4015 Go with the Flow
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Marriage is a wild ride; no matter how many years you’ve been in it, you’re always learning something new. Just when you think you’ve got your spouse all figured out, life throws a curveball like a change in circumstances, mood, or priorities. The automatic reaction might be to resist, argue, or complain, but real strength lies in learning how to go with the flow. Easier said than done, right? Marriage: the joining of two very different people, each with their own views on how life should go—that’s a recipe for some tension. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded...
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4014 More to Life than Screen Time
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Kids glued to screens more than they engage in real conversations is a crisis disguised as convenience. With the rise of technology, including computers and phones, the natural order has been flipped upside down, leaving a generation increasingly ill-equipped to navigate the human connections that truly matter. There's more to life than screen time. This isn’t just a gripe about kids and screens; it’s about the quality and depth of human connection they’re missing out on. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . When children spend hours...
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4013 Love Your Life
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Circumstances have a way of dragging us down. When worries pile up, enthusiasm doesn’t stand a chance. Hope gets shoved aside by the constant rush of life, making you want to throw in the towel and quit altogether. You don’t have to fall in love with the season you’re living through to actually love your life. Loving your life isn’t automatic. It’s not a byproduct of perfect days or effortless joy. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s a daily decision—a choice you make every morning when you wake up and take that first breath....
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4012 Change is a Good Thing
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Why do we often run from change as if it’s something dangerous to avoid? The sprint away is so instinctive that even when we stumble, we’d rather keep running in fear than pause and face what’s new. Instead of running from something like fear, failure, or discomfort, why not run toward what you want? Because change is a good thing. We are wired as creatives and learners. But if we keep thinking we cannot change something or do it differently, it holds us back. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . When we convince ourselves that we can’t...
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4011 It's Never Too Late
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Just because life is hard doesn't mean you have to give up your smile. No sugarcoating it; you got bills, responsibilities, and all the things you don't want. Hang on! It’s never too late to smile more, live with purpose, and truly enjoy the breath of each day. This is a lifeline that you need to grab onto for your tired soul. You might be on spring break right now, but that doesn't mean you are getting the break you need. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . But if your days off look like just more to-do lists or exhaustion disguised in...
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4010 Miles that Matter
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Life’s toughest challenges don’t just test your body; they strain your mind. When stress piles up and struggles knock hard, it’s easy to cling to what feels safe and familiar. Sometimes that safe place lives right in your own head, in the form of self-talk that keeps you stuck. If you want to walk the miles that matter, the real journey begins inside your mind. Your mindset is the foundation. If your thoughts don’t match your goals, your feet will never hit the road that leads to meaningful progress. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . ...
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4009 Trust in the Lord
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There is so much going on nowadays that the only thing we can be confident in is God's love for us. We can't control everything, but we can "Trust in the Lord with all our heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6)" Trust is the one thing that builds our faith. Faith comes by hearing. We walk by faith, not by sight because of the trust we have in Jesus Christ. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . If you are drowning in all the things right now, I want you to...
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4008 Freshen Things Up in Your Marriage
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Marriage can sometimes slip into predictable rhythms and routines that dull the spark. But a new season gives you a sound reason to freshen things up in your marriage, because every new season isn’t just about changing weather or calendar pages. It’s a perfect moment to hit refresh in your relationship—the reason you said “I do” and the story you’re still writing together. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Yes, it might sound a little poetic. And honestly? Marriage needs a bit of that poetry. A dash of rhythm, a flash of...
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4007 Happy Habits at Home
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Happiness isn’t an accidental guest; it’s cultivated with intention, especially within the walls of your home. The way your family interacts daily shapes the environment where joy either flourishes or fades. You get to decide how delightful and encouraging your home is. So if you want a true sanctuary of happiness, it's time to build happy habits at home. These are the habits that anchor your family in connection, contentment, and trust. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Now maybe you are wondering if that's even possible. You might have...
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4006 See the Good
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We live in a world wired to spotlight the worst. Tune into the news, scroll through social media, and you’re bombarded with the dramas, the disasters, and the divides. Negativity looms largely because it grabs the attention. But what if you decided to flip the script? What if, instead of fueling the fire with constant bad news, you trained your eyes to see the good? This isn’t about turning a blind eye to the very real problems begging for solutions. It’s about clearing mental and emotional space for kindness, generosity, and genuine connection to take center stage. Desire to be...
info_outlineMarriage is a wild ride; no matter how many years you’ve been in it, you’re always learning something new. Just when you think you’ve got your spouse all figured out, life throws a curveball like a change in circumstances, mood, or priorities. The automatic reaction might be to resist, argue, or complain, but real strength lies in learning how to go with the flow. Easier said than done, right?
Marriage: the joining of two very different people, each with their own views on how life should go—that’s a recipe for some tension.
Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com
A little friction is normal and healthy; it sparks growth and keeps things interesting. But too much friction is a burnout waiting to happen, making you question why you’re even in the relationship.
Going with the flow doesn’t mean giving up or becoming a pushover. It’s a mindset shift. It’s about embracing change as part of your shared journey and choosing harmony over constant conflict.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Go with the flow!
What happens in your household when something unexpected happens?
Do you both get all bent out of shape and become defensive about the situation?
Or are you reasonable to work with and calm to figure it out together?
Most of us are everything in between. Very rarely does the simplest of thoughts and actions occur. And you could chalk that up to being the "unexpected" part of life.
Here are three powerful actions any spouse can take to master the art of flowing together.
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Shift Focus from Being Right to Being Connected
Often, tension arises because both partners are locked into their own point of view. Instead of doubling down on winning the argument, lean into curiosity. Ask yourself, “What is my spouse really feeling? What’s underneath their reaction?” When you prioritize connection over being right, you open the door for empathy. That creates space for compromise and understanding—ingredients that smooth the flow of your relationship. -
Practice Flexibility—and Recognize What’s Worth Holding Onto
Flexibility isn’t weakness; it’s strength wrapped in adaptability. Sometimes plans change, moods shift, and priorities evolve. Practice saying, “Okay, let’s try it your way this time,” without seeing it as a loss. But flexibility doesn’t mean losing your identity or values. Know where your non-negotiables lie and stand firm there. Flow is about navigating change gracefully, not being a leaf blown randomly by every gust. -
Choose Peace Daily—Even When You Don’t Feel Like It
Going with the flow is a practice that sometimes requires conscious effort. When irritation flares, take a breath and remind yourself: Is this worth sparking a fight over? Often, the answer is no. Committing to peace means choosing calm over chaos, patience over frustration, and love over ego—every single day. That consistency builds a reservoir of goodwill that carries you through rough patches.
Marriage isn’t a smooth crystal stream; it’s a river with bends, rapids, and quiet pools. When you learn how to go with the flow, you don’t just survive the current—you ride it together, stronger and more connected on the other side.
So next time change hits, resist the urge to push against it. Let it flow around you, carry you both forward, and deepen the bond that makes your marriage worth everything.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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