4150 Stop Going Back
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Have you ever made a decision, felt good about it for a moment, and then spent the next three days replaying it in your mind like a movie you can't turn off? You made the call. You weighed your options. You moved. And then — almost out of nowhere — the doubt crept in. Did I really think that through? What if I'm wrong? Maybe I should have waited. Stop going back! When we make a decision and clarity stalls, something uncomfortable starts to bubble up. It's the fear of being stuck. Not stuck because the decision was wrong, but stuck because we won't let go of it long enough to see where...
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4149 Overflow with Hope
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When you feel like all you're doing is running away from or toward all the things, it's hard to find joy and peace in life. You can get down and out about your circumstances, and all hope feels lost. But as Paul says in Romans 15:13, "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." Have you ever had one of those seasons where it feels like you're just running? Running toward the next thing on your list. Running away from the thing you don't want to face. Running in circles because you're not even sure...
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4148 Look For Something To Work With
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There's a moment in every marriage where you have to make a choice. You can stand there replaying every missed pass — every time your spouse came up short, every promise that got fumbled, every "we'll get to it" that never got to anything. Or you can do what the good ones do when the clock is running out. You can look for something to work with. Think about what you do now. Are you one who focuses on what doesn't work? Or are you willing to see what's possible? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow...
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4147 Never Miss A Beat
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Parenting is a never-ending, rhythmic song that plays over and over again. Some of the melodies are soothing to the heart — a sleepy child curled into your shoulder, a shared laugh over something silly at the dinner table, a "thank you, Mom" that comes out of nowhere and undoes you a little. But many more of the notes disrupt the nervous system. The 2 a.m. cries. The slammed doors of the teenage years. The days when you've given everything and it still doesn't feel like enough. However you hear it, you can't run from the most important responsibility in your life. Never miss a beat. Parents,...
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4146 The Circle Isn't Wasted
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There is a particular kind of tired that comes from walking in circles. You look up and realize you have passed this same tree, this same doubt, this same conversation with yourself, more times than you can count. You are moving; your legs ache to prove it, but the scenery refuses to change. And somewhere in that repetition, you hope that the circle isn't wasted. Because the real question, the one that keeps you up at night, is "does any of this matter if I don't even know where I am?" Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . #Inspiration...
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4145 Just Because Life Takes An Unexpected Turn
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Life doesn't always unfold the way we planned. One day the road looks clear, and the next, it curves somewhere we never saw coming. Unexpected turns can leave us feeling disappointed, confused, or uncertain about what is happening in our world and what God is doing in the middle of it. But here is what remains true even when everything else feels shaky: God is never surprised by the path ahead. Just because life takes an unexpected turn, God was not caught off guard, and He is not scrambling to figure out what to do next. "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord in...
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4144 Keep Walking When the Miles Feel Long
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There is a particular kind of tired that has nothing to do with sleep. It's the tired that comes from carrying a dream for longer than you expected to carry it, from praying the same prayer for the hundredth time, from showing up to the same unfinished work day after day and wondering if today is any different from yesterday. If you're in that kind of tired right now, know that you are not stalled. You are in the middle. And the middle is where most of life actually happens. So keep walking when the miles feel long. We tend to picture progress as a straight, visible line — one clear step...
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4143 You Didn't Come This Far to Come This Far
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A journey lasts a lifetime. It requires a chosen mindset, intentional thoughts, and actions that put an exclamation point to movement. Not a comma. Not a question mark. An exclamation point—a declaration that you meant to keep going. As you travel the various paths set before you, let this settle into your spirit: you didn't come this far to come this far. You kept what was valuable in front of you. You pivoted where necessary. You became consistent as time moved on, even when consistency cost you something. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at...
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4142 Satisfy Us in the Morning
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There's a moment right before your feet hit the floor. The alarm has gone off, the day is waiting, and for just a second you get to choose what you reach for first. Most of us reach for the phone. We reach for the to-do list already running in our heads. We reach for yesterday's leftover worry and let it become this morning's starting point. But there's another way to open your eyes. Psalm 90:14 says, "Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days." Moses wrote those words — the same Moses who spent forty years watching a...
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4141 Keep Your Clothes On
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Marriage was designed for intimacy. God built it that way on purpose — physical closeness is part of the gift. So why in the world would I tell you to keep your clothes on? Because there's a kind of intimacy that has to come first. And if you don't have it, the physical stuff becomes a bandage on a wound that keeps reopening. If you don't have the heart of your spouse, maybe you should keep your clothes on. Cordial Isn't the Same as Connected Think about how you actually interact with your spouse right now — not how you wish you did, not how you did on your wedding day. Right...
info_outlineHow much of your time is wasted feeling overwhelmed while trying to do everything with excellence? Excellence is always great. But maybe good is enough. Expectations are hard to reach, especially when you set the bar high for absolutely everything. So what if you lowered the bar?
Standards are a double-edged sword. They can work to your advantage. They push you to grow, to care about your output, to take pride in what you produce. But standards can also become a stumbling block — one that holds you hostage to procrastination and overwhelm.
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But here's something to seriously consider: some things done good are enough. Not everything needs to be excellent.
Look at how you prioritize your to-do list right now. If everything on it is equally important, how do you ever actually get anything done? No wonder you're so stressed out.
When every task is a ten out of ten, you have no way to know where to spend your best energy — so you either freeze, or you burn out trying to be excellent at everything at once.
The fix isn't working harder. It's deciding, on purpose, where excellence actually matters — and where good enough will do just fine.
At some point, it's a good idea to start prioritizing what really matters.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Prioritize what matters!
And this isn't that hard. You just have to be willing to do it and not get trapped in the old habits that isolate you from what matters. Excellence (or perfection) can be an asset to your every day, so long as you're okay with "good is enough" at times.
3 Ways to Prioritize What Really Matters
1. Sort Your Tasks by Impact, Not by Urgency
Urgency screams the loudest, but it isn't the same as importance. Before you start your day, ask of each task: If this were done at a "good" level instead of a "perfect" level, would anyone notice — or would anything actually break?
If the honest answer is no, that task doesn't need your best hours or your best energy. Save your excellence for the handful of things that truly move the needle — the ones tied to your goals, your relationships, or your reputation. Everything else can be handled competently and moved off your plate.
2. Ask "What's the Real Cost of Perfect Here?"
Before you polish something for the fifth time, pause and calculate the trade-off. Every extra hour spent perfecting a low-stakes task is an hour stolen from something that actually deserved your excellence — or from your own rest.
Give yourself permission to ask: Is this a "museum piece" or a "moving piece"? A museum piece is something people will study closely and remember — a client proposal, a keynote, a piece of writing with your name on it. That deserves excellence. A moving piece just needs to get you to the next step — an internal email, a rough draft, a first pass. That only needs to be good.
3. Set a Time Limit Before You Start, Not After You're Stuck
Overwhelm often creeps in because a task has no boundary. Without a stopping point, "good" quietly turns into "let me just fix one more thing," and one more thing becomes an hour you didn't have.
Before you begin a lower-priority task, decide in advance how much time it earns — fifteen minutes, thirty minutes, an hour — and treat that limit as the finish line, not a suggestion. When the timer's up, it's done. This one shift alone can free up hours of your week that used to disappear into invisible perfectionism.
The Bottom Line
Lowering the bar isn't about lowering your standards for everything. It's about being honest with yourself about where excellence is actually required — and giving yourself permission to let "good" be good enough everywhere else.
Your best energy is a limited resource. Spend it where it counts, and watch how much lighter — and how much more productive — your days become.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
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