearts turn bitter and minds play cruel games, it’s easy to get trapped inside a warped reality that feels impossible to escape. So how do you hold your ground in these moments? How do you fight this spiritual battle without losing your soul? Stand firm on God's Holy ground. You must begin to recognize the battlefield beyond the visible, only what...
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3931 Dream Bigger Together
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The new year brings that electric buzz of new beginnings and fresh possibilities. When you’re married to your person—the one you dream about and build life with—it only makes sense to dream bigger together. Because, really, who wouldn’t want a richer, more exciting life for themselves and their spouse? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . But here’s the truth: It’s easy to fall into the trap of “we’ve always done it this way.” And sure—that’s comfortable. Maybe even safe. But if you want to go beyond the status quo, if...
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3930 Intentional Parenting that Moves Mountains
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Every new year brings a fresh chance to hit the reset button — including how you show up as a parent. But let's be real: parenting is hard, exhausting, and often thankless. If you coast through it, thinking your kids will "figure it out," you’re setting everyone up for frustration and chaos. Kids need more than just food and shelter; they need consistent guidance, love, and boundaries; it's intentional parenting that moves mountains. Because when you slack off, what you get is exactly what you put in — kids who push limits, test boundaries, and fill the void left by absent parenting....
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3929 The Best Is Yet To Come
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The first day of a new year holds something rare—a stillness amid the noise, a quiet space where hope and possibility stretch out like an open road. It’s a day wrapped in excitement but tinged with uncertainty. The unknowns can flip the script, spin your stomach, and test your courage. But here’s the beautiful, unshakable truth: The best is yet to come. You might hear this phrase a ton. But it's not just a feel-good phrase. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s a call to show up with presence, grace, and fierce faith. Presence...
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3928 What If Forward Progress Requires Forgiveness?
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Every New Year arrives heavy with promises! However, let’s be honest, you've gotta fair share of frustration, too. For millions, those well-meaning resolutions quickly unravel, leaving behind guilt and the familiar cycle of “I failed again.” But the harsh truth is that pushing yourself to “fix” every flaw with iron willpower only sets up a battle you can’t win long-term. So what if forward progress requires forgiveness in your healthy living? Well-being doesn’t emerge from beating yourself into a different person. Yet all too often, that’s exactly the approach New Year’s...
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3927 Get Back Up!
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You're probably all too familiar with the grinding season—the one where your to-do list feels like Mount Everest, your energy dips, and then the holidays roll in like a relentless tide. It’s the time when surviving feels like a win. But what if you didn’t just survive? What if you conquered this season with your heart still beating loud and your goals clearly in view? Get back up! Here’s the truth: heart and hustle aren’t enemies of your well-being; they’re the secret weapons for a life that’s full without breaking you. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded...
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3926 How to Honor Your Past and Prepare for the Present
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Every December, most of us find ourselves trapped in the chaos—exhausted, overwhelmed, and haunted by a list of unfinished goals. This is the time for closing the chapter: how to honor your past and prepare for the present. Our minds scramble through the mess of failures and successes alike, begging for answers that never seem to come. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . But here’s the truth: fear does not have to freeze you in place. You were created to move forward, to step boldly into what’s next. The power lies in embracing the new...
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3925 Anchor Your Joy in What Lasts
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As the final Sunday of the year fades into twilight, it carries with it a weight that feels heavy for many—a mix of reflection, regret, relief, and even anticipation. Life never promised a smooth journey. Each year comes with its own share of battles, setbacks, and moments when the road feels unbearably steep. But struggles don’t have the final say on your joy or hope. Anchor your joy in what lasts. Far too often, we let our circumstances dictate how we feel—a volatile foundation for anything lasting. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . ...
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3924 Reflect, Reconnect, and Reignite Your Marriage
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The end of the year is more than just a calendar checkpoint. It’s an invitation for you to pause and take stock of your journey together; how to reflect, reconnect, and reignite your marriage. After years of shared experiences, it’s easy to let presence slip through the cracks, assuming love just happens. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . The truth is, unconditional love doesn’t appear by accident. It demands intentional reflection, connection, and the willingness to serve each other daily. Take this moment to look back—not to...
info_outlineWalking in step with God is never a passive journey, especially when the world around you seems determined to pull you off course. Jealousy, deceit, and manipulation are real weapons some wield to fracture your spirit and cloud your vision. When hearts turn bitter and minds play cruel games, it’s easy to get trapped inside a warped reality that feels impossible to escape. So how do you hold your ground in these moments? How do you fight this spiritual battle without losing your soul? Stand firm on God's Holy ground.
You must begin to recognize the battlefield beyond the visible, only what you can see. And then understand that the conflict isn’t just earthly—it’s spiritual.
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Ephesians 6:12 warns us, “For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.”
When people lash out, driven by jealousy or their own brokenness, they’re often unwitting instruments of a deeper darkness.
Your fight isn’t against them personally but against the evil trying to undermine your faith and purpose.
Cling to God’s Truth, Not Their Lies
It’s tempting to absorb every whisper, every shadow of doubt they cast on your character or calling.
But remember Jesus’ words in John 8:32, “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
The truth isn’t shaped by gossip, envy, or manipulation—it’s rooted in God’s word and your identity as His child. When the world distorts reality, anchor yourself in scripture.
David’s story shows us how to respond. Saul’s jealousy reached dangerous heights; he hunted David relentlessly, though David was innocent and chosen by God to be king (1 Samuel 18-26).
Yet David didn’t retaliate with bitterness or deceit. Instead, he trusted God, avoided unnecessary conflict, and waited for God’s timing. His heart remained pure through prayer and reliance on God’s justice, not man’s.
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Guard Your Heart, But Don’t Harden It
Proverbs 4:23 says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Protecting your spirit means you don’t absorb or reflect the toxic attitudes around you. Yet guarding doesn’t mean closing off. It means staying tender to God’s leading while discerning who and what you let influence your mindset.
When Jesus faced false accusations and betrayal, He didn’t respond with violence or bitterness; He showed grace and kept His mission clear (Luke 23:34). That doesn’t mean you tolerate abuse or manipulation, but that you maintain your own integrity and compassion even when attacked. Pray for those who seek to derail you—that’s your power move.
Fight With Weapons God Gives You
Paul instructs believers in Ephesians 6 to take up the full armor of God: truth, righteousness, peace, faith, salvation, and the word of God. These aren’t metaphorical niceties—they’re your spiritual tools for standing firm. When your environment is hostile, saturate yourself in prayer, scripture, and the fellowship of believers who reinforce your faith.
James 4:7 says, “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” Resist deception and discouragement by submitting fully to God’s guidance. Remember that spiritual battles are won in moments of surrender, not struggle.
Remember Your Identity and God’s Purpose
The pain inflicted by others can make you question your worth or mission. But God’s plan is bigger than their interference.
Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us, “For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
Holding on to that promise gives perspective beyond the current storm.
Jesus warned, “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33). When you walk with Him, you walk as a conqueror, not a victim.
Your Next Step
Don’t let the jealousy and confusion around you steal your momentum or your peace. Stand firm by anchoring deeply in God’s word, guarding your heart without bitterness, and wielding His armor daily. The spiritual battle is tough and often invisible, but your victory is assured when you refuse to be derailed by people’s faults and choose God’s path instead.
You’re not alone in this fight—God goes before you. His light pierces the darkest schemes. Keep walking, keep trusting, and keep your eyes on Him. That’s how you win.
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