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33 Grief, This Is Love, Too

Big Shift Energy

Release Date: 05/31/2025

12 You Don’t Have to Pivot: A Holiday Survival Episode show art 12 You Don’t Have to Pivot: A Holiday Survival Episode

Big Shift Energy

If you’re heading into the holidays already running on fumes, this one’s for you. Amanda opens the door to a season that feels both tender and tiring — the holidays, with all their glitter and grief. If you’ve been pivoting nonstop, holding it all together, and wondering when the “break” actually comes… this one’s for you. Through gentle reflection and grounding pauses, Amanda explores what happens after the big emotions — when the breakthroughs fade and the fatigue lingers. She invites you to name the exhaustion, release the pressure, and remember that you don’t owe the...

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Okay Shiftie, unclench your jaw and roll your shoulders back — this episode is a full-body exhale. Amanda sits down with the radiant human Leslie Brooks for a soul-stirring conversation about what it really means to get out of your head and back into your body. They dive into the messy magic of self-trust, how breath can shift your entire emotional weather system, and what happens when you finally stop performing calm and actually start feeling peace. This convo is your permission slip to slow down, breathe deeper, and say a big, unapologetic “fck yes”* to your life — not because you...

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Some episodes are meant to teach. This one just needed to breathe. In this quiet minisode, Amanda opens her heart and invites you into a moment of stillness. It’s been one year since her dad passed, and just weeks since saying goodbye to Disco, her beloved kitten with the world’s biggest personality. Instead of rushing through grief, she’s learning to pause inside it and to let the ache and the love coexist. This isn’t a how-to or a fix. It’s a soft place to land. Through gentle breathing and reflection, Amanda holds space for anyone navigating loss, change, or the quiet chaos of...

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We’re all getting coal for Christmas—and this year, we’re lighting the damn grill. 🔥 In this episode, Amanda flips the holiday script and reminds you that peace isn’t a December miracle—it’s an October practice. We’re talking breathwork, boundaries, and the art of saying no before the chaos begins. You’ll learn how to stop managing everyone else’s emotions, turn your “coal” moments into fuel, and prep for a season that feels nourishing instead of nerve-wracking. Think of it as pre-season training for joy. 🦢 Silly Goose on the Loose This week’s crown goes to...

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Show Notes Ever catch yourself postponing joy like it’s a luxury item you’ve got to “earn”? Same. In this week’s episode Amanda calls BS on hustle-culture guilt trips and reminds us: delight is not a dessert—it’s a daily nutrient. We kick things off with breathwork that feels like unclenching your whole body after a week of pretending you’re fine (spoiler: you’re not). Then we dive headfirst into the two flavors of delight: ✨ Treat Delight = naps, cupcakes, and bougie lattes. ✨ Task Delight = that dopamine rush from finally paying the bill, folding the laundry, or...

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Ever feel like your to-do list is auditioning for a horror movie? Same. In this episode of The Soul Fork, Amanda flips the script on overwhelm and never-ending checklists by pulling out her secret weapon: The Soul Fork Method. Instead of choking down your chores like cold broccoli, what if you served them up like crème brûlée? From project plans built in Chat (because AI can actually be your wingman) to turning laundry into a mini party, Amanda shows how to stop surviving your list and start savoring it. Plus, we toot our horns for small wins, roast the idea of “perfection,” and remind...

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Life doesn’t need to be some big, dramatic makeover to feel magical—it’s in the way you stir your coffee, the sparkle in your nail polish, or the way you hype yourself up with the right words. This week on Big Shift Energy, we’re diving into the art of romanticizing life—aka finding joy in the tiny details, flipping our inner dialogue into affirmations, and turning everyday moments into little rituals that feel like confetti for the soul. Think Lisa Frank folder meets Britney’s “Stronger,” with a soft dash of 90s country honesty. 🌟 If you’re craving more presence,...

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Okay bestie, grab your Lisa Frank notebook and your iced latte because this episode is giving full empowerment era. Amanda and special guest Grecia Ruiz sit down to talk all things self-discovery, career transitions, community, and unapologetic women empowerment. From leaving the corporate grind for entrepreneurship, to rewriting your story with intentional language, Amanda & Grecia get real about the messy middle: hate-to-healing emotions, the patience it takes to build, and the power of celebrating every lil’ win along the way. This convo is basically your reminder that you are...

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💫 New Ep Drop: “Permission to Process” 💫 In this episode of Big Shift Energy, Amanda Lazenby takes you on a grounding ride — part meditation, part real talk, all heart. With mindfulness at the center, she unpacks the messiness of grief, the medicine of playfulness, and the beauty of processing emotions instead of just reacting. Amanda reflects on her own journey, sharing how tuning into life’s cues (the heavy vs. the light, the pause vs. the push) can unlock self-reflection and personal growth. From breathwork to celebrating small wins, this convo reminds us that emotional...

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Not every day is sunshine and glitter—and that’s okay. In this episode of Big Shift Energy, Amanda reminds us that bad days aren’t detours, they’re part of the journey. With honesty and care, she shares how breathwork, movement, and mindful self-care can shift us through emotional heaviness, especially in seasons of grief. The saying "bad days are part of a good life," appeared on with Devon. Through personal stories and reflections, Amanda highlights the resilience that comes from witnessing our emotions without letting them take over. This isn’t about bypassing the hard...

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💫 New Ep Drop: “Grief, This is Love, Too” 💫

In this deeply personal episode of Big Shift Energy, Amanda gets real about grief, milestones, and all the emotional waves in between 🌊🖤 From personal stories to practical coping tools, she’s giving you permission to show up exactly where you are.

This one’s for the hearts that are healing, growing, glowing—and still showing up. You don’t need to “fix” your grief. You just need to honor it. This is a soft and sacred space for anyone moving through grief, loss, and all the magic of healing 🖤🌸

🌈 Takeaways:

💔 Grief milestones: birthdays, holidays, anniversaries, and those days around it
🕯️ Creating rituals to remember and ground yourself
👑 Boundaries = your sacred shield
🥀 “Grief is love with nowhere to go” (say it louder)
🌀 Coping with emotional cycles + nonlinear healing
💗 Self-care that actually helps, not just hashtags
🤸‍♀️ Movement = medicine for your soul
🌈 Why feeling it all is a strength, not a setback
🌻 Community, connection & choosing joy anyway

This episode is for anyone who’s carrying grief and still finding ways to shine. Light a candle, press play, and breathe through it with us. You don’t need to rush your healing—you just need to honor it.

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Sound Bites You’ll Love:

✨ “Your grief is yours. The experience is sacred."
✨ “You’re strong enough to feel it and still shine.”
✨ "You are your biggest advocate."
✨ “Milestones are mirrors of how far you’ve come.”
✨ “Allow yourself to expand into feeling held.”

Resources:

Grief.com
Founded by David Kessler (co-author with Elisabeth KĂźbler-Ross), with resources and support groups.
→ grief.com

The Dinner Party
Community for 20s–40s who've lost someone close. Intimate, peer-led tables—online and IRL.
→ thedinnerparty.org

Calm or Insight Timer
Use for breath work, grief meditations, and grounding practices.
→ calm.com / insighttimer.com

Crisis Text Line
Text HOME to 741741 (US) — Free 24/7 support from trained counselors.
→ crisistextline.org

On Grief and Grieving – Elisabeth Kübler-Ross & David Kessler
The foundational text on the “five stages,” with nuance and heart.

🕰️ Chapters (CD tracklist energy):

00:00 – Introduction
05:11 – Grief, Loss & Milestone Feels
17:48 – Coping Tools That Actually Help
29:52 – Finding Support & Community