Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Life has a sneaky way of throwing curveballs. Sometimes, it feels like our dreams and our lives are at odds, each stealing time and energy from the other. You wake up one day, tired and discouraged because what you aimed for yesterday didn’t come through today—or maybe not last week, last month, or even last year. But what if the power of 'might be' keeps you going even if it took 15 years to reach the pinnacle of what you’re made for? You’re not alone if that sounds daunting. Most people give up somewhere along the way when the “now” doesn’t match the “dream.” Desire to be...
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Sometimes, the loudest battles we fight are the ones no one else can see—but God. These battles rage in the quiet corners of our hearts and minds, behind the smiles we wear and the strength we show. These are the struggles we try to control, the fears we wrestle with, the outcomes we demand. And in the chaos of it all, we miss the main thing—but God is already in control. Here’s the thing most of us don’t get—we spend all our energy chasing what we want to control Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . We try to micromanage every...
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Most people hear the word “confession” and instantly think of shame, guilt, or secrets left buried. And when it comes to marriage, it’s easy to assume confessions only mean admitting mistakes or airing dirty laundry. But what if confession wasn’t just about revealing the bad or the hidden? What if confession was the key to unlocking freedom, deeper connection, and true intimacy with your spouse? You can find freedom in your confession. Marriage is a daily exercise in being known and accepted. Two people bring their fears, hopes, and imperfections into a shared life. Desire to be...
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As parents, there’s an unspoken pressure to be seen as the best—whether it’s the parent with the most achievements, the most thoughtful gestures, or the most engaged family life. But at what cost does this spotlight come? Stop waiting for the applause. The truth is this: your main responsibility as a parent isn’t to rack up compliments or win approval. It’s to raise your children in a way that suits their unique needs, not your image. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . The Reality Check Ask most parents if they want the best for...
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You know what’s tougher than changing your circumstances? Changing your perspective. But sometimes, that’s exactly what you need. Because while you can’t always control what happens, you always control how you choose to see it; declare your worth. Think about the voice inside your head—the one that runs the nonstop commentary about you, your life, your struggles. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . That voice? It’s not just noise. It’s the foundation of your identity. Over time, the stories you repeat become who you believe you...
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When the struggles and troubles jump out on the page more than the small acts of kindness and compassion, your emotions can become entangled with what has happened, instead of what this makes possible. Life will not be easy, but you can find refreshment in the CRAP (challenges, rejections, adversities, and problems) of life; it's hope in the ashes. And not just foggy, warm, fuzzy feelings that you think all will be okay. But the real deal of hope that something better is around the corner. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . And here’s the...
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When the road ahead is rough, dotted with obstacles and unknown twists, rather than smooth paths lined with roses and rainbows, it can be tempting to settle for the easier option. But choosing what’s convenient today often just fast-tracks the stalling of the real progress you want tomorrow. Aim beyond the easy win. Life’s best achievements aren’t born from comfort zones. They come from pushing past what feels safe or simple—rejecting the magnetic pull of what’s familiar and within arm’s reach. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . ...
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It’s a story as old as ambition itself. Everyone wants to get ahead, accomplish big things, and build the life they crave. Yet, the truth is simple, profound, and often the most challenging: What makes the biggest difference is the quiet work that creates loud success. It's the progress that happens in the quiet spaces where no one else is looking. It’s the grind that goes unseen—the early mornings you’re not tweeting about, the late nights where the world is asleep, and you’re wide awake pushing past limits. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us...
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In a world obsessed with control, hustle, and having all the answers, it’s easy to feel drained, inadequate, or endlessly chasing something just out of reach. Everywhere you turn, the message screams: “You must figure it out. You have to have a plan. You need to produce or you’ll be left behind.” But if you’re tired of spinning your wheels, worn out by pressure, and desperate for a life that isn’t fueled by stress and striving, there’s a deeper invitation waiting for you. It’s an invitation to walk in the overflow that only God can provide. John 15:5 (NIV): "I am the vine;...
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Marriage is no walk in the park or a gentle stroll. It can become a constant grind that can wear you down until you’re barely holding on. Maybe you've experienced moments when you look at your spouse and wonder: How do I keep showing up for them when I feel completely tapped out? When life’s demands have drained your energy and the reality of exhaustion in marriage has struck, how do you find that next gear to love better and support deeper? Between work pressures, household responsibilities, parenting, managing bills, and trying to maintain some semblance of personal sanity, marriage can...
info_outlineTake a deep breath. Inhale the new, exhale the old. Don’t let what you think you can’t do get in the way of what you can do to create your now. Train like you mean it.
Most people quit before they even start. The voice in your head whispers limits, fears, and doubts. “You’re not strong enough. You don’t have enough time. You won’t see results.” That voice? It’s your biggest obstacle. Stop listening. Start doing.
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Training—whether it’s physical, mental, or emotional—is a commitment. It demands focus, grit, and intention. It isn’t a casual pastime you fit in when you “feel like it.” Train like you mean it. Own your process every time you show up.
Why? Because halfway effort breeds halfway results. Those minor excuses—“I’m too tired today,” “I’ll start tomorrow”—pile up until your goal feels unreachable. Your biggest competitor isn’t someone else. It’s you, holding yourself back with weak excuses and half-hearted attempts.
You’re made for more than excuses. You were built to push boundaries, to break through barriers, and to surprise even yourself with what’s possible. So stop selling yourself short. Rise up. Choose discipline over doubt. Choose action over hesitation.
When you train like you mean it, every workout, every practice, every step forward becomes a declaration: “I refuse to settle. I am capable. I am here to win.”
The K.I.S.S. ~ Train like you mean it!
Habits forge the future, and your future is shaped by what you do today—not by what you dream about. So get uncomfortable. Increase the weight. Step outside your comfort zone. Meet struggle with force. Your growth starts when you stop playing small.
Train like you mean it—when it comes to living the life you’re meant to live—is about showing up with fierce intention and zero tolerance for half-measures. Here are three non-negotiable moves to make it happen:
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Define Your Non-Negotiables and Set Clear Intentions
Stop drifting. Get crystal clear on what matters most to you—your values, goals, and the daily habits that will push you forward. When you know exactly what you’re training for, distractions lose their power. Write down your priorities and revisit them every morning with purpose. This sharpens your focus and fuels purposeful action. -
Embrace Consistency Over Motivation
Motivation is fickle. You won’t always “feel like it” — that’s normal. Training like you mean it means committing to the grind even when inspiration dips. Build routines that keep you moving forward no matter what. Accountability tools, scheduled check-ins, or a support system keep you on track. Your future self earns that respect. -
Lean Into Discomfort and Own Your Growth
No growth happens in comfort zones. When fear, doubt, or resistance show up, that’s the sign you’re doing something worth doing. Push through the discomfort. Experiment with new challenges—even if they intimidate you. Training like you mean it means saying, “I’m here to get stronger, no matter what it takes.” Growth is earned in those moments you don’t quit.
This isn’t about perfection—it’s about persistence. Some days you’ll crush it, some days you’ll drag your feet. But if you train like you mean it every day, you’ll carve a path to success no one can take away.
So, take that deep breath again. Inhale possibility — exhale doubt. Then get to work. Train like you mean it. Because your ‘now’ is waiting for a you who won’t quit.
No more excuses. No more limiting beliefs. Only forward motion.
Rise up. Show up. Train like you mean it!
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
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