3813 The Wait Is Over
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Walking in step with God isn’t just a stroll in the park—it’s a gritty, often grueling journey that challenges your patience more than the external chaos of the world. The hardest part isn’t what comes at us from outside, but wrestling with the timing of God’s plan. The truth is, God has already prepared a way before you. He has a place destined for you. But here’s the catch: So when He knows you are ready, the wait is over. We know the feeling all too well. A dream seeds itself deep inside, and you see the vision crystal clear—a powerful calling, a life meant for more. Yet, why...
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3812 Remember What You Forgot
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Wouldn’t it be something—waking up tomorrow and seeing your spouse with the same excitement and admiration you had when you were dating? That feeling you had when you first said “I do” wasn’t accidental. Something real, compelling, and valuable caught your attention—remember what you forgot. Let’s be honest: daily life grinds us down. The demands of jobs, kids, bills, and endless distractions dull the sparkle in any relationship. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . We get stuck expecting love to always feel fresh and viral,...
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3811 Speak Your Child's Language
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Talking to your child like you do your friends or spouse isn’t going to cut it. Kids aren’t little adults—they process, feel, and need communication on completely different levels. If you want them to truly hear and respond, you have to speak your child's language. Parenting isn’t about one-size-fits-all advice. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s about tuning in to who your child is and meeting them where they are, head-on, heart-first, and in ways that make sense to them. And all this comes from the parent...
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3810 Storms Don't Last Forever
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There’s a moment — or maybe many moments — when the weight of everything crashing around you makes quitting feel like the only choice. Life isn’t just busy; it’s chaotic. The lists feel endless, people demand your time, and your energy is running on fumes. Then you wonder: “Is it really worth it? Does any of this actually make a difference?” But storms don't last forever. Because when the storms hit and life spins out of control, what you are doing now — your hustle, your passion project, your business — becomes your secret weapon. Desire to be supported and encouraged by...
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3809 Sweatpants and Self-Control
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There are days when control feels like an illusion, and the sweatpants aren’t just comfort, they’re a retreat. But with fall looming—complete with its cozy vibes, comfort food temptations, and shorter daylight hours—it’s easy to let self-control crash right along with your energy. How do you balance wearing your sweatpants and self-control? Because all too often, one goes hand in hand with the other. If you are feeling like wearing sweatpants, you're usually not strutting your way into the gym. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . ...
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3808 Never Give Up!
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Life hits hard. It doesn’t ask for your permission before throwing curveballs from every direction. The distractions? They pile up, clutter your mind, and drain your focus. Instead of pushing you forward, they pull you back—making the grind feel heavier, the goal farther, and the dream dimmer. Never give up! None of that stuff—the scores on your test, your business’s ups and downs, the wins or stumbles of your family, or those parts of your life that aren’t working—matters as much as you think in the moment. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women?...
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3807 What Traditions Are You Building In Your Mind?
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Your mindset isn’t just a random collection of thoughts. It’s the sum of your past experiences, your values, and the habits you’ve stitched together over time. In essence, it’s where your mental traditions begin. These are the patterns, rituals, and thought loops you come back to—not necessarily because they serve you, but often because they feel comfortable. So what traditions are you building in your mind? And more importantly, are those traditions helping or holding you back? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . We usually...
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3806 Take God Home
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If you’re standing at a crossroads, wondering what’s next in your life, there’s a reality waiting for you that’s both deeply simple and radically life-changing: God isn’t meant to be reserved for Sundays, sermons, or religious rituals. He’s meant for every moment, every decision, every breath you take. It’s time to take God home—to invite Him beyond the sanctuary walls and into the everyday spaces of your life. This idea isn’t new; it’s rooted in a powerful story from the book of Acts. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . ...
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3805 Love Requires Intention
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The headline buzz this week—the engagement of Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift. Two high-profile lives weaving their love story amid the noise, judgment, and relentless spotlight. It makes you wonder: Do you have a love so deep, so intentional, that it stands strong no matter the chatter or rumors swirling around, no matter what the world says? Love requires intention. Unconditional love doesn’t look the same for every couple. Some show it in quiet daily acts; others in grand gestures. But what matters most is cultivating a love that’s more alive today than it was yesterday. Desire to be...
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3804 Practice Creates Progress
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The seasons shift, schedules twist, and routines morph—sound familiar? As we step into this new chapter, it’s easy for family goals to get lost in the shuffle. But here’s the truth: progress in your family life isn’t a lightning strike. It’s a habit. A practice. Every lesson you repeat, every value you model alongside your children, chips away at the “hard” and builds momentum. Practice creates progress. Because this is where real progress lives. When parents actively engage in learning with their kids—not just as overseers but as participants—they send a clear message:...
info_outlineTalking to your child like you do your friends or spouse isn’t going to cut it. Kids aren’t little adults—they process, feel, and need communication on completely different levels. If you want them to truly hear and respond, you have to speak your child's language.
Parenting isn’t about one-size-fits-all advice.
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It’s about tuning in to who your child is and meeting them where they are, head-on, heart-first, and in ways that make sense to them.
And all this comes from the parent willing to play the point.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Play the point!
A parent who raises a child well is looking at what their individual child needs and play the point for them, not for anyone else.
Here are three concrete moves you can make to play the point—to respond to your child in a way that lands, sticks, and actually fuels connection and growth.
1. Get Clear on Their Emotional Tune
Children don’t just need words—they need emotional resonance. What’s going on below the surface? Fear, excitement, confusion, or frustration? You can’t slap on a generic “calm down” or “be good” and expect them to get it. Instead, acknowledge what they’re feeling explicitly.
From a parent’s side, that looks like:
- Observing the child’s energy and mood first before jumping to fix or instruct.
- Saying something like, “I see you’re really upset right now. That’s okay. I’m here.”
- Validating their emotional ‘weather’ so they feel understood, not dismissed.
This isn’t coddling or weakness—it’s the foundation for any communication to be heard and trusted.
2. Use Their Developmental Code
Each child is wired differently, and their brain is scanning the world uniquely based on age and personality. What makes sense to a 3-year-old bombarding you with “why?” will pitch differently to your 10-year-old or teenager. Speak in phrases and methods that line up with their stage—simpler explanations, concrete examples, or giving space to think.
From a parent’s side, that looks like:
- Breaking down complex concepts into bite-sized, relatable chunks.
- Using stories, analogies, or visuals tailored to their understanding.
- Matching your tone and energy to their level, not just your own agenda.
Trying to explain long reasoning to a toddler? You’ll lose them. Adjust your communication like a pro DJ adjusting volume and tempo to the crowd.
3. Create Intentional Feedback Loops
This one’s where many parents slip. You say something, but how do you know they got it? Kids rarely just nod and say “got it.” You need to check in, invite their voice, and reflect back what you hear. That shows respect for their perspective and reveals where you might need to clarify or pivot.
From a parent’s side, that looks like:
- Pausing and asking, “How do you feel about that?” or “What do you think we can do next?”
- Encouraging questions without judgment or rushing.
- Repeating or rephrasing their response to confirm understanding.
When your child feels safe to express themselves, communication becomes a two-way exchange, not a one-sided lecture.
Parenting Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All — It’s Precision Work
Parenting doesn’t have to be exhausting or confusing once you stop trying to talk at your child the same way you do at adults.
Instead, show up with specificity—knowing the unique wiring, feelings, and needs of the child in front of you right now.
When you speak your child’s language emotionally and developmentally, and you check in to make sure the message lands, you’re not just giving orders or advice—you’re building trust, understanding, and a real relationship. That’s how parenting stops being hard and starts being something powerful, clear, and effective.
Remember: Each child is a different conversation. Play the point—tailor your approach—and watch them listen, respond, and grow right before your eyes.
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